"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**MrHobbyist** · 08-22-19 05:26

I've had like three accounts deleted on seeking, usually after a day or so. I don't put any blatantly hobby related information, usually, just say I'm looking for an occasional friend to spend some time with. What am I doing wrong?

**Peter Johnson** · 08-22-19 01:04

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

Did she have bad breath? We met at a Starbucks a few months back and her breath was like dragon fire. 2 pops and left.

I never heard that, but I heard that she had some funky odors from down below. A couple of guys said that. I met her once for coffee and thought she was nice and would have gotten together for more, but just never worked out and then we lost touch. She looks better in person than in her pics, at least clothed.

**Peter Johnson** · 08-22-19 00:59

Originally Posted by Anubis06 [View Original Post]

Someone is impotent. There are not plenty of wealthy guys out there who are fine with platonic. Yes there are a few but they are the exception to the rule. I question if they are in the right line if they are on the SB / SD website looking for that unicorn. It's the equivalent of planning to never go out side because people get struck by lightening.

So we are disagreeing about whether there are "plenty" or "a few"...very vague amounts. And of course they are the exception, not the rule. If 5% of guys are out there are like that, then there are still plenty. If 2% are that way, it still makes sense for the women to spend the time to land a few of these.

And this is really all speculation, because I don't know if it is 1% or 2% or 20%. But I just don't really care if the women want platonic, and I just screen them out from the start. It is slightly annoying when people want something for nothing, but if there are guys who will give them that, then I can't really hate on their arrangement.

**DArrow404** · 08-21-19 21:56

So I had to take a hiatus for several months as I had to deal with both of my parents getting sick. Now I'm back and starting off fresh. So I wanted to share one of the SBs I met that yall might enjoy.

https://www.seeking.com/member/cc77e...c-0e3ca276d07e

I had been seeing Katie a couple times per month for about 8 months till this past spring. Was seeing her for $$$ plus hotel. The pictures on SA are accurate and think she looks better in person. Usually we met for dinner / drinks first, but the last few times it was straight to the hotel. She would usually stay 2-3 hours in total. She likes to kiss and BBBJ. The first couple times I tried to go bare inside of her but she wanted me to wear protection. The next time I just slid right in and she didn't care. Sex was great and she likes to take a pounding, ass slapped, different positions, etc. No issues with multiple rounds either.

She lives in Cumming or somewhere in those parts and would see her in Alpharetta / Roswell. FYI, she is married but her husband is aware. I normally don't see married women and found out after we had been seeing each other. Since he is aware, I kept on seeing her.

I will probably see her again on occasion, but I'm looking to meet new people. So I wanted to share as she is alot of fun.

**JeffInnAtlanta** · 08-21-19 21:37

Originally Posted by HollowGuy [View Original Post]

Did she have bad breath? We met at a Starbucks a few months back and her breath was like dragon fire. 2 pops and left.

https://www.instagram.com/_elainer/

**HollowGuy** · 08-21-19 17:52

Originally Posted by RajRj [View Original Post]

The trick with her is to date her. I went out with her for a while. Then had her for 400 a month. This was 6 months back.

Did she have bad breath? We met at a Starbucks a few months back and her breath was like dragon fire. 2 pops and left.

**Anubis06** · 08-21-19 16:47

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

They don't need you. There are plenty of very wealthy guys out there who are fine with throwing some chump change at these women just to talk to them or be around them. It's not worth it to me, but I get how someone would do it if $500 to them is the equivalent of $5 to me. It is supply and demand and if these girls can get money for nothing, of course they are going to take it, rather than actually having to do any work.

Someone is impotent. There are not plenty of wealthy guys out there who are fine with platonic. Yes there are a few but they are the exception to the rule. I question if they are in the right line if they are on the SB / SD website looking for that unicorn. It's the equivalent of planning to never go out side because people get struck by lightening.

**Peter Johnson** · 08-21-19 11:27

Originally Posted by CaptainSleepy [View Original Post]

The platonic ones, they need to pay for my time. Its valuable enough, I have enough friends I can go out for dinner with or see a movie, or talk to. I have degrees and all well advanced. My time is worth real money to corporations. One hour of my time costs real dollars and its not chump change..

They don't need you. There are plenty of very wealthy guys out there who are fine with throwing some chump change at these women just to talk to them or be around them. It's not worth it to me, but I get how someone would do it if $500 to them is the equivalent of $5 to me. It is supply and demand and if these girls can get money for nothing, of course they are going to take it, rather than actually having to do any work.

**CaptainSleepy** · 08-20-19 11:58

Originally Posted by StewPitt [View Original Post]

I see Platonic and I block them so it doesn't clog up my searches.

The platonic ones, they need to pay for my time. Its valuable enough, I have enough friends I can go out for dinner with or see a movie, or talk to. I have degrees and all well advanced. My time is worth real money to corporations. One hour of my time costs real dollars and its not chump change.

I tried once to tell a young girl, hey listen, if this is platonic, I get nothing from this, I have enough friends. Whats in it for me? She responded "my time, you get to be around me" I respond something like this, I get to spend money on you and I get nothing but your time? Honey, unless I'm getting something that I want, you are wasting both of our time. I am not going to be happy with you using me as an emotional tampon, and you go fuck johnny loser from the local bar. Or be your crying shoulder while you get dumped by the 12th time by the chad thundercock. If you can not provide my HAPPINESS which Ill be paying for, then we do not have a deal. This went on for a few days, eventually I blocked her because it was about hustling me for money, and hearing about her sad stories how hard her life is.

You are right, just block instantly. I do occasionally respond with a short "pay me if you want to be platonic, ill give you great career and life advice".

**CoveyLeader43** · 08-19-19 22:03

Originally Posted by CagerCoach [View Original Post]

Just wondering if anyone has had any luck with this one. I passed along her info because we couldn't get our schedule to match up. Should I contact her back or is it even worth it?

I was talking to her also via text. But I never got the urge to pull the trigger cause she sent me some photos and she has serious baby damage. I would only want her for blow Job in the car. Certainly wouldn't waste a hotel on her. I may still try her for a car date if I get really desperate.

**StewPitt** · 08-19-19 12:02

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

100% a scammer, report the profile.

I see Platonic and I block them so it doesn't clog up my searches.

**CagerCoach** · 08-19-19 01:23

Just wondering if anyone has had any luck with this one. I passed along her info because we couldn't get our schedule to match up. Should I contact her back or is it even worth it?

**PickleRiiick** · 08-18-19 19:49

Originally Posted by TallGuy3000 [View Original Post]

This one said she was from Russia, living in Chicago, but coming to Atlanta for a few days. We texted back and forth a few times, and she sent me a message when she supposedly arrived. Here's where it got ridiculous.

She suggests meeting at Starbucks (my usual spot for a first meet), after I send her $. 5 via cash app / Venmo / PayPal etc. Are you kidding me? To justify all that, she says.

I m sure that most guys do not pay for platonic dates, well, I m absolutely okay with your point of view and you are more then welcome, however I know that you won't regret meeting me. So let me know how you feel about that.

I let her know how I felt. Smh. I don't prepay anything, especially for a "platonic date".

https://www.seeking.com/member/d47b2...e-0bd368e5d517

LOL, I'm Rus too, and used to live in Chicago years ago. I can tell she is real but you will spend tons of cash on her and get nothing back, may be just a chickkiss, haha. Yeah that's about Russian bitches, they used you, then throw away like a garbage. Never deal with them.

**HollowGuy** · 08-18-19 16:08

Has anyone seen this girl. I have been trying arrange a dream with her for months. Met her on the meet and greet but could not take the plunge due to work. She messages me every once in a while but then ghost.

https://www.seeking.com/member/fe27f...e-e249ef37429d

**CagerCoach** · 08-18-19 10:54

Originally Posted by TallGuy3000 [View Original Post]

This one said she was from Russia, living in Chicago, but coming to Atlanta for a few days. We texted back and forth a few times, and she sent me a message when she supposedly arrived. Here's where it got ridiculous.

She suggests meeting at Starbucks (my usual spot for a first meet), after I send her $. 5 via cash app / Venmo / PayPal etc. Are you kidding me? To justify all that, she says.

I m sure that most guys do not pay for platonic dates, well, I m absolutely okay with your point of view and you are more then welcome, however I know that you won't regret meeting me. So let me know how you feel about that.

I let her know how I felt. Smh. I don't prepay anything, especially for a "platonic date".

https://www.seeking.com/member/d47b2...e-0bd368e5d517

In my honest opinion, she seems like a traveling professional. Those are professionally taken photos. I've never paid someone to just meet me. It just comes across that her time is much more valuable than yours.