"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Slo Mo** · 07-11-19 20:59

https://www.seeking.com/member/dd374...0-2f1c34ec7dd0

Someone take a guess.

**Sneakey1961** · 07-11-19 17:48

Originally Posted by RicoC [View Original Post]

So, I'm on SB scrolling and find my step daughter's friend. Looks like she hasn't been active on the site for the past 11 months. I'm friends with her on FB and still have her contact info on my phone.

Looking for advice on how to approach her. Message her and just come right out and ask if she's sugar dating and would like to see if we click? LOL. Could be a dream come true or a nightmare. Coin flip.

The photo on the right (white shirt) looks very familiar like maybe from an add I've seen could she be pro? Oh, and can I have her contact info? LOL!

**Dave Phd** · 07-11-19 16:21

Originally Posted by RicoC [View Original Post]

So, I'm on SB scrolling and find my step daughter's friend. Looks like she hasn't been active on the site for the past 11 months. I'm friends with her on FB and still have her contact info on my phone.

Looking for advice on how to approach her. Message her and just come right out and ask if she's sugar dating and would like to see if we click? LOL. Could be a dream come true or a nightmare. Coin flip.

If you are still married just stear clear. Yeah she has the looming embarassment of being outed as a sugar babby BUT you have a looming date with that man in the black dress if things go left. You have way more to lose My 0. 02.

**DWinthrop** · 07-11-19 15:00

Originally Posted by RicoC [View Original Post]

So, I'm on SB scrolling and find my step daughter's friend. Looks like she hasn't been active on the site for the past 11 months. I'm friends with her on FB and still have her contact info on my phone.

Looking for advice on how to approach her. Message her and just come right out and ask if she's sugar dating and would like to see if we click? LOL. Could be a dream come true or a nightmare. Coin flip.

Just proposition her. She has much more to lose than you. Use google voice so you can deny it if she turns you down. But, very unlikely she makes a scene. Just yes or she will ghost you.

**Avash88** · 07-11-19 14:44

First Delete her from your facebook, Then get a texting app and say she sent you her number a while back on secret benefits and if she still looking for help with bills or school. Don't ever bring up she is your daughters friend. If she says haven't I seen you before say maybe I got one those familiar faces, in atlanta you run into a lot of people. Just take her to dinner and treat her special bring flowers and candy.

Originally Posted by RicoC [View Original Post]

So, I'm on SB scrolling and find my step daughter's friend. Looks like she hasn't been active on the site for the past 11 months. I'm friends with her on FB and still have her contact info on my phone.

Looking for advice on how to approach her. Message her and just come right out and ask if she's sugar dating and would like to see if we click? LOL. Could be a dream come true or a nightmare. Coin flip.

**LogJammin18** · 07-11-19 11:48

Originally Posted by TheBobster [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc930...d-f5d1b6a1da0e

Some of you may remember this lady from Germany. She is now in Athens, looking for friends.

What's her story?

**RicoC** · 07-11-19 11:31

So, I'm on SB scrolling and find my step daughter's friend. Looks like she hasn't been active on the site for the past 11 months. I'm friends with her on FB and still have her contact info on my phone.

Looking for advice on how to approach her. Message her and just come right out and ask if she's sugar dating and would like to see if we click? LOL. Could be a dream come true or a nightmare. Coin flip.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 07-11-19 11:17

Originally Posted by Firedup10 [View Original Post]

I will b seeing a hot sexy blonde tonight in the Gainesville Ga area. This is butterflykisses from SA and she seems to b cool and is very pretty. I will b posting later about her so watch for the review later. If you are a senior member, I will share the digits with you.

She's been around, for a little while, so it's likely several have seen her, but she's a sweetheart, and she needs the money. Decent body (if you like a nice healthy pair of breasts, look elsewhere) and a willingness to please make her a good option, for those out that way. Given her situation, I don't think she can host, but she occasionally gets a hotel room.

**Slo Mo** · 07-11-19 09:56

Originally Posted by Leep12 [View Original Post]

I have run into a few scammers, but the percentage has been pretty low TBH. I've had some nice finds with girls with only one picture, and haven't been on the site too long, lot of guys screen them and I think they are opportunity. I like slim women and you can tell a lot by looking at the neck.

I have met some chicks with great bodies who didn't show them off in pictures. Some girls especially AA, think their smaller normal athletic ass isn't what guys want so they don't show it off. Not everyone likes fat asses LOL.

I avoid girls buttered up professional looking pics, really long profiles anyone who uses lots of words like luxury, princess, spoil me etc, or If they say they live in Johns Creek, Dunwoody, Buckhead etc. Lot of times they are just gold digging in those areas / avoid.

I've had good luck setting tight screens in 10 mile radius of a town or area and you will see girls who haven't been on the site for several days or weeks and maybe gave up. We tend to only look at the first several pages of girls who are the most active on the site.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0ec7d...9-acfebc41cccd

Can anyone crack this code?

**Firedup10** · 07-11-19 08:32

I will b seeing a hot sexy blonde tonight in the Gainesville Ga area. This is butterflykisses from SA and she seems to b cool and is very pretty. I will b posting later about her so watch for the review later. If you are a senior member, I will share the digits with you.

**Leep12** · 07-11-19 00:28

Originally Posted by SloMo [View Original Post]

What's you guys top hints that the chicks SA profile is most likely a scam? For me it's a recent join date, pics that look TGTBT, and a short dry / incomplete bio. Seems as if that's not a perfect defense as I still keep running into the dead end chicks often.

I have run into a few scammers, but the percentage has been pretty low TBH. I've had some nice finds with girls with only one picture, and haven't been on the site too long, lot of guys screen them and I think they are opportunity. I like slim women and you can tell a lot by looking at the neck.

I have met some chicks with great bodies who didn't show them off in pictures. Some girls especially AA, think their smaller normal athletic ass isn't what guys want so they don't show it off. Not everyone likes fat asses LOL.

I avoid girls buttered up professional looking pics, really long profiles anyone who uses lots of words like luxury, princess, spoil me etc, or If they say they live in Johns Creek, Dunwoody, Buckhead etc. Lot of times they are just gold digging in those areas / avoid.

I've had good luck setting tight screens in 10 mile radius of a town or area and you will see girls who haven't been on the site for several days or weeks and maybe gave up. We tend to only look at the first several pages of girls who are the most active on the site.

**Johnny Mapalo** · 07-10-19 23:55

https://www.seeking.com/member/4cfbf...0-3d30d99061bf

This 1st chic above, pics 1 and 2, messaged me last week out of the blue talking about she can come to my home or hotel for $200. Strike 1= talking about hotels and I never mentioned anything about one. I asked her what does she do for it and she replied, "Whatever you want daddy". Strike 2= claiming you can get whatever you want. Typical lie to get what they want. We then moved to text and I started grilling her some more. Now, she starts telling me she doesn't do oral, but I can do oral on her. Not! Strike 3= you're out of there!! Claiming I can get whatever I want, then switches it up via text and says no oral. Typical lying hustler that's going around messaging random guys to see which suckers will bite on it. You guys need to start developing a 3 strikes and your out system with these chic's. It will save you alot in the end.

https://www.seeking.com/member/f81e4...b-7d2d5616f2d3

This one above, pic 3 only, is your easy strike 3 and you're out of there! First, this chic messaged me earlier today asking if I do financial arrangements. I said sure how much and she replied "$350 per meet". Strike 1= asking for more than $300. $300 per meet is the most any of these chic's should be asking for. If they go any higher, they're trying to hustle you. I then began to question her and ask what does she do for it. I get the typical liar / hustler response, "Whatever you want". Yeah right! We move to text and I began to grill her. I told her I love anal and lots of it. Her response, "Let's not do anal on the first meet". Yeah right! Strike 2= Claiming we can do what you want, then not agreeing to anal. Typical liar that will say whatever to get what she wants. I ask for a pic since she only has 1 pic on the site. I still have yet to get one. Strike 3= You're out of there!! That simple. Only 1 pic on her profile, asking for more than the typical rate, claiming she does whatever I want, then switches it up when queried some more. Typical liar / hustler going around messaging random guys to see which simp will bite on it. I hope none of you fall for any of these 2 hustlers.

**Slo Mo** · 07-10-19 14:37

https://www.seeking.com/member/6f174...0-a5dc785fa162

I had this one during spring break, I had been chatting back and forth with her for almost a couple weeks before we actually had time to link up. I think she was in a bind and needed some ends to take on her trip to Florida or whatever. Anyways she Ubered over to my place and when she walked through the door she is the girl in the photos, even looked a tad bit better, she's very petite and light skinned with small breasts, pretty damn sexy in my opinion. We agreed to $$ for the little shindig, took her to the bedroom and she stripped down and gets asshole naked quickly! She started of with some nice BB suckie, felt damn good but she kept her hand on my junk, so that I wouldn't penetrate her throat to deeply. The part that she had her soft ass lips on felt A-1 like steak sauce LOL. Nice wet sloppy toppy! After about 5 minutes of that I suggestted doggie, and I dove right and pounded (covered) and she handled it like a champ. All in all A+ session I will admit that, the girl is a freak!

Final thought: I don't know if I would call her a pro but I definitely saw a couple red flags, first red flag: I believe she sent me a text that she intended to send someone else, a pic of her kitty that she previously sent me and it included a different quote. Second red flag, while smashing in doggie, I noticed that the girls asshole looked pretty damn open, I'm talking about open like she just removed a 24 oz can of Bud Light from her ass LOL, I found that a little odd. But all in all she smelled clean and fresh, she's freaky asf, kitty nice and wet, and she has a very cool personality. I would say she's an excellent value at the $$ price point, I was not at all disappointed! If she peaks anyone's interest, I recommend taking a swing. I'm out.

**SeekingHead** · 07-10-19 10:59

Originally Posted by PrinceOfFools [View Original Post]

After a few years of doing this on and off, here's by system for SA. I have my search filter set for not only my personal preferences (I look for white / hispanic women, within 50 miles of my place, etc), I filter out anyone who has 'platonic' and 'trans' in their seeking tags, and I often tack on looking only for those with 'friends with benefits' tagged. I am sure plenty of girls check the box for platonic because they'd be open to it, but that's not something I want to even entertain and I have 0 interest in trying to get 'hard to get' girls. In addition to avoiding flakes and scammers, I also tend to avoid UTRs / pros / strippers / etc. I am on SA for otherwise normal chicks that will trade some pussy for a paid phone bill, not someone who does this for a living. I've also several 'free' chicks doing this, I pick up the check for outings / dinner but otherwise they enjoy the dick and / or my company or do a great job at faking it enough that I don't care.

For profile filtering, I use a few rules. Women are vain as fuck and will do almost anything for social proof. Exceptions exist of course, but if a chick's profile doesn't have several pictures showing off her best attribute it's probably a scammer or a guy. Sometimes all you will see is a pair of tits because they cropped out the rest of the pic because they're a butter face, other times they show their rear and their face but hide that giant gut she has. Too many, too few, or too 'good' pics also trigger my alarms. Women will add enough pictures to show off, but not so many they don't hold some in reserve to share later. If the pictures look professional I immediately suspect they're either scamming with some IG girls pictures or they themselves are an IG girl and they're just on their for attention and validation from the million simps that spam them daily. I do read profiles before I message someone, but I ignore anyone who writes too little or too much. The girls that write too much are either bots or BPD / phychos, the ones that write too little think they're above talking to you. Same goes for messaging, I expect them to write in complete sentences and at least meet me 1:1 on messages. If they send back some short hand bullshit or barely answer me, I just don't reply and move on. If they send me a novel, I am probably not going to reply either unless it's very well written and on topic. Look at how they write as well, any time I spot someone that doesn't appear to be a native English speaker I move on unless they clearly state they aren't (Columbian / Brazilian girls, etc). Anyone super self absorbed I ignore as well, if all they talk about is their needs then I'm good and move on.

I also don't go any further if their compensation needs make it look like they want someone funding their college or life in general. I don't want any chicks that need me to give them money for them to continue living, I already have a wife I don't need another one. I also really don't like being hit up for 'emergencies' and shit like that. I prefer the ones that just enjoy getting treated to a good time with me doing things like eating out, a movie, or blowing me in my ride. Girls hitting you up for money are probably messaging 10 other dudes the same thing and it will continue to happen because they have 0 discipline in their lives so they will always need someone else. I will tolerate hitting me up to go do something occasionally, but straight up saying they need money is usually a block on my phone.

Good post, with a lot of good pointers & information.