"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[TooHotForYou]

Alright sit down boys and girls it's story time. I'm going to channel my inner Johnny Mapalo. She's been reviewed a few times earlier in the thread but here's the profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...-9e31942fe507; tl;dr If you're a decent looking guy, you can rail this hottie pretty easily for 300. If you're not, or if something triggers her, you can expect some drama. Whatever you do, do NOT engage this one with a real phone number or send her a real pic. I'll explain in detail below.

I've mentioned offhand in a post here and there, but it's not usually relevant, but know upfront I'm fat. I know this about myself, and play the sugar bowl accordingly. I know I have to work harder than more fit guys, but through a combination of humor and charm, I've had a lot of success. In fact, I prefer SBs that want to take their time and get to know me, because it gives me time enough to hopefully charm them enough that my physical appearance isn't relevant. Have I had the occasionally SB have it be an issue? Sure. I've done meet and greets and then never hear back from the person, and I usually assume this is why. It's ok, no one bats a thousand, I don't take it personally.

I'm also occasionally too clever for my own good. See, I saw the quoted post and the small back and forth between various posters about this one being a "dead fish" and so on. I actually talked to her a few months ago under her previous profile. Back then, she was asking 600 weekly allowance, and I passed, because I've been with hotter for less, so no reason to entertain it. Still, my SA is currently inactive, so I figure I'll PM her through the board. Chances are she'll never respond or check, but you never know, and maybe it'll work. I also know some guys can be assholes, and with only 1 bad review that I noticed (there's more, I only noticed 1 originally), it's he said / she said. I call this thinking "but she's hot though"...

Very sad. Hopefully she will get help because I do see her having a lot of potential in her life without the demons, and I'm not talking about her seeing guys. I see this girl having a very bright future with a normal life if she does get help.

[HaneDales]

Tell her to "legally" gtfo and kiss your boot.

Alright sit down boys and girls it's story time. I'm going to channel my inner Johnny Mapalo. She's been reviewed a few times earlier in the thread but here's the profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...-9e31942fe507; tl;dr If you're a decent looking guy, you can rail this hottie pretty easily for 300. If you're not, or if something triggers her, you can expect some drama. Whatever you do, do NOT engage this one with a real phone number or send her a real pic. I'll explain in detail below.

I've mentioned offhand in a post here and there, but it's not usually relevant, but know upfront I'm fat. I know this about myself, and play the sugar bowl accordingly. I know I have to work harder than more fit guys, but through a combination of humor and charm, I've had a lot of success. In fact, I prefer SBs that want to take their time and get to know me, because it gives me time enough to hopefully charm them enough that my physical appearance isn't relevant. Have I had the occasionally SB have it be an issue? Sure. I've done meet and greets and then never hear back from the person, and I usually assume this is why. It's ok, no one bats a thousand, I don't take it personally.

I'm also occasionally too clever for my own good. See, I saw the quoted post and the small back and forth between various posters about this one being a "dead fish" and so on. I actually talked to her a few months ago under her previous profile. Back then, she was asking 600 weekly allowance, and I passed, because I've been with hotter for less, so no reason to entertain it. Still, my SA is currently inactive, so I figure I'll PM her through the board. Chances are she'll never respond or check, but you never know, and maybe it'll work. I also know some guys can be assholes, and with only 1 bad review that I noticed (there's more, I only noticed 1 originally), it's he said / she said. I call this thinking "but she's hot though".

Hindsight being 20/20 I should've realized immediately that any person who would go through the effort to create an account and post responses to reviews was a red flag. But she's hot though. Much to my surprise, I see this morning she had PM'd me her phone#. Alright, let's see what happens. There's a few guys on the board I correspond with outside the board for referrals and such, and I recall one of them saying he smashed her for 200 sometime last year (another reason I wasn't going to entertain that 600 nonsense) and confirmed she hosts. I decide to immediately offer 300 in my initial message. She responds back with just "400" and unsolicited nudes. Cool. I respond that's a little high considering what's been written here, and ask her what she enjoys sexually (I figure if she's already texting me full frontals I can pretty safely begin that conversation, I don't normally open with that LOL), hoping I can demonstrate my interest in making sure she has a good time and opening the door towards being more amicable to my offer. She responds the review comes from one dude she fucked once but not again, and the guy wasn't happy she stopped seeing him. **She then texts me me a screenshot containing his phone number and the face pic he sent to her!** As well as some of their texts back and forth. Red flag #2. But she's hot though. Now the texts were mostly from her and incredibly mean spirited, but I don't know how much he was harassing her so maybe he deserved it. For those keeping score at home, the content of the messages is red flag #3. But she's hot though.

She then changes subject to asking when I can meet her today. Now, remember what I said earlier; I usually prefer to take time and win them with charm and humor because of how I look. I try to turn the conversation back towards what she enjoys sexually, she confirms she doesn't do CIM. I ask if I can CIP and she says ok, then immediately asks what time I can meet her today. I concede to meet today but only at 300 and she agrees. She sends me her address. I finish up some work things, then immediately jump into the shower, jump out, grab some clothes fresh out of the dryer, and head her way.

Awhile later I'm about 15 minutes away and she asks me to bring a cover. That's odd considering I already confirmed I could finish inside her. Now, I don't have an issue with CFS, especially if BBJ is on the table, but I do find the request off-putting, since it indicates she doesn't have any already, and every time someone has asked I bring one (instead of already having them handy) it's never gone well. She had all morning to ask this, but waits till less than 15 minutes before I arrive. My intuition tells me she knows if she asked earlier I likely would've not bothered or used it to get a better rate, but that's speculation. She may not be that clever, and just figured out a few minutes before I arrived she was out of them. Either way, red flag #4. But she's hot though. Fortunately I always have some handy, just didn't think we'd need them for this hook up, so I continued on my way.

I get there and let her know I'm here, she texts me the code to the building, and I go in. She's waiting in front of her door, and I walk up and she lets me in. Her dog immediately begins to sniff and play with me. I pet the dog. Unbeknownst to me, this will be the highlight of my time here. I take in my surroundings, and comment she has a very nice place (and it is a very nice place in a very nice area). She crates the dog, and he begins barking. She asks that we move up to her bedroom so the dog will quiet down. Sounds like a sound idea to me. We get to her bedroom, she sits on the bed, and immediately begins asking me about this board and my opinion on reviewing these encounters and opining about how it's sketchy and wrong etc etc.

Clearly she must know I post her, I literally messaged her through the board. I can't help but wonder why she would want to talk to me about this. It's like bitching to an accountant about how needlessly complex the tax code is. You may have some valid points, but your audience is not exactly someone who is going to agree since the complexity of said code is what allows them their livelihood. She also bounces between talking about the board in general and bitching about the previous guy who told her about the board (by the way guy, fuck all the way off) and how if he posted anything else she was going to sue him because she had lawyers and made more money than him. What's the glaring red object? Why yes, that would be our 5th red flag! But she's hot though. I listen for a few moments, but I've been on the road some time and really need to pee, so ask to use her bathroom and she points me to it. I run in and take care of business. In the 30 seconds it takes me to handle said business, something changed, but I didn't know it yet.

I came back into the bedroom, remove my shoes, and sit on the bed next to her, but I can tell something is off. She looks at me and says something to the effect of "Listen, I can't even fake this. I'm in no way attracted to you. You should've sent me a pic first..." Ok, that's blunt. I was acutely aware she had never asked for a pic, and after she sent me the screenshot of the previous guy I sure as shit wasn't going to volunteer one. However it's my experience that, not including scammers / content sellers, there are really 3 categories of SB based on their pic requirement: 1) SBs that treat SA like Tinder or some other dating site but with less broke losers. They will usually ask for a pic, because they aren't going to hook up with just anyone. These are where your unicorns are mostly found, as they are often just looking to be taken to dinner somewhere nicer than Applebees or not leeched from like their previous Tinder BF who lived on their couch for months. 2) Working girls who are using the site as an advertisement, and this comes in 2 subcategories. The pros who don't care how you look, all that matters is $, or the semi-pros / selective escorts, who will ask for a pic and decline certain clients. 3) And finally there are the desperate: single moms with too many bills and bad spending habits, addicts using the site to bring in $ to pay for their fix, and I'm sure a million other tragedies. How much they care about your looks is proportional to how much they need $. I had thought based on how direct and to the point she was in text she was #2 and figured it didn't matter. But after some more thought, some hindsight, and seeing an earlier post referring to her that I had originally missed, I would speculate #3.

If that were the end of things I might've tried to crack a joke or 2 and see if I could charm her before leaving. But she kept talking. "You should've sent me a pic first...And you smell. " Remember earlier when I mentioned how I had showered and grabbed freshly laundered clothes right before heading her way? I simply can't fathom it. I've been with dozens of SBs in the past year. There is simply no way I would have the success rate I have, especially given how I look, if I didn't take care of my hygiene. I know how I look, I know I can't afford to have any other weak points in my game, especially something as simple as hygiene. Clearly she doesn't want to hook up, and she's saying whatever she can to run me out. Well, mission accomplished. I grab my shoes, put them on, and head towards the exit. She begins talking a mile a minute and following me now, bouncing from point to point like a coked up hamster. She mentions how she makes more money than me (even though she has no literal idea what I do for a living, as it never came up), she has a lawyer because of her property business, and she'll use him to sue me if I write a review (a real estate lawyer who is also a libel specialist, a truly rare combination), she has cameras all over the property that have my license plate and face. In the same breath she's threatening me with a lawsuit she asks me to pay her something for wasting her time. At this point I'm simply trying to leave with as little drama as possible. I continue towards the door and tell her to text me me her cash app. She, demonstrating that same low cunning she had employed 15 minutes before I arrived, asked if I wanted to handle that before I left. I laugh to myself "No" as I attempt to unlock the deadbolted front door. Now she bares her claws, and says something to the effect of "Get out of here fatass", now demonstrating both the rhetorical skills and self control of a middle schooler. Before I can get to my car and block her on my phone she's already sent me a text (the first small screenshot). A few minutes later a different number texts me the comments in the 2nd screenshot before I block her.

Anywho, I text one of my other SBs who I know is on my way back home and luck out that she's available. When I walk into her place, I tell her that I may need to use her shower as I'm afraid I'm a little gamey. She kisses me, sniffs me, says I smell wonderful, and we head back to her bedroom.

As I'm writing this pieces begin sliding into place. The sense of urgency and need to meet today. The fact that she was asking for 600 then 400 and now was taking 300. The ribs showing in her nudes. The excitability of speech, the lack of focus on any topic, the incoherent train of thought (Sweetheart I know you're reading this, no actual rich person insists their rich over and over again. Only people insecure in their wealth do. Also, the one way to gurantee someone does the opposite of what you want is to threaten and insult them. You're empty threats aren't scary, they're pathetic. Hopefully you'll get help before time catches up to you and takes from you the only asset I can see you have) The paranoia exhibited in the later texts. I suspect TooHotforYou was way smarter than me by figuring it out and saving himself the headache, and her poor parents must be supplementing her lifestyle while she uses the funds generated between her legs to fund her recreational activities.

But she's hot though.

[Androo75]

Glad you're ok man, what a fucking nightmare.

She deleted her profile, guess that says it all.

Tactics that appear to be providing better candidates:

Cast a wide net.

Avoid new profiles.

Favorite, hold for reciprocal favorite (a match).

If DM'ed I ignore for at least 48 hrs, if not longer.
(lots of profiles disappear).

If she persists with messaging, she is either: desperate, scammer or a pro.

Photos are non-pro / selfies, mostly in street clothes
(glamor shots, overtly sexy pics scream GPS).

She is literate, demonstrates basic grammar and punctuation in her profile.
(deduct 10 IQ points for every emoji)

Shows as open to 'discrete' meetups.

Shooting for 7-8's that show classic signs of insecurity, but are definitely 10's under the glasses and sweats, have much more potential than an entitled girl who's never been told 'no' in her life.

Those strong 7-8s appreciate the attention, wont break the bank and can easily become long term go tos. I imagine G4G97 would largely agree with this approach.

Also ANY girl that refers to herself as a (queen) or (princess) hard f-ing pass gents, might as well light your wallet on fire.

[EauRose303]

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[GoneForGood97]

This girl has demons guys. I talked to her on the phone and she couldn't stop talking. My recommendation is to steer clear of this one. As for you, please get help. You have an addiction, and it is a really bad one.

Alright sit down boys and girls it's story time. I'm going to channel my inner Johnny Mapalo. She's been reviewed a few times earlier in the thread but here's the profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...-9e31942fe507; tl;dr If you're a decent looking guy, you can rail this hottie pretty easily for 300. If you're not, or if something triggers her, you can expect some drama. Whatever you do, do NOT engage this one with a real phone number or send her a real pic. I'll explain in detail below.

I've mentioned offhand in a post here and there, but it's not usually relevant, but know upfront I'm fat. I know this about myself, and play the sugar bowl accordingly. I know I have to work harder than more fit guys, but through a combination of humor and charm, I've had a lot of success. In fact, I prefer SBs that want to take their time and get to know me, because it gives me time enough to hopefully charm them enough that my physical appearance isn't relevant. Have I had the occasionally SB have it be an issue? Sure. I've done meet and greets and then never hear back from the person, and I usually assume this is why. It's ok, no one bats a thousand, I don't take it personally.

I'm also occasionally too clever for my own good. See, I saw the quoted post and the small back and forth between various posters about this one being a "dead fish" and so on. I actually talked to her a few months ago under her previous profile. Back then, she was asking 600 weekly allowance, and I passed, because I've been with hotter for less, so no reason to entertain it. Still, my SA is currently inactive, so I figure I'll PM her through the board. Chances are she'll never respond or check, but you never know, and maybe it'll work. I also know some guys can be assholes, and with only 1 bad review that I noticed (there's more, I only noticed 1 originally), it's he said / she said. I call this thinking "but she's hot though".

Hindsight being 20/20 I should've realized immediately that any person who would go through the effort to create an account and post responses to reviews was a red flag. But she's hot though. Much to my surprise, I see this morning she had PM'd me her phone#. Alright, let's see what happens. There's a few guys on the board I correspond with outside the board for referrals and such, and I recall one of them saying he smashed her for 200 sometime last year (another reason I wasn't going to entertain that 600 nonsense) and confirmed she hosts. I decide to immediately offer 300 in my initial message. She responds back with just "400" and unsolicited nudes. Cool. I respond that's a little high considering what's been written here, and ask her what she enjoys sexually (I figure if she's already texting me full frontals I can pretty safely begin that conversation, I don't normally open with that LOL), hoping I can demonstrate my interest in making sure she has a good time and opening the door towards being more amicable to my offer. She responds the review comes from one dude she fucked once but not again, and the guy wasn't happy she stopped seeing him. **She then texts me me a screenshot containing his phone number and the face pic he sent to her!** As well as some of their texts back and forth. Red flag #2. But she's hot though. Now the texts were mostly from her and incredibly mean spirited, but I don't know how much he was harassing her so maybe he deserved it. For those keeping score at home, the content of the messages is red flag #3. But she's hot though.

She then changes subject to asking when I can meet her today. Now, remember what I said earlier; I usually prefer to take time and win them with charm and humor because of how I look. I try to turn the conversation back towards what she enjoys sexually, she confirms she doesn't do CIM. I ask if I can CIP and she says ok, then immediately asks what time I can meet her today. I concede to meet today but only at 300 and she agrees. She sends me her address. I finish up some work things, then immediately jump into the shower, jump out, grab some clothes fresh out of the dryer, and head her way.

Awhile later I'm about 15 minutes away and she asks me to bring a cover. That's odd considering I already confirmed I could finish inside her. Now, I don't have an issue with CFS, especially if BBJ is on the table, but I do find the request off-putting, since it indicates she doesn't have any already, and every time someone has asked I bring one (instead of already having them handy) it's never gone well. She had all morning to ask this, but waits till less than 15 minutes before I arrive. My intuition tells me she knows if she asked earlier I likely would've not bothered or used it to get a better rate, but that's speculation. She may not be that clever, and just figured out a few minutes before I arrived she was out of them. Either way, red flag #4. But she's hot though. Fortunately I always have some handy, just didn't think we'd need them for this hook up, so I continued on my way.

I get there and let her know I'm here, she texts me the code to the building, and I go in. She's waiting in front of her door, and I walk up and she lets me in. Her dog immediately begins to sniff and play with me. I pet the dog. Unbeknownst to me, this will be the highlight of my time here. I take in my surroundings, and comment she has a very nice place (and it is a very nice place in a very nice area). She crates the dog, and he begins barking. She asks that we move up to her bedroom so the dog will quiet down. Sounds like a sound idea to me. We get to her bedroom, she sits on the bed, and immediately begins asking me about this board and my opinion on reviewing these encounters and opining about how it's sketchy and wrong etc etc.

Clearly she must know I post her, I literally messaged her through the board. I can't help but wonder why she would want to talk to me about this. It's like bitching to an accountant about how needlessly complex the tax code is. You may have some valid points, but your audience is not exactly someone who is going to agree since the complexity of said code is what allows them their livelihood. She also bounces between talking about the board in general and bitching about the previous guy who told her about the board (by the way guy, fuck all the way off) and how if he posted anything else she was going to sue him because she had lawyers and made more money than him. What's the glaring red object? Why yes, that would be our 5th red flag! But she's hot though. I listen for a few moments, but I've been on the road some time and really need to pee, so ask to use her bathroom and she points me to it. I run in and take care of business. In the 30 seconds it takes me to handle said business, something changed, but I didn't know it yet.

I came back into the bedroom, remove my shoes, and sit on the bed next to her, but I can tell something is off. She looks at me and says something to the effect of "Listen, I can't even fake this. I'm in no way attracted to you. You should've sent me a pic first..." Ok, that's blunt. I was acutely aware she had never asked for a pic, and after she sent me the screenshot of the previous guy I sure as shit wasn't going to volunteer one. However it's my experience that, not including scammers / content sellers, there are really 3 categories of SB based on their pic requirement: 1) SBs that treat SA like Tinder or some other dating site but with less broke losers. They will usually ask for a pic, because they aren't going to hook up with just anyone. These are where your unicorns are mostly found, as they are often just looking to be taken to dinner somewhere nicer than Applebees or not leeched from like their previous Tinder BF who lived on their couch for months. 2) Working girls who are using the site as an advertisement, and this comes in 2 subcategories. The pros who don't care how you look, all that matters is $, or the semi-pros / selective escorts, who will ask for a pic and decline certain clients. 3) And finally there are the desperate: single moms with too many bills and bad spending habits, addicts using the site to bring in $ to pay for their fix, and I'm sure a million other tragedies. How much they care about your looks is proportional to how much they need $. I had thought based on how direct and to the point she was in text she was #2 and figured it didn't matter. But after some more thought, some hindsight, and seeing an earlier post referring to her that I had originally missed, I would speculate #3.

If that were the end of things I might've tried to crack a joke or 2 and see if I could charm her before leaving. But she kept talking. "You should've sent me a pic first...And you smell. " Remember earlier when I mentioned how I had showered and grabbed freshly laundered clothes right before heading her way? I simply can't fathom it. I've been with dozens of SBs in the past year. There is simply no way I would have the success rate I have, especially given how I look, if I didn't take care of my hygiene. I know how I look, I know I can't afford to have any other weak points in my game, especially something as simple as hygiene. Clearly she doesn't want to hook up, and she's saying whatever she can to run me out. Well, mission accomplished. I grab my shoes, put them on, and head towards the exit. She begins talking a mile a minute and following me now, bouncing from point to point like a coked up hamster. She mentions how she makes more money than me (even though she has no literal idea what I do for a living, as it never came up), she has a lawyer because of her property business, and she'll use him to sue me if I write a review (a real estate lawyer who is also a libel specialist, a truly rare combination), she has cameras all over the property that have my license plate and face. In the same breath she's threatening me with a lawsuit she asks me to pay her something for wasting her time. At this point I'm simply trying to leave with as little drama as possible. I continue towards the door and tell her to text me me her cash app. She, demonstrating that same low cunning she had employed 15 minutes before I arrived, asked if I wanted to handle that before I left. I laugh to myself "No" as I attempt to unlock the deadbolted front door. Now she bares her claws, and says something to the effect of "Get out of here fatass", now demonstrating both the rhetorical skills and self control of a middle schooler. Before I can get to my car and block her on my phone she's already sent me a text (the first small screenshot). A few minutes later a different number texts me the comments in the 2nd screenshot before I block her.

Anywho, I text one of my other SBs who I know is on my way back home and luck out that she's available. When I walk into her place, I tell her that I may need to use her shower as I'm afraid I'm a little gamey. She kisses me, sniffs me, says I smell wonderful, and we head back to her bedroom.

As I'm writing this pieces begin sliding into place. The sense of urgency and need to meet today. The fact that she was asking for 600 then 400 and now was taking 300. The ribs showing in her nudes. The excitability of speech, the lack of focus on any topic, the incoherent train of thought (Sweetheart I know you're reading this, no actual rich person insists their rich over and over again. Only people insecure in their wealth do. Also, the one way to gurantee someone does the opposite of what you want is to threaten and insult them. You're empty threats aren't scary, they're pathetic. Hopefully you'll get help before time catches up to you and takes from you the only asset I can see you have) The paranoia exhibited in the later texts. I suspect TooHotforYou was way smarter than me by figuring it out and saving himself the headache, and her poor parents must be supplementing her lifestyle while she uses the funds generated between her legs to fund her recreational activities.

But she's hot though.

[BrownSugaTwo]

Damn. Those freckles are exactly what I like.

Wonder if this is Camellia from a few years ago rebranded.

[Atlanta2010]

So my membership expired and I tried to renew with my credit card and got the same response as below. I have no intent of sending them a copy of my government I'd did anyone find a way around this? I'm guessing I can make another account but need another credit card.

So I hit up SA customer support and this was their response:

"Thank you for reaching out to us. I'm very sorry to hear about your recent suspension. Our records show that your transaction was declined due to a higher than normal Potential Fraud Score that we received from our processor. You were suspended to prevent any billing fraud. Please understand that this was done both for your protection as well as our other members.

In order to clear the hold on your account, we will need a copy of your government-issued I'd. Please reply to this message with the requested item attached. Once we receive this information and verified your identity, we would then be able to reinstate your account. We greatly appreciate your cooperation in this matter. ".

So looks like since I used a vanilla card it raised some fraud alert on their end. I'm not sending them a copy of my I'd though. They are crazy.

[Jims2321]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...7-54f553b2f7b5

Tall and skinny. BBBJ, CFS, willing to host.

Nice girl, but she asks a lot of fucking questions. I felt like I was being interrogated by LEO. She was probably one of the tightest I ever had, so that hindered how enjoyable it was.

Ya'll have fun!

Wonder if this is Camellia from a few years ago rebranded.

[WoodstockShane]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-c8cc6334f801

Super fit and fun to play with. Physically responsive so make sure the walls aren't thin. LOL.

3. 5. Has her shit together. Doesn't host.

I just started chatting with her this morning. Her profile had some references to time wasters and other similar BS which usually signifies some GPS. A fit, enthusiastic SB is exactly what I'm looking for.

Stay Frosty.

[Verdit]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...7-54f553b2f7b5

Tall and skinny. BBBJ, CFS, willing to host.

Nice girl, but she asks a lot of fucking questions. I felt like I was being interrogated by LEO. She was probably one of the tightest I ever had, so that hindered how enjoyable it was.

Ya'll have fun!

[GoneForGood97]

She's pressing hard, any details?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-db3ac44d2106

And is anyone else getting blown up by South American / out of state girls? It's really clogging up my feed.

Yeah I don't waste any time with the out of country / out of state girls. 99.999% of the time they just want to sell you content. If a girl is within a bordering state I'll respond and ask her if she's coming to Atl anytime soon. I did have one successful bite last year from a Jackonsville girl who was in Atl for a few days doing that. Another guy mentioned several months ago he caught some women traveling into Atlanta doing something similar. Not a super high rate of return, but not impossible either. Still, most of the time the out of state ones are also just trying to sell you content or talk you into flying them to you.

[TylerDurden07]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...e-ed75c850f00c

Had a few promising chats with this one, so I ask her when she's ready to play.

She replies: "I can help w some play over the phone if you can help me make my Sunday by sending me something so I can complete my self care Sunday with a nice set of nails pedicure and lashes. 😘 😜129392;10024;10024; help daddy's princess get nice and pretty".

I don't even bother responding. So she texts me 15 minutes later with "or are you one of those?

Yep. I'm one of those.

If you want to, go for it. I won't.

[Androo75]

She's pressing hard, any details?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-db3ac44d2106

And is anyone else getting blown up by South American / out of state girls? It's really clogging up my feed.

[Androo75]

Just looking at her profile, she's a classic example of one of those girls whose pictures start out about 5 years ago and get progressively newer (and worse) as they go. The last picture really cracked me up, her midsection has ballooned out and the dress material is such an unfortunate choice. She reminds me of those pictures you see of a boa constrictor where it has just swallowed a pig LOL.

Damn, LOL. I was going to say she could pass for a cross-dressing Chris Farley.

[Hal1957]

If you want safe sex, grab a pocket pussy and go to your room. Any sex with a woman comes with inherent risks. With an "escort" your run the risk of arrest for soliciting, getting scammed, extorted, robbed, beaten or killed by her pimp daddy, having your cock bitten off, and any number of diseases if you're a BB man. In sugaring, you have just as many risks and you have to put in effort, but in my experience, you're more likely to come up with a personality that more likely matches your desires. It's an entirely different vibe. Don't take a $hit on the next guy's preference, just block it and move on.

Excellent points, I definitely have my bullshit detector on 10.

Regardless, I'm pretty explicit in my bio about being not interested in purchasing anything related to a side hustle, it's either introductions, move to text and meet up, or a hard pass.

The biggest concern are girls (in that age range) typically are pretty sloppy when it comes to being discrete, or could intentionally potentially put a SD on blast, and make life painful.

Sneaking a pic of you on a dinner date + a license plate # can leave one feeling very exposed.

Granted that's not a huge concern for single SDs, -however, how could you not worry about an enraged father and / or blackmail situation claiming 'forced' intimacy?

98% of women are bananas, full stop. All it takes is an accusation, guilty until proven innocent in todays climate.

Imagine being on date #3 after already sampling the goods, and she decides to bury you..