Massage Parlor Reports

[GoaThillBilly]

This topic has divided opinions as to whether appointments are recommended or if they even work. One thing that I like about AMPs is that you DON'T need an appointment.

Say you text at 10 Am for a 1 PM appointment with a specific provider, but at 12:45 a walk in enters the shop requesting the same provider. You can pretty much guarantee that they will take the $$ that is there versus someone that may or may not show up or they might arrive late, so you will be asked to wait about 10 minutes. I would think that the ONLY possible exception would be if you are a well paying and well liked regular customer who is also very reliable as far as showing up and on time.

What I will do is to text no more than a half hour prior to let them know I am on the way and with whom I want to see. YMMV.

[Supermanamp]

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break.

Now my struggle is that I may have become addicted to the hobby. I find myself going at least once or twice a week, and even though I know it's starting to take a toll, the urge keeps coming back. Jerking off just doesn't cut it, it never has. The shops are accessible, the girls are sweet, and there's no drama, which makes it hard to resist. After each visit, I feel instant regret and shame, but give it a couple days, the urge returns.

I'm curious if there are any ex-mongers here who have successfully stepped away. What helped you? Feel free to DM if you'd rather share privately.

Thanks for reading.

This hobby is addictive for obvious reasons for men. There is help out there in the form of counseling as someone stated. If your shame is due to seeing the girls, know that most of them if not all of them do this job because they need the money and they are not being forced to do it. I do want to quit this hobby sometimes too and it's mostly because it's an expensive hobby. Also, because it's just meant to have fun and fulfill my needs and nothing else. However, some of the girls tend to get attached to me and I reciprocate which for obvious reasons is not good. Anyways, if this hobby is causing you shame and regret and you are not happy do follow all the advice everyone has provided. Good luck brother. Monger on!

[KrDoggy]

I would not go without an appointment. Just text the shop number.

Thank you!

Do folks usually call and make an appt or just walk in?

Planning to visit next week will update here.

[KrDoggy]

Totally agree on the point that civi relationships cost even more. I have had a variety including long marriages and they cost a fortune (but were worth it for a variety of reasons, including kids). Even the shorter civi relationships cost more in my experience.

As far as hobbying, I'm way past revulsion, I know I am a bit of a perv, but many of these relationships are surprisingly wholesome. Chinese culture plays a big role. I've talked a lot about making friends with girls and management. I do that for ME, it makes it more fun. If I were a bit more religious I'd thank God for giving me this time in my life. These girls truly make me feel like a king and keep me young, and spare me, I know they want money.

But I am acutely aware that this can't and shouldn't last forever. I need a more stable wavelength than the almost every day fucking I have been doing.

I experience some of the same feelings, not shame but sometimes buyers remorse, depending upon the experience, some are totally worth it. If someone Is hobbying 1-2 times per week, they are likely younger and they had better be able to afford it. I agree with one comment as to cut down to no more than once per week, in my experience the less that I partake in a hobby, no matter what it is the more that I enjoy it. I also take breaks of several weeks due to geographic challenges and then when I return I appreciate the experiences that much more. Typically I will hobby 2-4 times per month. As to the comment on finding a civi relationship in order to spend less money, that's a slippery slope and could end up costing you much more I the long run. Plus if you are like me and crave variety, you will not be satisfied with just one woman, unless she likes sharing.

[SpootCapoot]

This is like my third post ever, but I felt like I needed to jump in. The revulsion about what you're doing and compulsion to keep doing it is a really corrosive cycle to be in, which I know from personal experience. It sounds to me like visiting massage places goes against your personal ethical standards, but you can't help yourself. That doesn't make you a bad person, it just makes you a person who could use some help.

The good thing is that there's a ton of help out there in the Seattle area. There are 12 step groups like SA and lots of counselors with specific training to help with sexual compulsions. I don't know you enough to make any call on what's going on with you, but if you're feeling that there's trouble in your life because of it, you should really try to reach out. Even if you don't start attending a group or talking to someone, just getting an idea of what help is available can help you figure out what you want to do about how you feel.

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break..

[CamelToe2000]

Have seen Jenny twice now, and the rave reviews are for good reason. She's got a similar build to Chanel for those who know her, and has the same service queen ethos. There's been enough Penthouse forum writeups here that people should know what to expect, but I'd say she's right up there with Chanel and Hailey at BJ as absolute superstars.

The second visit I took advantage of a rare quiet day to do a twosome with Jenny and Emma. When I first met Emma I thought her happy demeanor would make her fun in a duo, and that proved to be true. They are quite the pair and I'd highly recommend the experience if the stars align for you, although the quiet period ended up being pretty brief before the doorbell started ringing again. Still well worth it.

[GoaThillBilly]

I experience some of the same feelings, not shame but sometimes buyers remorse, depending upon the experience, some are totally worth it. If someone Is hobbying 1-2 times per week, they are likely younger and they had better be able to afford it. I agree with one comment as to cut down to no more than once per week, in my experience the less that I partake in a hobby, no matter what it is the more that I enjoy it. I also take breaks of several weeks due to geographic challenges and then when I return I appreciate the experiences that much more. Typically I will hobby 2-4 times per month. As to the comment on finding a civi relationship in order to spend less money, that's a slippery slope and could end up costing you much more I the long run. Plus if you are like me and crave variety, you will not be satisfied with just one woman, unless she likes sharing.

[JoeSmith11]

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break.

Now my struggle is that I may have become addicted to the hobby. I find myself going at least once or twice a week, and even though I know it's starting to take a toll, the urge keeps coming back. Jerking off just doesn't cut it, it never has. The shops are accessible, the girls are sweet, and there's no drama, which makes it hard to resist. After each visit, I feel instant regret and shame, but give it a couple days, the urge returns.

I'm curious if there are any ex-mongers here who have successfully stepped away. What helped you? Feel free to DM if you'd rather share privately.

Thanks for reading.

I had a similar thought about this being an addiction a while back and set myself a goal of taking a 6 month break just to prove to myself I can do it, which I was able to accomplish.

The best thing you can do is get off this board. Stop checking the ads or agency websites. For me I'd see the maybe one of the agency posted a hot young new girl, and she's getting great reviews here, now I've got to see here. Had a trip up to Vancouver, so I'm checking their ads / agencies. Wow, so many great providers at half the price of Seattle, it would be a waste to not see them. I think it was honestly a habit to check this site and some of the ad / agencies sites every day just to see what's new. Stop doing that.

If you have a wife or gf, try to rekindle things so you are intimate more often. If you are single, start dating. I agree with jerking off not cutting it, so if you don't have some other outlet, I think its impossible to quit this hobby.

Also maybe try to ease off. If you are going 1-2 a week, try cutting it to once every other week. Then once a month, etc.

Good luck brother, wishing you the best.

[HelloThar]

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break.

Now my struggle is that I may have become addicted to the hobby. I find myself going at least once or twice a week, and even though I know it's starting to take a toll, the urge keeps coming back. Jerking off just doesn't cut it, it never has. The shops are accessible, the girls are sweet, and there's no drama, which makes it hard to resist. After each visit, I feel instant regret and shame, but give it a couple days, the urge returns.

I'm curious if there are any ex-mongers here who have successfully stepped away. What helped you? Feel free to DM if you'd rather share privately.

Thanks for reading.

I've been on and off for awhile as I've tried most of everything you can imagine both in the hobby and out of it. Even the grey areas in between. More or less all positive, but like you, I sometimes want something more real.

Honestly if moving away isn't an option for you, then all you can really do is focus on personal growth and minimizing any exposure to reduce the chance of relapsing. Normally dating would be a great way of keeping busy and your head away from here, but it's difficult here and you'll likely think to yourself 'why go through all this effort when I can walk into an AMP?'.

Your best bet is to reduce your visits down dramatically, maybe do it as a treat once in awhile. Try getting into other hobbies or filling up your time elsewhere until you visit less and less.

I'd tell most people to just not come here now and go to anywhere not the pnw where not only the demographics are much better, but the people are too. Hell you'd even be treated much better overseas while being so much cheaper. You'd just replace being a hobbyist with success in dating.

[Prancer1]

Not far off I5.

https://www.rubmaps.ch/massage-q-mas...line-wa-217056#rubmaps.

Thank you!

Do folks usually call and make an appt or just walk in?

Planning to visit next week will update here.

[Skeete5555]

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break..

Been having thoughts and feelings to quit this hobby for a while now but I keep falling short in self control and my lust. I think all of us on this board are addicted to this hobby, if you want to admit it or not. I think the accessibility and variety of girls make it hard to quit because you want to fulfill your sexual urges and fantasies. Also, doing it once a while isn't so bad but when you spend $200+ each time and like you said, going multiple times a month, that adds up very fast. I don't even want to think of how much I've spent in my history of this hobby because it will send me into a downward spiral haha.

I feel the exact same where I feel guilt and shame after I'm done, almost a post nut clarity. And vow myself to never do it again but after a week or so, my horny urges comes back and I fall right back into the trap. Lust has been the downfall of many men and I really don't want this hobby to get the best of me.

I appreciate you sharing your feelings and want to let you know you are not alone in this battle.

[KrDoggy]

But very different reasons. ZERO regret or shame, happy with family situation (have grown kids).

I do this way too much and spend way too much, that is kinda ok now but can't last forever.

For me mostly, its just been so good, can't really keep topping it. I've made good friends with girls, MMSs, and with a very few other mongers. I've learned valuable ways to pleasure women and myself.

I doubt I fully stop, just maybe stop trying to see every new girl that shows up and "settle down" with a few ATFs.

Also may retire to Thailand, but still actually feel like working.

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break.

Now my struggle is that I may have become addicted to the hobby. I find myself going at least once or twice a week, and even though I know it's starting to take a toll, the urge keeps coming back. Jerking off just doesn't cut it, it never has. The shops are accessible, the girls are sweet, and there's no drama, which makes it hard to resist. After each visit, I feel instant regret and shame, but give it a couple days, the urge returns.

I'm curious if there are any ex-mongers here who have successfully stepped away. What helped you? Feel free to DM if you'd rather share privately.

Thanks for reading.

[AbbyR238]

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Hey fellow mongers.

First, I want to say that this community has been amazing. As strange as it might sound, I truly appreciate the brotherhood here and how we look out for one another. I am a strong proponent of legalizing, and believe that the world should not have a say in what happens between two consenting adults.

That said, I've been reflecting lately and feel it might be time for me to retire from the hobby. I've had some great experiences from Good to Shanghai, Tokyo to Q, and many more, but I've started wanting something more real for myself. I'm hoping to focus on personal growth, maybe pursue a life partner, and also give my wallet a bit of a break.

Now my struggle is that I may have become addicted to the hobby. I find myself going at least once or twice a week, and even though I know it's starting to take a toll, the urge keeps coming back. Jerking off just doesn't cut it, it never has. The shops are accessible, the girls are sweet, and there's no drama, which makes it hard to resist. After each visit, I feel instant regret and shame, but give it a couple days, the urge returns.

I'm curious if there are any ex-mongers here who have successfully stepped away. What helped you? Feel free to DM if you'd rather share privately.

Thanks for reading.

[Vator2]

Lala has given me some of my very best experiences. She can bring it.

And take it!

[KrDoggy]

Lala has given me some of my very best experiences. She can bring it.

Had to run arrands in Renton today. Stopped by Tokyo 12:35 12:40 ish.

Got to the top of the stairs, and waited and waited some more.

Ok tooooo busy so I went and ran my arrands and came back.

Met by someone I did not recognize. Asked her name she said she did not know.

In the rooom standard $$, then she told me to strip and left the room.

She came back I asked her again her name, she sail Ewe lala or Owe lala?

Nice A $$ and very nice (.)(.).

She dropped down too her knees and said BBBJ or CBJ!

We were standing in the middle of the room, she was blowing me and all of a sudden she said F me.

So I climbed on to the table and she climbed on.

It gets better. She jumped off and said F me something about no power.

Then she bent over the table and said F me.

She kept saying don't stop! More and harder and don't stop.

So when we were done. I asked again for her name.

She laughed and laughed more and said OOOOLALA, or EWWWLALA?