So, I decided to make my usual Friday circuit of the Criket, Henry's and Bogart's. I wanted to get out of the house early so I wouldn't be pressed for time. In my typical blazing speed of movement, I somehow managed to get out the door by 4:30 and walked into the Criket a little after 5:00.
The Criket was so busy that one of the waitresses had to clear off a table for me to sit down. I certainly wasn't about to pay $20 for a booth.
There were balloons everywhere because it was one of the dancer's birthdays, and they must've had at least thirty dancers working. However, there was no Angel, Kitty, Alicia or Cassandra. Truthfully, my primary goal was to talk to Brittney, the waitress.
I saw Brittney just after I sat down. She was wearing a short black dress, like a hostess would wear. She was also very busy, running all over the place getting drinks for people. On one of her passes, I stood up and told her that I'd tried reaching out to her on Wednesday.
The next time she passed by, she sat down with me. I told her that I'd tried texting the other number she'd given me, and she said that she had to get that phone turned back on, which explained why she hadn't gotten my message. On top of that, she'd also had a monthly visitor.
Then, she asked for my number, which I gave her, but she didn't have much time to talk and had to get back to work because of how busy she was. Shortly afterward, she texted me, and I saved her as a contact.
At that point, we exchanged a few texts between her trips around the room. In one of them, I confirmed that she was okay with a particular menu item I was interested in. I also told her that I had an outfit I wanted her to wear when we met, so I could undress her myself.
Now, when it comes to women dressing up, many of you guys prefer lingerie, garter belts and stockings, or maybe even cosplay outfits for some role playing. I'm certainly not opposed to a little "naughty pirate meets the innocent maiden" from time to time. However, there's one outfit that really does it for me.
The outfit that really does it for me isn't lingerie or cosplay. It's a pair of faded blue jeans and a button down shirt with buttons running from top to bottom. Alternatively, a red and black plaid button down shirt will do just fine too.
I can't be the only one who thinks women look hot in plaid. You might be thinking, "What kind of freak show shit is this?" Well, there's a chair for every ass, and there's plenty of denim porn out there too. What can I say? I like what I like.
Anyway, Brittney had no problem wearing the outfit.
That was pretty much it for our texting. Shortly afterward, I left for Henry's. I have a feeling I'll be seeing Brittney in the near future.
It was about fifteen minutes before shift change when I walked into Henry's. Among those present were Kassy, but no Yesna, no Selena, no Sunflower and no Arabella. At this point, I've decided that Henry's Friday day shift will be my last stop, and I'll venture elsewhere first.
When the night shift came in, it wasn't much better. The incoming dancers included Lexi, four Cuban dancers and several AA dancers, along with Sugar. Kassy stayed over because she was working her usual swing shift.
After Kassy went to the back with someone and returned, she came over to sit and talk with me, like she almost always does. I bought her a drink, and she offered her services, which I declined. Not long afterward, I decided to head over to Bogart's.
Bogart's was VERY dead, and I'd estimate there were only 10 to 15 dancers working. Among those present were Gemini, the blonde with the big lips and large breast implants, Skyler and, I believe, Harmony.
I tipped Gemini and asked if she'd like to come over and talk to me, which she did. I bought her a beer, and we talked for about 45 minutes. That was the extent of it though, as I decided not to head upstairs for any backroom activities.
By this point, I was hungry. I'd only had a snack bar and some wine all day, and I didn't want to waste any more of Gemini's time. On top of that, all I wanted to do was go home, put on my sweats and bunny slippers, and eat my own home cooking. Not to brag, but let me tell ya, I can microwave with the best of 'em.
Anyone seen Bella or Alicia around lately? They may have moved to a diff club.
I know this one, my friend. Before, her Southern accent was very strong, now is not so noticeable.
I take her back one time, but she has too many rules. No fun at all. It felt like once she gets me back there, she does not care if customer is happy or not.
She tells me 300 for everything covered. I say, okay, but experience was not good.
Yeah if you look through the forum for "Jessie" or "Jassie" you'll see lots of reviews. I went back with her a couple times when she first started and was way skinnier, first time I was drunk and the second time she told me I smelled (Despite always showering before I go in) and was a biter so I moved on.
In the wild a young lady would never come up to me, that is why I like strip clubs!
If those that approach me are my type and give me a good vibe I tell them I'm free and to have a seat, if they are not my type/vibe I will say I am not ready for company yet.
I actually appreciate the girls not approaching me until I am ready to receive them. If she is a girl I know and enjoy I don't mind her approaching me. I have found that the girls who approach uninvited maybe 1 out of 50 I am actually happy she sat with me. Most of the time I have to say I am not ready for company yet.
There is a strategy some girls use, obviously not the ones that where there on your visit. But it is to sit down with a guy and monopolize his time. They know other girls won't approach as long as they are sitting there. Most guys can only stay at the club an hour or two. And they try to soak up that time so the guy is faced with the choice of taking them or no one.
I used to have a buddy who would tip the girls $5, and say I am not going to take you to the VIP today so please move along. He seemed confused when the same girls came over every time he entered the club, he thought they would get the message he didn't want them. I had to explain they were coming for the $5. He was incenting to keep walking over.
I know there are lots of shy guys who like it when the girls approach. And I understand why the girls feel they need to be aggressive and approach guys as they have success with that behavior.
Speaking as a person who is not shy, and has no trouble asking a girl to come over and join me. I prefer to watch and see who is in the club before inviting a girl to sit with me and appreciate when I don't have to send every stripper (most of them) who stops by away.
MM.
Most of the time I just say I'm just hanging out for right now, if they want to sit then go ahead but I'm not going back. That has deterred a few of them, but others just don't get the message. Half the time they sit down and chat, the conversation is at least entertaining. But I do make it clear up front that I'm not looking to do anything.
I know this one, my friend. Before, her Southern accent was very strong, now is not so noticeable.
I take her back one time, but she has too many rules. No fun at all. It felt like once she gets me back there, she does not care if customer is happy or not.
She tells me 300 for everything covered. I say, okay, but experience was not good.
Thank you for the review. I had eyed her up a couple times at bogarts but not pulled the trigger. I am a sucker for redheads. She has went to the VIP every time I was there.
Writing up this report before I forget the details in the morning. Went to Henry's today to catch Selena as I had a referral from someone else, many thanks by the way, and overall enjoyed the experience. Got in at 5 as I was told she's working 2-7 and took a seat at the bar since I hadn't learned names yet and asking the bartender was my go to option with a small tip for their time. Club was pretty slow at this time with maybe 3 ish dancers when I first go it. It seemed to be some dancer's birthday since one of them had a ribbon which I believe said birthday or something on it. Selena found me later since the bartender directed her to me and I feel like what's been said on her appearance before is accurate. Overall for the experience with her I would repeat but the rooms in the club are small. Like I was afraid of spilling my drink small but it still worked out.
TLDR: Selena is worth seeing if possible. My notes from reading the forum say she's there Fri or Sat but ask before making the trip if possible.
Selena is a pro and always a good experience. You'll never have to worry about being ripped off, rushed, pestered for tips or getting screwed over by her. She doesn't play games and realizes the value of long term regulars. Additionally, she's a bargain in the club. The last time I talked to her there, she said her OTC rate starts at $1k.
Now compare her to someone like Melanie, who Electronman and Arianabp wrote about.
Yeah, Melanie may have made her money off them that day, but she'll never make another dime from either of them. Now that the board has been put on notice, there are also a lot of guys who were potential future customers whose business she's now lost. Apparently, she doesn't realize the value of long term customers. She's an instant avoid for me, and I've never even seen what she looks like.
I'm always going to encourage guys to see good providers because they deserve the business.
You have some kinks that are very different from mine, but I am with you on this one all the way.
When I used to hunt 20 year olds in the wild, that was my go to outfit.
The girls who dressed sexy I felt where advertising, and getting a lot of attention. But the girls dressed conservatively in jeans and button down shirt weren't advertising. The thing is they all undress nicely and my thinking was it took far more skill to get a girl who wasn't out there trying to attract a guy, and when you got her she had been having a lot less sex, and was most likely to go totally wild in the bedroom.
MM.
Yeah, we may have different kinks, but we definitely have some common ground on this one.
It's interesting to know many guys seem to feel the same way about a woman in jeans and a button down shirt. There's something incredibly enticing about it. It doesn't have to be glitzy, flashy or revealing to be a real turn on.
I actually appreciate the girls not approaching me until I am ready to receive them. If she is a girl I know and enjoy I don't mind her approaching me. I have found that the girls who approach uninvited maybe 1 out of 50 I am actually happy she sat with me. Most of the time I have to say I am not ready for company yet.
There is a strategy some girls use, obviously not the ones that where there on your visit. But it is to sit down with a guy and monopolize his time. They know other girls won't approach as long as they are sitting there. Most guys can only stay at the club an hour or two. And they try to soak up that time so the guy is faced with the choice of taking them or no one.
I used to have a buddy who would tip the girls $5, and say I am not going to take you to the VIP today so please move along. He seemed confused when the same girls came over every time he entered the club, he thought they would get the message he didn't want them. I had to explain they were coming for the $5. He was incenting to keep walking over.
I know there are lots of shy guys who like it when the girls approach. And I understand why the girls feel they need to be aggressive and approach guys as they have success with that behavior.
Speaking as a person who is not shy, and has no trouble asking a girl to come over and join me. I prefer to watch and see who is in the club before inviting a girl to sit with me and appreciate when I don't have to send every stripper (most of them) who stops by away.
MM.
There was a dancer at Chapeau Vert years ago who'd come up to you while she was eating chicken wings and say, "give me $5 and I'll go away. ' Otherwise she'd plop down at your table and eat a few. Keith thought it was hilarious.
You have some kinks that are very different from mine, but I am with you on this one all the way.
When I used to hunt 20 year olds in the wild, that was my go to outfit.
The girls who dressed sexy I felt where advertising, and getting a lot of attention. But the girls dressed conservatively in jeans and button down shirt weren't advertising. The thing is they all undress nicely and my thinking was it took far more skill to get a girl who wasn't out there trying to attract a guy, and when you got her she had been having a lot less sex, and was most likely to go totally wild in the bedroom.
I used to keep a log of how long they said it had been since they last had sex. One girl told me it was two years, and understandably from the moment I entered her, she was creaming all over my guy. Hehe.
Lots of good times. Doesn't really apply to the strip club, but I still like the look.
MM.
I agree a lady in the right pair of jeans is a turn on! This is is missing the button down shirt, she is retired.
I actually appreciate the girls not approaching me until I am ready to receive them. If she is a girl I know and enjoy I don't mind her approaching me. I have found that the girls who approach uninvited maybe 1 out of 50 I am actually happy she sat with me. Most of the time I have to say I am not ready for company yet.
There is a strategy some girls use, obviously not the ones that where there on your visit. But it is to sit down with a guy and monopolize his time. They know other girls won't approach as long as they are sitting there. Most guys can only stay at the club an hour or two. And they try to soak up that time so the guy is faced with the choice of taking them or no one.
I used to have a buddy who would tip the girls $5, and say I am not going to take you to the VIP today so please move along. He seemed confused when the same girls came over every time he entered the club, he thought they would get the message he didn't want them. I had to explain they were coming for the $5. He was incenting to keep walking over.
I know there are lots of shy guys who like it when the girls approach. And I understand why the girls feel they need to be aggressive and approach guys as they have success with that behavior.
Speaking as a person who is not shy, and has no trouble asking a girl to come over and join me. I prefer to watch and see who is in the club before inviting a girl to sit with me and appreciate when I don't have to send every stripper (most of them) who stops by away.
MM.
As someone who is a kind of weird shy I am one of the ones that hate it when they approach. Just like you I prefer to sit down for a bit and scout out who is there, take a short rest since its a relatively longer drive for me, and then go over and get the girl I want once I'm ready, rather than send 2-4 girls away in the first 30 minutes I am there.
Context on the weird shy: I have no problem going up to girls anywhere, but I hate it when they approach me first. Probably because I have my bearings fully set if I am the one approaching so it feels more like an ambush when its the other way around when its anything other than a dance floor. But as you said from a business stand point it makes sense, and one of the girls I regularly take to the back is super flirtatious and just gets close really fast which I can see would be very enjoyable for most guys but not for me.
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