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**Grail47** · 04-20-26 21:34

Originally Posted by SecondLove [View Original Post]

Let's assume her story was legit and the address she gave you really was a jail intake location. You might have been on the hook for hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars for bail money which you will never get back. And even if you can get her released, she's not going horizontal with you that night. Next, you are now her "go to" for every little emergency in her life, real or imagined. That means desperate asks for cash at 2:30 am and promises she will "make it up to you" later (hint: she will not). All that for the low potential to get more mediocre sex in the future? Hard pass.

And if your Spidey Senses were correct (I think they are) you would have ended up at some ambush location where her pimp, or BF, or GF, etc. , would be waiting with weapons.

There are just too many SB's around who have a (shitty) job, and a (shitty) car, no warrants, and understand the sugar bowl well enough to look for long-term results with a decent SD.

And those SB's will rock your world in bed.

I appreciate the perspective! While I am typically a trusting person who likes to help, this just seemed really suspicious to me. Perhaps after reading of other scams here on this board!

That being said, I decided to pause my SDM account for a little while. I was finding it too tempting and time consuming to keep finding and making new connections with SB's and I've currently got 4-5 SB's on my roster that I'm really happy with, seeing each of them every other week or so.

**SecondLove** · 04-20-26 13:03

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get the appeal to be the hero, but nah! This seemed like way too much drama to get into that late into the evening, way past when we were initially planning to meet up anyway. I have several other SB's that I'm seeing so I'm also not approaching this specific person from a scarcity mindset.

Let's assume her story was legit and the address she gave you really was a jail intake location. You might have been on the hook for hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars for bail money which you will never get back. And even if you can get her released, she's not going horizontal with you that night. Next, you are now her "go to" for every little emergency in her life, real or imagined. That means desperate asks for cash at 2:30 am and promises she will "make it up to you" later (hint: she will not). All that for the low potential to get more mediocre sex in the future? Hard pass.

And if your Spidey Senses were correct (I think they are) you would have ended up at some ambush location where her pimp, or BF, or GF, etc. , would be waiting with weapons.

There are just too many SB's around who have a (shitty) job, and a (shitty) car, no warrants, and understand the sugar bowl well enough to look for long-term results with a decent SD.

And those SB's will rock your world in bed.

**Grail47** · 04-15-26 14:52

Originally Posted by RanManCan [View Original Post]

YES, they drive around for months / years without license plates, expired tags, no insurance, busted lights - just begging to get pulled over. I think you missed an opportunity to be the hero.

I think you should reach out and offer to Uber her to you.

Or send me her profile and I'll let you know how it goes!

Yeah, I get the appeal to be the hero, but nah! This seemed like way too much drama to get into that late into the evening, way past when we were initially planning to meet up anyway. I have several other SB's that I'm seeing so I'm also not approaching this specific person from a scarcity mindset.

**RanManCan** · 04-15-26 12:16

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

Yes, anything is possible, all that could have happened, but it seemed fishy to me. That mention of her mom and sister? I thought she told me they all lived in NE area. And she's driving around without a valid license every day, even to work?

But no, I didn't offer to go get her, that was her request of me, and it seemed dangerous to me to simply go to any address she provided.

YES, they drive around for months / years without license plates, expired tags, no insurance, busted lights - just begging to get pulled over. I think you missed an opportunity to be the hero.

I think you should reach out and offer to Uber her to you.

Or send me her profile and I'll let you know how it goes!

**Grail47** · 04-15-26 11:51

Originally Posted by David032 [View Original Post]

I mean, was it a scam? Did you try to go pick her up LOL. I laugh at this because one time I was meeting an SB who a friend introduced me to. She no showed. As I was leaving the location, I saw a car pulled over by cops and didn't think anything of it.

I hit my friend up, and she said she couldn't get ahold of her. A week went by, and finally my friend reached out and said the girl was in jail. Turns out the car I passed being pulled over was her. She was stopped for a taillight and arrested on outstanding warrants, confirmed by a jail search.

LOL, stuff does happen. The big question is, did you offer to go get her?

Yes, anything is possible, all that could have happened, but it seemed fishy to me. That mention of her mom and sister? I thought she told me they all lived in NE area. And she's driving around without a valid license every day, even to work?

But no, I didn't offer to go get her, that was her request of me, and it seemed dangerous to me to simply go to any address she provided.

**David032** · 04-15-26 08:54

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

Well, I seem to have been scammed AFTER having already met up with this SB previously. This is with an SB I met on SDM last month. After messaging, we had a phone call to chat, then a Facetime a few days later, before planning an in-person meet. Everything was settled as far as boundaries and ppm. On that day she was supposed to drive to me but her work ran long (nail tech) and she asked if I could drive to her place. I did so and we had a relatively okay time there, even if her menu was limited for our first time.

Well, tonight was supposed to be her visiting my place. Time was agreed upon and then she wanted to get outfits to try for me (I could care less about outfits). She kept me updated on her ETA, then texted me later to say she stopped for gas. She asked if I could "help a girl out with this". I said that I don't send money in advance since I've been scammed like that once before. She replied back "How can I possibly scam you babe we've met already? So yep, you guessed it, I sent her funds for gas.

She sent me a picture of her POV on the freeway, to indicate she was back on the road, but a 45 minute ETA turned into 2 hours. And then this:

"I got pulled over and they towed the car because my license isn't good anymore OMG 😭128549; can you come get me my mom can't come I called my sister she said she might be able to please ill send you the address".

I mean. WTF?!

I mean, was it a scam? Did you try to go pick her up LOL. I laugh at this because one time I was meeting an SB who a friend introduced me to. She no showed. As I was leaving the location, I saw a car pulled over by cops and didn't think anything of it.

I hit my friend up, and she said she couldn't get ahold of her. A week went by, and finally my friend reached out and said the girl was in jail. Turns out the car I passed being pulled over was her. She was stopped for a taillight and arrested on outstanding warrants, confirmed by a jail search.

LOL, stuff does happen. The big question is, did you offer to go get her?

**Grail47** · 04-14-26 22:39

Well, I seem to have been scammed AFTER having already met up with this SB previously. This is with an SB I met on SDM last month. After messaging, we had a phone call to chat, then a Facetime a few days later, before planning an in-person meet. Everything was settled as far as boundaries and ppm. On that day she was supposed to drive to me but her work ran long (nail tech) and she asked if I could drive to her place. I did so and we had a relatively okay time there, even if her menu was limited for our first time.

Well, tonight was supposed to be her visiting my place. Time was agreed upon and then she wanted to get outfits to try for me (I could care less about outfits). She kept me updated on her ETA, then texted me later to say she stopped for gas. She asked if I could "help a girl out with this". I said that I don't send money in advance since I've been scammed like that once before. She replied back "How can I possibly scam you babe we've met already? So yep, you guessed it, I sent her funds for gas.

She sent me a picture of her POV on the freeway, to indicate she was back on the road, but a 45 minute ETA turned into 2 hours. And then this:

"I got pulled over and they towed the car because my license isn't good anymore OMG 😭128549; can you come get me my mom can't come I called my sister she said she might be able to please ill send you the address".

I mean. WTF?!

**Grail47** · 04-10-26 17:58

Hi everyone! As before, these are profiles on SDM. Has anyone had any encounters with these SB's?

Scarlet. She liked my profile, I liked her back, we messaged and were aligned, she shared her number, I texted. Then nothing:

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74500374

Mina. As above, she liked my profile, I liked her back, we messaged and were aligned, however she lives in Whittier and doesn't have a car so suggested meeting halfway. Her profile might be TGTBT, but she's my type (short & thick):

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72794173

No name yet, but 5 Staarrpacc username. Liked my profile and seems direct enough that we'll be aligned:

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=74121482

**SecondLove** · 04-04-26 14:54

Originally Posted by Calorie [View Original Post]

That is called answering a question that no one asked. Kind of like a false exculpatory statement.

To actually answer your question:

No. She is way out of the typical range for potential sugar baby arrangements. Too old, too expensive, too dominant (yes, she can act submissive for pay, but she's not at all naturally submissive), and too public. She is not a good fit for what I (and probably most here) find works best in sugar arrangements. Younger (18-28), less life experience (especially upscale experiences), less secure financially, and more comfortable letting her SD lead, plan and control dates and other activities, including under the sheets are the "sweet spot" of sugaring.

For most (or at least for me), strong masculine mindset women, especially dominant and independent women make for poor sugar arrangements. These women attract simps, not Daddies.

**Lexx1** · 04-02-26 16:09

Originally Posted by Domelike2020 [View Original Post]

No recs in that area, but have used dayuse once. Got a room for 10-2 pm and when I checked in the manager said to just call direct and ask for a day rate room. He quoted a little less than the dayuse rate.

10 am to 2 pm is the usual sweet spot meet up times for me too. Especially if a girl is a little far away. I rarely get a room nowadays unless they're about an hour away. But I've also brought those girls home if they were cool with it. I mostly bring a girl to my house now or have some car fun with them. That timeframe is good to hopefully avoid rush hour traffic which happens on the weekends unfortunately nowadays as well LA traffic sucks all the time now.

**Grail47** · 04-02-26 11:20

Originally Posted by Domelike2020 [View Original Post]

No recs in that area, but have used dayuse once. Got a room for 10-2 pm and when I checked in the manager said to just call direct and ask for a day rate room. He quoted a little less than the dayuse rate.

So you may want to call around to motels and see if they offer day rates.

This all helpful info, thanks much! We've got plans to meet up on Monday, so I still have time to check around. I hope it will be a fun midday excursion!

**Domelike2020** · 04-02-26 00:32

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

So, I've been messaging with a new SB and due to the distance, we might try to meet up at a spot equidistant between us. I know of "day use" hotels and figured that this is the best option. Has anyone here had experience with renting a room at the day use hotels? Any recommendations in the Montebello or Whittier area?

No recs in that area, but have used dayuse once. Got a room for 10-2 pm and when I checked in the manager said to just call direct and ask for a day rate room. He quoted a little less than the dayuse rate.

So you may want to call around to motels and see if they offer day rates.

**Lexx1** · 04-01-26 17:42

Originally Posted by Grail47 [View Original Post]

So, I've been messaging with a new SB and due to the distance, we might try to meet up at a spot equidistant between us. I know of "day use" hotels and figured that this is the best option. Has anyone here had experience with renting a room at the day use hotels? Any recommendations in the Montebello or Whittier area?

If the site is dayuse.com. From looking at their average prices it doesn't seem that far off from paying full price. The low prices around 60/70 I'd just get a Motel 6 at that price for the whole day. The benefit I'm really only seeing is if you need a room early before usual check in times of 2/3 pm. If you need a room around noon or earlier in the morning. Whenever I've needed a room I've always tried to keep it under 100. I've usually spent 40 to 80 on average. Sucks that hourly motels are being phased out big time to curb prostitution. But street hos will always be around. LOL.

**FarFarAway** · 04-01-26 16:35

I am so sick of seeing this on profiles. It is everywhere. What do these chicks mean by it?

My intention is to bang your little brains out. It is as simple as that. But that surely isn't (only) what they want, they want to be courted too, mostly.

**Grail47** · 04-01-26 13:56

So, I've been messaging with a new SB and due to the distance, we might try to meet up at a spot equidistant between us. I know of "day use" hotels and figured that this is the best option. Has anyone here had experience with renting a room at the day use hotels? Any recommendations in the Montebello or Whittier area?