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09-21-25 22:23 #4794Regular Member

Posts: 7Brisa
I did everything at the standard price. I don't know how much for BBBJ. You should ask the girls.
Originally Posted by PertoNik
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09-21-25 21:40 #4793Banned Member

Posts: 994Yes, there is a balance
As Tycoon says it feels great to be a gentleman and I love it when girls show their appreciation. Well aware that life is often a struggle for them. My mystery was why things would sometimes progress to less fun places. Understanding Chinese culture helps, but I have no intention to start treating girls poorly. I'm just looking to learn how to consistently get the best experience for both.
Originally Posted by IstlFun
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09-21-25 20:18 #4792Senior Member

Posts: 449Two ways street
It's a two ways street, being nice to girls get quality service yes. Being nice but get poor quality no good. Uncertainty in this game is girls change every months, some will take advantage of the niceness and give nothing back, so I rely on monger Gibs review on new girls to spend wisely. Folks, please do unbias review, share good or bad review. When there's bad reviews mms will replace the girl or retrain the girl, so next monger will have good quality service. Thanks.
Originally Posted by Asiantycoon
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09-21-25 19:04 #4791Banned Member

Posts: 319Well said. Agree 100%.
Originally Posted by Asiantycoon
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09-21-25 15:40 #4790Senior Member

Posts: 29Uhh, I don't know. Most of these girls I talked to are making 200-300 k a year tax free, the popular ones actually a bit more than that. They are trying to build enough of a nest egg to either retire early, buy real estate or start other businesses. I'm not saying don't treat them nicely or anything, and I'm sure some of them are forced to do this for one reason or another, but I don't think that's the norm.
Originally Posted by Asiantycoon
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09-20-25 17:47 #4789Regular Member

Posts: 8How much did you negotiate for the BBBJ?
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09-20-25 17:26 #4788Regular Member

Posts: 7Always Be Kind
I always treat girls or managers nicely. Lots of these girls have a difficult life back home. Most of them works to earn money to help family, pay off debts, or raising kids etc. Whenever I have a session with them, I treat them like my gf by having pleasant experience for both, not just me. Put yourself in the situation, would you do the work for $$? You may think it's normal for these girls. But you never know how they feel or having lifetime emotional effects on them.
Originally Posted by KrDoggy
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Overall, I have never had a bad experience at these spas. I am being treated well because of good manner and hygiene. Being a gentleman feels great, regardless where you are! What goes around comes around!!
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09-20-25 06:23 #4787Banned Member

Posts: 994Wow thank you, this is so helpful
I thought I was breaking hearts or being cruel and really was just being cultivated as a pet! LOL The good news is that I am a bad dog and would always bridle when serious money became involved. This would of course frustrate the girls. I did the research you suggested, and clearly the small things I have been doing, which I enjoyed, gave them the impression I would be a simp for them. There is quite the tradition of women using some men in this way in Chinese culture. This helps to explain why when I would get mad and tell them no, I would start getting better service. Just the opposite of what I expected.
The ironic part is that I travel all over the world (in India now) and I specialize in these cultural tics, except I look at them to help international teams work together and be productive. No surprise at all they are just as important for sex and relationships. I doubt these girls have truly bad intentions, but adding a nice American licking dog to cater to them is culturally something they might prize. They want me away from other girls because they think I'm their possession.
I think this will help me chart a better course, still fun to have a sweet GFE experience, but need to make sure I don't lead them down the Tiangou path. When I hear lao gong that is probably a great indicator they need a reset.
Originally Posted by IstlFun
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09-20-25 01:02 #4786Senior Member

Posts: 449Ah simps
You're simping hard for these girls and they're taking advantage of your niceness, very common in China. There are plenty of videos as such search the Chinese term "licking dog" which is simping, these girls are master of gold digging in their mind $ comes first, unless they know you have like $10m then they'll simp over you. Want to married you badly then after half of it or all, another common thing in China. Bottom line it's all about $. I too once felt for this, I'm a nice but I don't linke to feel like a sucker, I was nice to them, then the services I got slowly go down hill, spoke to mms about it, was told not to post a review of it, it'll hurt their business, mofo I paid for a bad and can't even rant, WTF. After that, I'm more direct of what I wanted, lead the session especially with new talents, so I get the service I like, if I'm paying for it then I want to leave happy. Tip is have balls to set boundaries if a girl can't deliver ofc reasonable requests like can't ask greek if she doesn't offer it, ask the $ back and switch. If they ask u a favor, then ask them what do you get in return, an extra pop on the house maybe etc. Lastly, Leave the place with a smile, not with a feeling that you got ripped off.
Originally Posted by KrDoggy
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09-19-25 18:38 #4785Banned Member

Posts: 994Being too nice. Lao Gong syndrome
One of the things that makes mongering more pleasant for me is to treat these girls extra nice and get treated well in return. I love DATY and will try hard to make a girl cum if I think it is possible. I don't think my junior is particularly big but big enough and I am told very stiff and comfortable for my partner. I like to say kind things to the girls and listen to them too. I am happy to bring then stuff and even take them to the market. I tend to get some extras and specials early in this process, but I also tend to pay and not take discounts.
One trend I have noticed is for the girl to progress from "I like you!" to "lao gong" over time. Lao Gong means husband but I have learned it also means bad service. Like with a real wife once I am lao gong the massages tend to stop and the sex may become very rote. I start getting asked to provide lavish gifts and most outrageous of all, a girl who sees 4-10 strangers per day will become insanely jealous if she finds out I have seen another woman. I've had them react strongly to even a picture of me with another woman.
Even though I enjoy being nice, I am starting to think this is bad for me (some fantastic fucks gone sour) but also not right for the girls. They clearly are seeing something that is not really there, maybe cruel go very far with it. I've ended up with 3-4 faux "wives".
I'm not sure what exactly to do, I don't enjoy treating these girls badly, I am genuinely fond of them, but clearly I need to draw some lines. I want them happy to see me and eager to provide great service. Maybe just need to establish a limit before I move on, and maybe come back only after a cooling down period.
Interested in other mongers experiences, or if you all are just not idiots like me.
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09-19-25 00:10 #4784Regular Member

Posts: 7Brisa
Right, sensual BBBJ that will make some ejaculated into her mouth. I went with Crystal again today. Great GF experience as usual, and her massage was very soothing. You can't go wrong with either one. Young, beautiful with great service and attitude!
Originally Posted by IstlFun
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09-18-25 23:33 #4783Senior Member

Posts: 449Yuki Brisa
Had another great time with Yuki, exp was same as others, she's awesome, a service queen. Her style is slow and sensual, she could going an hour BBBJ if you can hold it LOL.
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09-18-25 22:46 #4782Senior Member

Posts: 74BB at Snow Spa?
Does she got a nice big butt LOL? Or is she just really good in DG?
Originally Posted by Panda888
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09-18-25 22:13 #4781Regular Member

Posts: 7Super MILF indeed
Just saw Nana and man. She likes it hard and fast. We broke the condom which freaked her out and she ran out of the room. I thought game over but she came back with another, sucked me hard and we went back at it til I popped. Pulled out just in case it happened again though.
Originally Posted by KrDoggy
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09-18-25 21:07 #4780Shill I have banned before.

Posts: 124Anyone tried Sunny at Brisa?
Dropped by Brisa. Met up with "I" who is back from China. She was quick to tell me that she had canned Mia for upselling and warned the girls that won't fly.
Saw Yuki and Crystal. Both smoking hot. Both great service.
Met Sunny on the way out. Closer to a MILF, but still pretty face and very hot body. Manager says her service is great and that she was popular at Shanghai Spa. I might have to head back tomorrow to verify LOL.
Sorry for the weird typo on my last post. My account is new and therefore still under moderation (not complaining. That's a smart thing to do with new accounts) therefore the editing window always closes before the post is live and I notice the error. I'm guessing that issue will fix itself eventually with more posts and more time. .
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