Arrangement Reports / Seeking Arrangments

**BiggDogg70** · 11-18-25 12:49

Originally Posted by DaGreatOne2345 [View Original Post]

You want to avoid unpleasant contention? They don't get what is agreed upon until the end. She can feel as unpleasant as she wants, but if she wants Daddy to take care of her needs, she needs to check all the boxes, which includes patience. Otherwise, the minute that envelope is in her hands at the beginning of the date, it's liable to go to hell. Easy. She could cash and dash, she could be as unpleasant towards you as humanly possible because she already got paid, etc. It's leverage. Why would you give it up if she hasn't? That's just foolishness and you're asking for to be robbed.

This is a totally different game than seeing an escort, although some pros do use the SB sites for marketing. It is pretty to easy to spot them. As for the traditional gals I have found that they fall into one of two groups. Group one is using it as a dating site. They want to find a class guy who will pamper them. Group two are the semi-pros. This is a way to subsidize themselves. Group two is what I prefer. Either way you go a M&G is a necessity. As well, I have never offered, nor have I been asked to provide the gift prior to consumation.

**DaGreatOne2345** · 11-18-25 10:04

Originally Posted by Athwartships [View Original Post]

When I've dealt with such arrangements, there's usually agreement about price and service, and the SB expects an envelope at the start. Remember, there are unscrupulous SDs out there who try to renegotiate after the fact. The thing is, be clear. If you're on a M&G get clarity on boundaries, and if there are specific expectations you have ask if they will be met or not. One tends to be polite and a gentlemen in these meetings (as opposed to escort situations), so very direct questions can seem untoward. However, that's how you know what to expect! To do that at the end may lead to unpleasant contention, and I try to avoid that. Of course, just because things are clear doesn't mean they end up being what you'd want for a repeat.

You want to avoid unpleasant contention? They don't get what is agreed upon until the end. She can feel as unpleasant as she wants, but if she wants Daddy to take care of her needs, she needs to check all the boxes, which includes patience. Otherwise, the minute that envelope is in her hands at the beginning of the date, it's liable to go to hell. Easy. She could cash and dash, she could be as unpleasant towards you as humanly possible because she already got paid, etc. It's leverage. Why would you give it up if she hasn't? That's just foolishness and you're asking for to be robbed.

**Athwartships** · 11-17-25 12:34

Originally Posted by DaGreatOne2345 [View Original Post]

Don't ever give them the money first or when they walk in. They get the money at the end, once it's earned.

When I've dealt with such arrangements, there's usually agreement about price and service, and the SB expects an envelope at the start. Remember, there are unscrupulous SDs out there who try to renegotiate after the fact. The thing is, be clear. If you're on a M&G get clarity on boundaries, and if there are specific expectations you have ask if they will be met or not. One tends to be polite and a gentlemen in these meetings (as opposed to escort situations), so very direct questions can seem untoward. However, that's how you know what to expect! To do that at the end may lead to unpleasant contention, and I try to avoid that. Of course, just because things are clear doesn't mean they end up being what you'd want for a repeat.

**Apple23** · 11-17-25 00:04

Hey guys just looking for a nice girl if you got.

Anything pm is ok I'm tired of this fake.

On the site been scam few time just little help much appreciated thank you in advance.

**DaGreatOne2345** · 11-14-25 20:38

Don't ever give them the money first or when they walk in. They get the money at the end, once it's earned.

Originally Posted by Athwartships [View Original Post]

The ones who know what they're doing know their worth -- they'll have a number in mind, you just need to ask. They usually have some wiggle room in that (will take $100 less than their ask), but below that they'll pass. And if that number is more than what you feel is worthwhile, you should pass. The ones that want you to give them a number are inexperienced or playing a game.

The real artful part is in trying to find out what they'll do (or not do) for that amount. Some will be very coy about that, as they know they have rules that if too detailed will cause you to wave off. They'd prefer you set a price, get the money when they walk in, and if what they do isn't to your liking, well, one-and-done. It's all money to them.

**MudStuffin** · 11-12-25 16:07

Liah was a no show for a meet and greet.

She would not move to texting, but she was responsive on the website chat. Left on read after that.

My guess is she's not serious. YMMV, but wanted to give a warning.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...b-28fc1f66c0ff

**Athwartships** · 11-11-25 18:10

Originally Posted by Cec00 [View Original Post]

My rule is to never say any number FIRST. 100% of the time let them tell you and negotiate from there. You giving a number first has no benefit to you, none. That is what I was told over 20 years ago and it was one of the 10 hobby commandments that have served me well.

The ones who know what they're doing know their worth -- they'll have a number in mind, you just need to ask. They usually have some wiggle room in that (will take $100 less than their ask), but below that they'll pass. And if that number is more than what you feel is worthwhile, you should pass. The ones that want you to give them a number are inexperienced or playing a game.

The real artful part is in trying to find out what they'll do (or not do) for that amount. Some will be very coy about that, as they know they have rules that if too detailed will cause you to wave off. They'd prefer you set a price, get the money when they walk in, and if what they do isn't to your liking, well, one-and-done. It's all money to them.

**Cec00** · 11-11-25 16:04

Originally Posted by CondomPopper1 [View Original Post]

I agree. If you already have a specific budget in mind, it's best to discuss it with her upfront. You may find yourself pleasantly surprised by the outcome. At times, they may initially quote a higher rate, but will often become more reasonable during negotiation. If you're comfortable with a total of five, then remain firm with your budget. It's also important to ask about their intentionsif they're unwilling to spend the agreed amount of time or engage meaningfully during that period, it's likely they're focused solely on the transaction rather than building an ongoing arrangement relationship.

My rule is to never say any number FIRST. 100% of the time let them tell you and negotiate from there. You giving a number first has no benefit to you, none. That is what I was told over 20 years ago and it was one of the 10 hobby commandments that have served me well.

**CondomPopper1** · 11-10-25 19:22

Originally Posted by Cec00 [View Original Post]

Don't let her put that on you. Ask her what SHE WANTS and then go DOWN FROM THERE.

Never, ever, ever offer the first price. Ever. The number she tells you is invaluable information my brother.

I agree. If you already have a specific budget in mind, it's best to discuss it with her upfront. You may find yourself pleasantly surprised by the outcome. At times, they may initially quote a higher rate, but will often become more reasonable during negotiation. If you're comfortable with a total of five, then remain firm with your budget. It's also important to ask about their intentions—if they're unwilling to spend the agreed amount of time or engage meaningfully during that period, it's likely they're focused solely on the transaction rather than building an ongoing arrangement relationship.

**Cec00** · 11-10-25 17:22

Originally Posted by Fmjacob [View Original Post]

I recently had a lunch date, literally just lunch, with a lady from What's Your Price. We had a pleasant lunch and we both understood what we were looking for. We agreed to get together in a private setting and have some real fun. She asked how much I was willing to support her with on pay per meeting. Knowing that she could not host, nor can I and I would have to get a room, I said I'd let her know when we set a time. Knowing that I have to pay for a room, I'm not sure how much I should offer. If I offer 4 bills, I'm easily in for 5. 5 by the time I get a room. For that price, there are allot of choices. TIA.

Don't let her put that on you. Ask her what SHE WANTS and then go DOWN FROM THERE.

Never, ever, ever offer the first price. Ever. The number she tells you is invaluable information my brother.

**Fmjacob** · 11-08-25 14:28

I recently had a lunch date, literally just lunch, with a lady from What's Your Price. We had a pleasant lunch and we both understood what we were looking for. We agreed to get together in a private setting and have some real fun. She asked how much I was willing to support her with on pay per meeting. Knowing that she could not host, nor can I and I would have to get a room, I said I'd let her know when we set a time. Knowing that I have to pay for a room, I'm not sure how much I should offer. If I offer 4 bills, I'm easily in for 5. 5 by the time I get a room. For that price, there are allot of choices. TIA.

**CondomPopper1** · 10-23-25 10:14

She asked for 3 bennies and a fifty. I do not know why this site deletes $ signs sometimes. Stay safe fellow hobbyist.

**CondomPopper1** · 10-21-25 19:38

Alexandra was as advertised. Short, skinny and very accommodating. She is a pleaser and it really shows. Asked for $$ 5. Worth every penny. 2 rounds were had. I would and am going to repeat. Enjoy this one until while you can.

**BareOnly2018** · 10-15-25 14:56

Originally Posted by Casper11 [View Original Post]

Lana is a big tease. Tries to get dates to see you at restaurant expecting money. When it comes to going to hotel she just says needs more restaurant dates to be comfortable.

Yaya is excellent. Really gets into the sex, very explorative and open to trying new things. Would reccomend.

Anyone willing to trade or share yaya number? I got off SA because too expensive for the lack of talent.