"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[JustLonely]

I'd like to know more about the list? Is it on facebook, or instagram? Email?

To be honest, it sounds a little more organized than these ****** are capable of.

I had one tell me last summer I had a reputation of moving on after a few dates. She blocked me before I could reply to that. I have unknowingly been out with SA roomates and ones that had friends on SA. So that reputation may be word of mouth not from a list somewhere.

[JustLonely]

How about this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/0c9e1...f-880a293b2414.

Messaged with her a little bit, seems to have a very high opinion of herself. Anyone have any experience?

Total waste of time. She wanted to know details of my past arrangements and how "compensation" for her time would be provided per activity.

She is on and off SA so much that she won't be much of a lawyer if she can't negotiate a long term deal for herself.

[DWinthrop]

If you wind up on "The List," the girls will band together to get you kicked off. An updated list goes out daily through social media. I had to go back and make it up to the original girl who put me on there in order to get off of it. It involves the SA girls from VCU, you of are, UVA, and Tech. Have you ever gotten blocked before even talking to a girl? That's why.

I'd like to know more about the list? Is it on facebook, or instagram? Email?

To be honest, it sounds a little more organized than these ****** are capable of.

[Tidad]

If you wind up on "The List," the girls will band together to get you kicked off. An updated list goes out daily through social media. I had to go back and make it up to the original girl who put me on there in order to get off of it. It involves the SA girls from VCU, you of are, UVA, and Tech. Have you ever gotten blocked before even talking to a girl? That's why.

Where have you seen this list?

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I have a pic, so that gave me the ability to message. I sent out a msg to some old SB's with my new phone # so that was probably it. Guess I need to sign up again with a new email.

Check out the SugarLifestyleForum reddit. They have some good tips on how not to get banned, or how to get back on if banned.

Be aware that it's moderated by sugar babies with GPS.

[Spiderrva]

I just went to sign into my SA account, I am not premium, and got messaged that my account has been deleted. Anyone else ever have this happen?

If you wind up on "The List," the girls will band together to get you kicked off. An updated list goes out daily through social media. I had to go back and make it up to the original girl who put me on there in order to get off of it. It involves the SA girls from VCU, you of are, UVA, and Tech. Have you ever gotten blocked before even talking to a girl? That's why.

[ErkTheOne]

How about this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/0c9e1...f-880a293b2414.

Messaged with her a little bit, seems to have a very high opinion of herself. Anyone have any experience?

[ErkTheOne]

Anyone know anything about this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/0abe3...9-b6a2dea815b3.

Have tried talking with her a few times and she will message back once or twice but then go dark.

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OK, many of you SDs presumably have a reputation you care about, now and in the hereafter. What provisions have you made to have everything associated w / the bowl purged should you meet your maker in an untimely and unexpected way. I have a trusted colleague who has received a sealed envelope from me, w / instructions to open it and do what it says if I buy the farm.

If you're dead, what does it matter?

Your family (or the state, if you have no family) are going to sort through your crap and throw away anything that they don't want. Other than that, you will quickly become a distant memory.

Who cares if they get a chuckle out of your porn or mongering habit? Own it. Again, you'll be dead.

There is no shame or embarrassment within a casket.

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A few thoughts.

Trying to hide your identity in 2019 is pretty-much pointless. Sooner or later, you will slip up. Your phone will give you up, or the hotel, or something else. You'll forget a receipt or other paperwork somewhere, at some time.

Personally, I don't hide my real name from girls I meet on the site. I don't see the point.

Realize that most hotels use a database that links to your real identity at check-in, regardless of what information you provide on the reservation. You can book the room under John Doe. But if your real name is John Smith, the hotel is going to figure that out at check in when you show your I'd or present your CC. Even if you provide a fake address on the reservation, the hotel can grab your real address from the CC or another database, then cross-reference to sign you up for their points program, and you'll start getting crap in the mail or via email even if you didn't expressly sign up for the program.

That's a good point.

So since making my first outcall, I was wondering if.

Using Hotwire is okay since I need to provide name and address as it appears on DL and a valid CC. CC is okay as I don't have SO looking at that.

OR.

Should I just book the room on site and provide my DL and CC? In this case, the girl is in my car, so I'll need to remove all paperwork from glove compartment.

Still thinking what's the best way to book the room so that apart from the above I can leave without having to checkout at desk.

Anything else I should look for as I go about my first outcall. .

[GolfMan57]

If you mention P4 P.

I have a pic, so that gave me the ability to message. I sent out a msg to some old SB's with my new phone # so that was probably it. Guess I need to sign up again with a new email.

[Grafenberg]

I just went to sign into my SA account, I am not premium, and got messaged that my account has been deleted. Anyone else ever have this happen?

If you mention P4 P.

[GolfMan57]

I just went to sign into my SA account, I am not premium, and got messaged that my account has been deleted. Anyone else ever have this happen?

[Ernest Ll]

Which hotels do not display your name on the startup screen? From what I can tell, all Marriott and Aloft do.

Most branded hotels are franchises, not owned & operated by their brands. Franchisees are not required to comply with 100% of brand standards, so you can't blanketly state which brands have what in-room TV software. I know of some hotels where they don't have adult pay per view because the owners think its immoral -- and I'm not talking the Marriott family.

Some hotels don't have to comply with certain things until they do their contracted renovations / upgrades, so one of the original ALOFTs -- if they did not have that information in the first generation of their in-room system -- might not have that feature while newer ones do.

[Tidad]

Hello Team / Special Councel, I got a situation but I'm not sure how to tackle it. I met a sugar plum early in the year. It took a couple of weeks before we connected but it was worth the wait. A get to know tongue pierced BBBJ in my car, total beans spent was roughly 80. Before the BJ, she asked if that made her a hoe. I lied and told her no. For reasons unknown, she went ghost and I didn't hear from her. Sent her a message on the site and learned she was having phone issues. We conversed again for a couple of weeks, our schedules never aligned then crickets again. Knowing where she lived, I baked a cake and took it to her, which opened the lines of communication again after she asked what my number was (really?) Talk about amnesia LOL.

She needed help with her phone one day so I advanced her 60 on V-day. 4 days later she purchases a car but had tire issues. She gives me the silent treatment for a few days so I stop by with some food since she didn't work and making ends meet was a struggle for her. We rekindle the conversation and I let her know I'm not looking to get into a relationship with you if that's why you keep ghosting. I'm just trying to help you out. I helped her get a tire on her car which didn't cost but 35 for a used one.

About a week later we are texting and she asked if I wanted to go to some space DJ show with her and her best friend. She even offered to ride with me. It was roughly an hour away so I agreed. Her best friend was meeting up with a guy friend at the show and if they hit things off, she was going to ride to wherever with the guy friend and the sugar plum was going to ride with me. Well we make the trip with the sugar plum in the passenger seat and her best friend in the back seat. I would occasionally give a back rub when she leaned forward causing her best friend to complain and say "I want some attention too. " The best friend also kept saying she wanted some D* I'm not sure what these girls smoked or what they had to drink when I picked them up but they were saying all the right words. Shoot, the sugar plum asked me if I was going to get wasted and added that she wanted me to so she can take advantage of me.

We get to where we were going, 30 for me to get in since she already had a ticket, enjoyed the show, got a few drinks, she wore some leggings and I wore some dri fit pants so she would occasionally twerk and grind on me to the music. After about 3 hours, it's late. Her best friend goes off with the guy and me and the sugar plum head to my house about an hour away. We chat and get to know each other. I find out that she is into girls. Dated one girl for a year and the best friend that rode in the back seat to the show was the 1st girl she ever got with. Halfway home, I reach into a secret compartment in my wallet, you know, that little zipper away from the cash. I pull out one of those blue smurf pills and bit off half that way by the time I get home, I'll be ready. She saw me take it and asked what I was taking. "Um nothing" LOL.

We get to my house and I Waffle housesd, Ihoped her. I made her scrambled eggs and bacon. We ate, we were both tired and I gave her 2 options. I took her to the guest bedroom and told her option one is you can sleep here. Took her to the master bedroom and told her option 2 is here. She asked where I was sleeping and I told her option 2. She chose wisely when she also said she wanted option 2. We start making out, turns into a nice BBBJ, she tells me she's on her period. Not knowing when I'll see this girl again I go with it. She likes it rough, wants to be choked, after 3 positions I shot my best shot. I checkout my little man and there was little to no blood so aunt flow had started packing to leave town. We sleep well passed noon. I make her some food even some to take to her best friend and took her to her best friend's appartment.

2 weeks later, she applied for a job, needed background check money so I gave her 30. Late one night she barely had gas money. I offered her help, said I would bring it by. She told me not to, she'll try to handle but I went anyway LOL. Big mistake on my part. I get there and she's in her car with some dude. I roll my window down to speak and she drives off. Ever caught your sugar baby cheating? Not a good feeling. Not saying they did the deed but obviously she was embarrassed. I sent her a text and she pretended as if she didn't know it was me. Oh well. After that night I don't hear much from her. She doesn't call me handsome or sexy any more LOL. Is it over? Do I have a shot of making things right? Here's the kicker, her best friend just joined the site a few days ago. Do I hit up the best friend? Could this turn into a mindblowing threesome or will they join forces, string me along and play me for a fool? Best friends talk and share more than they need to with each other.

The sad part is the sugar plum is still having car problems. The tire I had replaced on her car, I now notice a donut so looks like it went flat. The little paper tag on her car pretty much is expired, they are good for usually 45 days after the purchase of a vehicle. I offered to take her grocery shopping once and she was feeding a neighbors pig that day. I offered the next day and she claimed she had a job interview that day. A text asking how the interview went? Crickets. I stopped by her place and lo and behold, some guy is there with her. Not sure if he walked there or he doesn't have a vehicle and she picked him up and brought her to her place, which she shares with a parent, but I would not be surprised if that was the same guy I saw her with that night I wish I could have a re-do. I should've stayed home that night and just let her handle her business lol. She introduced me to the guy and said it was her friend. When I left she told me to text her but no response to my texts. Anyhow, the crowd she chooses to make a priority is not helping her financially. Plate is about to expire and I doubt she even has car insurance.

I don't know what the question is in all of that, but what you have been doing is definitely not the answer. Just stop. Also, a $80 car date BJ? Please, PLEASE stop.