Dating Sites

**SteveTimder** · 07-16-26 21:58

Originally Posted by SteveTimder [View Original Post]

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...MAbyQjDZZiqKZS

New to the game. Looks just like pics. Like most, she wants predictable meets and prefers very low volume, even exclusive. Doesn't say no if you're polite. Works but flexible availability, likes to kiss, loves to please, safe, legit. Start w public meet in Covington. Can not host at this time. No drugs, lots of tats, lost weight so some extra skin. Very reasonable gift if you're not an arse. I can share info to legit interested mongers. Especially if you're thinking longer term option. I'm happy w my regular and I'm certain that someone else could help her better.

Stay safe and treat them well.

To any legit interested monger.

Timder.

**SteveTimder** · 07-16-26 21:56

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...X6rHxvqpV6Qi-e

Texted back and forth. Have not met. Wants SD SB but says will do ppm. First ask 750 gift for 2 or 3 hour visit and random gifts. After rational interaction, 500 was discussed. I disengaged though we texted a bit. Just some baseline info for anyone interested. Stay safe.

Timder.

**SteveTimder** · 07-16-26 20:53

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...MAbyQjDZZiqKZS

New to the game. Looks just like pics. Like most, she wants predictable meets and prefers very low volume, even exclusive. Doesn't say no if you're polite. Works but flexible availability, likes to kiss, loves to please, safe, legit. Start w public meet in Covington. Can not host at this time. No drugs, lots of tats, lost weight so some extra skin. Very reasonable gift if you're not an arse. I can share info to legit interested mongers. Especially if you're thinking longer term option. I'm happy w my regular and I'm certain that someone else could help her better.

Stay safe and treat them well.

**Bbat18** · 07-16-26 13:55

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...0-2e7efca16f76 seen her. She is up north of town a little farther than what I like to travel. I have been talking to her for a long time and just decided to meet her finally. Glad I did. She looks like the pics except she is a little bigger in person. I personally like thick phat asses so she is perfect for me. Daty was fresh and tasty mish then finished in doggy. She is a little more pricy that what I normally am willing to pay but I have been talking to her for so long I said fuck it and went for it. I will definitely repeat when I have the time cause she is a bit of a drive from Dayton. Her place is clean organized and in a nice area. I do not have permission to share digits.

**SteveTimder** · 07-15-26 22:46

Learned something new. This site is a mirror to secret benefits. Same ladies, same format. So close that the system glitched while I was texting.

May be old news to some, but news to me.

Stay safe.

**Mizax** · 07-15-26 14:46

Originally Posted by RockaBillyRiot [View Original Post]

I renewed a few days ago and, HOLY SHIT, I'm texting with nearly 30 girls that want to meet RIGHT NOW!

No this is incredibly frustrating. Any of these women actually following through to a meet is very rare. If they look good they're going to start talking about deposits or content.

**OH4489** · 07-14-26 21:54

Originally Posted by RockaBillyRiot [View Original Post]

I've been on and off Seeking for roughly seven years. In the past, I'd be on for a month, collect a half dozen numbers, and not renew my subscription for three or four mouths.

I renewed a few days ago and, HOLY SHIT, I'm texting with nearly 30 girls that want to meet RIGHT NOW!

I've seen anything like this. Is it the economy or is it that "sugaring" has become normalized?

I am turning girls down. LOL Again, that has never happened to me.

You'll find more than half the ones that give you their numbers have no intention of doing anything with you and will ppm and you will leave with blue balls. Be careful and listen to your spider sense brother.

**TheDaytimer** · 07-14-26 18:38

Originally Posted by RockaBillyRiot [View Original Post]

I've been on and off Seeking for roughly seven years. In the past, I'd be on for a month, collect a half dozen numbers, and not renew my subscription for three or four mouths.

I renewed a few days ago and, HOLY SHIT, I'm texting with nearly 30 girls that want to meet RIGHT NOW!

I've seen anything like this. Is it the economy or is it that "sugaring" has become normalized?

I am turning girls down. LOL Again, that has never happened to me.

Most of hem are BOTS.

**RockaBillyRiot** · 07-14-26 16:07

I've been on and off Seeking for roughly seven years. In the past, I'd be on for a month, collect a half dozen numbers, and not renew my subscription for three or four mouths.

I renewed a few days ago and, HOLY SHIT, I'm texting with nearly 30 girls that want to meet RIGHT NOW!

I've seen anything like this. Is it the economy or is it that "sugaring" has become normalized?

I am turning girls down. LOL Again, that has never happened to me.

**OH4489** · 07-03-26 07:25

Originally Posted by Otljoin1 [View Original Post]

First of all, thank you very much for your reply and advice. I really appreciate it.

May I ask you a question? You mentioned that a good opening message should stand out and grab someone's attention. As you pointed out, my current opening is basically telling the other person what I'm looking for, rather than starting the conversation in a way that makes them want to keep talking.

I'd like to improve that, but I'm not sure what I should say instead. Would you mind giving me some advice or sharing a few examples? I'd really appreciate the opportunity to learn.

Thank you again for your help!

As with all dating sites, say something unique about their profile or pictures. The same applies to approaching girls girl. Just pick something about them and make a comment on it and then work from there. As for sites like seeking, you can just say something like, I'd love to take you to a fancy dinner and then see where the night takes us, and most girls will respond too. A lot of girls on that site are already seeing a lot of guys too though, so don't take it personally.

**Otljoin1** · 07-03-26 00:03

Originally Posted by PleasureGiver [View Original Post]

Wich ones?

Most are nothing but BOTS. LOL.

I went with this instead of Seeking and Secret Benefits. I was on Seeking for two months and only connected with one person. It just wasn't very effective for me.

**Otljoin1** · 07-02-26 19:37

Originally Posted by DawgPound [View Original Post]

Without knowing what your profile looks or reads like or your opening line, there's no way to assist you. I can say your opening has to stand out and get their attention. Hey, hello, what are you looking for all scream low energy and will rarely get a response. My opening gets a response 80% of the time, whether it's a WOW or LMAO. Find what fits your personality is all I can say.

First of all, thank you very much for your reply and advice. I really appreciate it.

May I ask you a question? You mentioned that a good opening message should stand out and grab someone's attention. As you pointed out, my current opening is basically telling the other person what I'm looking for, rather than starting the conversation in a way that makes them want to keep talking.

I'd like to improve that, but I'm not sure what I should say instead. Would you mind giving me some advice or sharing a few examples? I'd really appreciate the opportunity to learn.

Thank you again for your help!

**PleasureGiver** · 07-02-26 01:51

Originally Posted by Otljoin1 [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I could really use some advice.

I use dating apps and I don't mind spending 10 credits to unlock a girl's hidden photos. That's not the problem.

The problem is that I hardly get any replies. I'll send first messages to about 20 women, and maybe only 2 of them respond.

I'm trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Is it my profile, my photos, my opening message, or something else?

I'd really appreciate any advice from people who have more experience. If you have any tips on how to get more replies, please let me know. Thanks!

Wich ones?

Most are nothing but BOTS. LOL.

**DawgPound** · 07-01-26 23:21

Originally Posted by Otljoin1 [View Original Post]

Hey everyone, I could really use some advice.

I use dating apps and I don't mind spending 10 credits to unlock a girl's hidden photos. That's not the problem.

The problem is that I hardly get any replies. I'll send first messages to about 20 women, and maybe only 2 of them respond.

I'm trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Is it my profile, my photos, my opening message, or something else?

I'd really appreciate any advice from people who have more experience. If you have any tips on how to get more replies, please let me know. Thanks!

Without knowing what your profile looks or reads like or your opening line, there's no way to assist you. I can say your opening has to stand out and get their attention. Hey, hello, what are you looking for all scream low energy and will rarely get a response. My opening gets a response 80% of the time, whether it's a WOW or LMAO. Find what fits your personality is all I can say.