"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**DjAtl** · 08-23-26 11:18

Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]

So I can't log into my account unless I provide a facial verification.

I don't want to do that because I don't want my information leaked all over the internet WHEN there is an eventual data breach.

Anybody found a way around it?

If not, anybody have any girls looking ot make new friends?

I was contemplating to use secret benefits instead since seeking is not working for me.

But I understand seeking is still the best platform for those sugar dates vs straight up escorts or high volume.

Secret benefits seems to have a lot of profiles but I read on this forum they are there mainly so men can spend.

Or buy more credits and very few are legit. Unlike seeking once you pay fees you can message unlimited.

**DjAtl** · 08-23-26 08:20

Originally Posted by Verdit [View Original Post]

So I can't log into my account unless I provide a facial verification.

I don't want to do that because I don't want my information leaked all over the internet WHEN there is an eventual data breach.

Anybody found a way around it?

If not, anybody have any girls looking ot make new friends?

Same here.

**Verdit** · 08-22-26 18:16

So I can't log into my account unless I provide a facial verification.

I don't want to do that because I don't want my information leaked all over the internet WHEN there is an eventual data breach.

Anybody found a way around it?

If not, anybody have any girls looking ot make new friends?

**GoneForGood97** · 08-19-26 15:29

Evie https://members.seeking.com/member/c...a-d7d8fa718940.

Seemed right up my alley, but GPS stikes again. Was open to bare once we got to know each other, but refused to host and wanted 600 PPM. Couldn't get her to come down below 500, and she only wants to meet a couple times a month.

She's south of the city if that's important. But yeah, GPS + cover + not host + limited visits = pass.

**SoonerFan72** · 08-17-26 20:35

Everything about this chic screams scammer. The fact that her account is from 2018 tells me she is careful. Our whole conversation sounded like AI was writing it. She finally asked to switch to Whatsapp, which is another red flag. Stay away.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...c-d6e9b7e52e53

**MadDog1746** · 08-17-26 08:56

Yea I use Dayuse all the time. Everyone is right in that your room is actually not reserved. So I always call before I even leave my house and ask if they have a room. Had showed up one time to no rooms available so learned my lesson. But for the most part, I hadn't had any issues with them.

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I have used dayuse.com and hotelsbyday.com before. It can work out, but kind of a hassle, because you make a "reservation" but doesn't mean they have a room reserved for you....as I've found out the hard way before when I got there and they were totally booked up with no rooms, even though they had my dayuse reservation there, in their system.

I've never had to pay a deposit or even entered a credit card, and you just get there and they have to manually enter all your information in and you pay them directly. If the clerk even has any idea how to do it, as some seem clueless and don't even understand how it works.

Also I think many of them are disorganized and maybe you have the room until 3 pm or 5 pm, but I've never had anyone show up, knocking at the door and kick me out. I've stayed an hour or two afterwards before, and not sure if they even notice or really care. Maybe I could have stayed all night, but never tried that.

**Verdit** · 08-17-26 00:46

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I have used dayuse.com and hotelsbyday.com before. It can work out, but kind of a hassle, because you make a "reservation" but doesn't mean they have a room reserved for you....as I've found out the hard way before when I got there and they were totally booked up with no rooms, even though they had my dayuse reservation there, in their system.

I've never had to pay a deposit or even entered a credit card, and you just get there and they have to manually enter all your information in and you pay them directly. If the clerk even has any idea how to do it, as some seem clueless and don't even understand how it works.

Also I think many of them are disorganized and maybe you have the room until 3 pm or 5 pm, but I've never had anyone show up, knocking at the door and kick me out. I've stayed an hour or two afterwards before, and not sure if they even notice or really care. Maybe I could have stayed all night, but never tried that.

1. They are disorganized as shit and they will quickly say that they "don't see your reservation" until you tell them for the THIRD TIME, "It's thru dayuse", then they'll understand what button to press.

2. I've been told that the only thing that happens if you go pass your time is that the key deactivates and you can't get back into the room. But I've never had anybody knock on my door either.

**Peter Johnson** · 08-16-26 19:16

Originally Posted by CudjoeMan [View Original Post]

I can't host at home so usually use Dayuse hotels https://www.dayuse.com/ to book a room for 4 hours for my SBs who don't host.

Just checking my emails from Day use hotels over the last two years or so of confirmation messages, I have used the Four Points, Sonesta and Marriott near the airport: I don't remember paying for parking at any of them. Usually, some of them want a credit card deposit of about $50 for incidentals.

I have used dayuse.com and hotelsbyday.com before. It can work out, but kind of a hassle, because you make a "reservation" but doesn't mean they have a room reserved for you....as I've found out the hard way before when I got there and they were totally booked up with no rooms, even though they had my dayuse reservation there, in their system.

I've never had to pay a deposit or even entered a credit card, and you just get there and they have to manually enter all your information in and you pay them directly. If the clerk even has any idea how to do it, as some seem clueless and don't even understand how it works.

Also I think many of them are disorganized and maybe you have the room until 3 pm or 5 pm, but I've never had anyone show up, knocking at the door and kick me out. I've stayed an hour or two afterwards before, and not sure if they even notice or really care. Maybe I could have stayed all night, but never tried that.

**Cudjoe Man** · 08-15-26 13:20

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

My last few SBs have all been able to host, so I haven't had to deal with hotels near the airport in awhile. I know some of them nickel and dime you for parking, or with a early check in fee. Any recommendations for hotels near the airport that DON'T stack a bunch of useless fees in order to look cheap on the apps but drive their price up to at or above the other hotels?

I used the Sonesta Airport North and was annoyed when they started stacking fees. I was already meeting someone there and didn't want to risk backing out and having to meet her somewhere else and potentially scare her off with complications.

I can't host at home so usually use Dayuse hotels https://www.dayuse.com/ to book a room for 4 hours for my SBs who don't host.

Just checking my emails from Day use hotels over the last two years or so of confirmation messages, I have used the Four Points, Sonesta and Marriott near the airport: I don't remember paying for parking at any of them. Usually, some of them want a credit card deposit of about $50 for incidentals.

**GoneForGood97** · 08-14-26 23:38

JES - https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-f8c40a9e2a5e.

Can confirm real but likely GPS. Coudn't get her to tell me a number, but she wouldn't even make a counter offer for 250. Doesn't host, no transportation so you'll need to pay for an uber. Didn't really seem worth the hassle.

**2me4Looking2** · 08-14-26 15:34

Originally Posted by GoneForGood97 [View Original Post]

Oh yeah, that's Rikoh. She's been reviewed before. She's real and fun, and could be negotiated down to 300 or maybe less if you're really charming. BBJ but CFS is my understanding. Basically she's a married swinger, so she's a bit on the high volume side. Also, she needs dental work, though maybe she's had that done or the pics she's using are before she lost a tooth.

Still, she's on the wrong side of 35 and the wrong side of dental need to be asking 500.

I'm not sure when those pics are from, but I saw her a little over a year ago and she had no dental issues. She had just gone through lipo and looked quite hot. Her body did not look like it ever needed lipo either. I saw no red flags at all. I had chatted with her a few different times and never was able to make anything work and then all of a sudden she was easy to schedule. She has been on and off for several years so she is definitely not new to this. She spoke intelligently and seemed to genuinely want to talk when we were together. As far as the deed, I don't recall anything negative. I quite enjoyed the view.

**GoneForGood97** · 08-14-26 12:55

My last few SBs have all been able to host, so I haven't had to deal with hotels near the airport in awhile. I know some of them nickel and dime you for parking, or with a early check in fee. Any recommendations for hotels near the airport that DON'T stack a bunch of useless fees in order to look cheap on the apps but drive their price up to at or above the other hotels?

I used the Sonesta Airport North and was annoyed when they started stacking fees. I was already meeting someone there and didn't want to risk backing out and having to meet her somewhere else and potentially scare her off with complications.

**GoneForGood97** · 08-14-26 12:52

Originally Posted by Eslide3 [View Original Post]

Falls in the street kinda drunk, over priced, self obsessed. Good conversationalist when you can get her on the phone, not nearly as honest as she wants you to believe.

Sounds like you have a few juicy stories. Care to share details with the rest of the class?

**Eslide3** · 08-14-26 07:46

Originally Posted by BrownSugaTwo [View Original Post]

That's why I love this site. I had a long conversation with her. A multi-day back and forth. I think she may have just left her husband, if she's married. Anyway, she kind of just dropped off, so I thought maybe it was too soon to do the arrangement thing, after her break up. Come to find out based on what I'm reading here, she's been taking strange, not-her-husband dick like crazy LOL. If I hit her up again, I'll be more to the point but I generally enjoyed talking to her and felt like we had something going. I may have taken too long, too. Who knows.

Falls in the street kinda drunk, over priced, self obsessed. Good conversationalist when you can get her on the phone, not nearly as honest as she wants you to believe.

**BrownSugaTwo** · 08-13-26 22:51

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I did a M&G with her years ago. We met for a hike and she didn't ask for any ppm for just that. She was definitely cool and sexy, and I would have pursued it, but I don't like paying for CFS. However, I think if you had a very recent clean STD panel, she might make an exception.

It still feels to me like she is "one that got away" and if I was still on the Seeking, I would be tempted to hit her up. She sent me a couple of hot short videos, and would have loved to have gotten some of that.

That's why I love this site. I had a long conversation with her. A multi-day back and forth. I think she may have just left her husband, if she's married. Anyway, she kind of just dropped off, so I thought maybe it was too soon to do the arrangement thing, after her break up. Come to find out based on what I'm reading here, she's been taking strange, not-her-husband dick like crazy LOL. If I hit her up again, I'll be more to the point but I generally enjoyed talking to her and felt like we had something going. I may have taken too long, too. Who knows.