Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[TopGun9]

Never do this as the girl has an inflated ego OR she's not getting normal dates. Here's one who wants 100 $ for a public meet and greet which I quickly declined.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4917d...0-d963367f519c

Blondie1221.

34 Female Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

Looking forward to new adventures! Spoil me!

BMD.

LOL. Same here.

She dare to demand 100 for a public meet.

Told her I don't pay for the privilege of her having a drink / lunch on my dime. I pay when her panties is on the floor and my cock in her mouth. Then I blocked her ass, no need to waste any more time on these girls.

[TopGun9]

What good does this do if you don't have ability to respond?

This is where you have to get a bit creative.

In my profile, I say that if the girl is serious about seeking a cool sugar daddy that can spoil her, then needs to MESSAGE ME WITH HER PHONE NUMBER so that I can text her directly because I am a very busy daddy that travels a lot and don't have time to log onto the site.

I've been using that method to read messages, and texting about 20-30 girls over the past few weeks.

Some girls are still too dumb or lazy to read the damn profile and just send a message with "Hi" or "Hello". These girls are probably not worth wasting the time on anyway.

[Cochonne]

If you used your phone, how did you right click?

I used a 19" screen PC. You'll need it to see all the small web debug text in two 'windows' and at least 1/4 of the SA messages screen at the same time. Impossible on a smartphone with a 4 or 5" screen.

[Tomb8871]

It works. I have Firefox. I had 4 unread messages. Got 2 "Hello" (CaseyCupcakes and Lyrica) and a cell # from Honeybee. .

If you used your phone, how did you right click?

[Cochonne]

What good does this do if you don't have ability to respond?

It works. I have Firefox. I had 4 unread messages. Got 2 "Hello" (CaseyCupcakes and Lyrica) and a cell # from Honeybee. .

[Member #6108]

My Fairfield County regular was still not available so I started leaving messages Sun looking for some new fun. Came upon a slim new one from Rocky Hill. It went well an we met Mon evening.

She is not really been at this long term. Seemed nice but like most was fishing for dollars. Wanted $250. I nicely an respectfully let her know what I would pay an what I expected. She agreed to no head games an no golden dream. Sexysash came to the door in bath robe. Once inside an initial feeling me out on my intentions to stick to my dollar an want she was fine. Took off robe an had on a nice "teddy" She got right down to business in a slow sensual way. No complaints from me. A good 2 hours with her. Not all play. Lots of talk also. Will repeat.

Only thing that concerned me. She has a 2 BR place. I had the feeling that her kid was in the other BR. Just a feeling no proof. She is about 24 YO so kid would be young if there. $100 was the agreed upon price.

[Biker1200]

You can freely, in both sense of the word, look through actually legit messages by girls whom are interested or you can see if it's just a plain hi or hey.

There are still a few old street walkers. Not walking though, you can inbox me for info.

[JustLooking30]

What good does this do if you don't have ability to respond?

You can freely, in both sense of the word, look through actually legit messages by girls whom are interested or you can see if it's just a plain hi or hey.

[Tomb8871]

Have to give it a try.

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What good does this do if you don't have ability to respond?

[MyHobby]

Have to give it a try.

Good info to have? Ability to read messages despite not being a paid member of SA.

Virginia, Richmond, Sugar baby thread. Post 15523. Give credit where credit is due. Thanks Zcochran00.

Check it out. So many obstacles for mongers lately. A bit of cheating seems appropriate.

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I'm a programmer, and I spend a good portion of my time doing web development. I've noted that SA has been rewriting portions of their site from a traditional "click link, wait for server return the new page" style to a "single-page application" approach. Turns out that due to some rather silly programming choices on their part, it's actually possible to view the text content of messages even if you don't have premium time enabled.

It involves opening up your browser's "development tools" window so you can inspect the contents of the page and the data being requested, and should work in either Chrome or Firefox.

Log in to SA and go to your inbox. Right-click anywhere on the page and choose "Inspect Element". The browser's dev tools should either pop up as a separate window, or as part of the main window. Click on the "network" tab in the dev tools. Then, back in the SA inbox screen, click on a conversation.

If you go back to the "network" tab, you should see a list of all the data requests the SA page asked for from the server. One of them should look like "/ inbox? Page=1&limit=25". Click on that one. It'll show a bunch of technical details of some of the message headers.

Now, look for a tab called "Response". If you click on that, you should see a tree with sections like "status", "message", "conversation", and "metadata". Expand "conversation" "messages" "data". You should see some numbered entries, 0 and up. Those represent each of the messages in the conversation, from both of you. (Side note: the "metadata" object has a whole bunch of info that they know about your own account. Some of it is info you entered yourself, like profile info. There's also things like "payments_total", which appears to be how much you've actually ever paid SA, unread message count, whether you're in the EU, and even fields labeled "has_under_age_punishment" and "has_unacknowledged_punishment". Very interesting.)

Each message entry has a field called "body", which is the text that's shown in your inbox. If you've got premium active, it's the actual message text. If not, it's "Upgrade to read".

Here's where they did something silly. They send back the text that should be shown, but *they also send back the original text too*. So, even if the "body" field says "Upgrade to read", the "original_body" field shows the actual no-kidding message that was sent. You can inspect each of the messages that was received, and effectively read the conversation.

It's not a substitute for reading messages in the inbox as usual, but it might be helpful for anyone who gets a message when they don't have premium active and wants to peek at it without having to immediately shell out the cash to read it.

As a programmer, I can tell that there's actually a _ton_ of useful information being returned whenever you view a profile page or inbox page. It would be possible for someone to write a browser extension that either extracted some of that info from a page, or re-requested that data from the server, and did something useful with it (up to and including modifying an inbox to show all the messages without needing premium enabled). Sadly, I don't have time to work on anything like that myself. I've got a lot of other things on my plate.

Hope that helps!

[Woody50]

Broke people and scammers will gladly use Venmo. Anyone with money will avoid as those systems as they require links to your accounts and money. Do you really want to trust your account (s) to internet apps?
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I agree, but for those who insist, here's some info to at least try to protect your info:

https://clark.com/technology/how-to-...tions-private/

[Tomb8871]

Never do this as the girl has an inflated ego OR she's not getting normal dates. Here's one who wants 100 $ for a public meet and greet which I quickly declined.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4917d...0-d963367f519c

Blondie1221.

34 Female Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

Looking forward to new adventures! Spoil me!

BMD.

This one has been around forever, mainly at wyp. Wanted some ridiculous amount there.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Good info to have? Ability to read messages despite not being a paid member of SA.

Virginia, Richmond, Sugar baby thread. Post 15523. Give credit where credit is due. Thanks Zcochran00.

Check it out. So many obstacles for mongers lately. A bit of cheating seems appropriate.

The post number is wrong. It should be 15533, not 15523.

BMD.

[Big Mac Daddy]

Never do this as the girl has an inflated ego OR she's not getting normal dates. Here's one who wants 100 $ for a public meet and greet which I quickly declined.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4917d...0-d963367f519c

Blondie1221.

34 • Female • Hartford, Connecticut, United States.

Looking forward to new adventures! Spoil me!

BMD.

[Drewonhere]

Good info to have? Ability to read messages despite not being a paid member of SA.

Virginia, Richmond, Sugar baby thread. Post 15523. Give credit where credit is due. Thanks Zcochran00.

Check it out. So many obstacles for mongers lately. A bit of cheating seems appropriate.