Strip Club Reports

[Sevendaytheory]

But lets take it at face value. How pathetic of a PL do you have to be to be jealous of the dancers like that?

It should be happening less in Synn where there are more dancers and interactions are more transactional.

But even that exact reaction you described is not that far off from the behavior the OP was describing. Both are forms of being butt hurt in an environment where both parties should know better. The only difference is the dancer you described decided to talk to you about it (likely after confronting the previous customer). If you noticed that previous customer was still at the club (likely wanting to get a dance from someone else haha).

Logic does not apply in the "jealousy" game because for dancers it is all about their own ego / desirability and making "easy money. " We are all marked as "easy money" as soon as we hit that second visit with them (the first visit they have to "work" for). And if you don't hit them up for that second visit it is now considered "more work" for them to try and convince you. 90% of the time you are not going to get a hotter time than your first 1-2 visits, and if you do you are probably "paying for it" in some other way (may not just be monetarily).

Some simple rules to follow:

1) Say as little as possible. Dancers already know why you want to dance with another dancer. The only reason they are asking is to build a case and build a negative frame around you. The more you say and the longer you talk, the more ammo you are giving them.

2) Never use logic-based arguments with a dancer. They absolutely love the "I get dances with other dancers, but you are free to get dances with others". See how that one plays out haha.

3) As much as possible don't surprise them.

If you really think of the possible scenarios to the original question:

If you don't want to get future dances with them. Easy.

If you want best of both worlds. Also Easy if you have the money.

If you want to keep them in your roster and for them to step up (without spending more money) because other options are looking more appealing. Extremely difficult. As I stated above, dancers are about "easy money" and "quantity over quality. ".

If you are in this scenario, understand that in her mind you have already lost significant ground, and she is now just trying to attach a reason to write you off for good. Again it is about the "easy money" and if she can make that money from someone who only sees her, and she doesn't have to "compete" that is a W for her.

[CaseyX]

I'm at the clubs infrequently enough that I haven't had this kind of problem. Or maybe I'm just oblivious to it. That said, last time I was at Synn I had a dancer talking about the opposite. We were chatting by the bar when she noticed some guy sitting in the middle row of seats. She went on to explain that he was a previous customer who would get really jealous when she would go in the back with other guys. "I'm a ***** selling pussy," she explained (in just about those words), "what is he expecting? Now maybe she was just feeding me a line to give the impression that she was really in demand and that I should take her back for extras. But lets take it at face value. How pathetic of a PL do you have to be to be jealous of the dancers like that?

[AverageGuy82]

I've slowly been getting the same reaction when going to Paradise. I go at different times throughout the month but due to lack of diverse portfolio of women, the same ones seem to be at the club. So, eventually one would talk and spend some time with all the ladies. I don't like to have just one girl be th exclusive reason why I go. Did that when I was younger and more gullible but now I am just on the kickback and relax tip. I will get dances and VIPs with girls that at least appear to be on the same level until the next visit and I'm hanging out with someone else. Then when I get freed up a bit they will walk by and make snarky remarks. I had to tell quite a few I don't get why they are bothered if I haven't claimed them, not trying to date them, much worse marry them. I am there simply to have fun and if they want to have fun plus make money to chill out. If they can't do that then I tell them not to waste my time. Obviously a few of the regularly mentioned difficult ones will get offended, I. E, Brianna, Vanessa and Veronica. They just think because the last time I spent a little on you and might have fucked around that I should either be smitten, appreciatieve so I should give them exclusive rights to my money. That ain't happening. And I have stopped accepting phone numbers when they are trying to give them to me. Not bragging its not a Big D situation but they thought they found some stupid trick they can manipulate. That rejection of the number is worse than not given them money if you experience it because the ego is so hurt. The last 3 I told them I'm not down for that outside contact to come to the club shit. If they giving me the number the expectation is fucking and they quickly change mindset.

I thought I was the only one dealing with this dilemma. Good thing with Synn almost all girls have extras. Decisions are tough on nights when multiple girls you already banged are on the roll call. I haven't had an issues with a girl confronting why did you go with her and not me yet. Sometimes I'll wait for a girl to go to the locker room or go get a dance. Then take a turn with the one I want that night or try to conquer a new one. Almost every girl there will do extras. Then I have my notes. Who charges what and services. Some girls will want $500 but they don't include BJ.

I miss the days of Alyssa and she loved and encouraged sharing my cock with her friends. Even as a threesome or said try her friend.

There's a small group of girls currently at Synn down for that and even offer outcalls as a group. It's fun.

[AttaSquirt]

I haven't been to paradise in a long long time, Roll call shows alot of non older pisa women, but more Synn Quality, is that true? What up with Khalifa, does she get down in A VIP? $$? Anyone else that has a nice slender body worth seeing At Paradise?

A couple of years ago I talked with Khalifa at Paradise. She sat down at the table I was sitting at, bent over and showed me the butt plug she had inserted up her ass. I was like, well that's nice does this mean that you do anal? She said yeah, she was the only dancer in the club that did anal. I didn't pursue it any further, partly because it was about time for me to leave and partly because it just seemed something was a little off about her. Didn't ask her about her rates.

[Fruit Cake]

I haven't been to paradise in a long long time, Roll call shows alot of non older pisa women, but more Synn Quality, is that true? What up with Khalifa, does she get down in A VIP? $$? Anyone else that has a nice slender body worth seeing At Paradise?

[CaseyX]

Good thing with Synn almost all girls have extras.

I was just thinking about this. What percentage do you think it is now? 90%? 95%? I've met enough who say that don't do extras that the clean girls don't feel like unicorns but it's certainly a small minority. Same question for Rhino. Back before the pandemic I think the percentage at SR was a bunch lower, with lots of chatter on BI about one girl or another "going to the dark side". Maybe because they seemed to have pretty high standards for hiring, which seem to have dropped off a lot.

I haven't had issues with dancers getting jealous but I think the percentage (or my perception of it) affects how I interact in the club. When I visit clubs in the Detroit suburbs, where I know that basically every dancer is DTF, I'm very comfortable asking about BJs and FS out on the floor. Same thing at Tropical Lei. In the CoI clubs I'm more reticent. Maybe I shouldn't be.

[BoneRanger22]

I thought I was the only one dealing with this dilemma. Good thing with Synn almost all girls have extras. Decisions are tough on nights when multiple girls you already banged are on the roll call. I haven't had an issues with a girl confronting why did you go with her and not me yet. Sometimes I'll wait for a girl to go to the locker room or go get a dance. Then take a turn with the one I want that night or try to conquer a new one. Almost every girl there will do extras. Then I have my notes. Who charges what and services. Some girls will want $500 but they don't include BJ.

I miss the days of Alyssa and she loved and encouraged sharing my cock with her friends. Even as a threesome or said try her friend.

There's a small group of girls currently at Synn down for that and even offer outcalls as a group. It's fun.

=OrangeGoku;7446160]Over the past past year I have become a regular at synn due to the reports on this thread. I have banged 7-8 girls in the VIP. I've had a lot of fun but things have got complicated recently. I notice some of the girls I have had fun with give me dirty looks in the club when they see me talking to other girl. When I go to VIP I can feel them staring me down from across the room. Then when I make small talk with some of them they ask me why I'm not spending on them but other girls. And its hard to keep coming up with excuses. I usually go on the same days so I usually run into the same group of girls.

Has anybody else ran into this situation.

[Jacknunya]

Any mileage out of Satin? Saw the post about the bartender tonight and that alone makes me want to go LOL.

[Billj1034]

Some thoughts from my recent trips to Synn:

Kat: Tall, slim dancer who's pretty smart and interesting to talk to. When I VIPed her a while back it ended up being a clean VIP; she never brought up extras and I just enjoyed playing with her body. I thought I'd read on here that she only did head (though I can't find that report). But this time a moment after we got into the VIP she asked "do you want to fuck me?" So we did. Very much toward the PSE side of the spectrum with an aggressive CBJ and cowgirl ride. Got her down from her initial 500 ask to 300, which sadly seems to be a very common price point lately.

Gabriela: This girl's look really does it for me. GND pretty, natural body, and she doesn't come off as the typical vapid stripper. But her dances are so uninspired. She's on your lap, topless, light grind, talking a bit but no heat, no energy. I've lapped her twice and she's never asked about VIP or hinted at anything more. A shame.

Diva: Very pretty with a nice natural bod. Lap dances were fairly low quality with very light grind and just felt distant. Asked about VIP and extras at the end but wouldn't budge from her 500 ask. Not worth to to me at that price point.

Ecstacy: Pretty, fit redhead. Great energy and moves on stage. Lap dance was very good, nude from the start (rare these days) with plenty of grind. Took her to VIP and it was more of the same. She says she's new to the club and dancing and kind of gave me a bit of a good girl vibe so I just enjoyed the nude grind behind the curtain. If anyone can confirm that she does the nasty I'd love to know (and I'll ask her directly next time).

Blossom: Long, bright red hair and a very slender body. Not the prettiest face but I like her body. Comes off as kind of ditzy but not in a bad way. Gave a good lap dance, nude from the start. Took her in back and enjoyed a high mileage, no extras VIP. Confirmed on the way out that she does do extras but didn't get a number.

Elizabeth: Tall slim white girl, very pretty. Gave a reasonable lap dance so I decided to take a risk on VIP, particularly after he suggested that extras were available. In the back she brought the subject up early but then asked 400 for a BJ. Maybe she would've negotiated to something reasonable but the high number and the way she said it made me think that it wasn't likely to happen so I resigned myself to just dances. Well those dances were kind of boring. She didn't put much effort into it at all. She comes off as someone who thinks she's just going to get paid because she's hot.

Thanks for the great update.

Kat: My recollection from older reports agree that she used to do only BJ for 150. Works mostly Fri / Sat day shift. At $300 she could be a regular.

Gabriela: I've done a couple Thursday 15 minute VIPs and they were not inspiring. She is nice to talk to though.

Diva: Made the same $500 offer to me which I declined. I have 2-3 regulars that are equivalent looks wise and only $300.

[AcuraDreamer]

The attitudes of dancers are different from low mileage clubs and high mileage clubs. In low mileage clubs such as Imperial Showgirls Anaheim and California Showgirls Santa Ana the atmosphere is a party vibe. The girls there actually like hanging out and doing dances and don't seem as territorial with customers from my years of observation. However, I haven't been back to Imperial since Kim bought it and supposedly extras are available there now. Moving on to the mid to high mileage clubs such as Synncoi, Paradise Showgirls and Tropical Lei. Synn may have a party vibe since they have 30 plus girls working a shift. What I notice in all 3 clubs are the dancers are lazier, do a lot of flybys and won't invest any time in you unless you spend big bucks. Which I understand they are there to make money. It seems they are reluctant to cultivate regulars. Perfect example is the ridiculous gps going around. Don't think they are looking for repeat business demanding $500 to bang. They don't want to dance but make as much money banging as they can. In their eyes we are nothing but $$$ and of course they get catty if they have to share their meal ticket.

I experienced passive aggressive behavior before at Tropical Lei. I was chatting with dancer I regularly lap with and she had to go freshen up since she just finished a VIP. Then this other dancer I liked came by and sat down and we chatted for a bit then I excused myself because I saw my regular at the bar. When I got to the bar my regular said "I don't care who you chat with as long as it is not that ***** right there. " And she pointed at the dancer I was chatting with when she was gone. She later explained that this dancer has a habit of stealing her customers. And spreading lies about her. I smooth the situation by telling my regular that my friend got a VIP with this particular dancer and she came by to say Hi to me since she recognize me through my friend. Crisis averted I got my VIP and remembered to avoid shifts when these two work together. Another night I was with my friend at Tropical Lei and my regular stopped by to chat. It was her, my friend and I and then my friend left to talk to another dancer. My regular looked to see who he was talking to and said "I hope he doesn't bring her over here" They went to the VIP room and she told me that the dancer my friend left with stole a regular of hers when she took a leave of absence from the club.

[XBiker]

Over the past past year I have become a regular at synn due to the reports on this thread. I have banged 7-8 girls in the VIP. I've had a lot of fun but things have got complicated recently. I notice some of the girls I have had fun with give me dirty looks in the club when they see me talking to other girl. When I go to VIP I can feel them staring me down from across the room. Then when I make small talk with some of them they ask me why I'm not spending on them but other girls. And its hard to keep coming up with excuses. I usually go on the same days so I usually run into the same group of girls.

Has anybody else ran into this situation.

It happens more often then you think. Some dancers can get possessive about "their" customers. Regular customers = steady income. I have this happen to several times. As long, as they just giving the dirty look, you should be OK. It's when they start to escalate, then it's a might become problem. One time a dancer, try to start a rumor that I was stalking her. Luckily, no one believed her. Another time, a dancer started claiming club regulars as her customers. I happened to one of unluck souls. Eventually, she got fire for starting a fight in the dressing room over a customer.

[CaseyX]

Some thoughts from my recent trips to Synn:

Kat: Tall, slim dancer who's pretty smart and interesting to talk to. When I VIPed her a while back it ended up being a clean VIP; she never brought up extras and I just enjoyed playing with her body. I thought I'd read on here that she only did head (though I can't find that report). But this time a moment after we got into the VIP she asked "do you want to fuck me?" So we did. Very much toward the PSE side of the spectrum with an aggressive CBJ and cowgirl ride. Got her down from her initial 500 ask to 300, which sadly seems to be a very common price point lately.

Gabriela: This girl's look really does it for me. GND pretty, natural body, and she doesn't come off as the typical vapid stripper. But her dances are so uninspired. She's on your lap, topless, light grind, talking a bit but no heat, no energy. I've lapped her twice and she's never asked about VIP or hinted at anything more. A shame.

Diva: Very pretty with a nice natural bod. Lap dances were fairly low quality with very light grind and just felt distant. Asked about VIP and extras at the end but wouldn't budge from her 500 ask. Not worth to to me at that price point.

Ecstacy: Pretty, fit redhead. Great energy and moves on stage. Lap dance was very good, nude from the start (rare these days) with plenty of grind. Took her to VIP and it was more of the same. She says she's new to the club and dancing and kind of gave me a bit of a good girl vibe so I just enjoyed the nude grind behind the curtain. If anyone can confirm that she does the nasty I'd love to know (and I'll ask her directly next time).

Blossom: Long, bright red hair and a very slender body. Not the prettiest face but I like her body. Comes off as kind of ditzy but not in a bad way. Gave a good lap dance, nude from the start. Took her in back and enjoyed a high mileage, no extras VIP. Confirmed on the way out that she does do extras but didn't get a number.

Elizabeth: Tall slim white girl, very pretty. Gave a reasonable lap dance so I decided to take a risk on VIP, particularly after he suggested that extras were available. In the back she brought the subject up early but then asked 400 for a BJ. Maybe she would've negotiated to something reasonable but the high number and the way she said it made me think that it wasn't likely to happen so I resigned myself to just dances. Well those dances were kind of boring. She didn't put much effort into it at all. She comes off as someone who thinks she's just going to get paid because she's hot.

[KevlarProof]

Has anybody else ran into this situation.

Definitely, and the awkwardness of your walk of conquest towards the restroom to freshen up or leave and you run into another dancer that knows LOL.

For the ones that are friends with others, it would be nice if they would promote push each other. You would thinking they would say "oh that's my girl, give her a try" and vice versa LOL. Heck I enjoy seeing their social media posts with other girls, gives the challenge to want to try their friends LOL. Though it would be creepy to mention that to them asking about their friends that also work there LOL.

[Fruit Cake]

Over the past past year I have become a regular at synn due to the reports on this thread. I have banged 7-8 girls in the VIP. I've had a lot of fun but things have got complicated recently. I notice some of the girls I have had fun with give me dirty looks in the club when they see me talking to other girl. When I go to VIP I can feel them staring me down from across the room. Then when I make small talk with some of them they ask me why I'm not spending on them but other girls. And its hard to keep coming up with excuses. I usually go on the same days so I usually run into the same group of girls.

Has anybody else ran into this situation.

100 percent this happens to me especially if the dancer works alot,. At times I have to check roll-call and if I see a dancer working, I can't go due to the fact if the dancers I dealt with see me talking to other dancer they get Edgy!

[OrangeGoku]

Over the past past year I have become a regular at synn due to the reports on this thread. I have banged 7-8 girls in the VIP. I've had a lot of fun but things have got complicated recently. I notice some of the girls I have had fun with give me dirty looks in the club when they see me talking to other girl. When I go to VIP I can feel them staring me down from across the room. Then when I make small talk with some of them they ask me why I'm not spending on them but other girls. And its hard to keep coming up with excuses. I usually go on the same days so I usually run into the same group of girls.

Has anybody else ran into this situation.