"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[JZLizard]

Brother Lizard what's the damage for these hotties you ha been scoring with. What are you paying them? And is it all by the visit or an allowance? How about the 10 you just fucked how much did you give her? And have you gotten any pushback from any of them?

Awesome job.

Revvo.

Apologies Revvo -- I just realized I failed to answer your final question about pushback. So far in all but one case I've sent after the fact texts asked these girls for how they think the date went overall. So far the response has been along the lines of thanking me for the "generous" gift, so I assume there has been no problems thus far with amount I've been giving. I will also say though that none of these girls has really been catering to my sexual needs the way a service provider might (an escort or a masseuse at an AMP might ask or care about what I want, but the SBs I've seen often go so far as to tell me what they want me to do to them in order for them to cum!) I'm the type that likes to please them too, so if they tell me that keeping intense tongue action on their clit will help them cum then I take one for the team and forget about my own pleasure long enough to get the job done (even in a 69 position, most girls don't do a great job of sucking cock when they are focusing on their own orgasm, its kind of a give and take dance in my experience). I'm saying this because maybe they take this into overall consideration when evaluating whether the amount paid was satisfactory?

Only twice have I ever made the mistake of talking about money before we fucked. One time it precluded me from meeting the girl at all due to her ridiculous idea of how much renting her c*nt was worth, and the other time was the failed M&G I posted about a couple of posts back, where we met and then started money talk afterword. I don't mean talking about money before hand is a mistake for everyone, but it does appear to be for me. What I've found works best is to tell them let's meet for dinner and see if there is an attraction there we can work with. After a couple of cocktails they are ready for marathon fucking in all cases so far except that one that I documented. I think I am fairly good at capturing their interest and making the date fun enough that they are willing to shed panties and play "what's behind curtain number 3" (the curtain being the proverbial money envelope), not knowing if the price is right or not or how much they will get after all is said and done. Hehe. The strategy doesn't work if the girl just isn't into me like the blonde I recently wrote about. I found out later from viewing her facebook that she is apparently lovers (bisexual? She likes dudes too based on pics) with another girl that I was talking to about a potential M&G! That's the scary thing, it's like they were both playing me but without letting me know they knew each other. Yet neither one of them were smart enough to remove their real names from their email so I was basically able to see everything about both of their lives and their relationship over the last 3 years or so. LOL.

Interestingly though on the topic of payment, I had one M&G turn into an awesome fuck session with a stunner, only to have her get mad at me and leave in a huff without even taking her gift. She was actually pissed that I tried to pay her. I talked to her later and found out she was looking for sort of a long-term thing and a place to live at the end of the month (something she never told me). She knew over dinner it wasn't possible with me because I told her about my living situation. She still opted to follow me up to the FC and show me a time that was something on the order of a porn movie, yet got pissed at me afterward anyway. Got to love female logic.

[JZLizard]

Brother Lizard what's the damage for these hotties you ha been scoring with. What are you paying them? And is it all by the visit or an allowance? How about the 10 you just fucked how much did you give her? And have you gotten any pushback from any of them?

Awesome job.

Revvo.

I've only paid per visit so far.

The 10 is different from all the rest. I gave her 500 because we were together for more than half a day (plus multiple fuck session), she had driven 2 hrs each way to see me without even telling me about the commute she faced before hand, she refused gas money when she needed to refill her vehicle, and she never once mentioned or indicated money, the need for it, or anything else like that. Unlike some others her dinner and drink orders were modest as well. Plus I just felt it was fair considering who she was as a person and what she really brought to me on that day, and the fact I would never see her again.

The rest probably average $.5 to $$ not including activities and lodging (dinners, drinks, hotel, etc) which often costs more than the girl, but of course I am typically the consumer of at least half those other activities.

Right now my SB season is pretty much over (GF has returned), so I'm keeping an eye out for one who is not too far away, can host, and will take care of me during discrete daytime visits. I'm sure it won't be easy to find what I'm looking for. I do have one really nice prospect (super hottie single mom) but she doesn't live by herself right now, so that would involve getting a hotel if I sneak away to meet her.

[Revvo]

I would do things similarly if I were operating at higher volumes. For me, the SB season is a only few weeks out of the year, so I treat it like one long vacation. Probably a good 45 bucks of that bill was all me. She was the type that probably would have liked to skipped dinner altogether and just talked money up front -- just a call girl who hasn't accepted what she is yet really. I like finding the ones that don't have it down to a science yet, and wining and dining them is all part of warming up to the final act. A lot of types dinner + hotel costs me more than the girl does, but then I enjoy good food and nice hotels so I get something out of that too.

If I were able to do this year round I would have to completely reprioritize my spending.

Brother Lizard what's the damage for these hotties you ha been scoring with. What are you paying them? And is it all by the visit or an allowance? How about the 10 you just fucked how much did you give her? And have you gotten any pushback from any of them?

Awesome job.

Revvo.

[Graham111]

Been feast and famine...you guys know the drill.

SB15, the college cutie I took it easy on first date, agreed to a follow-on slumber party. Then went silent a dew days before. Next I see her on all the usual web sites. SA, SD4 M, AF. So she has gone big time. Oh well. One got away.

SB14 - the young starfish. Texts me late one night she needs sugar. I tell her you will get no sleep! She says Ok and sure enough, not much sleep. I was absolutely worn out at work the next day but certainly got my moneys worth this time.

SB13 - the MILF. Has been sporadic. I had moved on to SB15 but needed her when plans fell thorough. She needs the $ so about once a month is ok. She asks for more but I just tell her I am busy.

All other long term prospects have gone silent.

So working CL, have two M&G this week. Like Hollywood I set $ expectations up front to avoid wasting anyone's time. We shall see.

For the record...lot's of emails sent. 155 contacts exchanging info. About 30 M&Gs. 15 successful SB. Only three 3-holers! Where are the backdoor gals!

[JZLizard]

I always state my donation and expectations in my intro letter to avoid $70 dates plus drinks. Which is basically the cost of just going straight to the FC. I might get a lot of rejection but I save a whole lotta time.

I would do things similarly if I were operating at higher volumes. For me, the SB season is a only few weeks out of the year, so I treat it like one long vacation. Probably a good 45 bucks of that bill was all me. She was the type that probably would have liked to skipped dinner altogether and just talked money up front -- just a call girl who hasn't accepted what she is yet really. I like finding the ones that don't have it down to a science yet, and wining and dining them is all part of warming up to the final act. A lot of types dinner + hotel costs me more than the girl does, but then I enjoy good food and nice hotels so I get something out of that too.

If I were able to do this year round I would have to completely reprioritize my spending.

[HollywoodGuy]

I mentioned a few weeks ago, that as a relatively new SD, I had a 100% success rate (straight to the FC after dinner on first date). I also mentioned that I new I would not be able to maintain that as I gained experience. It happened recently, my winning streak was broken. I wrote about it once before here and my message mysteriously went missing without explanation, and hopefully that was a fluke.

She's early 20's, blonde, seriously smoking body. Basically we had texted each other after a brief exchange online, and set up a date for a week night. Her communication was surprisingly reliable / mature / prompt for her age, as I've noticed a lot of wishy-washy behavior below the age of 25 or so and she was not like this. We set up a date based on her work schedule, she told me which day she didn't have to work and I suggested the night before. Why? Because I think it increases my chances of not having to hear "I need to go, I have to work tomorrow". If they want to cut the date short then fine but don't use work as an excuse. Work is overrated anyway.

So we met for dinner -- she was a little late. Dinner went well (set me back $70 or so) and we decided to go bar hopping and have some drinks. Problem was, she picked the bars and they were all extremely loud (too much so for small talk). About 20 minutes into it, I made the mistake of answering a text on my phone. That inspired her to pull her phone out, where she proceeded to text someone. A few minutes later, she says she "needs to go soon". Well, okay, I can't make someone continue a date they don't want to be on.

So as we walked out to the parking lot she suggests we get together the next day -- she doesn't have to work. I said "huh? Tonight was supposed to be our date. I'm not a mid-afternoon date kind of guy." And I basically proceeded to tell her that I make all my decisions based on what happens on the first date. She jokingly said something to the effect that I wasn't going to have much luck with that strategy, and I just disagreed. I basically said no I have plans for the next day (and I wasn't bluffing) and I wasn't going to see her during the day even though it "worked better for her because her energy level was better". She knew many days in advance when our date was and she should have had her shit together.

So after we part ways, she starts texting me, saying if I wanted to sleep with her, I should have let her know. I said of course I wanted to, and she said sure but there is a price. Well that kind of rubbed me the wrong way because thus far, I have never discussed money with any of these girls. I treat it like its any other date, we fuck, then I give them a gift because I want to the next morning. So she wants to play high priced rolodex call girl apparently. I basically told her it should be obvious that there would be financial help involved, but that when it came to sex I had no doubt she would be enjoying me as much as I would be enjoying her, so she should consider the gift as kind of a bonus and not the end game.

Well needless to say she didn't appreciate that one. She started saying she's never been offered less than an amount that is about what most girls would consider a monthly allowance amount, yet for one night. I told her that I'm still fortunate enough to find girls that fuck because they like to fuck and find something appealing about me, and she can look elsewhere for her demands that are more than a pornstar makes in a professional day of work. I just wasn't buying what she was selling, figuratively or literally.

To be honest, looking back there was a red flag I didn't notice early on. Usually I look for positive reactions to my photos -- comments of varying levels of enthusiasm expressing their attraction. I've found a direct correlation between how attracted they are to me and how eager they are to fuck. This girl said something I had not yet heard: "You're not unattractive by any means"... LOL!! She didn't say this until of course after the date during the wrap up conversation, but then it dawned on me she never really expressed any sort of attraction before that. When I sent her photos she would say "thanks" or "nice pic" but never anything flattering or complementary.

So, I mostly wanted to document this moment for posterity and for my own recollection later. I need to learn to read their vibe better. Unfortunately being only an "occasional" SD (whenever my girlfriend travels, which is not often enough), leaves me to learn some things the hard way. Well there, it is, my first unsuccessful M&G.

I always state my donation and expectations in my intro letter to avoid $70 dates plus drinks. Which is basically the cost of just going straight to the FC. I might get a lot of rejection but I save a whole lotta time.

[JZLizard]

Report #1 was about a date that went dud. This one was the opposite. Literally the day after the girl I described in report #1, I had a second POT SB lined up.

She. Rocked. My. World.

Her photos looked amazing, but she shows up and in person looks infinitely better than photos. Mid 20's, gorgeous from head to toe, one of those women that just has a charm that you can sense from 50 feet away. She had gotten lost on the way to the restaurant, and when she finally arrived she threw her arms around me like we'd known each other forever and the adventure began.

You experienced daddies might have had this before, but it was new by me. Perfect face, perfect body, but above all the personality and brains to match. The total package on every level. The chemistry between us, the things we had in common, it seemed almost too good to be true, but I've been there before in my civvy dating life, so I know a good match when I see one... The first girl I met that I had chemistry with like this I ended up marrying! Girls like this are few and far between.

She was the kind of woman I could never get bored talking to, or fucking, or just hanging out with. Just the total package. We went out to a couple of nightclubs after dinner, and multiple young bucks were making their pass at her whenever I left to get a drink or take a piss. I watched her from across the room to see how she would react -- she looked at these guys like "are you kidding me? Fuck off loser! I'm with my man" even though she didn't know I was watching. The night could not have been any more perfect, she knew how to treat her man.

Back at the hotel she was as horny as you'd want your SB to be. I did notice that her sexual behavior seemed a bit on the sweet / affectionate side, more so than I usually want in a casual encounter. In between sessions I even asked her not to be afraid to unleash her "naughty sltty" side that I knew she had She just giggled.

Throughout the night, while sleeping, I would sometimes wake up to find her running her fingers across my shoulders / arms / chest, kissing my shoulder lightly, snuggling, etc. It was a true girlfriend experience night for me and apparently a boyfriend experience for her. I got the impression that she might be sizing me up for sort of a long-term boyfriend type situation (and if you've read my posts here before, you may know I'm already in a committed relationship).

The next morning, I told her that she greatly exceeded my expectations of who I could meet from an SB site. I told her she was more like girlfriend or soulmate material than just an SB, but I said unfortunately I'm not in a position to offer anything like that because my heart already belonged to someone from a prior relationship (I didn't tell her I'm still in that relationship, I just didn't have the heart). She did not act disappointed, she said she also is still emotionally attached to someone who treated her badly and is having trouble getting over him. I mostly just wanted to make clear that we would probably never see each other again (but I didn't tell her it was because my sugar daddying season, at least for this year, was about to come to an end).

She stayed with me until the next afternoon. I missed her the instant she left. We've texted each other minimally since then, but it seems fully understood we'll never see each other again. God... what an awesome girlfriend she will be for someone else.

Anyway, the thing that troubled me the entire night is what troubles me now... There is no way a night like that cannot have an impact on my current relationship. Same was true when I used to be married -- I cheated so many times, yet never got caught, yet the cheating still took it's toll and cost me the marriage over the long run. It just does something to me inside that affects how I see my existing partner. It takes something away that I don't want to lose.

I feel like this night, and meeting this particular SB, has negatively impacted my relationship with my GF and that is not a good thing. I'm still going through withdrawal now, trying to return to normal. I do look forward to my next "sugar daddying" season, perhaps in a few months or maybe next year, but I hope to keep things as just casual flings instead of meeting someone who is a 10 out of 10 in every category, because it can only hurt the relationship I've spent so many years refining.

If anyone else has had their world rocked by an SB like this, I'd be interested to hear how you pulled yourself out of it.

[JZLizard]

I mentioned a few weeks ago, that as a relatively new SD, I had a 100% success rate (straight to the FC after dinner on first date). I also mentioned that I new I would not be able to maintain that as I gained experience. It happened recently, my winning streak was broken. I wrote about it once before here and my message mysteriously went missing without explanation, and hopefully that was a fluke.

She's early 20's, blonde, seriously smoking body. Basically we had texted each other after a brief exchange online, and set up a date for a week night. Her communication was surprisingly reliable / mature / prompt for her age, as I've noticed a lot of wishy-washy behavior below the age of 25 or so and she was not like this. We set up a date based on her work schedule, she told me which day she didn't have to work and I suggested the night before. Why? Because I think it increases my chances of not having to hear "I need to go, I have to work tomorrow". If they want to cut the date short then fine but don't use work as an excuse. Work is overrated anyway.

So we met for dinner -- she was a little late. Dinner went well (set me back $70 or so) and we decided to go bar hopping and have some drinks. Problem was, she picked the bars and they were all extremely loud (too much so for small talk). About 20 minutes into it, I made the mistake of answering a text on my phone. That inspired her to pull her phone out, where she proceeded to text someone. A few minutes later, she says she "needs to go soon". Well, okay, I can't make someone continue a date they don't want to be on.

So as we walked out to the parking lot she suggests we get together the next day -- she doesn't have to work. I said "huh? Tonight was supposed to be our date. I'm not a mid-afternoon date kind of guy." And I basically proceeded to tell her that I make all my decisions based on what happens on the first date. She jokingly said something to the effect that I wasn't going to have much luck with that strategy, and I just disagreed. I basically said no I have plans for the next day (and I wasn't bluffing) and I wasn't going to see her during the day even though it "worked better for her because her energy level was better". She knew many days in advance when our date was and she should have had her shit together.

So after we part ways, she starts texting me, saying if I wanted to sleep with her, I should have let her know. I said of course I wanted to, and she said sure but there is a price. Well that kind of rubbed me the wrong way because thus far, I have never discussed money with any of these girls. I treat it like its any other date, we fuck, then I give them a gift because I want to the next morning. So she wants to play high priced rolodex call girl apparently. I basically told her it should be obvious that there would be financial help involved, but that when it came to sex I had no doubt she would be enjoying me as much as I would be enjoying her, so she should consider the gift as kind of a bonus and not the end game.

Well needless to say she didn't appreciate that one. She started saying she's never been offered less than an amount that is about what most girls would consider a monthly allowance amount, yet for one night. I told her that I'm still fortunate enough to find girls that fuck because they like to fuck and find something appealing about me, and she can look elsewhere for her demands that are more than a pornstar makes in a professional day of work. I just wasn't buying what she was selling, figuratively or literally.

To be honest, looking back there was a red flag I didn't notice early on. Usually I look for positive reactions to my photos -- comments of varying levels of enthusiasm expressing their attraction. I've found a direct correlation between how attracted they are to me and how eager they are to fuck. This girl said something I had not yet heard: "You're not unattractive by any means"... LOL!! She didn't say this until of course after the date during the wrap up conversation, but then it dawned on me she never really expressed any sort of attraction before that. When I sent her photos she would say "thanks" or "nice pic" but never anything flattering or complementary.

So, I mostly wanted to document this moment for posterity and for my own recollection later. I need to learn to read their vibe better. Unfortunately being only an "occasional" SD (whenever my girlfriend travels, which is not often enough), leaves me to learn some things the hard way. Well there, it is, my first unsuccessful M&G.

[JZLizard]

They call them spinners for a reason. LOL. And I ain't no football player. I can't toss more than about 110 lbs anywhere. But a one off hook-up is always cool.

I think spinners are still one of my favorites, sexually. Some might think it has something to do with fun sized girls having tighter pussies, buy I honestly have not found a direct correlation between tightness in their vajay and their overall body size. I guess I just associate larger = more masculine and the smaller the body on a woman the more I associate her with being a woman? And to me the more feminine she is the better -- opposites attract. I don't know, I don't claim to understand the psychology behind my preference.

For me they don't have to be spinners in the classic sense (which I think relates to being short in height). I care more about their overall body frame and proportions, bone density and muscle mass. I love long legs on an otherwise feminine frame. Especially those that know enough to lock their legs around your butt or lower back during vigorous fucking, so that you can actually lift them off the bed via back muscles on the backstroke without throwing a disc out.

On the other hand I have friends who really go for the highly muscular athletic look, or others that go for the really voluptuous (almost chubby) look. I'm glad there is variance in preference, I see that as nature creating less competition for me.

[HollywoodGuy]

So to continue with the opportunity that I talked about below we have a success. So we talked and she was good with meeting today. We met for a quick lunch and off to the FC for some fun. Now it was not quite as smooth as that. Because we know how the sugar bowl can be and its fickleness. LOL.

First her communication was spotty after reconnecting and I was very skeptical after her strange behavior from the past. But I rolled with it. But I was honestly not sure it was going to happen until it did. I followed my own advice and made the reservation on my Ipad as we were having lunch. So I did not get stuck with a hotel bill. I did discover a few things. First she had a previous affair. Can't really call it an SD since she is not asking for money. Second she found him on the site that she told me she was totally new to the site and what it was about. All lies but what the hell. Everything else looked really good.

Now I must say this young lady is of a high quality. She is very smart straight A's in college, she has a prior technical certification, has a car, and a job, she is very well spoken and a good person to hang out with. She is very sexual and ready to experiment and to try things.

So we get to the room and have some fun. Great sex. Awesome blowjob. Really tight pussy. But she is a little bigger than I like them. Not fat but definitely thick. Beautiful titties. I am giving her a 7/6/9/9. I would have to say she is the best sex for an under 25 yo I have ever had. Remember this young lady is still only 18. Amazing. Awesome kisser. It was a great and fun and relaxing experience. And of course no drama, no craziness and no dollars. Possibly as one brother said on here. A unicorn. But I have to stop short of that. The size was a little troubling to me. Especially for an 18 YO. I kept thinking of my little Italian Princess afterward and how tiny and petite she is, I can just pick her up and throw her wherever I want to. And I do. And my princess is just plain fun. We just have a lot of fun together.

So I am not going to be chasing her. And she is ready to go whenever I am. But it was a really good and inexpensive experience. This hobby was made for women with daddy issues. LOL.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo.

They call them spinners for a reason. LOL. And I ain't no football player. I can't toss more than about 110 lbs anywhere. But a one off hook-up is always cool.

[Revvo]

So to continue with the opportunity that I talked about below we have a success. So we talked and she was good with meeting today. We met for a quick lunch and off to the FC for some fun. Now it was not quite as smooth as that. Because we know how the sugar bowl can be and its fickleness. LOL.

First her communication was spotty after reconnecting and I was very skeptical after her strange behavior from the past. But I rolled with it. But I was honestly not sure it was going to happen until it did. I followed my own advice and made the reservation on my Ipad as we were having lunch. So I did not get stuck with a hotel bill. I did discover a few things. First she had a previous affair. Can't really call it an SD since she is not asking for money. Second she found him on the site that she told me she was totally new to the site and what it was about. All lies but what the hell. Everything else looked really good.

Now I must say this young lady is of a high quality. She is very smart straight A's in college, she has a prior technical certification, has a car, and a job, she is very well spoken and a good person to hang out with. She is very sexual and ready to experiment and to try things.

So we get to the room and have some fun. Great sex. Awesome blowjob. Really tight pussy. But she is a little bigger than I like them. Not fat but definitely thick. Beautiful titties. I am giving her a 7/6/9/9. I would have to say she is the best sex for an under 25 yo I have ever had. Remember this young lady is still only 18. Amazing. Awesome kisser. It was a great and fun and relaxing experience. And of course no drama, no craziness and no dollars. Possibly as one brother said on here. A unicorn. But I have to stop short of that. The size was a little troubling to me. Especially for an 18 YO. I kept thinking of my little Italian Princess afterward and how tiny and petite she is, I can just pick her up and throw her wherever I want to. And I do. And my princess is just plain fun. We just have a lot of fun together.

So I am not going to be chasing her. And she is ready to go whenever I am. But it was a really good and inexpensive experience. This hobby was made for women with daddy issues. LOL.

Lets be careful out there.

Revvo.

[JZLizard]

So I let my subscription to SA expire since I didn't have too much luck the last time. I got a wink from a hot 19 year old but every time I get on line I see she is on line. It seems like she is on line 24/7. Any SB that I saw was on line 24/7 was a total flake. Has anyone else experienced this?

When it shows them online, it's really only showing that their session is still active, and session settings vary on each server. So, when it says she's online it could just mean that she's checked mail in the last hour or two, which is not uncommon at all for people especially checking mail on their phone (and logging into the web from same to see details). SA forces you onto the website just to see contents of a message resulting in a lot more logins (and potentially open tabs the user forgot about that are holding open sessions).

Also some of them have just learned that being online makes them show up when people search for others online or sorting by last login. The 18-20 year olds seem to stay connected the most because a lot of times they are taking classes online or otherwise just grew up staying constantly connected. Usually someone in their late 20's or whatever has some sort of job that's going to have them disconnecting at least part of the day.

[Ltnric]

So I let my subscription to SA expire since I didn't have too much luck the last time. I got a wink from a hot 19 year old but every time I get on line I see she is on line. It seems like she is on line 24/7. Any SB that I saw was on line 24/7 was a total flake. Has anyone else experienced this?

[FredMoore]

The bowl is as much about dealing with disappointment and being flexible as it is about getting fine young and sometimes fresh pussy. Sounds like you handled it well brother Thunder and you were careful, did your research and are very flexible. LOL.

I had my own disappointment today with my little Italian Princess. If I have any complaint about her is that she is hard to free up. She is beautiful sexy, fun, funny, and very reliable when she commits to something. But she has just too many demands on her time. She has her job six days a week, her demanding family, and she is a promotional model. All of these add up to make it really hard to schedule long quality time sessions. Quickies for an hour or two yes. Any more and it is difficult.

So we were supposed to do a sleepover tonight and bring her home tomorrow. But she has this aunts birthday thing and if she does not go she gets pure hell for it. And they are all going to a comedy club that does not end until 1 AM. Damn this sucks.

I cannot wait until she moves into her own place in May. That should make things a lot better.

Oh well that's the sugar bowl.

Revvo.

That is the name of the game Brother Revvo. Take those 1 to 2 hours fuck sessions with joy and consider the longer ones to be a surprise.

Welcome Nut. Always glad to have new blood to flesh out the bowl, so to speak.

Got a meeting with my spinner FB today. $75 quickie but it is a very reasonable Nutt. I figure I pay $125 for a massage, and would much rather get a penis massage anyway.

[Revvo]

I have been seeing K, my little $100 go to girl. I found her on SA and went to see her once or twice and paid her $250 a visit (that was before I had to go on a budget).

Then I saw her ad on Back Page, offering her self for $250. Anyway, I didn't see her for while, and then I got a text from her mother that Krystal was in jail. This was a couple of weeks before Christmas. Evidently the mom had gotten K phone and went down it telling every one about it. The charge was a DUI, and she wasn't getting out to Christmas. Mom asked me if I could send send money to K, and to make a long story short, I sent a $50 money order to the jail for K.

After K got out of jail and the holidays were over, we arranged a visit to her house. No talk of money was made, I visited her, she hadn't had sex in awhile (although she had gained 10 or 12 pounds from prison food) and I thought she was going to fuck me to death. Anyway on my way out I dropped a $100 bill on her dresser. She seemed ok with this arrangement as she often texted me wanting another date.

I had noticed that some of the guys on a massage thread were also using her services but it didn't bother me too much as the price was right, the place was right and the sex was good. She was just an UTR girl, sort in between a SB and escort.

Anyway we were supposed to meet yesterday, Monday 9;30 AM after her "test" (she has had two DUI's and they are making her do a drug and alcohol screen weekly.).

While I was on my way to meet her she texted me and said she had to "change cars" with someone and wouldn't be there until 10 AM then in a few minutes she texted again and said I was ok to come after her ride left, and that if there wasn't a black car in her driveway to come on in.

Now mind you we haven't talked about her activities, she told me she had a boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, then they broke up. She doesn't know that I had seen her BP ad or that I know she was under the radar with a couple of guys on the massage blog. I figured it was just one of those guys, and I was wondering if I wanted sloppy seconds. Though I would play it by ear.

Anyway I went by her house didn't see the black car, turned around and almost pulled into her driveway when I saw the black car pulling out from the back of the house. Shit, I backed out quickly and don't think the guy saw me. Went down the street and parked, waited for the guy to go on past and went back to K's house. I pulled in and she met me outside, I hadn't yet heard what story she was going to tell me, when she saw the guy coming back just as I was going inside. Double shit, this guy thinks he owns her I guess.

K says pretend you are here working on the house, the heat 's not working right downstairs. I say ok. She goes out to talk to this guy, I hear them coming in the front door, I head down to basement to check out the furnace. I am hoping she gets him out of there, but triple shit, here he comes down the basement steps. Its to late to change my story now, so when he asks me how its going in, I tell him I was just there to make sure the pilot light was still on. He asks me if it was, and I say yeah, I am going to have to get a technician to look at it. Then I step in some dog shit, quadruple shit, step out side and scrape it off my shoes. He politely waits for me to finish wiping my shoes, holds the door for me on the way in.

I head up the stairs, K has gone up to the second floor, so I holler up, I am going to have to get a technician to look at it, hustle out the front door, get in my car and make a quick get away.

Since I had already dropped the blue pill, I had to make a couple quick calls to some back page girls who met my needs for .6.

Such is the sugar life.

The bowl is as much about dealing with disappointment and being flexible as it is about getting fine young and sometimes fresh pussy. Sounds like you handled it well brother Thunder and you were careful, did your research and are very flexible. LOL.

I had my own disappointment today with my little Italian Princess. If I have any complaint about her is that she is hard to free up. She is beautiful sexy, fun, funny, and very reliable when she commits to something. But she has just too many demands on her time. She has her job six days a week, her demanding family, and she is a promotional model. All of these add up to make it really hard to schedule long quality time sessions. Quickies for an hour or two yes. Any more and it is difficult.

So we were supposed to do a sleepover tonight and bring her home tomorrow. But she has this aunts birthday thing and if she does not go she gets pure hell for it. And they are all going to a comedy club that does not end until 1 AM. Damn this sucks.

I cannot wait until she moves into her own place in May. That should make things a lot better.

Oh well that's the sugar bowl.

Revvo.