"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[HollowGuy]

So we did a video call. She is hot. Just wanted money in advance but ready to meet but wanted.

To make sure I can provide apparently. She did say she gets money just to meet and greet.

It's your choice, but don't pay deposits just because someone looks good. It's not only about the money; it's about having standards. For a real meet-and-greet, you shouldn't have to pay upfront. Deposits are usually what escorts or scammers ask for. Don't let them change the rules. Set your terms and stick to them.

[MatchesM]

I thought of doing that before, but then I just bite my tongue. I think it would backfire much more than it could possibly work. It would just piss them off. The closest I get to that is mention to a woman 40+ that the girls in their 20's are in highest demand and can command the highest prices. But I try to say it in a casual, offhanded way, not like I'm trying to make any point.

Did this once, and it was as tactful as I could say it, and it still backfired. May work on a LC girl though.

[Peter Pan]

I thought of doing that before, but then I just bite my tongue. I think it would backfire much more than it could possibly work. It would just piss them off. The closest I get to that is mention to a woman 40+ that the girls in their 20's are in highest demand and can command the highest prices. But I try to say it in a casual, offhanded way, not like I'm trying to make any point.

It's not something I would say. As it would backfire.

[Loop285]

Anyone have any experience or intel on either of these two? Met up with both in the past but I didn't have enough juice to get either one in the sack or negotiate an arrangement. Ailani was a dancer, not sure if she still dances, who is well versed on how the game goes, we just couldn't agree on the right number. Laura at the time was being splurged on by some guy who was active military, and I couldn't bring myself to get involved and potentially be a Jodie. Would to spin the block this time around and see what happens.

Ailani - https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-e98def9704d8.

Laura - https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-baa1dcc5fad1.

[Peter Johnson]

Great response!

Do you have any suggestions on how to introduce FOMO (fear of missing out) to the target? What I mean is, I've had success in the past by alluding that there are other girls they're in competition with. This doesn't work consistently, and backfires occasionally (when it shatters whatever illusion they have). I'd be curious to get the boards take on the best ways to introduce the idea of competition. When calibrated right, I think it's an effective tool.

I thought of doing that before, but then I just bite my tongue. I think it would backfire much more than it could possibly work. It would just piss them off. The closest I get to that is mention to a woman 40+ that the girls in their 20's are in highest demand and can command the highest prices. But I try to say it in a casual, offhanded way, not like I'm trying to make any point.

[PlayerOne1]

This is good advice. It's what I need to hear. We all need that reminder every now and then because it's easy to get complacent.

Share with us on the outcome! I agree I easily spent $1 k or more on girls that I wanted badly.

But in your case she has to put out as well.

Good luck! Will be waiting for a report out from you.

[SoonerFan72]

Nice lady, would probably be fun. Gives a "cut to the chase" semi pro vibe though, and wants $800 PPM.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-d2de8ab4765c

[SoonerFan72]

Pic seller, no interest in meeting.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...f-90f6b91d16d3

[LoriTruck]

Just tell her, "if you are ready to begin an arrangement, and move to the next level, I'd love to have you come to my place (or hotel, however you roll) and get things started. ".

I know its not what you want to hear, but don't be a sucker. She might be slow playing you. Let her know you do cash in person, not digital. Either way, have fun.

This is good advice. It's what I need to hear. We all need that reminder every now and then because it's easy to get complacent.

[SoonerFan72]

Great response!

Do you have any suggestions on how to introduce FOMO (fear of missing out) to the target? What I mean is, I've had success in the past by alluding that there are other girls they're in competition with. This doesn't work consistently, and backfires occasionally (when it shatters whatever illusion they have). I'd be curious to get the boards take on the best ways to introduce the idea of competition. When calibrated right, I think it's an effective tool.

At LoriTruck, I would be willing to bet there's a good chance it will be "that time of the month" when it's time for fun, but she won't reveal that until the last second. I would decide now (while the big head is in control) what your response will be.

I can't say I've ever used that tactic. Either they are down to clown, or they arent. A lot of these chics make the mistake of treating us like Tinder dates, like they have the upper hand. I just move on from these chics, no matter now hot they may be. I've found if they have that kind of mentality, they probably arent going to put in much effort in the sack. Like they are doing you a favor. I look for the ones that are friendly and motivated.

[GoneForGood97]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-003118ba913c

I have her socials: insta. She is part of a young group of girls with many of them on / off seeking.

I want to see her but she is so hard to pin down and wants money in advance.

As soon as "money in advance" or "deposit" or any of that nonsense is mentioned, just block and move on. These aren't high priced escorts, if they want to be treated like high priced escorts they can go make a Tryst ad. If they ask for an advance or desposit they are either 1) scamming (almost guaranteed) or 2) an escort and not a SB, since deposits is really an escort thing. You can try to shoot that shit down by saying "That makes things feel too transactional, we need to wait until after the date" and if they're a real SB they'll usually be fine with it. If they insist on the deposit, just take my original advice: block and move on.

[Jims2321]

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[Christian Troy]

Just tell her, "if you are ready to begin an arrangement, and move to the next level, I'd love to have you come to my place (or hotel, however you roll) and get things started. ".

I know its not what you want to hear, but don't be a sucker. She might be slow playing you. Let her know you do cash in person, not digital. Either way, have fun.

Great response!

Do you have any suggestions on how to introduce FOMO (fear of missing out) to the target? What I mean is, I've had success in the past by alluding that there are other girls they're in competition with. This doesn't work consistently, and backfires occasionally (when it shatters whatever illusion they have). I'd be curious to get the boards take on the best ways to introduce the idea of competition. When calibrated right, I think it's an effective tool.

At LoriTruck, I would be willing to bet there's a good chance it will be "that time of the month" when it's time for fun, but she won't reveal that until the last second. I would decide now (while the big head is in control) what your response will be.

[SoonerFan72]

So I met a lady who I consider in my opinion to be a unicorn. One of those once in a lifetime individuals who just has it all. Physically, she has everything where it needs to be. Perfect height, weight, has a pretty smile, nice full lips, nice chest and a speed bump that sticks out just right. We have gone on a few lunch dates and our conversations flow effortlessly and things seemed to be going well until I got hit with the "Can you please help me with my portion of the rent?" via text. I have yet to respond but it's probably in the neighborhood of 700-800. I have easily spent that in one day on lunch, drinks, hotel, and fun afterwards with other ladies in the past so that amount can go quickly.

My end goal is to experience her at least once but how can I turn her request in my favor to where I also get what I want? The last thing I want is for her to think she's getting free help without putting in a little work for it.

Just tell her, "if you are ready to begin an arrangement, and move to the next level, I'd love to have you come to my place (or hotel, however you roll) and get things started. ".

I know its not what you want to hear, but don't be a sucker. She might be slow playing you. Let her know you do cash in person, not digital. Either way, have fun.

[LoriTruck]

So I met a lady who I consider in my opinion to be a unicorn. One of those once in a lifetime individuals who just has it all. Physically, she has everything where it needs to be. Perfect height, weight, has a pretty smile, nice full lips, nice chest and a speed bump that sticks out just right. We have gone on a few lunch dates and our conversations flow effortlessly and things seemed to be going well until I got hit with the "Can you please help me with my portion of the rent?" via text. I have yet to respond but it's probably in the neighborhood of 700-800. I have easily spent that in one day on lunch, drinks, hotel, and fun afterwards with other ladies in the past so that amount can go quickly.

My end goal is to experience her at least once but how can I turn her request in my favor to where I also get what I want? The last thing I want is for her to think she's getting free help without putting in a little work for it.