Cuddlers

[Member #7088]

Welcome, DiscoveryOne (DO) and Tablelamp293 (TL)! I'm pleased to hear new voices in the crowd!

G0th: As DO observed, plenty of vague and indirect chatter. She's not my type, so no direct experience. Gun to my head, though? The opportunity is certainly there. I'd be very comfortable wagering that there are at least 3-4 dudes on this sub-forum hitting that right now.

Sevynn: Confirmed, long-time semi-pro.

HoneyAngel: Not my place to name the source, but I'm told extras are there. I'm also told that TL's observation of her looks is spot-on -- that is to say, much better in photos than in person. I chatted her up once, but then she gave me her number, which I cross-referenced to her "professional cuddling-and-healing services" website, at which point I LOL'd and dropped comms.

While it is true that fun was more abundant in previous years, some of that can be chalked up to nostalgia bias. There is still plenty of juice left to squeeze, I think.

[Pussy Hound]

But it only lasts so long, JasmineLovesHugs / GyspyCuddler was banned last year. MissAdventurous and Sheena123 suck up to the mods and pull in plenty of money for the site owner. On another forum here someone who'd seen MissAdventurous before said she recently told them she's plantonic only now. Probably got a warning (courtesy because she brings in money.) Sheena's changed her name because she's been mentioned on the Florida forums here before.

What's her previous name? I've been trying to fuck her for a while.

[CuddleFun]

But it only lasts so long, JasmineLovesHugs / GyspyCuddler was banned last year. MissAdventurous and Sheena123 suck up to the mods and pull in plenty of money for the site owner. On another forum here someone who'd seen MissAdventurous before said she recently told them she's plantonic only now. Probably got a warning (courtesy because she brings in money.) Sheena's changed her name because she's been mentioned on the Florida forums here before.

Side note. Some of the most non-platonic cuddlers I've seen talk in the CC forums about how serious they are about boundaries. It can be kind of funny to read how straight laced they are knowing that once you get them in the sack, it's all a facade.

[Woodward]

She definitely does extras, but she's on the higher end so not everyone can afford her. YMMV. Reach out to her to get her menu.

Thanks for the info. I'm not interested in her. Perhaps she's attractive to others though.

It's interesting the profile isn't that suggestive.

[DiscoveryOne]

https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/g0thcuddlebug

So I have been trying to decode this girl's Bio for months now but I haven't gotten to take her on a date because my ATF's are treating me so well right now I have to show a bit of loyalty.

And she is in the divine presence range.

But this goth-cuddl3 bug girl. She's hot.

First off, her bio is written like a working girl's bio on "those" websites.

She travels to locations that have high "John" concentrations.

Does virtual cuddles on Telegram (we all know what telegram is for).

A review from enthusiasts that are actually just Johns.

There have been reports here about her but no solid intel (stop gatekeeping bro).

But yeah comrades, she looks like a prize and any intel is appreciated. I'm actually just trying to satisfy my curiosity and yell "Eureka!" like a freak.

[Efurufe]

Sevynn. CFS for $$ Also on seeking

Thanks so much for the info!

Is that $200 on top of the cuddle fee, or total?

Which brings up something I've been wondering about: do you connect with these people off site so they get all the money instead of sharing with CC? Or is at least the first session always scheduled through the site?

[Tablelamp293]

Woo after months finally managed to register! I've been on cuddlecomfort for like 4 years and totally agree with BTE. There were some golden years in 2022-2024. Pretty much every best cuddler I've had has left the site or the area. Some experiences with active cuddlers:

Sevynn. CFS for $$ Also on seeking etc.

Honeyangel. Platonic but really good cuddles, will give light massage. Heavier, less attractive than her photos. Speaks spanish.

Am curious about cozyminx, cuddlebugbbw.

Side note. Some of the most non-platonic cuddlers I've seen talk in the CC forums about how serious they are about boundaries. It can be kind of funny to read how straight laced they are knowing that once you get them in the sack, it's all a facade.

[MasterShake69]

Nope. Is she based in Seattle? I don't recognize her. She's not my type, although usually I remember if they're from Seattle or not.

From her profile and pics I'd guess a low chance. I do like the handle.

She definitely does extras, but she's on the higher end so not everyone can afford her. YMMV. Reach out to her to get her menu.

[Nampa Boi]

We're cut from the same cloth -- that's how I operate, as well. To each their own, but I personally don't play the "hint-hint for extras" game. I let things unfold organically. If the vibe is right, fabulous -- everyone has a good time. If not, then hey, it is what it is. It's my responsibility to make sure my game is on point. That is the quintessential part of the YMMV experience.

Now, I'm not above cracking open my wallet if / when required, either. But it's not quite as fun, as you pointed out.

Cuddling is not for me but I appreciate the thread.

We all call this a hobby but it's really an addiction. And I'm the biggest addict!

We all need to get our little hit of dopamine. We all have different preferences or kinks or things we are willing to do to get that perfect experience.

[Member #7088]

But unfortunately the cuddling scene is now ruined and it is not the same anymore. The websites are now infested by GPS hoes who have very high hourly rates and they intentionally put out suggestive pictures to lure you but when you meet, it is either completely platonic with no chemistry at all or ridiculously high up-selling for extras. And the ones who are genuine cuddlers are now wary of doing anything more intimate, even if they wanted to because they don't want to be seen as pros.

2-3 years ago cuddling was amazing. Most of the girls on CC were non-professional regular people who wanted to make some extra side income and also meet people. 80-100 was the norm and I have met some for even 60 per hour and whenever anything more happened it was not for a charge, but because both wanted to do it and it was natural and non-transactional.

Strong agree. I caught the cuddle craze on the tail end of the Good Times, about two years ago. Had a blast. Still did well through the early part of 2025, but it has noticeably dried up, in terms of available talent and the overall zeitgeist.

Still fun, just tougher. Get it before it becomes TNA Lite, I guess.

[AngryMan420]

Couldn't have said it better myself, AM. No shade to anyone who plays the game differently, of course -- everyone is free to use their time / energy / money however they please -- but I'm here for exactly the payoff you describe. If I want to get laid, there are escorts a-plenty out there. But that gets boring. The challenge and the mystery is where the fun is at, at least for me. There's also a low-key ego component, as well. If one of these girls starts getting frisky with me, it's because I've passed her little tests and she likes me. Girls get horny, too. I'm happy to make the personal sacrifice for God-and-country and allow these ladies to use my cock for their selfish purposes. (insert saluting emoji here).

100% agree about the ego aspect. I stopped going to bars to pick up women, so getting through to a platonic (or platonic with most) cuddler helps give some of that ego boost that I missed.

Going in with the base expectation that nothing will happen and I will be with a woman who I enjoy spending time with (cuddling and talking), and anything beyond that is extra / ego boost etc. I'm definitely enjoying cuddling a lot more since I got into that mindset (as opposed to initially seeing women who are known to provide extras).

[Nomadness]

Couldn't have said it better myself, AM. No shade to anyone who plays the game differently, of course -- everyone is free to use their time / energy / money however they please -- but I'm here for exactly the payoff you describe. If I want to get laid, there are escorts a-plenty out there. But that gets boring. The challenge and the mystery is where the fun is at, at least for me. There's also a low-key ego component, as well. If one of these girls starts getting frisky with me, it's because I've passed her little tests and she likes me. Girls get horny, too. I'm happy to make the personal sacrifice for God-and-country and allow these ladies to use my cock for their selfish purposes. (insert saluting emoji here).

It is the same for me. Cuddling for me was about meeting someone with a nice personality and a GND, non-pro looks (if you know what I mean). You don't know what will happen, you build up chemistry and good rapport and it may lead to something more. It may happen the first time or after a few visits or never. But when it does, there is nothing like it because it is genuine, organic and non-transactional. And the best experiences I have had were through cuddling, even better than some of the very high end escorts.

But unfortunately the cuddling scene is now ruined and it is not the same anymore. The websites are now infested by GPS hoes who have very high hourly rates and they intentionally put out suggestive pictures to lure you but when you meet, it is either completely platonic with no chemistry at all or ridiculously high up-selling for extras. And the ones who are genuine cuddlers are now wary of doing anything more intimate, even if they wanted to because they don't want to be seen as pros.

2-3 years ago cuddling was amazing. Most of the girls on CC were non-professional regular people who wanted to make some extra side income and also meet people. 80-100 was the norm and I have met some for even 60 per hour and whenever anything more happened it was not for a charge, but because both wanted to do it and it was natural and non-transactional.

[Member #7088]

I occasionally do see the "sure thing" cuddler or Kgirl when I'm in the mood, but nothing really compares to the rush of when you're with a cuddler you expect to be platonic and something extra starts to happen. That moment of realization is. Chef's kiss. AMPs or escorts just don't compare LOL.

Couldn't have said it better myself, AM. No shade to anyone who plays the game differently, of course -- everyone is free to use their time / energy / money however they please -- but I'm here for exactly the payoff you describe. If I want to get laid, there are escorts a-plenty out there. But that gets boring. The challenge and the mystery is where the fun is at, at least for me. There's also a low-key ego component, as well. If one of these girls starts getting frisky with me, it's because I've passed her little tests and she likes me. Girls get horny, too. I'm happy to make the personal sacrifice for God-and-country and allow these ladies to use my cock for their selfish purposes. (insert saluting emoji here).

[AngryMan420]

We're cut from the same cloth -- that's how I operate, as well. To each their own, but I personally don't play the "hint-hint for extras" game. I let things unfold organically. If the vibe is right, fabulous -- everyone has a good time. If not, then hey, it is what it is. It's my responsibility to make sure my game is on point. That is the quintessential part of the YMMV experience.

Now, I'm not above cracking open my wallet if / when required, either. But it's not quite as fun, as you pointed out.

Thank you both (BTE and QS) for sharing this perspective. This is something I realized after spending a little bit of time cuddling. Ultimately, going for "sure things" through cuddling is not much of a different experience than an AMP. Only possible upside is a non-asian woman, open to outcalls etc. Its just a lot more expensive.

Right now, I've found my sweet spot in spending majority of my time scouting for providers who are specifically reported to be platonic and who I think I will have a good rapport with (based on their profile bio and pictures). If it works out great, if not, I likely had a good cuddle and move on. I've found that with good rapport, usually there's some non-platonic activity that happens in 2nd or later sessions.

I occasionally do see the "sure thing" cuddler or Kgirl when I'm in the mood, but nothing really compares to the rush of when you're with a cuddler you expect to be platonic and something extra starts to happen. That moment of realization is. Chef's kiss. AMPs or escorts just don't compare LOL.

[Member #7088]

Yeah easy I assume you get what I mean by YMMV. I don't want to tell anyone that she offers anything but I've definitely have done stuff with her and its due to me seeing her a bunch of times, and building a relationship with her. I definitely am more focused on finding attractive ones, and just building something with them because it's just more fun that way and why I like the site.

But yah the thing that attracted me to Bella was her tits and her body. Super young and great fun after building some sort of connection with her.

We're cut from the same cloth -- that's how I operate, as well. To each their own, but I personally don't play the "hint-hint for extras" game. I let things unfold organically. If the vibe is right, fabulous -- everyone has a good time. If not, then hey, it is what it is. It's my responsibility to make sure my game is on point. That is the quintessential part of the YMMV experience.

Now, I'm not above cracking open my wallet if / when required, either. But it's not quite as fun, as you pointed out.