WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**BigCoolie** · 12-10-18 13:56

I met her, Sara, and her friend at a bar last week where I knew the bartender. They claimed to be nursing students at some local community college. Her and her friend looked too young when they arrived, so I offered to start off with cocktails. The bartender could not convince them to provide reliable identification. They arrived smelling like weed, and they were on something else. The proceeded to order steak, two lobsters, five drinks, and several sides each. I laughed at them because I considered splitting the check and leaving. However, I told them that I was interested and paid the bill. As I was leaving while they were eating, they begged me to stay and offered a threesome out loud. I just kept walking to my car, and blocked their profile. A lot does not seem right about this pair. I also advise to STAY AWAY.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b3239...f-9a7201913b78

Originally Posted by Johnny71 [View Original Post]

Have been in text contact with this one, she wants to come over for $$. Said everything is on the plate. However, thanks to this review above, definitely not following through. The pic on SA of her seems off too. I asked for real time selfie and she didn't response. Avoid.

**HeadKnocker81** · 12-10-18 12:56

Originally Posted by BikeRider [View Original Post]

This girl. Minus the tatts. Is totally my type. She reminds me of my Peds baby (see Richmond thread) minus the tats. Can you tell us more about her?

Like I said she used to run with the Carmen crew from Chicago (do you know or heard of them)? Anyway. Everything was on the table with her with me from the start but other clients may not have gotten it all. With me for a $$2 hr date, it was all bare with CIP each time. She was lovely. That's why I'm hoping this is her. Just scared I may have spooked her by bringing up her old name she used while escorting.

**BuffBill75** · 12-10-18 12:15

Originally Posted by Johnny71 [View Original Post]

Have been in text contact with this one, she wants to come over for $$. Said everything is on the plate. However, thanks to this review above, definitely not following through. The pic on SA of her seems off too. I asked for real time selfie and she didn't response. Avoid.

Thanks for this. She just sent me her number. I think I'll pass.

**EshuTheGreat8** · 12-10-18 02:10

https://www.seeking.com/member/fbb24...9-c9540cc11007

Anyone know anything about this one?

**BikeRider** · 12-10-18 00:36

Originally Posted by FunGuy570 [View Original Post]

Seems like a lot more SB's creating profiles with it being the Holiday season and the need for money. Busiest time of year for SA is now through February. Get them now!

Couple of new things I learned.

1. DO NOT by any means agree to take any girl shopping (instead of cash allowance). I have done this twice and it is 1. Totally boring and miserable for you. Going up to the register is stressful and awful. 2. The girls will spend and spend and spend thinking you have unlimited funds. Even if you tell them before hand what they are allowed to get or what the limit is they will push it. Then they will still want cash later.

2. When girls insist on going on a trip with you (a trip they want to go on). You plan it all out, pay for the hotel / airfare, and all expenses. Tons of money spent then they still get mad when you don't give them a cash allowance at the end or it is less then they were anticipating (even if it was never discussed) no matter how much you spend on the trip / accommodations / food / drinks etc. If you have SB with you on vacation and they find out there is a miscommunication with what they are going to get the remaining time on the trip will be miserable. They will spend the rest of the time walking away from you and texting there friends complaining about it / you and have an attitude. Its like dealing with my teenage daughter when she doesn't get her way. Your usually better off finding an SB who already lives in the area your visiting and meeting up with them and following the standard SB protocol from home. If you want to bring a SB you know on a vacation make sure you mention all compensation and boundaries before you book. Don't assume just because your spending a boatload on all the other expenses and they never mention any compensation that they are not expecting more.

3. 90% of SB's on the site expect you to read there minds. The girls usually know what they expect but will not tell you. You have to make an offer and then they will decide to take it or ghost. Do not commit to spending time with any of them or taking them anywhere without discussing exactly what the expectation is beforehand or on the first date in person. I prefer to give details of the arrangement before meeting but no dollar amount until the in person meeting. Hard to gauge the value via pics that could be fake or outdated.

4. Once you set an allowance and typical meeting set up most SB's will take any attempt to renegotiate or lower compensation as a slap in the face and disappear even if you were originally paying over the market rate. I have rarely gotten a girl to take less after the first meet even if all usually went well and she knows she is not worth the original amount. This happens a lot when I meet an SB and negotiate terms before meeting in person and she is not what she advertises online or I find someone better for less I would rather invest in.

5. Even if your profile says exactly where you are located a lot of the time they still will not want to travel to you. A lot of the SB's also do not put the exact location of where they actually are located just the closest major city even if it is hours away. Do not agree to meet "in between" or near them unless you plan on traveling to that location to meet them consistently and want to pay for an accommodation. So many times have been chatting for awhile about to set a meeting and they say "oh that's kind of far for me" (even if it is a 30 to 45 min drive).

1. Shopping is a privilege. Don't even think of that until the relationship is mature.

2. Again, this isn't something you do early in a "relationship". I've had plenty of trips and all have been amazing with everyone happy.

3. This is tradecraft. You're either good at it, or you're not.

4. I'm sorry. It's all about how they feel, and how you treat them. There's no cookie cutter template here.

5. I've never had a problem here. But, then I travel 250 k miles a year so hopping on a plane for an hour or two isn't a problem (and I get free drinks).

Just some unsolicited advice. And I mean it in a good natured way. Chill relax. Girls can sense when you're trying too hard. I really don't give a shit if a girl replies or not. Have confidence, but not so much you're an asshole. Good things will follow.

BR.

**BikeRider** · 12-10-18 00:27

Originally Posted by HeadKnocker81 [View Original Post]

Hey guys, trying to get input in here and be useful instead of a lurker. Anyway, since the DC SB pages suck, I figured I'd come here. So, there used to be this girl named Emma Tan who rolled with the Carmen Lovely / Derika Pucci / Jada Tao crew when it was Carmen and a couple other chicks including Emma Tan.

I saw her whenever she came out here because she was amazing. Cute and tiny (got a boob job later that fit her frame nicely) and a dynamo in bed! Anyway, she either went way UTR or got out of the game or away from that crew.

Fast forward to yesterday, I see this smoking hot chick on SA and damn she looks familiar. Her chest tattoo looks super familiar too. So I hit her up to just say hi and say something like "You look kinda like this girl Emma I used to know". No response but I saw she read it but she didn't block me either.

Attached is her SA link and pics, one from SA and one from her escort days. Any help would be nice, especially if any of you have seen her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/07814...6-3daf9a7e9a92

This girl. Minus the tatts. Is totally my type. She reminds me of my Peds baby (see Richmond thread) minus the tats. Can you tell us more about her?

**HeadKnocker81** · 12-09-18 20:27

Hey guys, trying to get input in here and be useful instead of a lurker. Anyway, since the DC SB pages suck, I figured I'd come here. So, there used to be this girl named Emma Tan who rolled with the Carmen Lovely / Derika Pucci / Jada Tao crew when it was Carmen and a couple other chicks including Emma Tan.

I saw her whenever she came out here because she was amazing. Cute and tiny (got a boob job later that fit her frame nicely) and a dynamo in bed! Anyway, she either went way UTR or got out of the game or away from that crew.

Fast forward to yesterday, I see this smoking hot chick on SA and damn she looks familiar. Her chest tattoo looks super familiar too. So I hit her up to just say hi and say something like "You look kinda like this girl Emma I used to know". No response but I saw she read it but she didn't block me either.

Attached is her SA link and pics, one from SA and one from her escort days. Any help would be nice, especially if any of you have seen her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/07814...6-3daf9a7e9a92

**FunGuy570** · 12-09-18 19:44

Seems like a lot more SB's creating profiles with it being the Holiday season and the need for money. Busiest time of year for SA is now through February. Get them now!

Couple of new things I learned.

1. DO NOT by any means agree to take any girl shopping (instead of cash allowance). I have done this twice and it is 1. Totally boring and miserable for you. Going up to the register is stressful and awful. 2. The girls will spend and spend and spend thinking you have unlimited funds. Even if you tell them before hand what they are allowed to get or what the limit is they will push it. Then they will still want cash later.

2. When girls insist on going on a trip with you (a trip they want to go on). You plan it all out, pay for the hotel / airfare, and all expenses. Tons of money spent then they still get mad when you don't give them a cash allowance at the end or it is less then they were anticipating (even if it was never discussed) no matter how much you spend on the trip / accommodations / food / drinks etc. If you have SB with you on vacation and they find out there is a miscommunication with what they are going to get the remaining time on the trip will be miserable. They will spend the rest of the time walking away from you and texting there friends complaining about it / you and have an attitude. Its like dealing with my teenage daughter when she doesn't get her way. Your usually better off finding an SB who already lives in the area your visiting and meeting up with them and following the standard SB protocol from home. If you want to bring a SB you know on a vacation make sure you mention all compensation and boundaries before you book. Don't assume just because your spending a boatload on all the other expenses and they never mention any compensation that they are not expecting more.

3. 90% of SB's on the site expect you to read there minds. The girls usually know what they expect but will not tell you. You have to make an offer and then they will decide to take it or ghost. Do not commit to spending time with any of them or taking them anywhere without discussing exactly what the expectation is beforehand or on the first date in person. I prefer to give details of the arrangement before meeting but no dollar amount until the in person meeting. Hard to gauge the value via pics that could be fake or outdated.

4. Once you set an allowance and typical meeting set up most SB's will take any attempt to renegotiate or lower compensation as a slap in the face and disappear even if you were originally paying over the market rate. I have rarely gotten a girl to take less after the first meet even if all usually went well and she knows she is not worth the original amount. This happens a lot when I meet an SB and negotiate terms before meeting in person and she is not what she advertises online or I find someone better for less I would rather invest in.

5. Even if your profile says exactly where you are located a lot of the time they still will not want to travel to you. A lot of the SB's also do not put the exact location of where they actually are located just the closest major city even if it is hours away. Do not agree to meet "in between" or near them unless you plan on traveling to that location to meet them consistently and want to pay for an accommodation. So many times have been chatting for awhile about to set a meeting and they say "oh that's kind of far for me" (even if it is a 30 to 45 min drive).

**Johnny71** · 12-09-18 19:29

Originally Posted by BikeRider [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/b3239...f-9a7201913b78

Claims to be a RN. Arrived 45 min late (although she was keeping me informed) for our M&G at a bar. She arrives and txt's me to meet her out front. Spidey senses were already tingling, but I go out. She's sitting in the passenger side of a junker filled with garbage and a female "friend" driving. She goes - "I've just been smoking weed jump in the car". Even if the car was immaculate, I'm not jumping in right off the bat. Add the drugs (not judging just not my thing), and I told her I had a tab running and I'd wait for her inside. She never came into the bar.

I doubt she's a RN, and I'm pretty sure more than 'weed' is involved. She didn't look like her pics either. Although, the pics could have been from better days.

Have been in text contact with this one, she wants to come over for $$. Said everything is on the plate. However, thanks to this review above, definitely not following through. The pic on SA of her seems off too. I asked for real time selfie and she didn't response. Avoid.

**Jge096** · 12-09-18 17:45

I'm slowing down in my search. I've found some good prospects but I'm getting a lot more of the below.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9e6da...b-6affdfb00731

Messaged this one. She said thanks for the interest but my listed income on my profile (not reflective of my actual income) and she said she gets 1000 per meet. She's clearly hot and fit but she blocked me after that. Lmao.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b2602...7-d9ab396408eb

I'm not into dom / sub really but she had piqued my interest. She said she's "interviewing and taking applications" and asked my budget. I said 100-500 and she ghosted me.

**BikeRider** · 12-09-18 11:44

https://www.seeking.com/member/b3239...f-9a7201913b78

Claims to be a RN. Arrived 45 min late (although she was keeping me informed) for our M&G at a bar. She arrives and txt's me to meet her out front. Spidey senses were already tingling, but I go out. She's sitting in the passenger side of a junker filled with garbage and a female "friend" driving. She goes - "I've just been smoking weed jump in the car". Even if the car was immaculate, I'm not jumping in right off the bat. Add the drugs (not judging just not my thing), and I told her I had a tab running and I'd wait for her inside. She never came into the bar.

I doubt she's a RN, and I'm pretty sure more than 'weed' is involved. She didn't look like her pics either. Although, the pics could have been from better days.

**DildoBaggins77** · 12-08-18 19:35

Originally Posted by GoodNightBalt [View Original Post]

Yes. It is her.

If you guys say she's worthwhile, I'll give it a shot. Otherwise, the lack of conversational skills prior to meeting is off putting for me.

**GoodNightBalt** · 12-08-18 16:11

Originally Posted by DildoBaggins77 [View Original Post]

Is she Mayababyy226 on WYP? I've been talking to her on and off over text, if so. Remarkably dull conversation. Always reaches out to me, asks how my day was and says "Well that's good to hear!" I never bother, but she keeps reaching out. I didn't join these sites to chase you, dear, and you certainly aren't the only one with a lot of traffic.

Yes. It is her.

**EumYang** · 12-08-18 15:05

These two do not have usernames showing as of this writing:

1) https://www.seeking.com/member/adea0...b-44a4739f29f6
She's a HS senior in Westminster, and she says that she turned 18 in October. Seemed to be down for something physical, but then she claims to be a virgin. I have no interest in deflowering a virgin, so no.

2) https://www.seeking.com/member/8cc1c...a-e10cbd453991
She's a freshman at YCP in York, PA. She doesn't want anything physical. She says, "I'm more interested in talking with someone on a regular basis and having fun conversations. Since I'm so busy with college. I just need ways to pay for it." Um, that's not how it works, baby, LOL.