"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[JZLizard]

What the hell going on SA? Since I renewed my account yesterday, got 20+ messages from girls from all over the country. Even few of them from fareast. Does any one has this problem. I am in middle of country, Oklahoma City, no where near Cali or NY.

I suspect it's a growing industry. The other day I saw my gf watching the Dr Phil show, there was this blonde bimbo on their talking about sugar babying, claiming she would get something like ten grand per date, no sex companionship only, with old guys (sometimes 90 she said), and she got her mom into it. Dr. Phil wasn't buying the no sex BS.

Later in the show the founder of SA appeared (and here's the reason I'm replying), he said that membership had grown 500%+ since the scandal involving the Google exec's heroin overdose with that nasty hooker posing as an SB and using SA to snag men. He did not comment on whether the male to female ratio stayed constant throughout that 500% growth cycle, which was the statistic I was most interested in. Maybe it worked in our favor and there are more females joining? I'm not sure if that's good or not, because it may mean that killing executives with drug needles appealed to them. LOL.

I have to admit, I worry about the SB / SD industry getting too high on the radar such that it becomes the territory for federal law crackdowns. I personally never do anything illegal in the SD world, but it's very clear that a lot of folks do not properly distinguish sugar babys from pros, especially the pros themselves who would like to use it as an alternative (and as they perceive, safer for now) mechanism for landing johns.

This is one reason that I sometimes seem like I'm on a crusade to educate the public about the differences between true SBs and pros. Because if it becomes cloudy in the eyes of lawmakers, they will just start sending out the hounds to shut it all down, hook line and sinker. And that's not good for anyone.

[HollywoodGuy]

For now it sounds good. But she will start asking for more and more. I guess some have to learn the hard way.

I always stay on budget. Which has been 3 k a month for the last 2 years (including bonuses, hotel rooms and food)(only gas is excluded). Even with the bonuses I still get 20 to 25 dates a month for my money. Some are one and two hour, some are 24 hour. And is she one of the smart ones? Maybe. But I see she has most of her bills covered. Also I don't bonus any girl unless it goes 6 months or more. I also make sure a large percentage of all donations go to beauty treatments, clothes etc. Which are only purchased with my approval. As I have a very specific way I like my girls to look and dress. This is why I go the NP route. I can exert a far greater degree of control over the relationship, the sex, and the frequency and all with the little barbie types I seem to prefer. With an escort, AMP or UTR you are going to have a cut and dried, fixed amount business transaction. With NP's you have to be flexible. I really don't care if I over pay one as long as there is another one being under paid to offset the balance (I have one I pay zero). It's only my total monthly budget I care about. And that never changes. At the moment that girl is prorated out to only .5 a date. It will definitely go up, but not over $ a date for the first 6 months, if it even goes that far.

[SkinJr]

So I decided awhile back I was done with sb sites. Way too much time and energy trying to catch sbs. I let sa and my hushed number expire. I made it a couple weeks before I had to login to sa and see the new tail available.

So for two weeks I've been grinding it out. Several are wanting to meet but none are really hot. Then a hot coed agrees to drive 1 1/2 hours to see me. No discussion of sugar. She texts me around the time she should be leaving school. But then radio silence. Same day a local hot coed signs up, I immediately message her, she agrees to meet near college after class but never shows. The next day, today, she apologizes that she picked up a friend from the er. So now I'm getting really disgruntled again.

I am traveling today. I stop by to see one of the eager girls. I've been stalking her fb and she is cuter on fb than sa. I arrive and she's not what I want but doable. We hang out for an hour but I leave with nothing she has to get ready for work. I text her that she stop by my place after work and she agrees.

Then as I'm leaving a girl I've been messaging briefly for five days says she's available for dinner. I agree to a restaurant and then she tells me her address so I can pick her up. Interesting.

She is very demure acting and nervous. But smoking hot. Black with long straight hair and full lips 5'7" 125 lbs tiny but large breasts. We go to restaurant and everything is ok. We swing by some of my rental properties and in the driveway I ask for a kiss. We kiss some more. We sit there some and she goes "I will go in with you this time and check it out". Inside the house we start kissing. She leads me to couch and tells me to undo pants. And she's working BBBJ like crazy. 1 1/2 hours of crazy anything goes with her screaming "daddy" then CIM.

I read HGs post down below and I thought we had the same girl but I'm in sc.

She never asked for sugar. She actually got out of truck without any but I called her back. We talked about me picking her up again later.

She was prefect. She would do anything and never complained. At the end she worked it for 15 minutes straight and never slowed down. I had to pull it out of her mouth.

She could be ATF if I knew she wasn't utr or working. She stays at home so I don't think so and she's only been on sa for 2 months.

[TravelinSD]

I travel a fair amount for business, so if my schedule allows I usually try and find an SB companion for at least 1 night on my trips. I've had pretty good luck at this, with only 1 experience I would consider a dud if we made it to the FC. Last week I sent out requests to a bunch of potentials in the city I was traveling to. One of the profiles mentioned that they were a pair and would only see someone as a pair. I sent a message to her and she responded. During our texting she said that her and her friend were an actual couple in a long-term relationship. I have had escort 3-somes in the past, but I always found them lacking in passion and real sexuality. There's nothing that turns me on more than seeing two women making out with each other and I just never sensed real passion my past experiences. The requested compensation was way beyond what I was comfy with for an SB type thing so I declined. She was really sweet and nice in our text exchanges and assured me a great time (who hasn't heard THAT before? I got to thinking that by escort standards it was really kind of a deal. I texted her back with a few conditions, min 2 hours, they are totally interactive, pics, etc. She agreed to the conditions and we were on. I have to admit I was preparing for a set-up. I've been around the block a few times and this just seemed TGTBT. On the day of I almost canceled a few times, but we got into a text conversation where she was asking a lot about me and I just got the sense they were on the up and up.

Finally the hour arrived and they showed up at my door. The one I had been communicating with was a very attractive slim blonde, her friend was a little on the thicker side, but not fat by any standards. We sat down, had a glass of wine and they related their story. They had both only been with men until they met each other. They worked in the same place, became friends, and then lovers. They said they sometimes missed having a man and decided together was the way to do it while making some $$$ at the same time. Eventually we just kind of looked at each other and it was on! In 10 seconds I could see they weren't lying. I've never seen two women in all the porn I've watched as hungry for each other as these two were. And the best thing hungry for me too! The next 2+ hours were a flurry of kissing, licking, sucking and f*ing. The thicker one was particularly sexual and just couldn't get enough dick. They both were incredible kissers. It was a totally amazing experience! Well into my top 5 experiences and possibly 1 or 2. They claim to be very picky about who they see, only having one other regular, but who knows if that's true. Although everything else she told be certainly turned out to be true, LOL I'm back down in that area in January and can not wait to see them again.

Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.

Good hunting,

Travelin.

[DogSun]

Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.

Good hunting,

Travelin.

If it was worth it to you, that's all that matters.

[Rouleur]

No one cares. Enough already with the soap opera. And she's playing you like a fiddle.

There is no soap in Hollywood's opera. I sure as hell do care and if Hollywood's new SB thinks she is playing him, she better find another instrument. I don't get your negative attitude at all. This particular branch of the USAsexguide tree is filled with Men all supporting each other with both information and entertainment. Hollywood has been there done that so many times that if there was a phd in SugarDaddying he would have a Ph-Double Dee! The best part of all? He shares his wisdom with no condescending attitude. So you are welcome to use the "ignore" feature that the Admins have so generously provided each one of us non paying members of this site. In the meantime, you don't speak for me, and I'll keep on looking for any post Hollywood writes as I know I'm in for some entertainment and wisdom when found.

[TravelinSD]

I travel a fair amount for business, so if my schedule allows I usually try and find an SB companion for at least 1 night on my trips. I've had pretty good luck at this, with only 1 experience I would consider a dud if we made it to the FC. Last week I sent out requests to a bunch of potentials in the city I was traveling to. One of the profiles mentioned that they were a pair and would only see someone as a pair. I sent a message to her and she responded. During our texting she said that her and her friend were an actual couple in a long-term relationship. I have had escort 3-somes in the past, but I always found them lacking in passion and real sexuality. There's nothing that turns me on more than seeing two women making out with each other and I just never sensed real passion my past experiences. The requested compensation was way beyond what I was comfy with for an SB type thing so I declined. She was really sweet and nice in our text exchanges and assured me a great time (who hasn't heard THAT before? I got to thinking that by escort standards it was really kind of a deal. I texted her back with a few conditions, min 2 hours, they are totally interactive, pics, etc. She agreed to the conditions and we were on. I have to admit I was preparing for a set-up. I've been around the block a few times and this just seemed TGTBT. On the day of I almost canceled a few times, but we got into a text conversation where she was asking a lot about me and I just got the sense they were on the up and up.

Finally the hour arrived and they showed up at my door. The one I had been communicating with was a very attractive slim blonde, her friend was a little on the thicker side, but not fat by any standards. We sat down, had a glass of wine and they related their story. They had both only been with men until they met each other. They worked in the same place, became friends, and then lovers. They said they sometimes missed having a man and decided together was the way to do it while making some $$$ at the same time. Eventually we just kind of looked at each other and it was on! In 10 seconds I could see they weren't lying. I've never seen two women in all the porn I've watched as hungry for each other as these two were. And the best thing hungry for me too! The next 2+ hours were a flurry of kissing, licking, sucking and f*ing. The thicker one was particularly sexual and just couldn't get enough dick. They both were incredible kissers. It was a totally amazing experience! Well into my top 5 experiences and possibly 1 or 2. They claim to be very picky about who they see, only having one other regular, but who knows if that's true. Although everything else she told be certainly turned out to be true, LOL I'm back down in that area in January and can not wait to see them again.

Now, the bad part. By this board's standards I know you're going to think I was nuts, but I agreed to $750 for my time with them. That's waaaay above what I normally give SBs for my out of town dates. The way I looked at it though, top level escort doubles get minimum $600 per hour and I've never seen under $1000 for two hours. These girls were way beyond any escort doubles I've been with and were there for way over 2 hours. Where would we be without a good rationalization every day? Haha Anyway, in mind mind well worth the cash.

Good hunting,

Travelin.

[GetLost]

Sex three days in a row and three times in one day all for $.6 total. She can play that tune forever. I guess your profile name says it all. LOL

For now it sounds good. But she will start asking for more and more. I guess some have to learn the hard way.

[TravelinSD]

The same thing just happened to me lately and in the past when my subscription ran out. I think that as your subscription nears its end SA makes your profile appear higher or more featured in searches. This is to generate more messages to you to entice you to renew. Just my theory. They at least seem real for the most part. When I was an SD4 M member I constantly received obvious spam messages. The give away was well written profiles with messages in terrible, awkward english.

Good hunting,

Travelin.

What the hell going on SA? Since I renewed my account yesterday, got 20+ messages from girls from all over the country. Even few of them from fareast. Does any one has this problem.

I am in middle of country, Oklahoma City, no where near Cali or NY.

[Indian Chief]

What the hell going on SA? Since I renewed my account yesterday, got 20+ messages from girls from all over the country. Even few of them from fareast. Does any one has this problem.

I am in middle of country, Oklahoma City, no where near Cali or NY.

[HollywoodGuy]

No one cares. Enough already with the soap opera. And she's playing you like a fiddle.

Sex three days in a row and three times in one day all for $.6 total. She can play that tune forever. I guess your profile name says it all. LOL

[HollywoodGuy]

After two very sexy car dates I finally got to pick up my girl and bring her back to the FC. We had an amazing 5 hour date and spent about half the time fucking. Went three rounds. Starting on the makeover tomorrow.

I actually got her true height and weight. She is 5'11" and 118 with mini curves. The tallest spinner I have ever dated. In the past 5'7" has always been my limit, but her body is so insane I don't care. A 24 inch waist with a six pack. After three dates she is a 7/10/10/10. But that's in spinner stats. Sexually she is making me forget about random girls and my x all in just 3 days. She had only been with one guy the last 5 years and was celibate for 2 months when I met her. We are both rebound dating so the timing is perfect.

Just a normal girl that's ready for daddy to turn her into the porn star princess she really is. So far the first three dates have set me back $.6 Half of that is for her nail appt tomorrow.

[JZLizard]

You know you have been doing this a long time when you message a girl and she says you have already gone out on a date with her. LOL. Now I keep a spreadsheet. But it only goes back two or three years.

I had something like this happen once in the civy world. I went to dinner with this hot little Asian single mom. I was into her looks, but she had a really strong Massachusetts accent that wasn't working for me, and it seemed like I might be a little too wild for her -- not that I really am but this was at the height of my bar hopping days, whereas she was more the type of conservative working professional that just went home after work, read a book and cared for her kid. At the worst part of the date, I completely forgot her first name, and called her by the wrong name (it took me three tries to remember her actual name). She was visibly unimpressed (if not shaken a little) and I guess took it as a sign I wasn't into her or that I was juggling too many females at the time. We mutually concluded it was not a personality match. Then about 1. 5 years later I contacted her by accident, thinking her profile was new (she had different pictures and I didn't recognize her). After she told me about herself, I said "oh I remember you, we met for dinner at. " etc. Surprisingly, her response was along the lines of "oh yeah, I remember you -- call me sometime if you want to hang out". This shocked the hell out of me because I thought forgetting her name was a deal breaker, and she was also putting out a vibe like she might be a little more open to meeting me halfway between our two lifestyles (perhaps resulting in a casual fuckbuddy type deal).

So I guess from that experience I learned that it's good to not burn bridges, keep past contacts open with an eye for future opportunities.

[Dolato]

Met up with a 25 year old with a few extra pounds today. She was someone unique for me in that we didn't chat a whole lot prior. Still going to college said she just needed some extra cash and she suggested a fee that hollywood guy would approve of. She sent me a pic that actually suggested she was older than heavier. I debated for about a week whether to proceed. But I went ahead and glad I did. She was actually pretty cute in person and looked her real age. She should really consider a different pic, LOL. After a brief chat, we go to FC, and talk a little more but then get right down to it. Basically everything but anal although she did not object to a digit in her ass. She seemed to enjoy I the sex although also seemed a little embarrassed afterwards. I will likely see her again.

All in all, a pretty good way to spend an afternoon.

That poor picture choice of hers may have kept others away.

And that single digit in the ass can become 2 after you've gotten her relaxed and used to it. Anal may not be completely off the table.

[Dandy Don]

Met up with a 25 year old with a few extra pounds today. She was someone unique for me in that we didn't chat a whole lot prior. Still going to college said she just needed some extra cash and she suggested a fee that hollywood guy would approve of. She sent me a pic that actually suggested she was older than heavier. I debated for about a week whether to proceed. But I went ahead and glad I did. She was actually pretty cute in person and looked her real age. She should really consider a different pic, LOL. After a brief chat, we go to FC, and talk a little more but then get right down to it. Basically everything but anal although she did not object to a digit in her ass. She seemed to enjoy I the sex although also seemed a little embarrassed afterwards. I will likely see her again.

All in all, a pretty good way to spend an afternoon.