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[Nother Monger]

Yeah they shouldn't be getting hostile about it. Unless you're being pushy about it. That's usually how a street ho / escort reacts even if not pressed about it.

I've never been pushy about it. I just ask if that's something they are OK with and if they aren't I say OK. When I said they get hostile, I mean the women/SB get hostile.

[Lexx1]

They're definitely allowed to state this as a preference, but yeah, there is no reason for the guy to get hostile. It makes sense from a safety and trust standpoint for a woman, and for us as well. I've had some SB's okay with bare from the outset and I've also had SB's who insisted on covers until they were more comfortable, meaning we'd been seeing each other for awhile and it wasn't just "one and done".

Of course the girl can have preferences. And if they say they'll never be open to something bare. It's up to the guy to continue or not. I've passed on some girls if they're strict on that. Especially if it's a covered BJ too. No need to fret over it. Plenty of other girls waiting in line. That will.

[Grail47]

Yeah they shouldn't be getting hostile about it. Unless you're being pushy about it. That's usually how a street ho / escort reacts.

They're definitely allowed to state this as a preference, but yeah, there is no reason for the guy to get hostile. It makes sense from a safety and trust standpoint for a woman, and for us as well. I've had some SB's okay with bare from the outset and I've also had SB's who insisted on covers until they were more comfortable, meaning we'd been seeing each other for awhile and it wasn't just "one and done".

[Lexx1]

Yea, I'm clear about it up front also. But there are those that say it's always required, and I've had a few (very small number) get hostile about it.

Yeah they shouldn't be getting hostile about it. Unless you're being pushy about it. That's usually how a street ho / escort reacts even if not pressed about it.

[Nother Monger]

Majority of the time with me it's usually been bare from the get go. I do usually advise that is my preference when negotiating. The BJ always has to be bare. But occasionally I've had a girl ask for a rubber for sex a few times. I've probably had like 3 or 4 girls ask that over the many I've had over the years. Only one always required it for sex only. The others opened up to bare on subsequent meet ups. And some after the first round. LOL.

Yea, I'm clear about it up front also. But there are those that say it's always required, and I've had a few (very small number) get hostile about it.

[FarFarAway]

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It's not permitted, when it comes to protective equipment everybody makes their own choice. I'm with you and think guys who hit high volume chicks bare are crazy. A very good from of mine recently died of AIDS and I know he wasn't gay and wasn't into anal. He hit around 2000 ultra high volume chicks over 20 years bare and now he's dead and it wasn't pretty.

We just don't lecture.

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[Lexx1]

Just curious what other members experience has been. How many SB's / women have you met that initially say CFS, but when you actually get down to it, go bare? Either the initial or after meeting a few times? I ask up front about that and if they are really hot I put them on my "maybe" list, but otherwise I will usually pass.

Majority of the time with me it's usually been bare from the get go. I do usually advise that is my preference when negotiating. The BJ always has to be bare. But occasionally I've had a girl ask for a rubber for sex a few times. I've probably had like 3 or 4 girls ask that over the many I've had over the years. Only one always required it for sex only. The others opened up to bare on subsequent meet ups. And some after the first round. LOL.

[Nother Monger]

Just curious what other members experience has been. How many SB's / women have you met that initially say CFS, but when you actually get down to it, go bare? Either the initial or after meeting a few times? I ask up front about that and if they are really hot I put them on my "maybe" list, but otherwise I will usually pass.

[Grail47]

Yea I've had pretty much the same experience as Lexx and definitely prefer a sugar baby over an escort. And I agree with Lexx's analysis. Most of my arrangements have turn to actual relationships very traditional and transactional ppm's. I've gone on plenty dinners with my SB's, as well as vacations, concerts, etc. But by that time these girls were more into "the spoiled girlfriend" category vs just sugar baby status. And multiple of these relationships lasted 1-2 years.

Escorts are great when you just want to get that nut and she provides the services you want. Sugar babies can give you that and much much more.

Yes, this is why I entered into sugar dating a year or so ago, that I wanted more than just to "nut". I wanted the more GFE level experiences consistently and a free flowing amount of time together (hanging out at my place, chatting, watching a movie, having dinner, etc), possibly with going out on the town as well. And of course I wanted to date those cute girls in their 20's! I've pretty much exclusively seen only SB's this year, with the occasional escort here and there (finally saw one escort this week that I'd had my eye on for months) and I really enjoy developing that consistent relationship vibe. I love that even with some of the SB's we can text and chat even when we're not planning a date.

[SBlover]

I've had the opposite experiences and why I steered away from escorts, prostitutes, street ho's. And why I got into the non-pro / sugaring world. Escorts / prostitutes usually always put limitations such as condoms for everything, short time, nickel and diming for everything / extras. If they possibly offer bare it costs a bit extra. If you want 2 to 4 hours of fun time. A lot extra. Take video and pics? Some say no. Or they charge alot for it.

Versus fresh true non-pros / sugarbabies. Bare is usually ok by default for everything. "Extras" like swallowing or CIP are included if the girl is ok with one or both. You can usually kiss and make out. You get a lot more fun time included. Most of my girls have always been ok with video and pics included as long as it's kept private. So all that's included in the price ranges of 200 to 400. If I were doing that with an escort / pro all that shit would add up big time. A non-pro / sugarbaby gives you naturally that GFE experience you're looking for in bed. An escort / pro GFE is considered another added expense. If they even offer it. And I don't pay upfront. It's afterwards. Escorts/pros expect money up front most of the time.

I don't think you got the sugar game figured out just yet man. But hopefully you'll get there. If you want to stick with it.

Yea I've had pretty much the same experience as Lexx and definitely prefer a sugar baby over an escort. And I agree with Lexx's analysis. Most of my arrangements have turn to actual relationships very traditional and transactional ppm's. I've gone on plenty dinners with my SB's, as well as vacations, concerts, etc. But by that time these girls were more into "the spoiled girlfriend" category vs just sugar baby status. And multiple of these relationships lasted 1-2 years.

Escorts are great when you just want to get that nut and she provides the services you want. Sugar babies can give you that and much much more.

[HiImJeff]

Well, to be fair, I'd already seen the escort a few times, but she did me a solid and gave me her whole evening for only about double what I normally pay for 23 hours. I thought that was pretty nice of her.

I'm definitely still trying to crack the code on this whole sugar game, though. Like I mentioned before, I had that one brief experience with a sugar arrangement, and it honestly wasn't a great encounter. I basically wrote it off as "I guess that's just how the sugar game is" because I didn't really understand how it worked. I'm starting to realize there's probably a lot I don't know, so I'm definitely open to learning. If you've got some insight or want to school me on how this whole thing actually works, I'm all ears. 😂.

I think of the sugar game as regular dating with extra expenses. So I'm usually taking girls on public dates, usually dinner or drinks and sometimes lunch, then going to a hotel for the sex. In my experience, doing the date helps break the ice and make the pay for play less awkward. It also helps make the sugar baby feel less like a prostitute.

[HiImJeff]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-7666409b5e4e

Anyone have experience with this one? Just my type but haven't heard back yet.

My regular sugar baby and I had a threesome with her. Great sex, good BBBJ, and tight and wet pussy. I gave her 400 plus doordash.

[Vevor12]

I've had the opposite experiences and why I steered away from escorts, prostitutes, street ho's. And why I got into the non-pro / sugaring world. Escorts / prostitutes usually always put limitations such as condoms for everything, short time, nickel and diming for everything / extras. If they possibly offer bare it costs a bit extra. If you want 2 to 4 hours of fun time. A lot extra. Takes video and pics? Some say no. Or they charge alot for it.

Versus fresh true non-pros / sugarbabies. Bare is usually ok by default for everything. "Extras" like swallowing or CIP are included if the girl is ok with one or both. You can usually kiss and make out. You get a lot more fun time included. Most of my girls have always been ok with video and pics included as long as it's kept private. So all that's included in the price ranges of 200 to 400. If I were doing that with an escort / pro all that shit would add up big time. A non-pro / sugarbaby gives you naturally that GFE experience you're looking for in bed. An escort / pro GFE is considered another added expense. If they even offer it. And I don't pay upfront. It's afterwards. Escorts/pros expect money up front most of the time.

I don't think you got the sugar game figured out just yet man. But hopefully you'll get there. If you want to stick with it.

Well, to be fair, I'd already seen the escort a few times, but she did me a solid and gave me her whole evening for only about double what I normally pay for 2–3 hours. I thought that was pretty nice of her.

I'm definitely still trying to crack the code on this whole sugar game, though. Like I mentioned before, I had that one brief experience with a sugar arrangement, and it honestly wasn't a great encounter. I basically wrote it off as "I guess that's just how the sugar game is" because I didn't really understand how it worked. I'm starting to realize there's probably a lot I don't know, so I'm definitely open to learning. If you've got some insight or want to school me on how this whole thing actually works, I'm all ears. 😂.

[Lexx1]

Honestly, I've had better experiences with escort dates than with SB arrangements, and I'm curious if anyone else has noticed the same thing. With an escort, the understanding is usually that it's a short-term arrangement, so I've found they seem more motivated to make the experience enjoyable and leave a good impression for the possibility of seeing each other again. I'll admit I'm probably part of the reason for the difference. When I've had a good experience, I tend to be pretty generous afterwardsometimes an extra benji or a couple of jacksons here and there. With an SB, on the other hand, I'm generally paying upfront, so there isn't really the same incentive to go above and beyond afterward. Maybe that's just my experience, though. Do other people find the same dynamic, or am I looking at it the wrong way?

I've had the opposite experiences and why I steered away from escorts, prostitutes, street ho's. And why I got into the non-pro / sugaring world. Escorts / prostitutes usually always put limitations such as condoms for everything, short time, nickel and diming for everything / extras. If they possibly offer bare it costs a bit extra. If you want 2 to 4 hours of fun time. A lot extra. Take video and pics? Some say no. Or they charge alot for it.

Versus fresh true non-pros / sugarbabies. Bare is usually ok by default for everything. "Extras" like swallowing or CIP are included if the girl is ok with one or both. You can usually kiss and make out. You get a lot more fun time included. Most of my girls have always been ok with video and pics included as long as it's kept private. So all that's included in the price ranges of 200 to 400. If I were doing that with an escort / pro all that shit would add up big time. A non-pro / sugarbaby gives you naturally that GFE experience you're looking for in bed. An escort / pro GFE is considered another added expense. If they even offer it. And I don't pay upfront. It's afterwards. Escorts/pros expect money up front most of the time.

I don't think you got the sugar game figured out just yet man. But hopefully you'll get there. If you want to stick with it.

[Vevor12]

The main point of getting into sugaring is the sex. The sugar is the pussy, the sex, from the girl. From the daddies side, the sugar are the funds. Sure you can take your girl on dates and stuff. But is she going to want to be paid just for that? A lot of chics want to get paid just for no sex dates, arm candy, dinner, etc. I don't. It's a waste of money with nothing tangible in return. A date should be "free" and just cover dinner and things like a gentleman. If you want to. But not pay just to take the chic on the date. Over the years I've taken some of my girls out. But with the understanding they're not getting paid just for that. I always set up my arrangements that the funds are provided only when there is intimacy.

Well, if I find that diamond in the rough type Sugar baby like my dumbass friend, I would go on dates with her, I mean it is a cheaper alternative than escort dates. Shit my last outing at a meet and greet style meeting, I paid out the ass for my date to make me look good in front of clients.