Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

[TVDinner]

So I got on SA to look around. Do I have to pay $150. A month for a membership to communicate with gals on there or am I missing something? Thanks for any info.

Yes, it's now $150 to be able to send messages. Unlike SB, for that monthly amount, you get unlimited messages. I've always had success on SA, but have not tried SB. Be sure to turn the auto-renew off before it hits you a second month, though.

[TVDinner]

The redhead Jennifer on SA is a pro, but real. Wants $$ but you can probably get her lower (I didn't even try). Sounds like she may be open to bare. Hosts in a sketchy area, so there is that. Have fun and be safe!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...e-1acb0ddb32f4

[SummitMonk]

I found her on FB and reached out to her. She responded and if course was a but concerned about how I found her. Tread carefully.

Did she end up meeting you or just get freaked out about it? I also reached out via FB, just saying she looked sexy or something along those lines but she's never opened the message. Figured she wasn't active much on it based off her posts were from months ago. I wasn't able to find her at all on SB, but honestly can't ever find people by name on that site.

[Bob0324]

Apparently she got fired from Freddy's today just keeping you all up to speed.

[Stig690]

Never heard of anybody getting banned from secret benefits. I usually get straight to the point on there before I even bother going further. I'm straight out asked a couple chicks. I like the second message on there how they feel about fisting.

I wasn't sure if explicitly talking about the details of an arrangement would be frowned upon on the site, so I figured playing it safe was the best move. But this is good to know.

[Bob0324]

I found her on FB and reached out to her. She responded and if course was a but concerned about how I found her. Tread carefully.

Didn't look like she was active on Facebook. You guys don't phone me under the bus I'm a creep, but everybody doesn't have to know that.

[AfterYourGSpot]

Mind PMing me her Facebook profile. So I can confirm her once I find her? I haven't found any user with goth in their name that is also 26. Neither have I found a girl with similar tattoos on her shoulder. (Your inbox is full).

I found her on FB and reached out to her. She responded and if course was a but concerned about how I found her. Tread carefully.

[Bob0324]

Like someone else has said, I've been on SB for about a week and have learned quite a bit in that time. Buying credits is quite expensive. I would recommend buying the smallest amount at the beginning, and then once you've run out of those you will get an offer to buy more credits at a very good value (compared to the standard rate). At that time, you should buy more than you think you will need since it's a better value. No matter what you try to do, you're going to run into fake / bot accounts or even people who won't reply / aren't interested, so you'll be using those credits for nothing and they go pretty quickly. Also like others have said, there's no need to spend the credits to unlock secret photos or the questions, so save your credits there. The site doesn't allow nudity so you don't really see more of the person in the private photos.

As far as the fake accounts, I'm still trying to get better at spotting them. It doesn't appear that someone with a "verified" video is guaranteed to be real. I thought I had somewhat of a foolproof way by looking at the number of pictures the profile has. For whatever reason, there are a ton of accounts that have exactly 6 public photos and exactly 4 private photos. The vast majority of those never replied to me either after my initial message or after I replied to their first message.

Never heard of anybody getting banned from secret benefits. I usually get straight to the point on there before I even bother going further. I'm straight out asked a couple chicks. I like the second message on there how they feel about fisting.

[Luvs BJs]

Like I said, I haven't gotten permission to give her number out and I'm not going to ask her. I'm trying not to have much communication with her. I can direct you towards her Facebook, but it doesn't look very active so I don't know what good it would do you. I can also tell you where she works, but I don't know what hours and days she works.

Mind PMing me her Facebook profile. So I can confirm her once I find her? I haven't found any user with goth in their name that is also 26. Neither have I found a girl with similar tattoos on her shoulder. (Your inbox is full).

[Stig690]

Signing up today. From you guys that have experience here, what are some of the pitfalls to try and avoid?

Like someone else has said, I've been on SB for about a week and have learned quite a bit in that time. Buying credits is quite expensive. I would recommend buying the smallest amount at the beginning, and then once you've run out of those you will get an offer to buy more credits at a very good value (compared to the standard rate). At that time, you should buy more than you think you will need since it's a better value. No matter what you try to do, you're going to run into fake / bot accounts or even people who won't reply / aren't interested, so you'll be using those credits for nothing and they go pretty quickly. Also like others have said, there's no need to spend the credits to unlock secret photos or the questions, so save your credits there. The site doesn't allow nudity so you don't really see more of the person in the private photos.

As far as the fake accounts, I'm still trying to get better at spotting them. It doesn't appear that someone with a "verified" video is guaranteed to be real. I thought I had somewhat of a foolproof way by looking at the number of pictures the profile has. For whatever reason, there are a ton of accounts that have exactly 6 public photos and exactly 4 private photos. The vast majority of those never replied to me either after my initial message or after I replied to their first message. I took this as a sign that those are likely bot accounts, but others here have shared some profiles of women they have met IRL, and some of those have the 6 and 4 photo combo. So now I'm not as certain in that method, but there really are so many accounts with that number. I try to stick with accounts that have quite a few photos and / or videos (whether public or private), a well written bio that makes sense, etc.

It really is a numbers game. I've been in contact with at least 5 real people so far and moved the conversation off the app (you'll probably want to do that to maintain your account and to also help verify that you're talking to a real person). Trying to narrow it down from there as I'm not crazy about any of those options so far.

Good luck!

[AvgJoe08]

Signing up today. From you guys that have experience here, what are some of the pitfalls to try and avoid?

I've been on less than a week and have my first date later today. Could've had one on Friday but I had uh family obligations so our schedules didn't work out. I do not have a pic and don't plan to post one (even secret) for fear of being seen on there. So far from what I can tell is that it's a numbers game. I tried to go the cheap route and not buy any "credits" but I've found in this short period of time that the more I communicate the more hits I get. Then direct them to my burner number. There are bots I'm sure that are deployed just to get you to open messages and burn up credits but that's just a guess on part. And BTW, I do not have game or am some smooth talker with the ladies. Just an average dude in his 50's.

[MartyC]

Signing up today. From you guys that have experience here, what are some of the pitfalls to try and avoid?

If you're signing up for SB. The biggest pitfall is site is kinda scammy. I get bombarded with 'messages' from mostly fake accounts. People who message you but never actually visit your profile is probably an automated message. You'll buy coins to 'unlock' it and reply back and they'll never reply. Accounts that favorite you but don't visit your profile is probably a fake, so don't waste your time. People who grant you 'access' to their secret photos, but never visit your profile are again probably fake. Also their pics 90% time are no more revealing than their regular profile pics so don't waste your money.

As far as opening messages I stick with replying to accounts that actually viewed my profile before sending. It increases the likelihood they're real and not some defunct account that the site still has send out messages to get suckers.

[Justme 1968]

So I got on SA to look around. Do I have to pay $150. A month for a membership to communicate with gals on there or am I missing something? Thanks for any info.

[AfterYourGSpot]

Signing up today. From you guys that have experience here, what are some of the pitfalls to try and avoid?

[Bob0324]

Send her my way.

Put your address on here and I will send it to her. Otherwise quit making stupid comments.