Hey if anyone wants a really thin girl, look for shine in inland empire backpage, says she's 85 lbs and she looks pretty pale in her pics, iv texted her twice and both times says BB with recent test papers 30/200 and 60/300.
Why do you feel the need to tell me how to feel, what to want, what to write? I know how to enjoy myself. Been doing the mongering thing for 35 years. I did move on from Inga if you read my post. Other guys here might want to know WHY. Something about the girl through my experience. That's why we're here on this site. The way I enjoy sex is obviously different from you so to me it's NOT ridiculous. Not really sure what kind of argument you're trying so hard to make. I'd fuck a pound of warm liver if I cared only about something to wrap around my dick.
Speaking of 'moving on', it's time to move on from this tired topic. Less discussions involving back & forth bickering and more discussions involving in & out dickering. I'm off to see a new Kgirl at The Palace that has the look and vibe of a bb giver. Shall report back after the delicious deed is done.
We're all cool here. Seems like you all are agreeing from what I have been reading. BB sex is good, people do things for lots of different reasons, and we are sharing insights.
Let's make this more fun by giving out info on BB.
I might have something lined up with an LA Asian 8 that won't wreck the bank in Pasadena. I gots BIG nutz (even bigger than my hands).
Obviously. Not the point of my comment. I simply meant that it if you have a lame sexperience MOVE ON until you have a great one instead of lamenting on this forum about how one provider 'would be so awesome if she showed some emotion' etc. Kinda ridiculous. That's how she is. Either enjoy what you can about her or look elsewhere to get your needs met. Whatever they may be.
Why do you feel the need to tell me how to feel, what to want, what to write? I know how to enjoy myself. Been doing the mongering thing for 35 years. I did move on from Inga if you read my post. Other guys here might want to know WHY. Something about the girl through my experience. That's why we're here on this site. The way I enjoy sex is obviously different from you so to me it's NOT ridiculous. Not really sure what kind of argument you're trying so hard to make. I'd fuck a pound of warm liver if I cared only about something to wrap around my dick.
I'll throw in my two cents. Not like more is needed on this subject. I used to live in Pasadena so it was easy to pick her up and bring her over, saving a motel / hotel charge. Back then she wasn't doing incall. I did her probably 10 times as well for I think about a C note which was incredibly cheap. Yep, BB anal. Once in a while a vaginal cream pie. I pride myself on how I can connect well with providers. I'm real, honest and like to have genuine fun when spending time with them. I remember details about them, ask about things that matter to them and make the whole experience comfortable and easy. It makes MY experience better. This was the only woman I was completely unable to get through to. In my entire life, provider or civie. ONCE, I got her to laugh. That's as close to humanity she ever got. She may be an idiot savant since I know she is bright. Advanced business degree. Her plastic surgery obsession is toxic. I've spent hours watching the damn Food Channel with her too. Trying to elicit some kind of conversation but ultimately sitting in weird silence. At least at that time, she didn't care how long she spent with me. Not the behavior of someone seriously committed to that career path. It was an interesting test for me to really evaluate my mongering priorities. On one hand the positives were she was very cheap, allowed BB, BB anal, creampie, completely submissive, she was cute and had a very nice body. Couldn't ask for more. On the other hand her ONE negative was that her ability for human interaction was completely missing. It was a personal challenge to get through to her so I kept trying. In the end, that was enough to quit seeing her. I may be deeper than I thought. LOL.
She offered me Cookies tha she baked once. That has been the closest to any human interaction from her I have ever gotten.
Acceptance? You feel 'accepted' by a provider because she's willing to put her tongue in the mouth of a man she most likely wouldn't give the time of day to in 'real life' while letting him do things with her many providers won't allow and pretending to like him because she realizes that it's to her advantage financially due to all the lonely horny unattractive men out there who have difficulties getting laid by civie chicks and also need some female 'companionship' if even for an hour? Ok bro, whatever gets you through the night. I am the exact opposite of the descriptions I've read here about Inga. A very passionate expressive emotional sensual and romantic man. OF COURSE I love it when I click with a chick in a provider / customer type sitch and it feels 'real' instead of just a jizzness transaction! So your lecture on the reasons why men seek out and enjoy the GFE over a hump & dump was quite unneeded as I fully understand the added enjoymemt both physically mentally and sometimes even emotionally of being with a provider who makes a man able to possibly delude himself into believing she's really into him and his 'performance' with the exchange of money having little or nothing to do with it. It's the added allure of fantasy combined with the reality of banging a broad for bread. I get it and I like it. And my comment about how their lives played out had less to do with compassion and more to do with awareness. If I get with an Inga-like provider, I'm aware of the circumstances that more than likely led to her zombie-fied behavior so I simply chalk it up as an L and MOVE THE FUCK ON and hope the chemistry with the next sex worker is more to my liking.
Your meat and potatoes outlook on the hobby demonstrates little understanding of the nuances that come into play in the mind of modern man. You're just not seeing the big picture on what motivates us to do this in the first place. You're looking at the appearance of what things are instead of what they mean.
Acceptance? You feel 'accepted' by a provider because she's willing to put her tongue in the mouth of a man she most likely wouldn't give the time of day to in 'real life' while letting him do things with her many providers won't allow and pretending to like him because she realizes that it's to her advantage financially due to all the lonely horny unattractive men out there who have difficulties getting laid by civie chicks and also need some female 'companionship' if even for an hour? Ok bro, whatever gets you through the night. I am the exact opposite of the descriptions I've read here about Inga. A very passionate expressive emotional sensual and romantic man. OF COURSE I love it when I click with a chick in a provider / customer type sitch and it feels 'real' instead of just a jizzness transaction! So your lecture on the reasons why men seek out and enjoy the GFE over a hump & dump was quite unneeded as I fully understand the added enjoymemt both physically mentally and sometimes even emotionally of being with a provider who makes a man able to possibly delude himself into believing she's really into him and his 'performance' with the exchange of money having little or nothing to do with it. It's the added allure of fantasy combined with the reality of banging a broad for bread. I get it and I like it. And my comment about how their lives played out had less to do with compassion and more to do with awareness. If I get with an Inga-like provider, I'm aware of the circumstances that more than likely led to her zombie-fied behavior so I simply chalk it up as an L and MOVE THE FUCK ON and hope the chemistry with the next sex worker is more to my liking.
A Girlfriend Experience exists for a reason. Many guys enjoy the fantasy of an erotic one-night-stand where two strangers connect for mutual gratification, and then the guy goes back to life as usual without any reason to seek out that girl again. Most gals don't offer GFE's because they take it personally from an emotional standpoint. Sure, they'll put your dick in their mouth, but they'd eat live roaches before crossing tongues with you. For guys, it's easy peasy. French kissing has no personal meaning other than it's part of a heightened experience, and a brief fantasy that offers acceptance. As humans, our biggest fear is rejection, and our biggest need is acceptance. Getting a total stranger to offer herself by offering services she normally wouldn't is perceived by many as a giant sign of acceptance, which many men subconsciously take satisfaction from. It's part of our human nature. And once we have a woman's acceptance, we don't necessarily need them anymore. We move on to other gals to try and repeat that experience of acceptance. Otherwise, we'd be content in having a relationship exclusively with one woman.
I sense, Jizz, that to some degree, you're a male version of Inga. And so this experience for you is possibly very different than most men. You mention in your post something about how women's lives have played out. Well, that's just not a dynamic in the hobby for most men. Compassion for their lives is near the bottom of our concerns. Because there's no relationship, men can make this hookup all about themselves. Sure, many women are depressed and suffer, but a recent study showed that the majority of sex workers are actually quite happy.
Acceptance? You feel 'accepted' by a provider because she's willing to put her tongue in the mouth of a man she most likely wouldn't give the time of day to in 'real life' while letting him do things with her many providers won't allow and pretending to like him because she realizes that it's to her advantage financially due to all the lonely horny unattractive men out there who have difficulties getting laid by civie chicks and also need some female 'companionship' if even for an hour? Ok bro, whatever gets you through the night. I am the exact opposite of the descriptions I've read here about Inga. A very passionate expressive emotional sensual and romantic man. OF COURSE I love it when I click with a chick in a provider / customer type sitch and it feels 'real' instead of just a jizzness transaction! So your lecture on the reasons why men seek out and enjoy the GFE over a hump & dump was quite unneeded as I fully understand the added enjoymemt both physically mentally and sometimes even emotionally of being with a provider who makes a man able to possibly delude himself into believing she's really into him and his 'performance' with the exchange of money having little or nothing to do with it. It's the added allure of fantasy combined with the reality of banging a broad for bread. I get it and I like it. And my comment about how their lives played out had less to do with compassion and more to do with awareness. If I get with an Inga-like provider, I'm aware of the circumstances that more than likely led to her zombie-fied behavior so I simply chalk it up as an L and MOVE THE FUCK ON and hope the chemistry with the next sex worker is more to my liking.
Not looking for a girlfriend, just a BB Beauty that speaks and has facial expressions. Perhaps too subtle a point.
Obviously. Not the point of my comment. I simply meant that it if you have a lame sexperience MOVE ON until you have a great one instead of lamenting on this forum about how one provider 'would be so awesome if she showed some emotion' etc. Kinda ridiculous. That's how she is. Either enjoy what you can about her or look elsewhere to get your needs met. Whatever they may be.
Then it's either a one and done and you move on or you see her when you just want to creampie a chick with a body that turns you on instead of jerking it at home. Go to other providers for your 'meaningful connection' mate (which is more often than not just the girl exhibiting her thespian abilities). But bemoaning a woman who sells sex for a living not providing you with 'interaction' is kinda like complaining that your Big Mac doesn't have enough nutrients. I occasionally see this really skinny pretty submissive Japanese girl named Ami who behaves identically to the way you described this Inga chick and because of that I see her very rarely** only when the lust for sexing that hot little skinny Asian body hits me strong enough. I've got other girls to supply the more 'personal connection' stuff you're talking about. You're getting the baresies with a chick that has a thin sexy body and you're frustrated because she's not charmed by your knack for putting prostitutes at ease? C'Mon. Bro. You think these women's lives have played out the way they'd hoped? I'm surprised more of them aren't like her (which is why I prefer Asians. They seem less troubled by their trade even though I'm sure they must be on some level). But there are different girls for different needs which is the beauty of the hobby. As they say: variety is the spice of life.
A Girlfriend Experience exists for a reason. Many guys enjoy the fantasy of an erotic one-night-stand where two strangers connect for mutual gratification, and then the guy goes back to life as usual without any reason to seek out that girl again. Most gals don't offer GFE's because they take it personally from an emotional standpoint. Sure, they'll put your dick in their mouth, but they'd eat live roaches before crossing tongues with you. For guys, it's easy peasy. French kissing has no personal meaning other than it's part of a heightened experience, and a brief fantasy that offers acceptance. As humans, our biggest fear is rejection, and our biggest need is acceptance. Getting a total stranger to offer herself by offering services she normally wouldn't is perceived by many as a giant sign of acceptance, which many men subconsciously take satisfaction from. It's part of our human nature. And once we have a woman's acceptance, we don't necessarily need them anymore. We move on to other gals to try and repeat that experience of acceptance. Otherwise, we'd be content in having a relationship exclusively with one woman.
I sense, Jizz, that to some degree, you're a male version of Inga. And so this experience for you is possibly very different than most men. You mention in your post something about how women's lives have played out. Well, that's just not a dynamic in the hobby for most men. Compassion for their lives is near the bottom of our concerns. Because there's no relationship, men can make this hookup all about themselves. Sure, many women are depressed and suffer, but a recent study showed that the majority of sex workers are actually quite happy.
Then it's either a one and done and you move on or you see her when you just want to creampie a chick with a body that turns you on instead of jerking it at home. Go to other providers for your 'meaningful connection' mate (which is more often than not just the girl exhibiting her thespian abilities). But bemoaning a woman who sells sex for a living not providing you with 'interaction' is kinda like complaining that your Big Mac doesn't have enough nutrients. I occasionally see this really skinny pretty submissive Japanese girl named Ami who behaves identically to the way you described this Inga chick and because of that I see her very rarely** only when the lust for sexing that hot little skinny Asian body hits me strong enough. I've got other girls to supply the more 'personal connection' stuff you're talking about. You're getting the baresies with a chick that has a thin sexy body and you're frustrated because she's not charmed by your knack for putting prostitutes at ease? C'Mon. Bro. You think these women's lives have played out the way they'd hoped? I'm surprised more of them aren't like her (which is why I prefer Asians. They seem less troubled by their trade even though I'm sure they must be on some level). But there are different girls for different needs which is the beauty of the hobby. As they say: variety is the spice of life.
Oh Ami, wish I could bone her one more time her pussy was so tight. An ex-gf and me did a threesome with her and boy she loves eating pussy but in one of our 1 on 1 sessions I accidentally creampie her and she stopped answering my calls.
You clearly haven't seen her, Jizz. What makes a session erotic is the human connection. Banging Inga has its benefits because of her thin, lovely body, but doing the deed with her is akin to fucking a blow-up doll. There is no interaction, no sounds, nothing but dead weight from an empty vessel. Has nothing to do with OK Cupid and everything to do with a sharing an erotic moment out of time.
Then it's either a one and done and you move on or you see her when you just want to creampie a chick with a body that turns you on instead of jerking it at home. Go to other providers for your 'meaningful connection' mate (which is more often than not just the girl exhibiting her thespian abilities). But bemoaning a woman who sells sex for a living not providing you with 'interaction' is kinda like complaining that your Big Mac doesn't have enough nutrients. I occasionally see this really skinny pretty submissive Japanese girl named Ami who behaves identically to the way you described this Inga chick and because of that I see her very rarely** only when the lust for sexing that hot little skinny Asian body hits me strong enough. I've got other girls to supply the more 'personal connection' stuff you're talking about. You're getting the baresies with a chick that has a thin sexy body and you're frustrated because she's not charmed by your knack for putting prostitutes at ease? C'Mon. Bro. You think these women's lives have played out the way they'd hoped? I'm surprised more of them aren't like her (which is why I prefer Asians. They seem less troubled by their trade even though I'm sure they must be on some level). But there are different girls for different needs which is the beauty of the hobby. As they say: variety is the spice of life.
Well, no site is perfect, but GG's site is one of the better one's I've been on. And I've been on a lot of sites. I think we've hit a bit of a wall because there's really only so many gals that offer BBFS.
I was on an amazing private site that primarily had gals in NYC. A lot of these gals would come to LA. They were all trophy fucks, very expensive the clientele was basically wealthy gents. I only got in because some rich dude vouched for me. But even this list had its share of egos, drama queens and snobs. Eventually the board consisted of the same gals who'd been on there for years, which made it a bit routine and it shut down after 6 years.
I'm a bit of an outsider because the forum you recently left is HX-centric. I experienced nothing but drama at HX (I was there in 2008-2009 when it began)
, and interestingly enough, I signed up this week for HX and the place had really changed. Not as many gals, you have to pay to reach out to gals, still a lot of
drama. I reached out to 3 women that know me and a couple of them made me jump through hoops to get a safety rating. Others were questioning
if I'm a cop. So after three days on HX I'm ready to delete my account once again.
If you delete your account, that would be one of many defected from that board.
But it still evolves anyways, especially the young and dumb come in with no knowledge of HX. Of course a booker makes a profile for them.
Example QOD group. Recruits young ladies out of Cal State Northridge. Also she pays a lady who works for her, 1500.00 if they bring in a recruit. Amazing!
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