Escort Reports

[BoatJock]

Sorry for your less than stellar experience! It stinks when one is all keyed up and looking to cross the finish line and get mission aborted! Not sure if it's any consolation but it has happened to me several times too. Appreciate you sharing the experience, as, as you point out YMMV! So many of the "less than perfect' experiences never get posted, so it takes guts to stand up and report as you did. Especially with someone as reviewed and popular around here.

But the whole experience got me thinking and hope me sharing some thoughts doesn't offend!. I don't know what exactly is going on here, so all I can do is reckless speculation, fwiw. Please no offense intended. Just hope it helps someone out there.

First off I had to learn / remember any girl has the right to see whomever she wishes and reject anyone she choses. Just because she is escorting doesn't mean she's 'less than' nor that she's necessarily desperate and has to see anybody. Desperation is often what one finds with the street girl and drugs. If there is no indication that a girl is on drugs or has a habit, then likely she's NOT desperate.

So that said, IF a girl gets to choose who she sees, then one needs to be on their best behavior. So a girl who has been posted all over this forum is likely VERY popular and has lots of inquires. I wouldn't be surprised if she gets 50-100 texts / calls in a day, and if so, IF you wish to see her then one needs to find a way stand out from the pack, in a good way. Me thinks one does that by being polite and a gentleman.

Second, I never expect a girl to respond the instant I text her. She could be dating someone else, at a dentist appointment, getting her beauty rest or something else. These girls have lives too and aren't always sitting there waiting for a text from me. It happens to me all of the time, don't get a response for hours or the next day. That just tells me she is busy and perhaps something in my note put me to the back of the line as far as she is concerned. If I think that's the case, then I look to sharpen up my approach.

Now I'll say this, catching an attitude with these girls because she didn't respond fast enough doesn't get me anywhere. In fact, a few times I believe doing that got me blacklisted with her circle of friends. But it sure didn't lead to a successful date, or perhaps she added a "premium" to the meet up price, because of my attitude? So I have found a bit of patience is helpful too. In fact, I had my Doc write me a script so I could get a booster dose at the Pharmacy!

I am interested to see a girl have you park in front of one unit and come to her in another unit. (doing that is IMHO kind counter to the rules, fwiw) That suggests to me she is being careful and from that perhaps her spidey senses are tingling to start with. I see nothing wrong with her approach from that perspective. She's being safe. Perhaps she has a room with a roommate and uses the other room for meetings? Is it irritating- Sure. Is it necessarily a red flag, don't think so. Again, if I let these things get to me and that effects the way I approach the girl, then that can work against me.

One thing I have learned with time is to get an understanding of the menu UPFRONT. If I were traveling 10-minutes and it wasn't a big expenditure of time if things go south, then maybe not so detailed. But if I was traveling a far piece, I'd want to make sure we were on the same page before heading out. Showing up as an unknown and then wanting to talk about menu puts me very close to an illegal act. Talking money and sex. So if the menu is clear before hand, no need for discussions. Also, IF something I desire is not on her menu, then I get to decide if that is fatal to meeting, or whether I am flexible to let one thing go. IF a girl has been clear in her posts as to the donation for her time / massage / companionship, then there is no need for in person discussion.

I agree with what Paul said about money on meeting. Girls are always wary of guys who play and dip. So to put them at ease, I make sure I show them I have the money for the massage within a min or two of meeting. One can place it on a counter, dresser or night stand away from the massage table, but her seeing it and being able to tell it's real and the correct amount puts her at ease. I have found that leads to a better massage experience.

But from what was reported sounds like she does have some form of security around. Which is a good thing. I'm always supportive of girls being safe!

Also, how one presents themself I have found can be important. Who would a girl rather see? A dude who shows up with shirt and pants he's had on for days, is disheveled, has body odor, bad breath OR the dude who is freshly showered, clean clothes, nice cologne, brushed teeth with minty fresh breath? (not saying this is OP, just general comment from girls' perspective).

Finally, in this hobby we are dealing with people and it took me a while to understand that not everyone is going to hit it off or be compatible, no matter what the needs are on each side. I have found no amount of money can change attitudes on some things. So I plan for that each time I see someone new. I always have some 'no thank you' money set aside. So in a case where a girl has to go help her Dad, I'd toss her a Jackson and politely excuse myself. Yeah, I don't like giving away money, but doing that is a great gesture of goodwill and perhaps will soften her stance and the next time she'll be willing to see me?

I dunno, all of the above is just general advice & observations. Again, likely none of it applies to OP, but it is often helpful to review some of the things that go on so we can adjust our approach and have happy outcomes.

Just some thoughts and hopefully they are helpful to some one out there?

Sorry again for the experience. Appreciate the heads up!

Great pointers and overview Shampoo55! Thanks!

[Shampoo55]

After seeing a couple of good reviews on KittyAds, I decided to give this little nugget a try. This experience was the definition of YMMV. Set-up started off easy enough, until I asked for her location.

It took a half hour for her to respond. I should have dropped out right there, but was far too invested in trying her to do so. Texted her when I arrived and after a few minutes, she tells me to park in front of a specific unit, which I do. More minutes go by. She asks where I'm at, so I tell her. She tells me to go to another unit, that turns out to be hers. M'kay. Get in the room and she immediately tells me that she's been drinking. She doesn't seem drunk so, no sweat. Then she wants to know what I want. Mention I like oral; giving & receiving. That's a problem. She doesn't like having it done to her. Keep in mind, she's texting away on her phone the whole time. Then comes a knock on the door. She peek's out, I hear a guy but not what is said. She tells me that it's her dad and he needs her help, so we'll need to reschedule. Fortunately, no money was exchanged, so I left intact. I figure something put her off about the encounter, and she phoned-a-friend to bail her out. If you decide to visit her, under no circumstances should you pay her first! Again, YMMV.

https://www.kittyads.com/ad-4606392-Its+Saturday+guys+Incalls+content+available.

Sorry for your less than stellar experience! It stinks when one is all keyed up and looking to cross the finish line and get mission aborted! Not sure if it's any consolation but it has happened to me several times too. Appreciate you sharing the experience, as, as you point out YMMV! So many of the "less than perfect' experiences never get posted, so it takes guts to stand up and report as you did. Especially with someone as reviewed and popular around here.

But the whole experience got me thinking and hope me sharing some thoughts doesn't offend!. I don't know what exactly is going on here, so all I can do is reckless speculation, fwiw. Please no offense intended. Just hope it helps someone out there.

First off I had to learn / remember any girl has the right to see whomever she wishes and reject anyone she choses. Just because she is escorting doesn't mean she's 'less than' nor that she's necessarily desperate and has to see anybody. Desperation is often what one finds with the street girl and drugs. If there is no indication that a girl is on drugs or has a habit, then likely she's NOT desperate.

So that said, IF a girl gets to choose who she sees, then one needs to be on their best behavior. So a girl who has been posted all over this forum is likely VERY popular and has lots of inquires. I wouldn't be surprised if she gets 50-100 texts / calls in a day, and if so, IF you wish to see her then one needs to find a way stand out from the pack, in a good way. Me thinks one does that by being polite and a gentleman.

Second, I never expect a girl to respond the instant I text her. She could be dating someone else, at a dentist appointment, getting her beauty rest or something else. These girls have lives too and aren't always sitting there waiting for a text from me. It happens to me all of the time, don't get a response for hours or the next day. That just tells me she is busy and perhaps something in my note put me to the back of the line as far as she is concerned. If I think that's the case, then I look to sharpen up my approach.

Now I'll say this, catching an attitude with these girls because she didn't respond fast enough doesn't get me anywhere. In fact, a few times I believe doing that got me blacklisted with her circle of friends. But it sure didn't lead to a successful date, or perhaps she added a "premium" to the meet up price, because of my attitude? So I have found a bit of patience is helpful too. In fact, I had my Doc write me a script so I could get a booster dose at the Pharmacy!

I am interested to see a girl have you park in front of one unit and come to her in another unit. (doing that is IMHO kind counter to the rules, fwiw) That suggests to me she is being careful and from that perhaps her spidey senses are tingling to start with. I see nothing wrong with her approach from that perspective. She's being safe. Perhaps she has a room with a roommate and uses the other room for meetings? Is it irritating- Sure. Is it necessarily a red flag, don't think so. Again, if I let these things get to me and that effects the way I approach the girl, then that can work against me.

One thing I have learned with time is to get an understanding of the menu UPFRONT. If I were traveling 10-minutes and it wasn't a big expenditure of time if things go south, then maybe not so detailed. But if I was traveling a far piece, I'd want to make sure we were on the same page before heading out. Showing up as an unknown and then wanting to talk about menu puts me very close to an illegal act. Talking money and sex. So if the menu is clear before hand, no need for discussions. Also, IF something I desire is not on her menu, then I get to decide if that is fatal to meeting, or whether I am flexible to let one thing go. IF a girl has been clear in her posts as to the donation for her time / massage / companionship, then there is no need for in person discussion.

I agree with what Paul said about money on meeting. Girls are always wary of guys who play and dip. So to put them at ease, I make sure I show them I have the money for the massage within a min or two of meeting. One can place it on a counter, dresser or night stand away from the massage table, but her seeing it and being able to tell it's real and the correct amount puts her at ease. I have found that leads to a better massage experience.

But from what was reported sounds like she does have some form of security around. Which is a good thing. I'm always supportive of girls being safe!

Also, how one presents themself I have found can be important. Who would a girl rather see? A dude who shows up with shirt and pants he's had on for days, is disheveled, has body odor, bad breath OR the dude who is freshly showered, clean clothes, nice cologne, brushed teeth with minty fresh breath? (not saying this is OP, just general comment from girls' perspective).

Finally, in this hobby we are dealing with people and it took me a while to understand that not everyone is going to hit it off or be compatible, no matter what the needs are on each side. I have found no amount of money can change attitudes on some things. So I plan for that each time I see someone new. I always have some 'no thank you' money set aside. So in a case where a girl has to go help her Dad, I'd toss her a Jackson and politely excuse myself. Yeah, I don't like giving away money, but doing that is a great gesture of goodwill and perhaps will soften her stance and the next time she'll be willing to see me?

I dunno, all of the above is just general advice & observations. Again, likely none of it applies to OP, but it is often helpful to review some of the things that go on so we can adjust our approach and have happy outcomes.

Just some thoughts and hopefully they are helpful to some one out there?

Sorry again for the experience. Appreciate the heads up!

[PaulBunyon1996]

After seeing a couple of good reviews on KittyAds, I decided to give this little nugget a try. This experience was the definition of YMMV. Set-up started off easy enough, until I asked for her location.

It took a half hour for her to respond. I should have dropped out right there, but was far too invested in trying her to do so. Texted her when I arrived and after a few minutes, she tells me to park in front of a specific unit, which I do. More minutes go by. She asks where I'm at, so I tell her. She tells me to go to another unit, that turns out to be hers. M'kay. Get in the room and she immediately tells me that she's been drinking. She doesn't seem drunk so, no sweat. Then she wants to know what I want. Mention I like oral; giving & receiving. That's a problem. She doesn't like having it done to her. Keep in mind, she's texting away on her phone the whole time. Then comes a knock on the door. She peek's out, I hear a guy but not what is said. She tells me that it's her dad and he needs her help, so we'll need to reschedule. Fortunately, no money was exchanged, so I left intact. I figure something put her off about the encounter, and she phoned-a-friend to bail her out. If you decide to visit her, under no circumstances should you pay her first! Again, YMMV.

https://www.kittyads.com/ad-4606392-Its+Saturday+guys+Incalls+content+available.

Once my trip fell through this week. I seen Jaydah twice. Including this weekend. What may have spooked her was no loot upfront. As for the guy that came to the door. That ain't no friend bruh. It was pops. Something made her nervous. No loot upfront probably did it. My guess. But yeah. The first thing I do when I see someone is put the loot on the table. Then it's down to biz. No loot. No biz. And you being a first timer didn't help.

[AgedGeek]

After seeing a couple of good reviews on KittyAds, I decided to give this little nugget a try. This experience was the definition of YMMV. Set-up started off easy enough, until I asked for her location.

It took a half hour for her to respond. I should have dropped out right there, but was far too invested in trying her to do so. Texted her when I arrived and after a few minutes, she tells me to park in front of a specific unit, which I do. More minutes go by. She asks where I'm at, so I tell her. She tells me to go to another unit, that turns out to be hers. M'kay. Get in the room and she immediately tells me that she's been drinking. She doesn't seem drunk so, no sweat. Then she wants to know what I want. Mention I like oral; giving & receiving. That's a problem. She doesn't like having it done to her. Keep in mind, she's texting away on her phone the whole time. Then comes a knock on the door. She peek's out, I hear a guy but not what is said. She tells me that it's her dad and he needs her help, so we'll need to reschedule. Fortunately, no money was exchanged, so I left intact. I figure something put her off about the encounter, and she phoned-a-friend to bail her out. If you decide to visit her, under no circumstances should you pay her first! Again, YMMV.

https://www.kittyads.com/ad-4606392-Its+Saturday+guys+Incalls+content+available.

[Shampoo55]

SAY WHAT???

Always amazes me what I see from time to time in adverts!

Overnights Start At 1,200.
My SS Is $250.
My HH Is $400.
My FH Is $600.

NO LOW BALLERS

So she is firm in those prices, while advertising on EA / LC?

But don't forget!

IN Calls ONLY ! Outcalls Requires Black Car Service

What's black car service? Can I show up in my black 1998 Toyota Corolla?

Looks to me like Miss Sipp is looking for Mr Simp!

https://listcrawler.eu/last_phone_post/3022161445

[Biff3667]

I have not seen her, but in looking at all the pics on her ad:

That first picture looks natural and if it's accurate, she has sexy eyes and a pretty face. I'd hit that.

That second picture obviously has her face AI-smoothed, makes her look worse, and I wouldn't use it to judge her looks. Yellow flag, because why would she post that?

Her third picture clearly shows she's thick, you can see it in her waist, even from the back. That's a personal preference thing and that's about at the upper limit of my body type preferences. But not over it.

Not shown on the report below but seen in the linked ad, is a picture of her with her tits out. I'd bet that's an older picture because it doesn't show her as thick as the one where she's doing the split (which is probably more recent). There are exceptions, but usually weight tends to go up over time. That's a shame, because her tits look fantastic in that picture and the ratio of those big tits to her smaller waist and belly is much better there than it appears to be in the picture of her doing the split.

But there's something to be said for a woman who can do a split irrespective of her body type because flexible is flexible and opens up other possibilities position-wise.

From my perspective, with my preferences, I'd take the chance on a meet if I wasn't more than 45 or so minutes away. But if you're driving for awhile to meet her, I'd have a backup plan (or two), with one of those being a local (ish) AMP where you can just call ahead and walk in shortly thereafter. Otherwise it's a bigger risk of an entirely wasted trip.

If you see her, report back!

Her name is Denay. One guy who seen her hit me up. Said she was a little out of it when they met up but did finish him off. He said her BBBJ was decent. So that's enough for me to see her. I love a good head job. I did hear from her. Said her hh is 140. I asked if she'll do ss for 80. Said she doesn't do anything for less than a 100. So we'll see. At least she's in Seaford which isn't that far. I'll more than likely give her a try. At least for the BJ if not the sex. Depends on how everything is going.

[PaulBunyon1996]

We were supposed to be going to New Castle Pa tomorrow and was going to be there til next Tuesday. Got the word today it was canceled. That's the third trip within the last year that's been canceled. Smh. I was really looking forward to smashing this one. Name's Lisa. Gave me rates of 85 for ss 120 for hh and 150 for an hour. And she's 40. Oh well. Guess I'll have to smash one of my regulars around here now.

[Jayke00]

I reached out to her this morning but of course haven't heard from her yet. She does seem further South or at least close by. I did put something on the eastern shore thread. Nobody said anything about meeting her. But one guy said he did see her by a gas station and she's a little thicker than her pics. He also said the pic showing the tat is the closest to how she looks.

https://skipthegames.com/posts/delaw...n/968076767426

I have not seen her, but in looking at all the pics on her ad:

That first picture looks natural and if it's accurate, she has sexy eyes and a pretty face. I'd hit that.

That second picture obviously has her face AI-smoothed, makes her look worse, and I wouldn't use it to judge her looks. Yellow flag, because why would she post that?

Her third picture clearly shows she's thick, you can see it in her waist, even from the back. That's a personal preference thing and that's about at the upper limit of my body type preferences. But not over it.

Not shown on the report below but seen in the linked ad, is a picture of her with her tits out. I'd bet that's an older picture because it doesn't show her as thick as the one where she's doing the split (which is probably more recent). There are exceptions, but usually weight tends to go up over time. That's a shame, because her tits look fantastic in that picture and the ratio of those big tits to her smaller waist and belly is much better there than it appears to be in the picture of her doing the split.

But there's something to be said for a woman who can do a split irrespective of her body type because flexible is flexible and opens up other possibilities position-wise.

From my perspective, with my preferences, I'd take the chance on a meet if I wasn't more than 45 or so minutes away. But if you're driving for awhile to meet her, I'd have a backup plan (or two), with one of those being a local (ish) AMP where you can just call ahead and walk in shortly thereafter. Otherwise it's a bigger risk of an entirely wasted trip.

If you see her, report back!

[Biff3667]

I reached out to her this morning but of course haven't heard from her yet. She does seem further South or at least close by. I did put something on the eastern shore thread. Nobody said anything about meeting her. But one guy said he did see her by a gas station and she's a little thicker than her pics. He also said the pic showing the tat is the closest to how she looks.

https://skipthegames.com/posts/delaw...n/968076767426

[Biff3667]

I finally got to chat with Jaydah. It's a long time since I last chatted with her. I am planning on meeting her but I'm going to wait until I'm in Wilmington visiting again. I still have family and friends that I do visit. Mainly family. It's good to finally get a response. I've been wanting to meet her for two years now. It has a good chance off finally happening. I won't even care if she's doing the discount rates or not. The rates she does regularly will work for me. I just want to meet her.

[Shampoo55]

Last time I comment on her, I promise. She doesn't actually seem to want to take on too many, just looking to pay the bills. Probably why so many have had trouble getting in to see her. She said she was one, maybe two a day. I'd say for anyone trying to just keep trying, but don't be too aggressive about it. If you can get in with her, and she likes you, she's pretty much available whenever you want.

Happy hunting and stay safe.

So my reading of what DM reports is this (fwiw):

If Jaydah's just trying to pay the bills and only sees 1-2 guys a day, THEN I suspect she is HIGHLY SELECTIVE in who she sees! That means one's opening approach needs to be spot on, or she's going to move to the next guy! I mean, with as often as she advertises, as much has been printed about her here (HUGE number of free ride lurkers) her phone has to be blowing up. So if she has so many, she doesn't need to see every guy that contacts her. Also, by now I suspect she has a reservoir of guys she's seen that are acceptable as regulars and perhaps doesn't need more.

So if this is correct then approach is everything. Some tips for the lurkers and newbies:

1. DO NOT send a one or two word text. Something like "hey" or "yo" will get you ignored.

2. DO NOT send dick pics! Most girls aren't turned on by pics of yer junk and in fact doing that gets you blocked or ignored. Shows yer a Neanderthal.

3. DON'T be aggressive or a jerk. What's on the other end is a human being with feelings and if you can't be respectful, yer opportunities will be limited.

4. DON'T ask questions about things that are already answered in her posts. I. e. Asking about rates that are already posted makes you look like LE or inattentive / cheap / dumb.

5. Start off the way you'd want to be approached is you were selling something on FB Market place or eBay. BE POLITE (the horror! Express interest, mention something about you.

6. DO NOT do something illegal like asking "how much for just a BJ?" Talking anything about sex & money (anything of value) is a violation of the law.

7. If you have contacted her and got no response, try again later and improve your approach. Remember, the trail of you prior texts / calls is available.

8. Do not get frustrated or pissed off. You allow that anger or frustration to show through in your contacts, you'll turn any girl off.

9. Remember any girl gets to decide who she sees and who she avoids. If you think she owes it to you or you are special, think again.

10. If you are not having success, work on your approach. Refine it and try again, then maybe refine it some more.

Look the stated purpose of this site is helping guys find girls. For most, they think that means just "give me the names of girls that have been seen" while in reality and in the past the site has been useful in helping guys with approach, things to avoid and ways to stay safe.

So if you think you could benefit from some tweaks to approach, methods, or whatever, JUST ASK! There are many experienced guys who like to share what works and what doesn't. You just have to be man enough to seek the help.

Oh and don't forget!
Last day for discounted rates guys
https://www.kittyads.com/ad-4596394-Last+day+for+discounted+rates+guys

Good luck hunting!
stepping down off soapbox now

[Biff3667]

Last time I comment on her, I promise. She doesn't actually seem to want to take on too many, just looking to pay the bills. Probably why so many have had trouble getting in to see her. She said she was one, maybe two a day. I'd say for anyone trying to just keep trying, but don't be too aggressive about it. If you can get in with her, and she likes you, she's pretty much available whenever you want.

Happy hunting and stay safe.

I'm not disputing your obvious close ties to Jaydah. I may be new on this site but have been around long enough to know that we can't believe everything these women tell us. No matter how close we are to them. They will tell us what we want to hear to make us feel good. You seem to be a very smart guy. You really believe she dropped her rates just to see one or two guys a day? I wouldn't believe a word. If she dropped her rates like that. She's on a mission and you can best believe that she has and will see more than just one or two guys a day. If that was the case. Why even bother dropping the rates. It wouldn't make sense. These women are going to do what's best for them. And if it means telling us what we want to hear instead of the truth. They'll do it. That's how I see it. I'm not putting her down or judging her. She got to do what she's got to do. I just hope I get the chance to meet her someday.

[DarkMatter5168]

I bet she's getting that kitty tore up.

Last time I comment on her, I promise. She doesn't actually seem to want to take on too many, just looking to pay the bills. Probably why so many have had trouble getting in to see her. She said she was one, maybe two a day. I'd say for anyone trying to just keep trying, but don't be too aggressive about it. If you can get in with her, and she likes you, she's pretty much available whenever you want.

Happy hunting and stay safe.

[ScottWalkerUga]

Maybe her low rate equals high volume is working. And she's packing that kitty with ice. LOL.

There is a chick I that visits Va beach that is a bigger girl. Pretty. Great tits snug kitty that hosts in a nice hotel.

$100 HR. And Greek is in the menu. No kissing. No BJ of any kind.

I actually visited her once. Nothing super, but a pleasant experience just the same.

[Biff3667]

Maybe her low rate equals high volume is working. And she's packing that kitty with ice. LOL.

There is a chick I that visits Va beach that is a bigger girl. Pretty. Great tits snug kitty that hosts in a nice hotel.

$100 HR. And Greek is in the menu. No kissing. No BJ of any kind.

Stranger things have happened.

Possible Jada's daily goal is $500. . No bs. No problems.

Why bang 10 dudes. If 4 pay the bills a stack some cash. ??

Possibly a Ho that thinks.

I bet she's getting that kitty tore up.