"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Snake27** · 08-10-18 08:03

Here is a summary of my experiences with an SB from "seeking.com" (SA) over the last 6 months. It's not meant as a review of a specific girl, but more as a story about what's possible on this site.

She is a very pretty slender AA college girl who in early March invited me to her dorm room during Spring break when her roomates were absent. Let me call her Nina. After her roomates came back, Nina invited me to meet her in a public space on campus late at night. We had sex in chairs, standing up, and on the floor. All meet-ups costed $200. We met like that twice until I told her I had to stop because it wasn't the experience I was looking for. (I figured she was more of a hooker and less of an SB, but I didn't put it like that.) After about a week, she texted me "Let's get a hotel. ".

This started a series of hotel dates where we met for about 30 minutes. The sex was fantastic and she's friendly and cheerful. She kissed me (DFK) and provided a GFE, which was intense but brief. Nina is afraid to be seen in public. We sometimes had dinner in the hotel, watched TV, and cuddled a bit. The conversation never got past small-talk, though, and she is not intellectual. Although only $200 (plus the cost of the hotel), I'm not very rich and I cannot sustain that for more than a few months, so I again stopped, and I was honest about why.

During the time I was on SA I observed that Nina logged in nearly every day and her profile said she wants either "long term" or "short term". During our break-up, she texted me every few days, that she "missed me" and how much she liked me, etc. Then late one night came the hard sell: "I wish we were fucking right now". I asked her what she was doing; she was in her apartment and her one roomate, who was sharing the apartment for the summer, was asleep in a separate bedroom. I ended up in her bedroom at 2 am, fucking like there was no tomorrow. One advantage of being old is that we realize there may actually be no tomorrow, which makes us more attentive and appreciative. Her pussy was so wet that I couldn't get much friction and I lasted a long time. We shook the bed so hard that the curtains fell down.

This started a series of late-night apartment visits, always after midnight to avoid her roomate. Nina was trying to save me the hotel costs. One night, though, her roomate came out to the kitchen area for a late night snack while we were in Nina's bedroom. We were pinned down for about an hour, whispering in the dark. Another night, just as I parked my car, the roomate came out of her bedroom, so I could not come in. Nina suggested we have sex in the car. I declined. I don't do car dates anymore and certainly not for $200. After that incident we went back to hotel visits for awhile, until I ran out of money again. We've been apart for a couple weeks now, but she told me she'd like me to come back when I can afford it. I don't really judge Nina for her promiscuity. After all, she's the same as me! And I don't think I can do better than her, so we'll see what happens.

**LogJammin18** · 08-10-18 07:37

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

Just found one of my old ATFs who had been at a couple of the agencies.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/sen...4-775f30f19fe0

You linked your message to her and not her profile BTW.

**Leep12** · 08-10-18 00:06

This one HMU on Sunday out of the blue with the message. "I suck a good D".

Got my monger minds attention, almost put something together with her but decided to pass as I have a pretty decent rotation now and she came off a little BP ish.

Sent a bunch or pics. And vids, pretty nice body and looked tight from the videos.

Def DTF without a lot of drama wanted everything covered, she is mobile, I offered 2 and she was looking for 3 with driving to Cobb. Maybe can probably strike a deal if you are on the south side.

Wanted some pics of me. Ok. Then a dick pic, a BP thing to make sure you are not police I guess. I asked will too big or small disqualify? LOL. She said small is even better. Kind of a flag that she is not really into the sex much IMO.

Might be worth a shot if you wanted to put a quick deal together for a sure thing.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0e749...0-12be1fc2ee8e

**Leep12** · 08-09-18 23:15

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

So what's the going rate these days for a 3 some? Is it whatever the normal rate is x2? Or is more expected? For instance, I understand 2 is normal so would 4 be reasonable? And does age matter? Say an 18-21 year old versus late 20's?

I would say 4 is about right especially if the two girls are used to working together. Some like working this way maybe they feel safer. Had some great experiences with this and some so-so.

**Airmantroy** · 08-09-18 22:54

Originally Posted by Gca393 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/0d2ee...3-cdf5e4aa9ee6

Guys I had some light conversations with this one and it looked TGTBT. There's a reason why "She" doesn't have her face in her pic. She sent me a pic and it looks to me like a man lady. If anyone wants to be brave and TOFTT and find out please feel free to do so.

She's 5'3" tall dude, that's one short "man" with some big ass fake tits if it is. I'd offer to meet in public and if she's taller than that just grab a bite and walk away.

**Snoopy6969** · 08-09-18 22:52

Originally Posted by Zipper34 [View Original Post]

So I met this german girl off SA yesterday and it all went well. We did it covered except for oral but she may be open to maybe seeing more guys but can only see people in the morning or afternoon. One thing I do have to tell is that she had this weird smell on her that I have smelled before that I couldn't make out. Not sure what it was or if it was even her because we were staying in a Super * hotel room but if you guys are interested in seeing her it could be an issue when you meet her.

Yes.

I met her several times. The first we met she didn't have a cover so I said what the heck, go bare and she let me do it. The rest of time, she would let me bare first then cover on for last 5 minutes. I enjoyed her but she was a bit hard to get a hold of as she baby sit her friend kids at night.

**Gca393** · 08-09-18 22:04

https://www.seeking.com/member/0d2ee...3-cdf5e4aa9ee6

Guys I had some light conversations with this one and it looked TGTBT. There's a reason why "She" doesn't have her face in her pic. She sent me a pic and it looks to me like a man lady. If anyone wants to be brave and TOFTT and find out please feel free to do so.

**DArrow404** · 08-09-18 16:53

Just found one of my old ATFs who had been at a couple of the agencies.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/sen...4-775f30f19fe0

**CrisAtl** · 08-09-18 07:49

I saw her once with a friend. It was just ok. She is very very skinny and definitely unreliable. Set up two additional meetings. Yes, off Metropolitan Pkwy. I get to he place she tells me to wait and texted her. She said wait a few minutes. 30 minutes later I bailed. Texted her I wasn't waiting any longer. She wanted to know why I was leaving. I don; t wait in a sketchy parking lot for a half hour for anyone. Tried again a few weeks later. Set time for 9 am next morning--drove down there again and she ghosted. Did not answer my texts or phone calls. Don't bother unless you want to be jacked around.

Originally Posted by CallMeTom [View Original Post]

I saw her maybe 6 months ago. Real sweet girl but is a little crazy (not in a bad way). We set a time one night for her to meet me at my hotel in Buckhead and I was getting her an Uber. Long story short, it ended up taking her forever to be ready, then when she got to the hotel, had to take a phone call for a while before she came up. Finally came up and she was a little shy. She's very very skinny. Can see the bones through her skin but very tight. BBBJ for as long as I wanted, 69, tasted good. Covered CG, RCG, doggy for a while. Then pounded her to finish in mish. Hung out for a while and BBBJCIM for the 2nd round. I would see her again and we have kept in touch just haven't synced up. She is definitely open to threesomes and will host once she knows you. Be nice to her.

**SurferDude7** · 08-09-18 06:49

Originally Posted by Zipper34 [View Original Post]

So I met this german girl off SA yesterday and it all went well. We did it covered except for oral but she may be open to maybe seeing more guys but can only see people in the morning or afternoon. One thing I do have to tell is that she had this weird smell on her that I have smelled before that I couldn't make out. Not sure what it was or if it was even her because we were staying in a Super * hotel room but if you guys are interested in seeing her it could be an issue when you meet her.

Was this the German girl?

https://www.seeking.com/member/6b3c2...6-29b129eb5860

If so how was everything?

**Zipper34** · 08-09-18 03:20

So I met this german girl off SA yesterday and it all went well. We did it covered except for oral but she may be open to maybe seeing more guys but can only see people in the morning or afternoon. One thing I do have to tell is that she had this weird smell on her that I have smelled before that I couldn't make out. Not sure what it was or if it was even her because we were staying in a Super * hotel room but if you guys are interested in seeing her it could be an issue when you meet her.

**CallMeTom** · 08-08-18 21:49

Originally Posted by TroyWess [View Original Post]

Anybody familiar with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a8089...3-681dd6545d76

She's been on the site for about a year and is online a lot. Says in her bio she's a nurse working on her master's. I decide to message her to see if she might be a legit hook-up (with gift) seeker. Normal enough conversation to start, then when I ask what part of town she's in she says Metropolitan right off Cleveland. Hmm, not where I'd expect to find this girl living. I tell her that's a little surprising then she goes quiet for a couple of days before coming back with "sorry, my phone got cut off. Can you help pay my phone bill?" Oh boy. "Nurse working on her master's" can't pay the phone bill. I go silent but she keeps asking. Then I tell her it seems a lot like a scam and she comes back asking why I'd say that, offering to call me from her roommate's phone, etc. Two big red flags that tell me to just move along. Anybody have any dealings with her?

I saw her maybe 6 months ago. Real sweet girl but is a little crazy (not in a bad way). We set a time one night for her to meet me at my hotel in Buckhead and I was getting her an Uber. Long story short, it ended up taking her forever to be ready, then when she got to the hotel, had to take a phone call for a while before she came up. Finally came up and she was a little shy. She's very very skinny. Can see the bones through her skin but very tight. BBBJ for as long as I wanted, 69, tasted good. Covered CG, RCG, doggy for a while. Then pounded her to finish in mish. Hung out for a while and BBBJCIM for the 2nd round. I would see her again and we have kept in touch just haven't synced up. She is definitely open to threesomes and will host once she knows you. Be nice to her.

**AtlEyez** · 08-08-18 18:25

Originally Posted by JustMikey [View Original Post]

I met her for a threesome with her girlfriend about a year or maybe a year and a half ago. Clean and fun. Nothing memorable. A nice double BBBJ, covered doggie and cowgirl from both, finished cim. No girl to girl action. I'm from SC and don't get to Atlanta all that often, so I never repeated. Such a shame that she seems to have gone downhill.

So what's the going rate these days for a 3 some? Is it whatever the normal rate is x2? Or is more expected? For instance, I understand 2 is normal so would 4 be reasonable? And does age matter? Say an 18-21 year old versus late 20's?

**JustMikey** · 08-08-18 17:03

Originally Posted by TroyWess [View Original Post]

Anybody familiar with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a8089...3-681dd6545d76

She's been on the site for about a year and is online a lot. Says in her bio she's a nurse working on her master's. I decide to message her to see if she might be a legit hook-up (with gift) seeker. Normal enough conversation to start, then when I ask what part of town she's in she says Metropolitan right off Cleveland. Hmm, not where I'd expect to find this girl living. I tell her that's a little surprising then she goes quiet for a couple of days before coming back with "sorry, my phone got cut off. Can you help pay my phone bill?" Oh boy. "Nurse working on her master's" can't pay the phone bill. I go silent but she keeps asking. Then I tell her it seems a lot like a scam and she comes back asking why I'd say that, offering to call me from her roommate's phone, etc. Two big red flags that tell me to just move along. Anybody have any dealings with her?

I met her for a threesome with her girlfriend about a year or maybe a year and a half ago. Clean and fun. Nothing memorable. A nice double BBBJ, covered doggie and cowgirl from both, finished cim. No girl to girl action. I'm from SC and don't get to Atlanta all that often, so I never repeated. Such a shame that she seems to have gone downhill.

**TroyWess** · 08-08-18 15:23

Originally Posted by SurferDude7 [View Original Post]

What types of credit cards have worked for SA membership, I was going to use a paypal mastercard, but I'm not sure if it will work. I went to look at prepaid visa, and so many choices, than monthly fees, idk which one would work for this, any advice?

I'd think anything Visa or MasterCard would work. I ended up getting a MOVO Card, which has no fees. I load funds on to it from a separate bank account. Works just fine.