Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**MartyC** · 01-13-26 11:01

Ngl I've had some of the better sex I've had with girls I've met in these sites. But lately? A lot of swings and misses.

I've had quite a bit of time off so have offered to meet girls in different cities, figuring I could drive, check out the city and also have some fun.

In Columbus OH. I had one mix up on the time, she asked I could do 7 ish instead of 5. Then no showed. I had one schedule a brunch with fun after. Only to wake to a bunch of verification photo requests at 2 am. I offered to send her one photo in the AM when I woke up or a video call, never heard from her again.

I had one that seemed off during messages so I was skeptical she was legit so we met a food court. She was strange and not sure she was all there so I bailed.

This week I had one scheduled, had just left home to head that way. She asked why I'd be getting a hotel and not coming to her place. Then proceeded to tell me she'd prefer her place cause she has no one to watch her kid. She insisted that wouldn't affect our ability to bang tho. But also felt like a possible set up most likely. And at best I'd feel weird about this girl whose kid is running around unsupervised. So I turned around and went back home.

I hooked up with Layla again who said for an increased rate she would have a wide open menu. But then claimed I was too big for anal. Half assed BJ. Was rubbing herself a lot, but so not completely uninterested. But not much of a pleaser for me.

So I tried out Ariel. Have received a few messages from her. Agreed to 2. Sexy body but another miss. Tried small talk, but she had no interest and barely spoke. At my place she just sat there scrolling her phone for 20 minutes until I prompted. Complete dead fish and showed no interest, did a little more vocal during doggy but after 20 ish minutes I had kinda lost interest and gave up, and was more chit chatty on way home.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...1-942a7fdab6bc

I've got a couple more looking to meet, but with the time I've wasted and money I've wasted this last month. Kinda over it.

**TVDinner** · 01-12-26 16:02

Scammer. Wants deposit up front. If your willing she said she would do bare and host for 3 and a half Bennie's. Beware, the PayPal she wanted me to used was tagged to Dallas TX.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...4-25caa0864db9

**Bob0324** · 01-11-26 22:39

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...6649867605d4a2

Was ready to meet up with this one until she sent me some current pictures. I can't get past those tits. Her cell phone has a Florida area code, but she says she's in south side of Indianapolis and it's Florida area code because it's a work phone?

**MartyC** · 01-11-26 15:07

Not sure if this Rachel girl is slow or what.

Talked briefly and she said she wanted to meet. Sent her my # and got an 'okay' and no text. Asked her later for her number and got nothing. Now again she talked about wanting to meet today. Asked when she could be free and got 'idk' and then nothing after that. Strange interactions.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...e-517dc09e2a10

**SummitMonk** · 01-11-26 09:09

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

This morning she messaged me and told me she was stranded undecided of the road with a flat tire said she was going to work. I said I thought she told me you got fired. She said well I cried and begged and they hired me back. That's the latest.

If she'd just get back on FB or SB & check her messages I'd see her today LOL Would gladly take her off your hands based on her pics, but she's harder than hell to reach.

**Luvs BJs** · 01-11-26 02:07

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

Any of you guys do any good with her? She still constantly messaging me. I asked her if she was still on secret benefits, and she said yes.

Hit her up on SB and Facebook. Nothing on Facebook since you gave me her info. Just messaged on SB. Doesn't seem like she's been on in a while. Doing my best to get her off you hands. LOL.

**Bob0324** · 01-09-26 19:02

Originally Posted by SummitMonk [View Original Post]

No luck for me, hit her up on FB but my message hasn't even been opened yet. Now that you've found / shared her SB I'll check it until she logs back in, then buy some credits to chat again on that site. She's 100% my body type & the goth school girl stuff would be hot af. Thanks for sharing Bob.

This morning she messaged me and told me she was stranded undecided of the road with a flat tire said she was going to work. I said I thought she told me you got fired. She said well I cried and begged and they hired me back. That's the latest.

**SummitMonk** · 01-09-26 18:34

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

Any of you guys do any good with her? She still constantly messaging me. I asked her if she was still on secret benefits, and she said yes.

No luck for me, hit her up on FB but my message hasn't even been opened yet. Now that you've found / shared her SB I'll check it until she logs back in, then buy some credits to chat again on that site. She's 100% my body type & the goth school girl stuff would be hot af. Thanks for sharing Bob.

**Bob0324** · 01-09-26 14:29

Originally Posted by CDog2345 [View Original Post]

I searched high and low and couldn't find any 26 yo with that username.

I found her by going through people that visited my profile.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...55b31fbfcf7530

**CDog2345** · 01-09-26 14:18

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

Any of you guys do any good with her? She still constantly messaging me. I asked her if she was still on secret benefits, and she said yes.

I searched high and low and couldn't find any 26 yo with that username.

**NiceGuysLast66** · 01-09-26 13:52

Not only is she a pro, she schedules back-to-back and gets pissy if you don't beat feet to the street in 20 minutes. Will not repeat.

Originally Posted by TVDinner [View Original Post]

The redhead Jennifer on SA is a pro, but real. Wants $$ but you can probably get her lower (I didn't even try). Sounds like she may be open to bare. Hosts in a sketchy area, so there is that. Have fun and be safe!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1acb0ddb32f4

**Bob0324** · 01-09-26 10:20

Originally Posted by AfterYourGSpot [View Original Post]

I found her on FB and reached out to her. She responded and if course was a but concerned about how I found her. Tread carefully.

Any of you guys do any good with her? She still constantly messaging me. I asked her if she was still on secret benefits, and she said yes.

**TVDinner** · 01-08-26 10:33

Originally Posted by Justme1968 [View Original Post]

So I got on SA to look around. Do I have to pay $150. A month for a membership to communicate with gals on there or am I missing something? Thanks for any info.

Yes, it's now $150 to be able to send messages. Unlike SB, for that monthly amount, you get unlimited messages. I've always had success on SA, but have not tried SB. Be sure to turn the auto-renew off before it hits you a second month, though.

**TVDinner** · 01-08-26 10:31

The redhead Jennifer on SA is a pro, but real. Wants $$ but you can probably get her lower (I didn't even try). Sounds like she may be open to bare. Hosts in a sketchy area, so there is that. Have fun and be safe!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1acb0ddb32f4

**SummitMonk** · 01-07-26 20:52

Originally Posted by AfterYourGSpot [View Original Post]

I found her on FB and reached out to her. She responded and if course was a but concerned about how I found her. Tread carefully.

Did she end up meeting you or just get freaked out about it? I also reached out via FB, just saying she looked sexy or something along those lines but she's never opened the message. Figured she wasn't active much on it based off her posts were from months ago. I wasn't able to find her at all on SB, but honestly can't ever find people by name on that site.