Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**Mravcapo69** · 02-24-22 08:38

I agree. I said No to everything from her. I didn't even want to offer a counter. I just told her that sugar dating does not justify that value for me, and wished her best of luck.

Originally Posted by Banger12 [View Original Post]

Say no to 5.

Don't inflate the market.

**Banger12** · 02-23-22 20:41

Originally Posted by Mravcapo69 [View Original Post]

About a year ago we talked on Snapchat, and all was going smooth, and than she just unfriended me for no reason. But before she did that, she was posting pictures of her being in Florida someone. Possibly a new SD. We were supposed to meet, and than she was gone just like that. I forgot about her, but about couple of weeks ago, she reached out again on SA, and we hit it of. Reconnected on Snapchat again, and when allowance discussion came, now she wanted $5. 00. Year ago, $3. 00 was sufficient. I guess inflation makes prices go up. I understand she has a kid to feed, but still. However, last time if she said $5. 00 I would have go for it, but now, it just didn't feel the same. I thank her and declined. I hope some of you hit that, because it does look tempting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-d8dcc8a4dd95

Say no to 5.

Don't inflate the market.

**Mravcapo69** · 02-23-22 19:55

About a year ago we talked on Snapchat, and all was going smooth, and than she just unfriended me for no reason. But before she did that, she was posting pictures of her being in Florida someone. Possibly a new SD. We were supposed to meet, and than she was gone just like that. I forgot about her, but about couple of weeks ago, she reached out again on SA, and we hit it of. Reconnected on Snapchat again, and when allowance discussion came, now she wanted $5. 00. Year ago, $3. 00 was sufficient. I guess inflation makes prices go up. I understand she has a kid to feed, but still. However, last time if she said $5. 00 I would have go for it, but now, it just didn't feel the same. I thank her and declined. I hope some of you hit that, because it does look tempting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...c-d8dcc8a4dd95

**Mravcapo69** · 02-23-22 19:39

Profile no longer active. Most likely was a scam.

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

ReadMyHeading is the profile name at the moment.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-bba5cb83eeef

50/50 chance this one is a man pretending to be the woman in the pics. Non-stop about moving to snapchat, but is unwilling to do any specific poses on snap. Likely a man snapping pics of hard copy pics.

Location was originally Charlotte, now Asheville.

Anyone have actual experience with this one?

**DriveHard** · 02-17-22 12:00

ReadMyHeading is the profile name at the moment.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-bba5cb83eeef

50/50 chance this one is a man pretending to be the woman in the pics. Non-stop about moving to snapchat, but is unwilling to do any specific poses on snap. Likely a man snapping pics of hard copy pics.

Location was originally Charlotte, now Asheville.

Anyone have actual experience with this one?

**Mravcapo69** · 02-16-22 17:29

Yes, and on the page, further down, it says "Seeking Excitement. " If this place keeps getting so much negative publicity, it may be safest just to jump the ship. No amount of pussy is worth that kind of risk IMHO.

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

Looks like they are getting pressure from somewhere. Noticed they dropped the 'A' from their SA logo today.

**Mravcapo69** · 02-16-22 17:20

I am not surprised to read this. It seems that a new scamming trend is starting on SA, and probably other similar sites. I have talked to 3 different girls on SA. Conversations were little off, but fairly smooth and believable. They were very nice and flirtatious, but eventually they asked me if wanted to switch and continue our conversation on WhatsApp. Be very careful, because most What'sApp accounts are tied up to your original phone number which you used to register the account. So, it's easy to trace it. Perhaps even get into your address book, because that's what WhatApp uses for its address book. Of course, I told all of them that I don't use What'sApp, so I suggested to use different application like Snapchat or KIK. Soon as I suggested that, conversation stopped and but they never responded to my further messages. Eventually they blocked me so I can't share their profile links now. So be very careful. WhatsApp, Viber, and some other similar widely used apps use your real phone to be able to set up an account. Most account setups for these will not work with use of burner phones or apps. They are looking for a real number. These guys know that, and they have ways to extract your number, and. Use your imagination. I don't think I need to go into further details to paint the horror picture you can get yourself into. Story below just confirms that with a Skype attempt. Be vigilant, and don't get caught with your pants around your ankles. , or worse.

Originally Posted by Miranthir [View Original Post]

Hey guys,

New here, I am traveling often to Charlotte so I have my location in SA set to Charlotte. Last night I was chatting with this girl (- milktealover94 - she was pretty cute, quickly gave me her number (I asked for it). Then we chatted more and then here it is, she wanted to SKYPE. I fell into that trap years ago, not on SA, not in Charlotte, but basically it goes like this: she is super horny, she wants to get on SKPYE. You get horny too, you get on SKYPE, she starts getting naked, she asks the same from you. Of course you do it because you are horny. Next thing you know, the connection stops, "she" calls you back and instead of her, it is some hacker like person (black hoodie, dark room), demanding ransom. If you do not cooperate, they will post the video of you naked jerking off on FB, instagram, twitter, blablabla. Good thing I used a fake SKYPE account. I simply disconnected, deleted my profile and end of the story for me. Morale of the story is: don't share any naked anything unless you are quite sure this is working out. And DON'T GET ON SKYPE LOL.

**Mravcapo69** · 02-16-22 15:44

This one want s first public date, which I prefer. But then she wants $150 for that date. When I told her I don't play that game, she said I wasn't attractive so she doesn't want to just meet me and discuss the terms LOL. So, for all of you "ugly" guys, don't waste your time. She's a professional dater. Want's to collect $150 and you will probably never hear from her again. She will tell you a nice story, how she had a SD but than he got married and left her. Be careful! Too many scams, and SA just raised the membership price, so that we can pay more for all those scams.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...3-e4446cfd4c28

**Mravcapo69** · 02-16-22 15:40

I have a feeling this is a scam. Her reply to my message didn't answer anything I've asked, which leads me to believe that it is an auto-reply. Of course, she want's me to send her a gift first, then we can set up a meeting. I wouldn't be surprised if her profile is gone in a few days. I am not wasting my time on this one, and would advise the same to everyone else.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...7-b3f4eb0fcda8

**Miranthir** · 02-16-22 10:15

Hey guys,

New here, I am traveling often to Charlotte so I have my location in SA set to Charlotte. Last night I was chatting with this girl (- milktealover94 - she was pretty cute, quickly gave me her number (I asked for it). Then we chatted more and then here it is, she wanted to SKYPE. I fell into that trap years ago, not on SA, not in Charlotte, but basically it goes like this: she is super horny, she wants to get on SKPYE. You get horny too, you get on SKYPE, she starts getting naked, she asks the same from you. Of course you do it because you are horny. Next thing you know, the connection stops, "she" calls you back and instead of her, it is some hacker like person (black hoodie, dark room), demanding ransom. If you do not cooperate, they will post the video of you naked jerking off on FB, instagram, twitter, blablabla. Good thing I used a fake SKYPE account. I simply disconnected, deleted my profile and end of the story for me. Morale of the story is: don't share any naked anything unless you are quite sure this is working out. And DON'T GET ON SKYPE LOL.

**GutterMind4** · 02-15-22 16:12

So just another update on my Seeking experience. Ironically, on the day my first and only month subscription expires, I finally lined up a date with a latina MILF in Orlando. Met for drinks, she was as advertised and attractive. She never discussed money but asked about coming back to my hotel. Did it 6 ways to Sunday with sloppy BBBJ and covered FS. Gave her 3 bills which she was humbled by. Not a bad value considering the time spent. She's still texting and sending sexy pics almost "stalkingly", LOL. Had another young hot ass but couldn't make it before my plane left.

A couple of points about my tactics, I too have a faceless profile pic. I reached out to several but finally figured out that these girls see the same pitch over and over so my initial contact is a creative funny message to get their attention. I still have several that I have moved offline to text and I'll work through those before I re-up my subscription and my time has been very gentlemanly and courteous but I don't flash money. That said, I have several reaching out to me weekly. Maybe it's the profile pic but I support the post that said they are getting contacted by girls and it's legit profiles in addition to fakes and scams. I'll also admit that this requires a crazy amount of time to invest in this version of the hobby. But I worked a number of Eros girls while in Orlando as well and that was just as difficult with communications and verifications. I expect this to get a little better once I line up a couple of regulars. So far I'm somewhat satisfied with the progress and the conversions.

Originally Posted by GutterMind4 [View Original Post]

Hey, just wanted to update on the SB situation. After ranting about how little response I had vs how many messages I sent, I finally started seeing some results. Turns out, they really don't treat the SB sites like social media, just occasionally for new "dads". They also don't realize we can't see messages unless we are premium so they often get turned off or move on. I now have about 10 to 12 girls, in about 5 different towns mind you, that are willing to meet. Less than half agreed before setting a price and the others are 3 to 5 bills. I still haven't met anyone so they all could be a bust but I think I've determined they are not scammers, but some still may be fake. I'll know more over the next few days and weeks but if any of these girls look like their pics, and I hit paydirt, this will be better than expected. This doesn't even account for the ones that wanted to but couldn't host.

Speaking of, any advise on girls that can't host. I really can't get a hotel as they require I'd and credit card. I've never done Air BNB, anyone ever set up an anonymous ABNB account? I know it's an app tied to your phone but can you work around that like many other aspects while remaining private?

**SandPiper540** · 02-15-22 16:09

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

Looks like they are getting pressure from somewhere. Noticed they dropped the 'A' from their SA logo today.

I'm sure they're involved in legal battles out the wazoo. Changing names & ownership is a tactic to keep the ship from completely sinking. I guess that's why their monthly membership keep going up, to pay the legal fees.

**DollarBill50** · 02-15-22 14:51

I have been on seeking (Paying Customer) for about a month. Most of the girls need money on that site. Just have to get them off that $400+ rate. For those prices and not get GFE is kinda steep for me. But I have run into a lot of them. Also be prepare to Host.

**DriveHard** · 02-14-22 16:54

Originally Posted by CltGuy1231 [View Original Post]

Dude 99% of men's profiles don't have a profile pic so they just pick yours out of everyone to message first? I don't have a profile pic either and the only ones that message first are the desperate ones that I don't want.

Just lucky, I guess. But it was an honest statement. I can go weeks without initiating contact. The point I was making is there are other tactics to attracting attention on that site, other than a good opening line and above average looks. I get a fair share of messages from the 3's, 4's and 5's, sure. My archive folder is full of those.

Years ago when I first joined, I created a woman's profile to see what other men wrote on their profiles. If you only create the account, but don't add pics or fill out any of the info. You can browse without being discovered. Maybe the reconnaissance was a factor.

**CltGuy1231** · 02-14-22 10:17

Dude 99% of men's profiles don't have a profile pic so they just pick yours out of everyone to message first? I don't have a profile pic either and the only ones that message first are the desperate ones that I don't want.

The rest I agree with, being polite and a gentleman is a welcome change and similarly I pretty much always get a response to my messages. Everyone knows why we are on the site but the girls want to feel like they are different and respected. Just play the role needed.

Originally Posted by DriveHard [View Original Post]

I've had a great deal of success on SA. I very rarely send an outgoing message, the women generally write to me first (I have no profile pic, so they are curious).

Occasionally, when I want to see where it goes with the 8,9,10's on there. I am overly polite and gentleman like. It is a differentiator from most of the messages they receive every single day.

I have an opening line that I use on those 8,9,10's that gets a 70% response rate (sorry, I'll never share that secret).