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[AMonger1]

Inbox is full.

Made some room but traded with another bro on here. Sadly didn't bother meeting. Wanted 300 for a quickie and no anal. Might just end up going back to hx or khouses. Been looking on sdm lately because membership is significantly cheaper but so are options on there. Def not as much or as hot.

[HollywoodGuy]

Have you ever described or thought of yourself as "intentional"? Where do they come up with this shit? And yes since you mention it I will intentionally lead you straight to the FC.

Actually my own take on it is that they want something more long term.

[RanManCan]

Yeah, it's ambiguous, but I wonder if it's meant to mean focused solely on them, like the SD will intentionally focused on only their needs, in an exclusive manner. I sometimes see this term on the profiles where the SB is asking for all her needs to be met, to get everything she wants.

Side note. Is anyone else recently experiencing more ghosting in the SB arena? Connections will be made and messaging started on the site, perhaps even entering some arrangement discussion and then the replies just stop. I think I have six SB's in my chat list who either matched with me or responded to my initial message and they all just stopped replying after a day or two. Such a bummer!

1. INTENTIONAL. I think we should all start asking them, and post their silly responses here.

2. GHOSTING. It doesn't seem any different to me. It's a funnel: Message on site 🡺 Message off site 🡺 Agree to meet 🡺 Actually meet 🡺 FC! A percentage drop off at every stage.

[Grail47]

Have you ever described or thought of yourself as "intentional"? Where do they come up with this shit? And yes since you mention it I will intentionally lead you straight to the FC.

Yeah, it's ambiguous, but I wonder if it's meant to mean focused solely on them, like the SD will intentionally focused on only their needs, in an exclusive manner. I sometimes see this term on the profiles where the SB is asking for all her needs to be met, to get everything she wants.

Side note. Is anyone else recently experiencing more ghosting in the SB arena? Connections will be made and messaging started on the site, perhaps even entering some arrangement discussion and then the replies just stop. I think I have six SB's in my chat list who either matched with me or responded to my initial message and they all just stopped replying after a day or two. Such a bummer!

[FarFarAway]

I am so sick of seeing this on profiles. It is everywhere. What do these chicks mean by it?

My intention is to bang your little brains out. It is as simple as that. But that surely isn't (only) what they want, they want to be courted too, mostly.

Have you ever described or thought of yourself as "intentional"? Where do they come up with this shit? And yes since you mention it I will intentionally lead you straight to the FC.

From 6 weeks ago.

[HollywoodGuy]

Have you ever described or thought of yourself as "intentional"? Where do they come up with this shit? And yes since you mention it I will intentionally lead you straight to the FC.

[Grail47]

Admittedly I'm not on the SA site, but based on all this it seems that they really want to be a legit dating site now. I guess why they technically removed the "arrangement" part of their name. Although, along the same lines, the SDM site is constantly inserting an alert at the top of all the chat pages as to how their site is for "genuine, long term relationships". I realize that we all have to be discreet, but it isn't as if these sites can pretend to be Match.com or eHarmony.

[RanManCan]

Thank you for reaching out. Your account has been suspended due to a violation of our updated Community Guidelines...

If you look under the hood at the info Seeking.com emits to your browser, you will find this:
```
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"ppm",
"p p m",
" p pm",
" pp m",
" p-p-m",
" p-pm",
" pp-m",
" p.p.m",
" p.pm",
" pp.m",
" p$p$m",
" p$pm",
" pp$m",
" per meet",
"pay p meet",
"$ per meet",
"charge per meet",
"sugar dad",
"sugar mom",
"sugar mam",
"sugar bab",
" sd",
" sb",
"allowance",
"what is your rate",
"paid FWB"
]
```

I'm confident those words will auto-flag you.

Of course, manual review can be a crap-shoot.

[Bobby O]

I've recently signed up for Seeking and I'm blown away by all the 10's on there. I'm fully obsessed and even though my ratio is only 2 out of 10, it has been awesome. My last hook up was 22 year old roommates for a BB threesome. I'm spending a fortune and need tips on negotiating. Help!

[FarFarAway]

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[Lexx1]

Hi guys, I'm really new to the sugar space. I've been talking to some girls and have a bunch lined up for PPM at my place. Now my question is we don't really talk about sex since they're not pros, how do you guys go about asking or hinting for it? Just don't want to have a girl show up just to hang out LOL. Any tips would be appreciated!

As Grail said ask questions. Getting "sex" is a broad term and can mean just fucking and no head sometimes. So I always clarify before we meet up what a girl is open to. I expect head, always. And that they at least take my nut in mouth. Plus for me everything should be bare. Maybe one or two beginning meets with rubber just for sex. But after it should be bare. Expectations should always be discussed. As much as a girl may want it to feel "non-transactional". Business is still business. And an arrangement is business.

Alot of these girls asking for generous in their profiles. I'm like well you better be generous with that mouth and pussy too. lol It goes both ways.

[Blackfin]

Hi guys, I'm really new to the sugar space. I've been talking to some girls and have a bunch lined up for PPM at my place. Now my question is we don't really talk about sex since they're not pros, how do you guys go about asking or hinting for it? Just don't want to have a girl show up just to hang out LOL. Any tips would be appreciated!

I would tell girls from SA I am looking for something fun, and must feel like there is mutual chemistry and attraction. Let's get together at my place to see how it goes. Are you ok starting with $500 PPM? If they say yes and come over, NEVER was there mention of sex, yet it always happened. We grab a drink in lobby or wherever we are meeting, chat for a 15 minutes (longer if I wanted) start flirting, touching and kiss them to get started. Someone agreeing to PPM is a pro. If I ever felt they were not pro, I would suggest we meet for a drink / coffee to see the chemistry, and that always led to having sex.

Has worked 100's of times.

[ReboundJohn]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-2ac4345cbcfa

Anyone have Rosies contact info and willing to exchange for some intel? Been a struggle to find someone open to anal. How do some of you guys find it so easily?

Inbox is full.

[Grail47]

Hi guys, I'm really new to the sugar space. I've been talking to some girls and have a bunch lined up for PPM at my place. Now my question is we don't really talk about sex since they're not pros, how do you guys go about asking or hinting for it? Just don't want to have a girl show up just to hang out LOL. Any tips would be appreciated!

Well, if you have any experience with traditional dating, you can just ask questions of her. By now you should have already had the discussion of what you're both looking for in this kind of arrangement. You're able to then ask about her likes, dislikes and boundaries.

[KayBez]

Hi guys, I'm really new to the sugar space. I've been talking to some girls and have a bunch lined up for PPM at my place. Now my question is we don't really talk about sex since they're not pros, how do you guys go about asking or hinting for it? Just don't want to have a girl show up just to hang out LOL. Any tips would be appreciated!