NoVA SugarBabies

**TomFordModel** · 01-30-26 21:53

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-5e62c658f530

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-8de90fd82caa

Theyre from NJ but in Arlington this weekend.

They asked for 1. 5 k each but went down to 7. I offered 500 not going more for old girls.

**Joshtoo** · 01-30-26 17:47

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...5-7228b34b43f8

Scam to send money before meeting. Requests money transfer right away via copy / paste story.

**CuriousVaMan** · 01-30-26 14:42

I've never been turned down (after meeting) due to a woman's apparent youth. I claim to be 60 (I'm actually 64) and have jumbled with more than a few 21 year olds (all college students). Yep, the 3 X club. My sweet spot seems to be 25-35 or so. For whatever reason (these women have no problem banging a man their father's age.

On a more serious note, if you're not a creep, many women are attracted to older men. We're respectful, have disposable income, worldly experiences, articulate and overtly or softly dominant.

Originally Posted by Mdterp05 [View Original Post]

More of just a question and curious. What is your rough age gap you guys are open to? I've popped on and off seeking for a few years, so didn't really have that problem before, but now thinking there's a bit of an age range where it starts to get a little weird / awkward or not.

I've messaged girls and mentioned is the age gap a problem for them, and they seem shocked I ask that they're used to seeing people way older then me.

**Mdterp05** · 01-30-26 14:01

More of just a question and curious. What is your rough age gap you guys are open to? I've popped on and off seeking for a few years, so didn't really have that problem before, but now thinking there's a bit of an age range where it starts to get a little weird / awkward or not.

I've messaged girls and mentioned is the age gap a problem for them, and they seem shocked I ask that they're used to seeing people way older then me.

**DasHottCalla** · 01-29-26 14:00

Originally Posted by Stroon78 [View Original Post]

"There aren't many of us so we have that advantage".

Thanks for your input. I found the phrase "There aren't many of us so we have the advantage" interesting. I assumed, in this area anyway, there are a lot of guys who make good money and willing to pay higher prices. You made it sound like there is a small pool of guys and the pool of women out is vastly much larger. How did you come to conclusion? If we do have the "advantage" wouldn't we be able to set the price or at least have more impact on the price? Generally curious as I'm considering dipping my toe into the waters but haven't yet.

Just statistic wise, globally there are more women than men. If we're going with the $200 k number only 6% of individuals in this country make that much or more. Then to further that like the curve stated, out of the pool of men in the area that are making 200 k+, some are faithfully married, gay, or just not in the market. Of course there are no official numbers on this but using your experience with women, what percentage do you believe is willing to sell it directly or indirectly or even give it up for free if they vibe with you or hope they'll earn a position in your life.

We do set the price, not to be an ass but most of the women don't have any type of skill or talent that will make them what we pay them for a few hours. They're out here working in restaurants making near minimum or unemployed. The person who pays first sets the price expectation and after that it's the person who pays the most.

**TomFordModel** · 01-29-26 13:07

[QUOTE=Tgerald;7513453]Here's another delulu. Wants 3500 per meet and that too paid in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-161186bcb295[QUOTE]Seriously. She's fat and old. She has been on the site for ages.

**Rkoppa** · 01-29-26 10:05

Originally Posted by DasHottCalla [View Original Post]

You said it. It varies. There are a ton of variables. Age, experience, prior arrangements, their need at the present moment, their mental health, addiction, how you look, if she's a pro vs a SB, etc. All can work towards and against your favor. Typically, FOR ME, most reasonable women are ok with 400 a meet. If they are gorgeous, which of course is not the norm in this area generally 6-700 will suffice. In my opinion, this is for any age 20-30s. I don't go for late 30-40, so I can't speak on that. I can't see myself paying top dollar for woman that are out of their peak.

There are an abundance of women out there who need the money. There aren't many of us so we have that advantage. We suffer at times because we end up going behind someone who was too eager and just wanted to experience a SB too desperately that they throw the world at them, which of course isn't sustainable but sets their expectations through the roof. All are willing to negotiate to a reasonable price point. You just have to be willing to walk when the price point doesn't make sense to you. 100% of the time that I over paid my norms, I've been disappointed.

To each their own, I know we all have different salaries and expenses. None of us on here are netting multi millions nor do we have access to the women in the circles of men who do. Generally these numbers should work for anyone outside of that demographic.

Side note, to save you time, effort and money, never agree to paying a deposit, sending any money to them before meeting or for platonic meets. I also back away when they propose either. I let them know Ive been a John before and deposits are more common in the prostitution world and Im not looking for a pro. If you send money before meeting, typically youre setting the expectation that youre okay with easily parting with your money and they will run that play until they cant. Lastly platonic meets are by and large a convenient way for fake or real SBs to extract money from people they have no interest in becoming intimate with. Of course there are some who ask to be paid for the meet and greet or platonic meets in good faith but in my travels, that number is very low.

Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it.

**The Curve** · 01-29-26 08:44

Originally Posted by TheCurve [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...0-2f0899e00865

Started at 1 k ppm, then dropped to 750, then 600. Says she can host.

And this one took herself down to 500. Even THEY know this shit ain't special.

**The Curve** · 01-29-26 08:40

Originally Posted by Stroon78 [View Original Post]

"There aren't many of us so we have that advantage".

Thanks for your input. I found the phrase "There aren't many of us so we have the advantage" interesting. I assumed, in this area anyway, there are a lot of guys who make good money and willing to pay higher prices. You made it sound like there is a small pool of guys and the pool of women out is vastly much larger. How did you come to conclusion? If we do have the "advantage" wouldn't we be able to set the price or at least have more impact on the price? Generally curious as I'm considering dipping my toe into the waters but haven't yet.

There are many men making 200 k or more in this area. Of those men, a comparatively miniscule number of them are in this game, willing to trade financial resources for streamlined access to pussy. I get lots of messages and responses from women on seeking, their collective reporting of their experiences are overwhelmingly negative making it very very easy to stand out without splashing your entire wallet at them. Sex is not at all difficult to get by default and therefore doesn't demand the price premium a few of these delusional ones insist it does.

**Stroon78** · 01-29-26 06:53

"There aren't many of us so we have that advantage".

Thanks for your input. I found the phrase "There aren't many of us so we have the advantage" interesting. I assumed, in this area anyway, there are a lot of guys who make good money and willing to pay higher prices. You made it sound like there is a small pool of guys and the pool of women out is vastly much larger. How did you come to conclusion? If we do have the "advantage" wouldn't we be able to set the price or at least have more impact on the price? Generally curious as I'm considering dipping my toe into the waters but haven't yet.

**DasHottCalla** · 01-29-26 06:16

Originally Posted by Rkoppa [View Original Post]

I'm new to this world and am wondering what is average arrangements cost?

I know it varies but I just want to get a estimate of how much I should negotiate.

Specifically say for 20 yr olds.

30 yr old.

40 yr.

Thanks.

You said it. It varies. There are a ton of variables. Age, experience, prior arrangements, their need at the present moment, their mental health, addiction, how you look, if she's a pro vs a SB, etc. All can work towards and against your favor. Typically, FOR ME, most reasonable women are ok with 400 a meet. If they are gorgeous, which of course is not the norm in this area generally 6-700 will suffice. In my opinion, this is for any age 20-30s. I don't go for late 30-40, so I can't speak on that. I can't see myself paying top dollar for woman that are out of their peak.

There are an abundance of women out there who need the money. There aren't many of us so we have that advantage. We suffer at times because we end up going behind someone who was too eager and just wanted to experience a SB too desperately that they throw the world at them, which of course isn't sustainable but sets their expectations through the roof. All are willing to negotiate to a reasonable price point. You just have to be willing to walk when the price point doesn't make sense to you. 100% of the time that I over paid my norms, I've been disappointed.

To each their own, I know we all have different salaries and expenses. None of us on here are netting multi millions nor do we have access to the women in the circles of men who do. Generally these numbers should work for anyone outside of that demographic.

Side note, to save you time, effort and money, never agree to paying a deposit, sending any money to them before meeting or for platonic meets. I also back away when they propose either. I let them know I’ve been a John before and deposits are more common in the prostitution world and I’m not looking for a pro. If you send money before meeting, typically you’re setting the expectation that you’re okay with easily parting with your money and they will run that play until they can’t. Lastly platonic meets are by and large a convenient way for fake or real SBs to extract money from people they have no interest in becoming intimate with. Of course there are some who ask to be paid for the meet and greet or platonic meets in good faith but in my travels, that number is very low.

**DasHottCalla** · 01-29-26 05:44

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

Just need to negotiate a bit!

LOL that's what I'm saying. Much less. Would be hard for me to justify going over 400, especially with covering transportation. Harder to negotiate when more people make this the norm for decent looking girls.

**BrickYard** · 01-29-26 01:07

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...3-104bd191a3ac

Delusional. Claimed 7 k to 10 k monthly. She's chunky too.

Here's another delulu. Wants 3500 per meet and that too paid in advance.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-161186bcb295

**BrickYard** · 01-29-26 01:02

Originally Posted by Rkoppa [View Original Post]

I'm new to this world and am wondering what is average arrangements cost?

I know it varies but I just want to get a estimate of how much I should negotiate.

Specifically say for 20 yr olds.

30 yr old.

40 yr.

Thanks.

Between 3 and 5 with a median of 4 in the DMV.