"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**NewAnonymousName** · 07-29-18 08:10

Originally Posted by Isodt [View Original Post]

Anyone paid lately for SA? I know there are posts about pre-paid cards and such, just wanting to know if anyone has run into trouble with them lately? I don't want to go purchase one and then have it not work.

TIA.

About two weeks ago, I paid with a visa gift card that I purchased at Office Depot (or Max, I get those mixed up).

At the risk of stating the obvious. . . You have to register your gift card online with a fake name and address before you can use it to pay for your membership. I use the address of an office down the street from my actual office plus the same fake name I've used for years for mongering.

**Isodt** · 07-28-18 13:00

Anyone paid lately for SA? I know there are posts about pre-paid cards and such, just wanting to know if anyone has run into trouble with them lately? I don't want to go purchase one and then have it not work.

TIA.

**QuartJess** · 07-28-18 09:16

Originally Posted by NotNowJohn [View Original Post]

Was it about a 30 minute drive? I like older / mature women and she sounds great but that's a brutal drive. Thanks for the info.

Depends on where you're located. She's off of I-985 exit 20.

Not too far from Lake Shore mall in Gainesville.

**AtlEyez** · 07-28-18 09:11

Originally Posted by NotNowJohn [View Original Post]

Pics look real, but I am always suspicious of the "Atlanta" location. Atlanta is a big place and I always like to see something more specific, but I could just be an idiot.

I always ask "what part of town are you in?" early on and they get specific.

**NotNowJohn** · 07-28-18 02:11

Originally Posted by Han57 [View Original Post]

Like many of us, I signed up for 1 month on " Seeking Arrangements " web site this past May. I collected a good amount of names and numbers to keep me busy for a couple months. Anyhow, saw this gal that goes by the sugar baby name " Auggie" today. She lives in Gainesville and has apparently been on SA for at least 2 years now according to her. She is white, blonde hair, 50 years old, little thick but fit and in good shape for being 50. No I don't have a link because my subscription expired awhile ago, but she is still on the site. Not many gals from Gainesville, Ga. On site so should be easy to find.

Anyhow, I made the drive to Gainesville from Gwinnett Co. Auggie lives by herself in a nice gated apartment complex. Auggie has a regular job that she has been doing for 8 years now, she just likes to do the sugar baby thing on the side, for the sex and the extra income.

I arrived with bottle of wine in hand (her suggestion). We chatted and compared our SA experiences for like 30 minutes while sipping on wine. Then she led me to her bedroom. BBBJ was above average, she can take 'them deep.

Was it about a 30 minute drive? I like older / mature women and she sounds great but that's a brutal drive. Thanks for the info.

**NotNowJohn** · 07-28-18 01:50

Originally Posted by AllHailChet [View Original Post]

Has anyone met this chick? What was it worth it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/9592d...c-5ac5c2a8bad7

Pics look real, but I am always suspicious of the "Atlanta" location. Atlanta is a big place and I always like to see something more specific, but I could just be an idiot.

**AtlEyez** · 07-27-18 08:55

Originally Posted by TroyWess [View Original Post]

That's an interesting one. Don't think I've seen "saving myself for marriage" before. SA women I've talked to have run the gamut from offering $60 QV to being insulted that you think the $1 K they want for a date would include sex. It's nothing more than a platform to match people up. Profile pics and text, the "lifestyle expectation" and so forth offer clues, but there's no one definition of "arrangement". You just have to explore a lot to find good matches for what you're looking for. And, hey, if a woman can find a guy willing to pay to just hang out, or text, or whatever with no sex, more power to her. As long as there's not some bait and switch going on, I guess that's a dude's choice to make.

Thanks guys, I appreciate that. TroyWess, we are pretty much in line with our thinking. I've been at this for several months now and I finally met a sb yesterday for the first time. It was pretty interesting and not quite what I expected. However, we had a nice time and I'll probably see her again. I don't particularly kiss and tell, but I didn't leave disappointed.

Now, for something else. Have you, or any of you guys tried secretbenefits? I know the payment system is a little high, so you have to sort of get in there quickly and work something out to get your money's worth. But the standard of sb's are pretty much the same as SA's from what I can see. They also seem to get new ones more often then SA. I shut my profile down over there but am considering going back to a little stint. Thoughts? Anybody else have any experiences from there, positive or negative?

**AllHailChet** · 07-27-18 08:45

Has anyone met this chick? What was it worth it?

https://www.seeking.com/member/9592d...c-5ac5c2a8bad7

**SoonerFan72** · 07-26-18 17:07

Originally Posted by NGASugarMan [View Original Post]

Anyone else seeing her? Please PM me if you are, would like to compare notes Or post, either way it's fine with me.

Ludas.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2cff0...9-4cc2588a9285

Nothing bad at all, just wanted to see what $$ other were possibly getting.

I chatted with her a while back, she used to advertise being in Newnan. She seemed pretty legit from what I remember, she bailed when she found out I had a SO, she only wants single guys.

**TroyWess** · 07-26-18 15:41

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

That's an interesting one. Don't think I've seen "saving myself for marriage" before. SA women I've talked to have run the gamut from offering $60 QV to being insulted that you think the $1 K they want for a date would include sex. It's nothing more than a platform to match people up. Profile pics and text, the "lifestyle expectation" and so forth offer clues, but there's no one definition of "arrangement". You just have to explore a lot to find good matches for what you're looking for. And, hey, if a woman can find a guy willing to pay to just hang out, or text, or whatever with no sex, more power to her. As long as there's not some bait and switch going on, I guess that's a dude's choice to make.

**HalliknWolk** · 07-26-18 14:19

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

A lot women think that being a sb consist of spending a old rich mans money without having any type of sex. When I hear ladies say they want a sd I always say you know them sd got them blue skittles and going to want you to do more than just sit on their lap. If I was you I'd just keep going to the next instead of wasting time and funds.

**Airmantroy** · 07-26-18 13:33

Originally Posted by AtlEyez [View Original Post]

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

I'd guess she wants to sell you pics and videos.

As a general rule, the girls who are the best are the ones who look demure and have FWB in the text of their profile. The ones who are UTR pros / Semi Pro have revealing pics and are pretty straight forward in their profiles. Pay very little attention to the "Lifestyle expectation" a 19-25 yr old thinks $200/ wk is a lot of money. And to them that's extravagant.

**AtlEyez** · 07-26-18 06:18

Sorry for the double post, but here is an example of what I'm talking about:

https://www.seeking.com/member/e99f8...2-672dbe91321e

**AtlEyez** · 07-26-18 06:17

When you see some of these SB's profiles and they're dressed all provocative or showing off their ass and then they write "not here for sex" or something to that effect. Are they full of shit? Or are they just trying to sucker some poor schmuck to hope just MAYBE he might get what he wants but never does? As soon as they write something like that, I click on to the next one.

**Cmcae1** · 07-25-18 16:18

She hit me up as well. Asked for 4. Told her I tapped out at 2. She said ok and sent her #. I decided against it.

Originally Posted by NGASugarMan [View Original Post]

Hey Harpo 8.

These ones are a tough call. I wrote a guide of my experiences on SA a few months ago (and categorized the type of chicks on SA). I forgot to include this as a category. I ran into a girl with a similar MO, but she was staying in a hotel in Decatur. My gut tells me these are pro's, or borderline baby / pro's. Even if they are legit, they will be smart enough to use a burner or textfree phone number, and probably even a first name alias. You won't find them on Facebook or online phone search (most likely).

I would say pass personally. I've had plenty to choose from, and have had to weed out prospects. If you have a weak SA game, and are having trouble landing a genuine hot younger baby, I would absolutely take a chance. The two that I ran into in my two SA runs were younger and very attractive. Just make sure you host. I wouldn't take the chance of going to their hotel room, but that's just me.

BTW, I'm not knocking any ones SA game. It's just a very nuanced dance, and I've had more than my share of fuck ups.