Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**GutterMind4** · 01-17-22 12:15

So I finally pay for a month of SA. After the initial blitz of what appeared to be scammers, I started messaging girls. After nearly 100 attempts over 4 locations (I travel for work), I'm currently having conversations with about 15 girls. A couple I can tell are pros which I'm ok with as long as they look like their photos. Others are very proud of themselves and rude about it, and all but one are terrible communicators. Like, don't even check their messages for days bad communicators. Which would be ok except we almost had something lined up that day until crickets. Finally, the one that was extremely promising, like may have been free as long as I was as tall as I claimed and looked like my pics. I discovered her real name and social media only to see that she looks nothing like her profile pics. It's the same girl, just so filter she's almost unrecognizable.

So of the GPS and pros left over I'm a little unsure of what to offer for ppm. So far I've offered a little less than the escort sites base on what they look like. If they look like higher end babes, I'll offer a range of 3 to 4. For example, there's one in south Charlotte that offered a short meet and greet to confirm but was 500 ppm. If she's the girl in the pics and doesn't rush, I'll do it at least once. But if they are STG level, I just say 150 to 250 depending on level of intimacy. Am I ok in this offer or should I like most other negotiations, let them tell me and work down from there.

**FrmLurker** · 01-16-22 17:58

Apple pay scammer. Couldn't answer what part of Charlotte they were in, other than to reference my location.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...a-7f8eae542101

**LolBoat** · 01-16-22 17:35

My whole take on SA is that now you just need to expand your search and you may have to travel 3-4 hours if you want decent variety.

Gone are the days of a fully stocked local pond. You need to go deep sea fishing more or lesss.

I plan on doing another road trip in the spring and will be trying my luck wherever I stop.

**MidnightSteel** · 01-14-22 16:14

Originally Posted by JustMikey [View Original Post]

AM and AFF produced nothing for me. SA is somewhat okay if you network and get some leads or have lots of time to pick the flyshit out of the pepper, but its basically over with as a reliable source of girl next door or neglected wife pussy.

I do wonder what will be the next SA. There will be women looking for discrete dick and women looking for dick attached to a wallet. Always has been and always will. But, where will they go next? What new site or app or social media conduit will they embrace? Hmmm.

Yes AM is junk, as soon as my credits are used I'll bail.

AFF, is so so, at least you don't have to buy tokens.

I've had good luck on secret benefits. You have to buy tokens but if you are smart with them you can make them last. The verification videos are nice, amazing what girls are doing to edit pics but the video is the way they really look. I'm banging one girl from SB for free, CIP all she wanted was a "daddy" meaning she wants to be dominated in bed. Had a great girl in Hickory FS CIP, 24 grad student. She cost me but was worth it. A few others that came and went.

**Newguy72** · 01-14-22 15:33

Yeah, thanks for the tips guys, I don't think I'll waste my money on either site now. Like a previous poster said, I had some success on AM back around 2015. But the thought of having to buy tokens forever message sounds like a scam. I had a pretty good feeling they never recovered after that identity scandal.

Out of the blue, a SA girl I met 2 years ago just messaged me and wants to meet next week. She must have broke up with her BF. I plan to take good care of her next week 👍.

**NC Transplant** · 01-14-22 13:03

I tried AM a couple of years ago and it was a total waste of time and money. It was constantly buying tokens to read messages and I got nothing out of it at all.

Originally Posted by JustMikey [View Original Post]

AM and AFF produced nothing for me. SA is somewhat okay if you network and get some leads or have lots of time to pick the flyshit out of the pepper, but its basically over with as a reliable source of girl next door or neglected wife pussy.

I do wonder what will be the next SA. There will be women looking for discrete dick and women looking for dick attached to a wallet. Always has been and always will. But, where will they go next? What new site or app or social media conduit will they embrace? Hmmm.

**Sledg77** · 01-14-22 12:16

Originally Posted by JustMikey [View Original Post]

AM and AFF produced nothing for me. SA is somewhat okay if you network and get some leads or have lots of time to pick the flyshit out of the pepper, but its basically over with as a reliable source of girl next door or neglected wife pussy.

I do wonder what will be the next SA. There will be women looking for discrete dick and women looking for dick attached to a wallet. Always has been and always will. But, where will they go next? What new site or app or social media conduit will they embrace? Hmmm.

With great success. Met three married nymphos in a matter of months. After AM was hacked later that year, it went to shit. It's never recovered. Don't waste your money.

**JustMikey** · 01-14-22 09:16

Originally Posted by Newguy72 [View Original Post]

My reinstatement was denied. I'm done with them. I met probably a dozen women off SA since I joined in 2015.4 of which ended up being long term. Actually met a married female off there that didn't even want anything in return. Met her about 4-5 times for hotel rendezvous. I apologize if it was one of your wives 😂.

The 4 long term were all in their 20's and either grad students or young professionals living downtown. All were great setups. They weren't pros and I swear every time I saw them it was like hanging with an ex girlfriend from my younger days. I loved them telling me about their tinder hookups, etc. One even had a long term out of town boyfriend. Nothing hotter than banging out a 23 yr old bareback on Friday morning, then seeing photos of her on Facebook Friday night hanging out with her boyfriend 😂.

But the last 2 times I signed up for a paid membership, you could tell things had changed. A lot more pros, and a lot of scammers / bots. Some want paid for online bullshit, etc. Probably best to part ways with that site at this point. They did me a favor.

Thinking of trying my luck with Ashley Madison or AFF again. Haven't been on those in years. Had some good luck when me and a friend teamed up looking for women looking for MFM threesome, but it's tough as a single. You'd be surprised how many women secretly want 2 men at the same time. It was a goldmine there for a while.

AM and AFF produced nothing for me. SA is somewhat okay if you network and get some leads or have lots of time to pick the flyshit out of the pepper, but its basically over with as a reliable source of girl next door or neglected wife pussy.

I do wonder what will be the next SA. There will be women looking for discrete dick and women looking for dick attached to a wallet. Always has been and always will. But, where will they go next? What new site or app or social media conduit will they embrace? Hmmm.

**HaydenBerg** · 01-13-22 22:55

I am going to private message you if you don't mind.

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

She initially wanted 500. I offered 350 which she accepted with the understanding that she would spend the night for that amount. I don't do overnight so that was not an issue. She also wanted a current STD test. In the end, we did not meet.

**SmallAsianCock** · 01-13-22 21:41

Originally Posted by HaydenBerg [View Original Post]

Anyone have any experience with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-5eeeef96028f

She initially wanted 500. I offered 350 which she accepted with the understanding that she would spend the night for that amount. I don't do overnight so that was not an issue. She also wanted a current STD test. In the end, we did not meet.

**SmallAsianCock** · 01-13-22 21:34

Originally Posted by Newguy72 [View Original Post]

My reinstatement was denied. I'm done with them. I met probably a dozen women off SA since I joined in 2015.4 of which ended up being long term. Actually met a married female off there that didn't even want anything in return. Met her about 4-5 times for hotel rendezvous. I apologize if it was one of your wives 😂.

The 4 long term were all in their 20's and either grad students or young professionals living downtown. All were great setups. They weren't pros and I swear every time I saw them it was like hanging with an ex girlfriend from my younger days. I loved them telling me about their tinder hookups, etc. One even had a long term out of town boyfriend. Nothing hotter than banging out a 23 yr old bareback on Friday morning, then seeing photos of her on Facebook Friday night hanging out with her boyfriend 😂.

But the last 2 times I signed up for a paid membership, you could tell things had changed. A lot more pros, and a lot of scammers / bots. Some want paid for online bullshit, etc. Probably best to part ways with that site at this point. They did me a favor.

Thinking of trying my luck with Ashley Madison or AFF again. Haven't been on those in years. Had some good luck when me and a friend teamed up looking for women looking for MFM threesome, but it's tough as a single. You'd be surprised how many women secretly want 2 men at the same time. It was a goldmine there for a while.

I've been a paid member on Ashley Madison for years and I have nothing to show for it.

**Newguy72** · 01-13-22 19:39

Originally Posted by CaptCipher [View Original Post]

I gave up on seeking after my ban wasnt worth the hassle and I couldn't pull anything worthwhile.

My reinstatement was denied. I'm done with them. I met probably a dozen women off SA since I joined in 2015.4 of which ended up being long term. Actually met a married female off there that didn't even want anything in return. Met her about 4-5 times for hotel rendezvous. I apologize if it was one of your wives 😂.

The 4 long term were all in their 20's and either grad students or young professionals living downtown. All were great setups. They weren't pros and I swear every time I saw them it was like hanging with an ex girlfriend from my younger days. I loved them telling me about their tinder hookups, etc. One even had a long term out of town boyfriend. Nothing hotter than banging out a 23 yr old bareback on Friday morning, then seeing photos of her on Facebook Friday night hanging out with her boyfriend 😂.

But the last 2 times I signed up for a paid membership, you could tell things had changed. A lot more pros, and a lot of scammers / bots. Some want paid for online bullshit, etc. Probably best to part ways with that site at this point. They did me a favor.

Thinking of trying my luck with Ashley Madison or AFF again. Haven't been on those in years. Had some good luck when me and a friend teamed up looking for women looking for MFM threesome, but it's tough as a single. You'd be surprised how many women secretly want 2 men at the same time. It was a goldmine there for a while.

**HaydenBerg** · 01-13-22 19:27

Anyone have any experience with her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-5eeeef96028f

**Member #6771** · 01-13-22 19:02

Originally Posted by CaptCipher [View Original Post]

I gave up on seeking after my ban wasnt worth the hassle and I couldn't pull anything worthwhile.

Seeking is a joke now. Fake profiles, girls that work as dating app girls, scammers.

**CaptCipher** · 01-12-22 20:05

Originally Posted by Newguy72 [View Original Post]

Be careful. SA banned me 1 week in after activating my account again. Said I was offering money for sex. I've been on / off that site for 5 years and never had an issue. I've always legitimately looked for real SB, never pros. Only offer to help with bills, etc. Nothing else. Thankfully I only paid a 1 month membership. Otherwise I'd be really pissed.

I gave up on seeking after my ban wasnt worth the hassle and I couldn't pull anything worthwhile.