"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[F Scott]

Just thinking of a young yoga teacher is making my glutes and ab muscles sore. The flexibility she possesses could make for some interesting and mind numbing sex. My hats off to you, I just started going to the gym again and would not even consider this option until I lose 25 pounds and have more flexibility and a six pack again. However it was interesting to have two women take up positions on either side of me when I started on the recumbent machine. 3 months from now, I have a feeling some of them will be fun, energetic lays.

Brothers,

I've been going to bikram yoga class, which is practiced in a 105 degree room, since February, and have lost 20 pounds, three pants sizes, and am in the best physical shape of my life! My core strength is awesome, which gives me a great deal of fucking leverage and stamina. My long-term babies have commented on it, which is inspiration enough to keep going.

I agree with you, Woody, if I can swing this yoga teacher, the sex is going to be off the charts. Apparently part of the philosophy of bikram is to get yourself in shape so you can have tons of sweaty sex! Some of the MILFS in my class could snap little Scottie in half, I'm sure.

I would recommend it to all of you. I mention it now in my profile text, and all the babies who contact me say how cool it is that I'm into yoga, since most of them are as well. Win / win, I'd say!

Scott

[WoodSlinger]

Latest revision to ad has netted me 6 genuine replies this week. Two I tossed immediately as being below the 8 or 9's I like to work on. 2 more in the pipeline including a demure waify looking hippie chick with. Glasses!

This one is setup for a meet and greet later today.

Her response. Hi honey. I'm Ashley 24f. 5'2 115lbs. Blonde hair blue eyes. I live in downtown st pete. I'm very easy going and open minded. & I will always make you feel comfortable. I'm looking for work right now and sure could use some help. And in return I will rock your world. You just tell me what it is you like. Text meatXXX-XXXX.

This is a gem, her pics are hot, I rate her a solid 9. Hopefully I can get her to the FC, which in this case is her place. She claims to live alone in a nice gated apt community downtown. Wants help with her Electric Bill.

Wish me luck!

[WoodSlinger]

Just thinking of a young yoga teacher is making my glutes and ab muscles sore. The flexibility she possesses could make for some interesting and mind numbing sex. My hats off to you, I just started going to the gym again and would not even consider this option until I lose 25 pounds and have more flexibility and a six pack again. However it was interesting to have two women take up positions on either side of me when I started on the recumbent machine. 3 months from now, I have a feeling some of them will be fun, energetic lays.

My newly-relocated ATF wore Warby Parkers a lot, and I would make her keep them on in bed as well! Is that a fetish, technically? I agree, totally hot!

Went to yoga this morning but the Asian teacher was not there. I'll call later and find out when her next class is. My thought is to move slowly, so I can back off at a moment's notice and nothing will appear too out of the ordinary, unless I get the all-clear sign from her. Just smiling at my crotch is not enough, is it?

Namaste,

Scott

[F Scott]

By the way my little spinner Venuzuelan baby wears glasses all the time even when I am fucking her. She has that naughty librarian look and it is so fucking hot.

Revvo

My newly-relocated ATF wore Warby Parkers a lot, and I would make her keep them on in bed as well! Is that a fetish, technically? I agree, totally hot!

Went to yoga this morning but the Asian teacher was not there. I'll call later and find out when her next class is. My thought is to move slowly, so I can back off at a moment's notice and nothing will appear too out of the ordinary, unless I get the all-clear sign from her. Just smiling at my crotch is not enough, is it?

Namaste,

Scott

[Revvo]

You have inspired me with the story of your friend to see if I can bag my yoga teacher after all. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I am still thinking about that little spinner body, glistening with sweat, every curve and muscle revealed, tiny boobs with hard nips, sweet ass and an awesome camel toe. That unitard was so clingy I know she has a shaved pussy! Good lord! Plus she has these nerdy Buddy Holly-type glasses, which is a look I totally dig on a hot baby.

Wish me luck, gentlemen!

Scott

Let us know how it goes brother. Don't keep us in suspense. If you buried all deep in that pussy you will get a hearty cheer from me. If not a tip o the cap for going for it and living your life.

Kind of like the Dos Equis beer guy. LOL.

By the way my little spinner Venuzuelan baby wears glasses all the time even when I am fucking her. She has that naughty librarian look and it is so fucking hot.

Revvo

[GeorgeRichmond]

Guys.

I feel this is mutual beneficial and should be a two way street. I met my SB for 3rd time at NY. We had 2 day week-end trip to mountains, very nice resort. But first day itself, we didn't get off well. I felt like she is a boss, she was controlling, on her own many times, not willing to be GFE! Well, I felt so odd. That I have to cut my trip to 1 day. One day, barely managed to have some fun but that is it. She is out of my list. And I am done. We had two good dates but third one is disaster.

Another 1, local. And we had 2 dates but felt again 1 sided. When SB pinged me, for date, I told her. How I felt. Ohh my. She started begging and will try to make it worthwhile next time. Let's see.

Now, I am at a point, we should have the advantage and decision making capabilities. If not. Sorry, BYA-BYE.

[HollywoodGuy]

You have inspired me with the story of your friend to see if I can bag my yoga teacher after all. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I am still thinking about that little spinner body, glistening with sweat, every curve and muscle revealed, tiny boobs with hard nips, sweet ass and an awesome camel toe. That unitard was so clingy I know she has a shaved pussy! Good lord! Plus she has these nerdy Buddy Holly-type glasses, which is a look I totally dig on a hot baby.

Wish me luck, gentlemen!

Scott

A few years ago I thought I was going to need to know Chinese for work. So I went and got a private tutor. A 40's in shape Chinese woman. She was married and a professor at a local college. After a few months I noticed we weren't getting that much work done and seemed to be just chatting.

I remember telling one of my SB's at the time about it. I am very clueless to real time flirting so I said to her "I think the Chinese teacher is flirting with me". She says "if you think she is flirting, then she definetely is, go for it".

I did, and we had a great time for 3 weeks. No sugar of course, even though I was technically paying her. But suffice it to say, when the affiar was over, so were the lessons.

[Igor Mongorsky]

I have been thinking about this lately. And I have been discussing this with a friend of mine also who is not in the bowl. And The discussion below really triggered me to write some comments about it. There is a whole lot of pussy out there waiting for someone to fuck them.

First my friend. He is 48 Years old, and retired from a civil servant job, OK income. Former alcoholic, overweight, on his third marriage but has a very charming personality. We talk about what I have been doing and what he is doing all of the time. He is currently fucking three different women in his neighborhood. Now he is a boob man so they all have large breasts. I have seen the pics. They are late 30's to mid 40's MILFs and are all attractive. One is very hot and is probably in love with him. When I say he fucks them what I really mean is he gets full on blow jobs with swallow from them on a regular basis. He rarely ever fucks them. I am amazed by this because I am sure they are all wanting to get fucked also.

Your friend has one of those all important attributes when scoring in the bowl. Game. The sad reality is either you need that or looks. Unfortunately, I have neither. I'm not super ugly or have a terrible personality or anything, just am very "ordinary". Even SB's care about those things. So I have to be willing to lower my standards a bit, invest more time and dish out more sugar.

[F Scott]

Good question brother smoke. First I must say he is bold, not afraid to talk shit with them without being creepy. Very fine line there. He is funny and he has charm. Women are excited by the boldness of his actions sometimes. If not he just moves on.

The question is can you pick that fruit? You probably can. Just have to start slow. Feel them out with some humor. Then go for it be bold. Be that bad boy that dosent give a shit.

Thats the best I can tell you. I guess they call that having game.

Revvo

Rev,

You have also put your finger on what it takes to be successful in the Bowl. I have often thought about the "persona" I put on when I am in SD mode, and how it is different from the Real Me. Maybe not totally different, but like Real Me on steroids.

My Sugar name is nothing close to my real name, but to me at least it has a little swagger to it, and consequently so do I when I am that person. Only three babies in my entire career thus far have known my real first name, and one of them preferred using my Sugar name, which is my middle name, as she said it was more suited to my personality.

You have inspired me with the story of your friend to see if I can bag my yoga teacher after all. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I am still thinking about that little spinner body, glistening with sweat, every curve and muscle revealed, tiny boobs with hard nips, sweet ass and an awesome camel toe. That unitard was so clingy I know she has a shaved pussy! Good lord! Plus she has these nerdy Buddy Holly-type glasses, which is a look I totally dig on a hot baby.

Wish me luck, gentlemen!

Scott

[Revvo]

Revvo,

Your friend is living a good life. And how did he picked up these women's?

Good question brother smoke. First I must say he is bold, not afraid to talk shit with them without being creepy. Very fine line there. He is funny and he has charm. Women are excited by the boldness of his actions sometimes. If not he just moves on.

But another issue is the women. Read my post below. These are ripe fruit waiting to be picked. I venture to guess if you are talking to a woman that has been married over 10 years. You are probably talking to a woman that is either ripe or getting ripe.

The question is can you pick that fruit? You probably can. Just have to start slow. Feel them out with some humor. Then go for it be bold. Be that bad boy that dosent give a shit.

Thats the best I can tell you. I guess they call that having game.

Revvo

[Member #5570]

Revvo,

Your friend is living a good life. And how did he picked up these women's?

[Igor Mongorsky]

My friend, let me introduce to this place call Amazon dot com. I usually pick up up a 100 pack from them for less than $15. I only use the OKAMOTO brands. Super thin and fit really well. Hey, I am not lucky enough to carry a magnum around in my boxer like most of you guys. .

The only concern to ordering online is you just hope that your SO won't be the one opening up the package. Lucky for me, my SO never bothers with mails. Even if we have a few packages sitting right on the front door.

That's only 15 cents per rubber, a significant savings. The only time I ever picked up a rubber from the drug store is because I ran out and my order didn't come on time.

With some of you guys having multiple SBs in the rotation and meeting them 2-3 times a week, with multiple pops per meet. The math is on your side.

Thanks Smokarz. I shop on THAT site all the time, but it never occurred to me to check condoms. They have the ultra thin ones which I've been wanting to try.

[FredMoore]

I have been thinking about this lately. And I have been discussing this with a friend of mine also who is not in the bowl. And The discussion below really triggered me to write some comments about it. There is a whole lot of pussy out there waiting for someone to fuck them.

Man isn't marriage a wonderful institution? But that is another subject.

Honestly what endeavor in this world can you get all of that for a nominal amount of money. And don't tell me your wife. I have done the math and I figure my wife costs me about 60 grand per year. The point is to understand the pussy is out there to be had and someone needs to fuck these women.

And every day how many more thousands of women join these sites looking for a man to fuck them and to treat them with a little respect, understanding, generosity and fun.

Lets pick that fruit. Put pick carefully and don't bruise them.

Revvo

Hollywood has it right, don't get married and just cycle through multiple Babies.

Marriage costs a fortune to be in, even more to get out of one, and risky to pick the low hanging fruit like most of us are doing.

[Revvo]

I have been thinking about this lately. And I have been discussing this with a friend of mine also who is not in the bowl. And The discussion below really triggered me to write some comments about it. There is a whole lot of pussy out there waiting for someone to fuck them.

First my friend. He is 48 Years old, and retired from a civil servant job, OK income. Former alcoholic, overweight, on his third marriage but has a very charming personality. We talk about what I have been doing and what he is doing all of the time. He is currently fucking three different women in his neighborhood. Now he is a boob man so they all have large breasts. I have seen the pics. They are late 30's to mid 40's MILFs and are all attractive. One is very hot and is probably in love with him. When I say he fucks them what I really mean is he gets full on blow jobs with swallow from them on a regular basis. He rarely ever fucks them. I am amazed by this because I am sure they are all wanting to get fucked also.

But goes to show you the pussy is out there. And good quality women are out there waiting for someone to fuck them. He can literally pick up the phone and call them and tell them he wants to meet and they show up wherever he says and sucks his dick, draining him of all his juices. And then go back to their husbands as if nothing is wrong. Man isn't marriage a wonderful institution? But that is another subject.

Then there is me. This week I was scheduled to fuck 4 women, three babies and one very flaky POT. In addition I had two babies that texted me wanting to fuck them that I could not or would not get to. And one more I can call anytime but I just don't have the desire for her. I ended up plowing the three babies. And the flake? Well she flaked of course. This is not to brag. This is to make a point that another SD on this site made a long time ago. The pussy is out there a lot of it. Waiting for someone to fuck them! Like juicy peaches waiting to be plucked.

I would have never believed this a year ago. I would have thought maybe every once in a while you can find a nice looking woman that is in a weak moment and bam you get lucky. Luck has nothing to do with it. This is about work and having the ability to perceive this opportunity.

And I am not talking about skanks, or wh-s, or ugly women, or even UTRs (still not sure what that is). I am talking about quality women that are walking around every day wanting sex and not getting it. For example. My first ATF the only one I would really classify as a 10 or close to it. Had not been fucked for 4 years before I came along. She was so much fun. It was like going to Disney World. I did a very cute AA a couple of weeks ago that said I was her third man ever. I have another one that has only had five men her entire life and has not fucked in two years before me. She cried when we first had sex. (hopefully it wasn't from poor performance LOL). My little Brazillian princess gets to fuck me only about twice per month and does not want anyone else.

And the quality is very good. I never fuck anything below a 7. I'm sorry I can't even get hard for an ugly woman. I don't have 10's like some of the SD's on here but I hav e plenty of 8's and a few 9's. And more importantly they are all quality women. Meaning they are educated, careers, good neighborhoods, fun to be with, witty, sane, and very very willing to please me sexually any way they can.

Honestly what endeavor in this world can you get all of that for a nominal amount of money. And don't tell me your wife. I have done the math and I figure my wife costs me about 60 grand per year. The point is to understand the pussy is out there to be had and someone needs to fuck these women.

And every day how many more thousands of women join these sites looking for a man to fuck them and to treat them with a little respect, understanding, generosity and fun.

Lets pick that fruit. Put pick carefully and don't bruise them.

Revvo

[Revvo]

I wouldn't contact her again, personally. The Bowl is not about begging, it's about finding a mutual comfort level. If you do bargain her down, she will resent it, and at best just spread her legs and lie there. Sounds a lot like those blow up dolls they sell at porn shops. No thanks.

Second scenario: you enter into a protracted and increasingly bitter text war with her, resulting in No Pussy Access anyway, but you have just wasted time in your life that you will never get back, and which could have been better spent wooing the next SB in line. Move on, my man, and consider it your first lesson. It won't be your last, I promise you. I see this as a lose / lose scenario, honestly. We have all been there, but the goal of the Journal is to help newbies get up to speed faster. Well, and also to relate some excellent stories.

Speaking of which, I had a very interesting experience at my bikram yoga class this morning, which I would love to relate, but don't have quite enough time before my SO docks to fully craft. Here are some hints: hot Asian spinner teacher in a sweat-soaked shortie unitard, looking at a fully-extended Scottie in bike shorts, then into my eyes and smiling. My head is swimming, but I don't know if I have the balls to pull it off. My real name is in their computer, but good heavens she is hot. And talk about flexible!

Close to the red line,

Scott

A couple of more thoughts. The sugar bowl is a wonderful place to find true amateurs who want to fuck and are maybe just a little bit kinkier than the average woman. In addition you can engage in some really great discreet affairs with very attractive to beautiful young women. But it is work.

A lot of work. And frustration and failure. And not a little expense to learn the game. In fact I would say that if I was single and did not have to sneak around my ability to score with hot women in the normal world would be a lot easier. And a lot less expensive. Also If you just want to find a hot piece of ass to fuck for a reasonable price a good looking escort would be a lot easier, less time wasted and maybe even cheaper.

But the sugar bowl is an experience. And that experience is a few things, its the chance you take to go after a young beautiful woman, the chase to try to get her emotionally as well as sexually, the conquest of finally getting that hard inexperienced body for the first time. Its about the seduction, and the affinity you create for one another. I learned from another master (Hollywood) on this site to not negotiate. Once you start down that negotiation path about a woman and her body most of what I mentioned above is lost.

At that point she is feeling degraded and cheap and everything she has been taught her whole life is telling her that this is a bad thing.

Of course there are other women out there that don't care about any of these things. But what is the fun in that. At least for me I lose interest in those quickly.

So forget about the quick, cheap, unfulfilling fix and settle in for a total experience beyond anything you can imagine. Or not.

Be careful out there.

Revvo