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**The Curve** · 02-01-26 09:45

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

This is why some women are asking for m&g gifts, etc! Always wondered who would actually do that, but I guess they find some that just are happy to be on a date with a young hottie, LOL! I guess to each their own!

He is making the distinction between just dating a hottie (meal, drinks, company) whether from tinder or seeking, and doing all of that AND paying them. There's not much at all wrong with the former, so much wrong with the latter.

**Rkoppa** · 01-31-26 21:11

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

Nothing wrong with someone who has the experience or that makes it easy for you. Up to you. Personally, I don't go looking for a pro on seeking. Better options for that on other sites. But if she has the room or gets the room, you are one of many that day / night.

Ok thanks for the info appreciate it.

**Thulenewman** · 01-31-26 20:57

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

This is why some women are asking for m&g gifts, etc! Always wondered who would actually do that, but I guess they find some that just are happy to be on a date with a young hottie, LOL! I guess to each their own!

I have dated three women who had "Platonic" listed and all three eventually hopped into bed after a date or three. It seems to more signal they won't hook up on the first date in my experience.

**PRMan12** · 01-31-26 19:45

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

So here is my view about platonic. I actually don't mind if a girl wants platonic. Back in the day there were women who actually just wanted to be spoiled with dinner, drinks and just go on a proper date with a gentleman and not expect to get paid. For me, I enjoyed taking a young women out and wining and dining. Honestly, it is no different than a some random chick I met on a dating website.

However, now women want to get paid just to go out on a date. That is F*cked up. I don't know what has happened in the last 5-10 years but this hobby has gone down hill.

This is why some women are asking for m&g gifts, etc! Always wondered who would actually do that, but I guess they find some that just are happy to be on a date with a young hottie, LOL! I guess to each their own!

**TheHobbyLobby** · 01-31-26 18:50

Originally Posted by DasHottCalla [View Original Post]

Haha same. I didn't notice the platonic part though.

So here is my view about platonic. I actually don't mind if a girl wants platonic. Back in the day there were women who actually just wanted to be spoiled with dinner, drinks and just go on a proper date with a gentleman and not expect to get paid. For me, I enjoyed taking a young women out and wining and dining. Honestly, it is no different than a some random chick I met on a dating website.

However, now women want to get paid just to go out on a date. That is F*cked up. I don't know what has happened in the last 5-10 years but this hobby has gone down hill.

**EasyeOne** · 01-31-26 17:52

Originally Posted by Rkoppa [View Original Post]

If the baby you trying to see doesn't even mention the meet and greet and I have to bring it up is this a indicator she a pro?

She also said she can get a room at a discount.

Kind of odd to me.

Thanks.

Nothing wrong with someone who has the experience or that makes it easy for you. Up to you. Personally, I don't go looking for a pro on seeking. Better options for that on other sites. But if she has the room or gets the room, you are one of many that day / night.

**Senbonzakura** · 01-31-26 16:07

Originally Posted by Rkoppa [View Original Post]

If the baby you trying to see doesn't even mention the meet and greet and I have to bring it up is this a indicator she a pro?

She also said she can get a room at a discount.

Kind of odd to me.

Thanks.

The meet and greet itself doesn't mean much (to me). I've had solid setups without ever doing one.

The discount room thing I've seen once, but this particular baby had an issue with coming to people's places (she is a huge germaphobe). I'd put it as a yellow flag.

What's a red flag to me is jumping to anything at all without viewing my profile, asking to see hidden pics if you've got them, or in any way trying to see if they at least like the way you look before agreeing to fuck. That to me is fake / pro behavior. Also if they mention "roses" or have rates per length of your meet.

**Rkoppa** · 01-31-26 14:30

If the baby you trying to see doesn't even mention the meet and greet and I have to bring it up is this a indicator she a pro?

She also said she can get a room at a discount.

Kind of odd to me.

Thanks.

**Senbonzakura** · 01-31-26 12:00

Originally Posted by TheCurve [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-cfd5e2264153

"Physical expectations are a deal breaker". Not quite explicitly platonic, but has shades of another one who is looking to rinse rather than fuck.

Of course I sent a message though.

I've always wondering if the platonic girls actually have an audience.

**DasHottCalla** · 01-31-26 09:28

Originally Posted by TheCurve [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-cfd5e2264153

"Physical expectations are a deal breaker". Not quite explicitly platonic, but has shades of another one who is looking to rinse rather than fuck.

Of course I sent a message though.

Haha same. I didn't notice the platonic part though.

**The Curve** · 01-31-26 08:24

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...6-cfd5e2264153

"Physical expectations are a deal breaker". Not quite explicitly platonic, but has shades of another one who is looking to rinse rather than fuck.

Of course I sent a message though.

**TomFordModel** · 01-30-26 21:53

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-5e62c658f530

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-8de90fd82caa

Theyre from NJ but in Arlington this weekend.

They asked for 1. 5 k each but went down to 7. I offered 500 not going more for old girls.

**Joshtoo** · 01-30-26 17:47

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-7228b34b43f8

Scam to send money before meeting. Requests money transfer right away via copy / paste story.

**CuriousVaMan** · 01-30-26 14:42

I've never been turned down (after meeting) due to a woman's apparent youth. I claim to be 60 (I'm actually 64) and have jumbled with more than a few 21 year olds (all college students). Yep, the 3 X club. My sweet spot seems to be 25-35 or so. For whatever reason (these women have no problem banging a man their father's age.

On a more serious note, if you're not a creep, many women are attracted to older men. We're respectful, have disposable income, worldly experiences, articulate and overtly or softly dominant.

Originally Posted by Mdterp05 [View Original Post]

More of just a question and curious. What is your rough age gap you guys are open to? I've popped on and off seeking for a few years, so didn't really have that problem before, but now thinking there's a bit of an age range where it starts to get a little weird / awkward or not.

I've messaged girls and mentioned is the age gap a problem for them, and they seem shocked I ask that they're used to seeing people way older then me.

**Mdterp05** · 01-30-26 14:01

More of just a question and curious. What is your rough age gap you guys are open to? I've popped on and off seeking for a few years, so didn't really have that problem before, but now thinking there's a bit of an age range where it starts to get a little weird / awkward or not.

I've messaged girls and mentioned is the age gap a problem for them, and they seem shocked I ask that they're used to seeing people way older then me.