Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**FrmLurker** · 07-31-22 17:39

Another cashapp scam. Reeled me in pretty far. Texted back and forth for a couple of days, 2 hours before the meet I get the sob story of how roommate hasn't paid and can I cashapp her $20 for gas and take it out when we meet. Let's schedule another time when your roomie is paid up.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...e-d3d6a6f94c39

**AdamEve7** · 07-30-22 21:34

Originally Posted by Grievous2 [View Original Post]

I met her for lunch last week and we hit it off okay. We are both avid swimmers so we had a lot to talk about. Walked her to her car and made out a little. She has a kid so I didn't want to press her on the hotel yet considering she may need to go get her kiddo. But from what I am hearing, maybe this is a lost cause.

Good we have this place to share otherwise these time wasters can't get noticed and flagged.

**Grievous2** · 07-30-22 16:06

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-75bd62be9f0e

She is truly a level 50 boss scammer. This is probably her 8th or 9th profile she has made on the site. She will be on her way to meet you but ask for a little breakfast money or fake a story about how I went to the wrong location for drinks. She will give real locations and even take pictures showing she is near but she will never show up. She will even call you and apologize with a very apologetic voice thinking you will feel sorry and help her with whatever excuse she throws at you. She will text you enticing pics and ask how was your day. She will do all this and convince you to keep trying and some day you will finally meet. The pics she posts are her and she is fine sending verification photos. Just don't expect to actually meet this girl.

**Grievous2** · 07-30-22 15:54

Originally Posted by CltGuy1231 [View Original Post]

I actually met her for lunch, she's decent enough looking especially for the agreed upon allowance. Lunch went well, good conversation and said she wanted to hang out more after, gave her the address of a hotel close by and she said she was on the way and then disappeared. I didn't give her any allowance so not sure what she trying to accomplish by doing this but definitely don't waste your time with her.

I met her for lunch last week and we hit it off okay. We are both avid swimmers so we had a lot to talk about. Walked her to her car and made out a little. She has a kid so I didn't want to press her on the hotel yet considering she may need to go get her kiddo. But from what I am hearing, maybe this is a lost cause.

**FrmLurker** · 07-30-22 14:11

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

Okay, so I tried to get my membership and my account got flagged and suspended. I emailed support and they said my card produced "suspicious" activity.

I used a regular MC and don't understand what happened.

My account has been restored but now I'm leery about using my card. Is there something I should or shouldn't be doing?

How do you guys pay for memberships?

Thanks.

I use a MC as well. It got declined the first time I used it by the CC company. Had to verify it was a legit charge with them, then run it again with seeking. Haven't had any issues with it since then.

**TjtjtJall** · 07-30-22 13:51

https://charlotte.skipthegames.com/f...n/902107127766

She had a big old pit bull, dirty apartment and a couple times when I saw her she was keeping a chicken in the bathroom. However, she checked the Greek box on this ad and if true, I'd endure the filth of her mini farm to plow her dirt star.

**CltGuy1231** · 07-30-22 11:56

Originally Posted by CinMiner [View Original Post]

Did the same to me.

I actually met her for lunch, she's decent enough looking especially for the agreed upon allowance. Lunch went well, good conversation and said she wanted to hang out more after, gave her the address of a hotel close by and she said she was on the way and then disappeared. I didn't give her any allowance so not sure what she trying to accomplish by doing this but definitely don't waste your time with her.

**CharlotteBank** · 07-30-22 11:05

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-4cf0374a323a

Athletic ebony based out of Noda goes by Sunny.

Sent her the location of our MG a few days prior to.

Texted her morning or to see if we're still on.

She responds yes.

Asks for ETA.

Crickets.

**CinMiner** · 07-30-22 07:49

Originally Posted by AdamEve7 [View Original Post]

Had made plans three times and she ghosted all 3 times, be very careful meeting this one don't book any place or anything she will not show up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...4-a2b7cc296c3a

Did the same to me.

**TheMechanik365** · 07-30-22 07:28

Okay, so I tried to get my membership and my account got flagged and suspended. I emailed support and they said my card produced "suspicious" activity.

I used a regular MC and don't understand what happened.

My account has been restored but now I'm leery about using my card. Is there something I should or shouldn't be doing?

How do you guys pay for memberships?

Thanks.

**AdamEve7** · 07-30-22 00:35

Originally Posted by ConCityKing [View Original Post]

Last one ghosted me. Here's some fresh meat. I have a date set, just seeing if anyone has any insight.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...c-ad70755b0cbd

Had made plans three times and she ghosted all 3 times, be very careful meeting this one don't book any place or anything she will not show up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...4-a2b7cc296c3a

**FrmLurker** · 07-29-22 22:03

Anyone have any intel? Chatted with her a while back but never pulled the trigger:

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-d48ac43f1ff3

**Grasshopping** · 07-29-22 14:50

Originally Posted by CEOTraveling [View Original Post]

I cycle because SA has become filled w fakes, flakes and time wasters. Years ago I had 2 long term arrangements that were awesome and the women were beautiful. Currently in the off cycle. My favorite question is "Do you have any particular likes, dislikes or limitations for our time?" If the answer sexual response you are good. If they answer like, yes, I do not like mushrooms then long haul LOL.

I usually sign up for the membership every other month. I constantly get the 20% discount offer now so it's a little easier to swallow at around $80.

I also have 2 SD accounts and I alternate in using them. Sometimes I may fail an attempt in convincing a SB to meet up and they sometimes would block me. Then 2 months later I'd reach out to the same SB to get my second chance with her. And use a different approach. There were a few times I was successful on 2nd try.

I consider myself having good runs on SA. I've been living in Charlotte for 5 months now and already had 8 SBs that I met up with. I also had good runs in other places I've lived in. Haven't tried other sites yet.

**CEOTraveling** · 07-29-22 14:24

Originally Posted by NyteOwl [View Original Post]

This won't help you with the approach as much (the previous comments have worked out some good tips) but this has worked for me to confirm if the girl is DTF once I've got them talking about meeting. I usually ask them if they have any rules about first dates that I should know about. I say that I want to be sure to respect their boundaries. Most of the time the answer I get is some version of "bring a rubber and no anal". Whether that's what you want to hear or not, I don't know, but I've just confirmed we're fucking.

Keep the tips coming guys, I'm always hoping to up my game.

I cycle because SA has become filled w fakes, flakes and time wasters. Years ago I had 2 long term arrangements that were awesome and the women were beautiful. Currently in the off cycle. My favorite question is "Do you have any particular likes, dislikes or limitations for our time?" If the answer sexual response you are good. If they answer like, yes, I do not like mushrooms then long haul LOL.

**MraTypical** · 07-29-22 14:11

Originally Posted by BigKav1000 [View Original Post]

One of my first SB experiences. She's real and pretty sexy. But can't host and is a little wham bam, mechanical. Always CBJ and facing away cowgirl. As fast as she can get it done. But she is hot.

I saw her as well a few years ago. Got to the hotel, and she was surprised that I was black, even though it's obvious if she ever viewed my profile LOL. She obviously was high volume and had someone else running her page at the time. Can't speak of her current situation. But she was sexy and I had no complaints about the date.