"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Ripvan12** · 01-21-19 01:38

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

I used to think the same way. Was worried I would scare a good one off by asking for additional pics. But that's thinking with a scarcity mindset. I can see if we were working SA in Iowa where the number of dudes might equal the number of chicks on the site, but in Atlanta with all these options you have to adapt an abundance mindset. In this day and age where people post everything online an extra pic or two isn't a big deal to a real potential treat. Those hesitant to send extra pics are counting on luring you in with their best angled / filtered shots on their profile. Ripper.

**Member #2227** · 01-20-19 22:24

Any thoughts on this one? https://www.seeking.com/member/76809...b-a8f24df89326.

**SkyWalker21** · 01-20-19 19:04

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

I never have a problem with them sending pics. I always ask for something not on the Site. All have complied so far. Sweet talking has helped me to get some sexy pics without even asking. Work the lingo, and the possibility of cash always helps.

Skywalker.

**CoveyLeader43** · 01-20-19 18:39

Originally Posted by TallGuy3000 [View Original Post]

I use Amex gift cards from Kroger. I had an issue with VISA / Mastercards a while back due to an issue with off shore processing by SA.

AMEX it is! Thanks for the info. I was worried about dropping the coin on one of those burner cards and not being able to sign up.

Regards,

CoveyL.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-20-19 16:25

Originally Posted by LoVecchio [View Original Post]

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

Like I said before, if they are serious, why wouldn't they do it? I'm not asking for nudes, just a simple picture. If they arent willing to provide it, is it really worth chancing they are who they say they are? To me its a great way to weed out the flakes.

**LoVecchio** · 01-20-19 15:41

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I have almost every girl I plan to meet send me a specific picture. Tell them to send a selfie standing in front of a mirror holding up a specific number of fingers. If they are legit, and interested, they should have no problems providing it. Its a really quick way to weed out the fakes. It also allows you to see exactly what they look like right now.

I'm curious about the girls' reaction to the request. Do they generally think this is a reasonable verification or are they offended that you don't trust them? It's a good idea, but I'd hate to scare away good ones.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-20-19 14:12

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

How are you getting access to her Facebook page? I don't use facebook anymore so I'm just curious. Is it with her phone number or something? I'm asking because it's a good hack to see how accurate their SA pics are. I have just started adding 10 lbs in my head to the pics on SA now, they all use glamour shots, and it's annoying.

I have almost every girl I plan to meet send me a specific picture. Tell them to send a selfie standing in front of a mirror holding up a specific number of fingers. If they are legit, and interested, they should have no problems providing it. Its a really quick way to weed out the fakes. It also allows you to see exactly what they look like right now.

**BoJackSugarman** · 01-20-19 13:15

Originally Posted by HenryV [View Original Post]

Well y'all can have it; I don't want it. She stressed the importance of meeting 1st, very reasonable, but then got hung up on numbers. "My previous arrangement was 1-2 weekly visits depending on our schedules and 600 a week. " Smells like GPS. I find much easier SBs out here, YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/19e32...5-225bc2db82fe

She is lying through her teeth! She told me her last arrangement was 750 per week for 1-2 weeks and that was just a few days ago. I passed as well telling her it was too high. She said she was willing to work with me but I found a hottie next day and smashed sonlost interest. I bet you anything she came down to 6 after my response. Keep pinging this one, she will come down, but she isn't that hot anyway. The pics are her best glamour shots and she has some slight baby damage up front.

**QuartJess** · 01-20-19 12:27

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

How are you getting access to her Facebook page? I don't use facebook anymore so I'm just curious. Is it with her phone number or something? I'm asking because it's a good hack to see how accurate their SA pics are. I have just started adding 10 lbs in my head to the pics on SA now, they all use glamour shots, and it's annoying.

This one was simple, others are a little harder. I just plugged her number in Google and it gave me her name, then I searched for her name on facebook.

**BoJackSugarman** · 01-19-19 23:30

https://www.seeking.com/member/bcbad...f-f222e693dd57

Djinny.

Pros: She is a really nice single mom who is actually fairly intelligent and interesting in her own way. You can def hit this for free she straight up told me it isn't about the money for her. She just wants to be around men that are going somewhere in life. She seems fairly open sexually too although not a full on submissive but sounds promising. We talked about sex and she is DTF if she likes you.

Cons: She definitely is good with the camera and there is a reason there is no full body shot. She has a good bit of baby damage upfront and she is tall too (5'9') so she just comes off kinda like a linebacker, but she isn't overtly fat just some sloppy fat in the stomach and ass areas. Also, she is an introvert and very awkward socially so I was just bored with the conversation which lacked flow at times. I just had dinner and then left. I wasn't really feeling it, plus I had to meet some friends after. I gave her a goodnight kiss to gauge chemistry and it was awkward as hell LOL. I'm pretty sure if I said let's get a hotel room she would have been down, despite the awkward kiss but somehow I just didn't want to.

Damage $0, just dinner. I left it alone contemplating what to do. However, if you do hit it, do me a favor and give her something. She seems like a genuinely good person and is legitimately trying to do it all on her own, and is a good soul. I can't decide if I want to see her again and deal with baby damage and awkward introversion or not, plus she is way out in dalton. Part of me just wants to give the poor girl a hug.

**HenryV** · 01-19-19 23:29

Well y'all can have it; I don't want it. She stressed the importance of meeting 1st, very reasonable, but then got hung up on numbers. "My previous arrangement was 1-2 weekly visits depending on our schedules and 600 a week. " Smells like GPS. I find much easier SBs out here, YMMV.

https://www.seeking.com/member/19e32...5-225bc2db82fe

**BoJackSugarman** · 01-19-19 22:50

Originally Posted by QuartJess [View Original Post]

Yes, she hit me up as well and I was supposed to go to her place this evening, but I saw her facebook pictures and decided against it due to her being a bit chubbier than her SA pics. She quoted me $. 5 as well.

How are you getting access to her Facebook page? I don't use facebook anymore so I'm just curious. Is it with her phone number or something? I'm asking because it's a good hack to see how accurate their SA pics are. I have just started adding 10 lbs in my head to the pics on SA now, they all use glamour shots, and it's annoying.

**QuartJess** · 01-19-19 14:47

Originally Posted by Ripvan12 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/84858...f-9ac5ee818b83

Letshavefundaddy.

This one has been on the site since 2017. I have seen her profile pop up every time I do a one month membership but never paid attention since I am being picky on the site. This time I entertained her unsolicited request. She is seeking something NSA. Says she can host. Apartment near the big chicken. Agreed on $150 per meet. Cool, $150 per meet and she can host. Worth listening to. Transitioned to text. Sent additional photos but all neck up. Asked for a full body non-nude and she went dark for two days and came back with a "hello" message. Nope. Not going to let it slide. Asked again for full body shot. Sent me two. Don't be fooled by the mini skirt picture on her profile. That had to be a few years ago at least. She's a bit chubby but doable in a pinch. So, the next day she hits me and since I was in that aforementioned pinch I say I can get over there by 5. Mind you it's 3:30. She says cool. But then hits me at 4 PM and says she thought it was earlier in the day and asked if I can come over later. What are you a vampire? I asked her what time. She ghosts for two days and comes back with another "hey" message. Glad I didn't leave the office to start the drive.

No times for games. So I am on to the next. Be safe brothers. Ripper.

Yes, she hit me up as well and I was supposed to go to her place this evening, but I saw her facebook pictures and decided against it due to her being a bit chubbier than her SA pics. She quoted me $. 5 as well.

**Ripvan12** · 01-19-19 14:04

https://www.seeking.com/member/84858...f-9ac5ee818b83

Letshavefundaddy.

This one has been on the site since 2017. I have seen her profile pop up every time I do a one month membership but never paid attention since I am being picky on the site. This time I entertained her unsolicited request. She is seeking something NSA. Says she can host. Apartment near the big chicken. Agreed on $150 per meet. Cool, $150 per meet and she can host. Worth listening to. Transitioned to text. Sent additional photos but all neck up. Asked for a full body non-nude and she went dark for two days and came back with a "hello" message. Nope. Not going to let it slide. Asked again for full body shot. Sent me two. Don't be fooled by the mini skirt picture on her profile. That had to be a few years ago at least. She's a bit chubby but doable in a pinch. So, the next day she hits me and since I was in that aforementioned pinch I say I can get over there by 5. Mind you it's 3:30. She says cool. But then hits me at 4 PM and says she thought it was earlier in the day and asked if I can come over later. What are you a vampire? I asked her what time. She ghosts for two days and comes back with another "hey" message. Glad I didn't leave the office to start the drive.

No times for games. So I am on to the next. Be safe brothers. Ripper.

**SkyWalker21** · 01-19-19 08:44

Originally Posted by BoJackSugarman [View Original Post]

I agree with the sentiment that we all stick together to keep prices low. After many years on SA, I can tell you that it is not all about the money with these girls. Many college girls want to date older men anyway, the allowance is more of an excuse than anything else. In reality, guys their age don't take them anywhere or do anything with them except invite them to play Xbox and smoke weed, LOL. That was a direct quote from one of the girls I dated for awhile off SA.

Originally Posted by John3992 [View Original Post]

Anyone see this one? Claims to be a porn star but will only share info after meeting. https://www.seeking.com/member/fae1d...9-ddc42bc6f7dc.

I was texting with her quite a bit over the Fall. She wanted like 400, but talked her to my range of 200. Our schedules never aligned. She did send some pics via text, and a link to some of her videos. I don't think I saved her number.

Skywalker.