"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Member #5932]

Sorry you lost your marriage man. Sucks. I am also married and tearing it up on SA. This leads to another question. Do you guys lie and tell these women you aren't married? I am very upfront about it. I get plenty of responses from chicks on the site that reject my overtures after reading my profile because I am straight up about being hitched.

I have read some posts here where mongers say don't put married in your SA profile and in my opinion that is cruising for a bruising. Sure it opens you up to more poon tang but if they discover the lie there could be hell to pay. I also don't sell these women dreams and keep things on a per meet basis. I don't think I have ever advanced money for one these chicks crisis situations in between meets. Once again this isn't about blame and I appreciate you having the courage to tell the board you got rinsed for $7 k and putting the skank on blast.

Ripper.

You are right. I learned a hard lesson. I will never give any of these women money outside of an agreed meet. She knew I was married it was on my SA profile and we discussed it prior to meeting. I honestly think she's just looking for any info on the men she sees so she can leverage it later to increase her payout.

[Ripvan12]

Sorry you lost your marriage man. Sucks. I am also married and tearing it up on SA. This leads to another question. Do you guys lie and tell these women you aren't married? I am very upfront about it. I get plenty of responses from chicks on the site that reject my overtures after reading my profile because I am straight up about being hitched.

I have read some posts here where mongers say don't put married in your SA profile and in my opinion that is cruising for a bruising. Sure it opens you up to more poon tang but if they discover the lie there could be hell to pay. I also don't sell these women dreams and keep things on a per meet basis. I don't think I have ever advanced money for one these chicks crisis situations in between meets. Once again this isn't about blame and I appreciate you having the courage to tell the board you got rinsed for $7 k and putting the skank on blast.

Ripper.

[Member #5932]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b793f...5-2da8d7ab1b29

She took me for 7 grand. You've been warned.

[NewAnonymousName]

I never, ever, ever give my last name to a SB no matter how long I've seen her or how well it seems to be going. If they need more verification to screen me, I move on. I've missed out on many smoking hot sugar babies with this approach, but I'm not willing to take the risk for so long as I have minor children at home. I bumped into a SB at Home Depot one time back when I lived in a different area of Metro Atlanta. She gave a knowing look but said nothing, thank goodness. One of my kids was with me, which probably caused her to pause, or maybe she was just cool. In any event, I learned my lesson and now I don't monger in the area where I live, only near where I work. I work far from where I live, so it works well.

[NGASugarMan]

That completely sucks. I've been on SA three times (for a month each) over the past year. I ran into two really, really good sharks. Out of sheer luck, the one only got the PPM money (and a nice dinner out) and the other just wasted a ton of my time. But, there are women on the site just as good as there are guys on our side tearing it up.

On the losing your wife and kids. That also sucks, and I'm also a married dude tearing up SA. But, you got to kind of assume the wife / kids are gone if you are tearing it up on SA. I mean at some point, even the best monger, something is going to slip. I'm about as good as it gets (IT guy who knows how to hide shit, job that allows me flexibility to meet girls, and a non-tech wifey). And I've had two close calls. I was walking back to the car with the wifey two weeks ago on a date night in Athens, and one of the chicks I first hooked up with waved to me from the one glass windowed brewery, LOL Luckily, she was with a dude her age, and I joked it off, but it's going to happen at some point. The wifey made some snarkey comment of why is some 20 year old blonde chick smiling and waving at you.

I already have my emergency "I got caught" fund ready, and I've been done with my marriage. I'm just hanging around because I like double dipping (wifey is a nympho, not attractive, but loves to fuck) and I know I'm going to get ass raped getting divorced (would have if I didn't monger anyways).

Did you give your wife, ex-wife, an STI? I've been kind of careful, but that's always a threat too. That's a good divorce lawyers wet dream here in Georgia. About the only thing worse, is if you wife was a stay-at-home mom your entire marriage. Good luck man.

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

[Atlanta John]

How much did she want?

Started with $400. I countered with $175 and have not heard back.

[Member #5932]

So what's her name?

https://www.seeking.com/member/3b8c1...f-2bdfa30af5ef

[ElPerron]

This one was pimped at Wesley chapel, then jump to SA independly, she makes a profile now and then, no she is in Lawrenceville area, money hustler.

[TheLife1]

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

Wondering how she can blackmail you. Did you not use a burner phone # and always meet at a hotel with a fake name? All my girls never know what I do or my real name. Glad I take extra precautions to prevent moments like this.

[FlyGuyEddie007]

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

Burner phone is a must! Never bring to your house! Hotel or car dates!! Have a alt fb if she has for fb no bills in your car with your address hell get s p. O. Box for your bills so if they do find one in your car no address if your going to play they game and your married act like your in the cia and have duel live for the hobbie.

[Member #5932]

Wow, FAWK! This review made me remember my login info just to comment on this. I've been in a similar situation (not with this chick) but I definitely feel your pain! Keep your head up man and just remember that time heals ALL wounds!

Yeah man. I am so fucking pissed off right now. I lost 7 grand and got some STIs, which whatever, Cost of being stupid as far as I'm concerned but I lost my wife and kid too. Crazy shit is, she was cool to blow up my life if it meant more money. I'm real angry.

[Slo Mo]

This young lady hails from a northeast ATL town. The SA chats were quite pleasant for a few days then I received her number. However, when the discussion of what she thought was a reasonable allowance came up things started to become outrageous.

She wants to spend all day with a SD while he galavants her around and treats her like a princess LOL. When I asked exactly what that means I was not given a direct answer. All I know is it sounds expensive.

I just didn't have that type of availability this week. So when I asked about a nice dinner then some quality time alone she wanted a grand. Yes four numbers in front of the decimal.

I don't have access to her link but saved this photo before.

I wonder if there is more than one strand of GPS going around LOL. There are many other cost effective options available.

Take care.

Now that I've finally retrieved my login info, I have to get around to responding to a few reviews that I've read in the past. I'm going to start with this one.

I got lucky and caught this one at the right time I guess. She had moved back home out of state and I travel for work so we hooked up. I got a room and she came through, PSE bbj and she allowed me to film as well! All she cared about was being in a nice hotel room so she could frequently change lingerie / skimpy outfits to stand in the mirror and make Snapchat videos and pics LOL. She was definitely pretty chill and cool, didn't cost me a dime just a hotel room at the time. About a week later she did ask me to Cashapp her some scratch for her nails in which I obliged. Other than that, it was a pretty cool experience, I have no idea where those GPS amounts came from, all I can say is to keep on swinging and hopefully you can catch her at the right time. She's a fun girl and loves sex, it's almost like she believes she's some amateur porn star or something. I can tell she really thinks that, she used to sell all kinds of videos on Snapchat, maybe she still does I'm not totally sure. Long story short, it's all about the timing for most of these chicks, especially the younger ones. I hope this helps someone to tap that ass and come back to the forum to share!

[Slo Mo]

I got rinsed. This chick played the long game. Had me believing she was in love and shit and she's believable as fuck. Anyway, I got played. She kept coming up with excuses like being evicted with her kids and shit and needing money for this and that. Finally, I realized I was getting played. I asked for her Facebook. That was it. She was done immediately. She's covered in really vulgar tattoos. There's one on her back claiming her pussy. "(Some dude's name) Pussy" I honestly think she's probably working with other people. When I told her I wanted to end it she tried to extort me for more money by threatening to tell the wife. Anyway, fuck was I going to do? Let this chick blackmail me? Nope. I told my wife. I would be really fucking careful. No matter what this chick's end game is, she's not in this for the PPM. She's a seasoned pro. There are news articles that show up when you google her real name and prostitution. I was definitely stupid AF but this chick. She's shameless.

Wow, FAWK! This review made me remember my login info just to comment on this. I've been in a similar situation (not with this chick) but I definitely feel your pain! Keep your head up man and just remember that time heals ALL wounds!

[Plisknoob1]

I got rinsed. This chick played the long game. Had me believing she was in love and shit and she's believable as fuck. Anyway, I got played. She kept coming up with excuses like being evicted with her kids and shit and needing money for this and that. Finally, I realized I was getting played. I asked for her Facebook. That was it. She was done immediately. She's covered in really vulgar tattoos. There's one on her back claiming her pussy. "(Some dude's name) Pussy" I honestly think she's probably working with other people. When I told her I wanted to end it she tried to extort me for more money by threatening to tell the wife. Anyway, fuck was I going to do? Let this chick blackmail me? Nope. I told my wife. I would be really fucking careful. No matter what this chick's end game is, she's not in this for the PPM. She's a seasoned pro. There are news articles that show up when you google her real name and prostitution. I was definitely stupid AF but this chick. She's shameless.

So what's her name?

[Member #5932]

Man that's fucked up. We all take a risk going bare. But how the fuck did she get 7 grand. Thats an expensive lesson.

I got rinsed. This chick played the long game. Had me believing she was in love and shit and she's believable as fuck. Anyway, I got played. She kept coming up with excuses like being evicted with her kids and shit and needing money for this and that. Finally, I realized I was getting played. I asked for her Facebook. That was it. She was done immediately. She's covered in really vulgar tattoos. There's one on her back claiming her pussy. "(Some dude's name) Pussy" I honestly think she's probably working with other people. When I told her I wanted to end it she tried to extort me for more money by threatening to tell the wife. Anyway, fuck was I going to do? Let this chick blackmail me? Nope. I told my wife. I would be really fucking careful. No matter what this chick's end game is, she's not in this for the PPM. She's a seasoned pro. There are news articles that show up when you google her real name and prostitution. I was definitely stupid AF but this chick. She's shameless.