Sadomachism

**Browsebot** · 03-08-09 13:07

Originally Posted by Misfit

When I saw your picture, that song by Aerosmith came to mind. What's it called? Ah yes, I believe it is "Dude looks like a lady". Misfit

My guess is that may be what "she" was alluding to when "she" made the comment:

Originally Posted by Raquel Whips

I have this duality thing going on.

**Misfit** · 03-08-09 08:08

When I saw your picture, that song by Aerosmith came to mind. What's it called? Ah yes, I believe it is "Dude looks like a lady".

Misfit

**Raquel Whips** · 03-05-09 22:30

I have this duality thing going on.

Smiles.

I pretend to be vanilla in real life all the time.

Raquel Whips

**Supereloquent** · 12-14-08 10:42

Originally Posted by Verotica

Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

V

There is another main site you missed: bondage.com. I have tried all of these sites and found them somewhat disappointing in that the chances of a female responding to a male inquiry are about 1 in 50 (maybe worse). So maybe there are many false postings or just postings of women who have absolutely no intention of corresponding and/or meeting, or even simply discussing the lifestyle. The other possibility is that the females are overwhelmed with inquiries and don't have the time/energy to reply to even a small portion of those who write.

A much better way of meeting and networking with people in the "lifestyle" is to join a local BDSM group (most are listed on line) that meets periodically in what they call a "munch" or "gathering." Such events are usually for discussion and sometimes demonstration and group play, and are a great way to get to know others of like BDSM temperament.

**Misfit** · 12-14-08 07:10

Just wanted to share this picture of my favorite pornstar who also does bondage shots. You can't miss her since she advertises her name on her chest. Sexy submissive slave.

Misfit

**Verotica** · 11-28-08 23:02

Originally Posted by Niceguy3

By far, the best online resource for BDSM friends is fetlife dot com.

Enjoy, Nice

Thanks for the info - I'm checking it out right now.

V

**Niceguy3** · 11-27-08 07:57

By far, the best online resource for BDSM friends is fetlife dot com.

Enjoy, Nice

**Verotica** · 11-09-08 19:54

Misfit, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of sites that cater to all those interested in BDSM. A few that I, as a submissive female, tend to like are Alt.com, MyDungeonSpace.com and Colarme.com.

I like MDS a lot since it has a real "community" feel about it; plus, some of the photography is outstanding. I have a few blogs and photos on there myself (under Verotica). It's a great place for veterans and newbies alike.

Anyway, just some suggestions.

V

**Misfit** · 11-02-08 07:18

Originally Posted by R Consultant

Theres a few sites out there that you can have some serious fun with subs who want to share there fantasies with you and they are very much wanting to explore there kinky side.

Happy Hunting..

What sites are you refering to?

Misfit

**R Consultant** · 10-31-08 20:40

Theres a few sites out there that you can have some serious fun with subs who want to share there fantasies with you and they are very much wanting to explore there kinky side.

Happy Hunting..

Originally Posted by Misfit

I would find that "1 to be outright crazy" the most fun at being the submissive slave. Females who have a few loose screws in the head can be very fun to play with & are very open minded to just about any fetish.

Misfit

**RediMax42** · 09-19-08 13:00

Originally Posted by Misfit

I would find that "1 to be outright crazy" the most fun at being the submissive slave. Females who have a few loose screws in the head can be very fun to play with & are very open minded to just about any fetish.

Misfit

And you simply have to ask.

**Misfit** · 04-13-08 06:03

Originally Posted by Horndog132

"Of every 100 people you meet 90 will be basically stable and sincere, 9 will be genuinly interested in SM but too unstable to work out well in a SM club and 1 will be outright crazy "

I would find that "1 to be outright crazy" the most fun at being the submissive slave. Females who have a few loose screws in the head can be very fun to play with & are very open minded to just about any fetish.

Misfit

**Horndog132** · 04-02-08 00:04

Originally Posted by Zidaho

Mongers,

Would some one help me out here please. I have heard of a place in Thailand that a man could check in and submit 24/7/3days-5days as a sub. I have read the posts on this thread. I'd prefer to be the Dom, but I understand the hiearchy sp. Here are some pics, this American girl was fun . . . met her on Match. I know alot of women want to be submissive but I feel I need some fundamental experience to go where I know a few women want to go. Advise appreciated!

Sex stats show about 7% of women are into kink... The starting point is education about safe and sane kink play and more important "Trust" women who are into kink and bondage need to know absolutly you respect there boundries and experience with kink... Experienced Women know fetish play or scene creates more intense orgasms... start with education readthe book "SM-101".... attend some local fetish clubs and take some fetish classes...bondage 101, flogging 101, Masochism - "initial recruiting 90-9-1 rule"

"Of every 100 people you meet 90 will be basically stable and sincere, 9 will be genuinly interested in SM but too unstable to work out well in a SM club and 1 will be outright crazy "

women have to sort out these numbers... that is why referrals and fetish classes are a great way to meet like minded people...

**Daka1** · 02-18-08 07:27

Medical Fetish includes nurse uniforms, clinic equipment and supplies, latex and rubber goodies, restraints of all types, probes of all kinds, cupping, pumping, sounds, electrostimulation, sharp objects, catheters, enemas, and lots of things you may never have even heard of before.

Even folks not heavily into medical fetish love the Wartenburg Wheel, and many employ e-stim. Dental dams are used for protected DATY and AR. Tuning forks can be fun toys.

Where to find all this fun stuff? Some stuff is available from retailers of sex toys, but there is also a company dedicated to medical fetish items that I've been using for quite a while.

http://www.medicaltoys.com/

In addition to the types of items mentioned above, and many others, the site has a Medical Fetish Library with educational material on various procedures and techniques.

Play safe

[My only connection to this company is as a satisfied customer.]

**Misfit** · 10-12-07 06:40

Talk about the perfect position to have your significant other in. Now if I can only find a girl to be a submissive slave like this one.

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Misfit