NoVA SugarBabies

[SnglDad73]

How do you initiate contact with ladies from Seeking? Do you start off with something from their bio or more be more direct? Do you try to get their phone number after a few messages and work logistics that way? I want to start dipping my toe in the sugar world but not sure how to start. I guess I could jump in with both feet but thought I would learn from the collective group. Thanks in advanced. Also, I have not started paying for the service and I keep getting messages but can't read them. Are these bots?

Be careful with your wording. Anything remotely close to an exchange system for pleasure will get you suspended or eventually banned. As far as speaking to them, similar to any other dating site. Once you feel things are mutual move to a different form of communication. I recommend a burner number.

[Stroon78]

How do you initiate contact with ladies from Seeking? Do you start off with something from their bio or more be more direct? Do you try to get their phone number after a few messages and work logistics that way? I want to start dipping my toe in the sugar world but not sure how to start. I guess I could jump in with both feet but thought I would learn from the collective group. Thanks in advanced. Also, I have not started paying for the service and I keep getting messages but can't read them. Are these bots?

[Xwa521]

I didn't think she was real. Been texting and based on the discussion I think she just might be now. She wants one guy to provide a sizable monthly allowance to cover all her needs. I stepped back from the discussion to avoid the quick death of hearing a stupid number. Then she proposed meeting if I'm ok with it conceptually.

Far from the GPS dam bursting but could be a crack or two forming. Hell if I know. A few years ago she'd be a cute prospect among several peers. These days she's got more appeal than many on the site. She's also very sweet in our chat. But I've had success with better for far more reasonable an ask so on the sidelines for now.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-3e669132b64b

More success than me. I messaged a few months ago and again recently and response or profile view. But it seems like a waste of time if she wants so much. You're right that she looks better than 95% of the girls in the DC area though.

[RegularJoe1985]

So a month or so ago I got banned from Seeking. Looking for different options I tried Secret Benefits (which is a complete fucking rinse job) and signed up for WYP as well. Created an account and lurked for a couple days, sent a few offers and a couple gals accepted my offer, so like Seeking if you want to communicate with the gals you've got to purchase credits. I put in my CC info and the transaction doesn't go through, I assumed my bank blocked it because the block everything it seems that they don't recognize. So I wait a few hours and once I get home from work I log back on to try again and when I log in I get a response that my account has been suspended. I assumed it got flagged by their system because of the declined transaction so I create a ticket explaining the situation and ask if they can remove the suspension. I then get an auto email from them acknowledging the ticket has been created and a link to log onto in order to check any updated status for my request. But when I click on the link as you can see in the screenshot it takes me to a portal that says Seeking.com So WYP is owned by Seeking? So it appears if that's the case then I'm fucked on WYP as well because they already have all my data on file. Was this a known thing that they owned WYP?

Yes, this has been fairly known. Seeking and WYP are both owned by Wade, don't know if his other sites like misstravel or openminded still work.

Your only bet seems to be Secret Benefits which like you said is a rinse job.

Didn't realize you paid with a CC, that means they have all your info.

This hobby is getting more and more difficult.

First fosta / sesta killed with Pros, now seeking going all crazy.

What does a man have to do to get taken care of properly LOL.

[PRMan12]

She told me she's really busy so expects 200-500 for a platonic date. I'm still chatting. Not agreeing to that and talking about other things. She's engaged. The lack of awareness telling a successful guy she's so busy (as if we're not) and then expecting a well paid M&G shows inexperience. Or someone paid her 500 for a coffee and she thinks that's normal. Bigger picture, it's just another failed strategy women come up with. Sometimes we catch them when they come around, sometimes not. So a seed planted is how I see it.

I just laugh it off to myself! I still text periodically to see if she wants to meet and have fun! I'll give props to anyone who hits this!

[SRH59]

I didn't think she was real. Been texting and based on the discussion I think she just might be now. She wants one guy to provide a sizable monthly allowance to cover all her needs. I stepped back from the discussion to avoid the quick death of hearing a stupid number. Then she proposed meeting if I'm ok with it conceptually.

Far from the GPS dam bursting but could be a crack or two forming. Hell if I know. A few years ago she'd be a cute prospect among several peers. These days she's got more appeal than many on the site. She's also very sweet in our chat. But I've had success with better for far more reasonable an ask so on the sidelines for now.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...4-3e669132b64b

[SRH59]

No, chatted for a bit! She seemed to want a sizeable gift for a platonic 1st meet!

She's on the site constantly, hopefully she realizes that isn't going to work and comes down from her ask!

Would love to meet her! Def real and in GW sorority.

She told me she's really busy so expects 200-500 for a platonic date. I'm still chatting. Not agreeing to that and talking about other things. She's engaged. The lack of awareness telling a successful guy she's so busy (as if we're not) and then expecting a well paid M&G shows inexperience. Or someone paid her 500 for a coffee and she thinks that's normal. Bigger picture, it's just another failed strategy women come up with. Sometimes we catch them when they come around, sometimes not. So a seed planted is how I see it.

[PixelsAndGrids]

Hanna's been around for years and is a fun time for sure.

She's definitely a good visit and I've reviewed her years ago. I've been meaning to see her again, but with my last visit she wasn't into DATY as enthusiastically as I'd like. She likes it rough and girls more than men. Great conversation and she loves Japanese whisky. Expect a nice long visit and multiple workouts unless things have changed.

[Rkoppa]

Hanna's been around for years and is a fun time for sure.

Think imma pass on her too.

Think she knows my friend but not in that way lols.

Small world.

[CuriousVaMan]

Hanna's been around for years and is a fun time for sure.

Thanks much appreciated but I'm going pass on Daniela too young I want to be able to go grab drinks with them and since under 21.

Will see about Hanna.

[TomFordModel]

Met her a couple months ago. Pics are deceptive so you can't see her body, airhead, we went for drinks and I lost all interest. I told her something came up and got her an uber back to hers.

I feel bad for her. She hasn't improve her life from 5 yrs ago. Just as ditzy.

[TomFordModel]

So not between 110-120; hate when their weight is not accurate!! Real bummer! You should have just rolled!

I should have but wasted 25 minutes driving. I mean she's just as good as the other foul beasts on here.

At least she's a pleaser. Sucked like crazy. She's legit and dtf.

[DasHottCalla]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-3ea10239d577

Need to Uber or pick her up. I forgot I met her 5 yrs ago when she was skinny.

I wasted my time. Funky kitty and 3 x her size from 5 yrs ago. 300.

Met her a couple months ago. Pics are deceptive so you can't see her body, airhead, we went for drinks and I lost all interest. I told her something came up and got her an uber back to hers.

[PRMan12]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-3ea10239d577

Need to Uber or pick her up. I forgot I met her 5 yrs ago when she was skinny.

I wasted my time. Funky kitty and 3 x her size from 5 yrs ago. 300.

So not between 110-120; hate when their weight is not accurate!! Real bummer! You should have just rolled!

[TomFordModel]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-3ea10239d577

Need to Uber or pick her up. I forgot I met her 5 yrs ago when she was skinny.

I wasted my time. Funky kitty and 3 x her size from 5 yrs ago. 300.