The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**YayaGogo** · 09-26-25 14:47

It sucks when there's a no show and I agree that people on both sides should communicate better, but keep in mind that what you described is part of the game. While we can minimize the risk of this scenario happening, these girls do change their mind for a number of reasons so these experiences are simply a cost of doing business. What can we all learn from this?

- Don't take anything personally. Just shrug it off and move on to the next.

- If someone is showing red flags (such as being mentally unstable as you said) then keep in mind things like this (and maybe worse) will eventually happen.

- If you're concerned about your sb not showing up to the hotel, don't check in until she shows up.

- Minimize the chances of this happening by moving on to the FC right after the meet and greet if you like each other and agree to start the arrangement. You can ask if she's open to that possibility ahead of time so you can have a room nearby reserved just in case it all goes well.

- Share your experiences with others like you've done by posting on this forum so we can all learn and help each other know who to stay away from.

Hope this helps.

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

Normally I don't do this but I'm putting this out.

Bailey.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-c106e546c35e

This person is an absolute monstrosity of a clown. First of all, YMMV when it comes to even talking with her on the site. When it comes to meeting itself, she knows how to talk and converse. she is Charismatic. Looks wise, she's okay in person.

With that in mind, she is an absolute manipulative person. She will pretend that she's interested. She will agree to what you both talked about. Even talk with you the day before and the day of the arrangement. But if you try to meet her at an agreed upon location(even if the meet up went "well") she will stand you up and go silent. No integrity, along with being a spineless coward.

Furthermore, she is mentally instable, and overshares a lot. She just wants the attention and will throw you away sooner or later when she's looking for the next person.

Don't recommend at all. She's an awful and bitter human being(based on our convo). Plenty of people on the site who will respect your time or who have the guts to tell you that they aren't interested anymore, or that they can't meet.

And if for some reason, you're so desperate to meet her: just know it's a coin toss as to whether or not she meets you on the day of any arrangement. And yes, you can confirm any amount of times prior and she'll still stand you up on the last minute. Clown.

**SaintMan3500** · 09-26-25 12:48

Originally Posted by Nahh1 [View Original Post]

Any intel on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-ec989fa22416

I messaged her and she was initially responsive. But then, it kinda just fell through and she likely lost interest or something.

Thats all I got, unfortunately.

**GregG73** · 09-24-25 18:04

This one hits you up first and then when it comes down to it, is very standoff'ish, mechanical. Would not recommend at all. YMMV.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...0-e86ed74d4f70

**SaintMan3500** · 09-24-25 14:51

Normally I don't do this but I'm putting this out.

Bailey.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...2-c106e546c35e

This person is an absolute monstrosity of a clown. First of all, YMMV when it comes to even talking with her on the site. When it comes to meeting itself, she knows how to talk and converse. she is Charismatic. Looks wise, she's okay in person.

With that in mind, she is an absolute manipulative person. She will pretend that she's interested. She will agree to what you both talked about. Even talk with you the day before and the day of the arrangement. But if you try to meet her at an agreed upon location(even if the meet up went "well") she will stand you up and go silent. No integrity, along with being a spineless coward.

Furthermore, she is mentally instable, and overshares a lot. She just wants the attention and will throw you away sooner or later when she's looking for the next person.

Don't recommend at all. She's an awful and bitter human being(based on our convo). Plenty of people on the site who will respect your time or who have the guts to tell you that they aren't interested anymore, or that they can't meet.

And if for some reason, you're so desperate to meet her: just know it's a coin toss as to whether or not she meets you on the day of any arrangement. And yes, you can confirm any amount of times prior and she'll still stand you up on the last minute. Clown.

**GregG73** · 09-24-25 11:32

Originally Posted by Nahh1 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-bc7cab82379a

Asking for money before meeting.

Agreed, had the same experience.

**Nahh1** · 09-23-25 21:04

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...a-bc7cab82379a

Asking for money before meeting.

**Nahh1** · 09-22-25 21:18

Any intel on this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...1-ec989fa22416

**Eagle7415** · 09-21-25 19:20

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

But have you seen her in the last two-three weeks? I don't know if what worked in the past works today.

No, I haven't seen her recently. It's been about 3 months but I know her real name etc. She's a free spirit, but very sweet and super intelligent! Probably had 20 visits with her. Her pics are accurate and she is able to host if you aren't a disrespectful weirdo, talk to her respectfully please.

**LikesGirls** · 09-20-25 23:05

Originally Posted by Eagle7415 [View Original Post]

Seen her many times all she wants is DATY!! No fingers, very controlling and is all about the $. Clock watcher, but sweet gal that can hold a conversation! BB everything wants.

4 roses, got bored many other options in the area.

But have you seen her in the last two-three weeks? I don't know if what worked in the past works today.

**Eagle7415** · 09-20-25 18:44

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

I'm supposed to see her early next week. Any recent intel on her? Does she allow DATY now that FS is available?

Seen her many times all she wants is DATY!! No fingers, very controlling and is all about the $. Clock watcher, but sweet gal that can hold a conversation! BB everything wants.

4 roses, got bored many other options in the area.

**SandPiper540** · 09-19-25 09:57

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

I noticed that ever since Seeking increased their price to $130 (July 8th), I no longer get 20-30% discount offers on the site. Haven't had an active premium membership since Late June, but whenever I now browse the site on the Seeking app or mobile internet browser, they no longer pop up with discount offers. Prior to this, they would regularly offer discounts to become a member again.

Has anyone had similar experiences? Where the website nor app offer any type of discount to reenable your membership?(Post July)

Or is it simply just RNG?

Use a web browser. Not the App. Else you won't get the discount offer. Using the Google Chrome browser the offer randomly pops up while browsing. You may want to try logging off and on to force it. On the app, I don't think I've ever seen the offer.

**jobobtheclown** · 09-11-25 14:33

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

I noticed that ever since Seeking increased their price to $130 (July 8th), I no longer get 20-30% discount offers on the site. Haven't had an active premium membership since Late June, but whenever I now browse the site on the Seeking app or mobile internet browser, they no longer pop up with discount offers. Prior to this, they would regularly offer discounts to become a member again.

Has anyone had similar experiences? Where the website nor app offer any type of discount to reenable your membership?(Post July)

Or is it simply just RNG?

You can actually still find coupons online with a search; I was successful about 3 months ago, though I apologize, I don't still have the specific code handy. The trick is you have to find a coupon URL and swap in a working coupon, as the field to type it in is gone from checkout.

**YourCCPimp** · 09-10-25 15:09

Originally Posted by SaintMan3500 [View Original Post]

I noticed that ever since Seeking increased their price to $130 (July 8th), I no longer get 20-30% discount offers on the site. Haven't had an active premium membership since Late June, but whenever I now browse the site on the Seeking app or mobile internet browser, they no longer pop up with discount offers. Prior to this, they would regularly offer discounts to become a member again.

Has anyone had similar experiences? Where the website nor app offer any type of discount to reenable your membership?(Post July)

Or is it simply just RNG?

I still get the prompt for it. I think my membership expired right before the price increase. I don't plan on returning though even with it. I believe they offer it soon after expiration but then after a month or two they stop sending them. I could be wrong.

**SaintMan3500** · 09-10-25 13:30

I noticed that ever since Seeking increased their price to $130 (July 8th), I no longer get 20-30% discount offers on the site. Haven't had an active premium membership since Late June, but whenever I now browse the site on the Seeking app or mobile internet browser, they no longer pop up with discount offers. Prior to this, they would regularly offer discounts to become a member again.

Has anyone had similar experiences? Where the website nor app offer any type of discount to reenable your membership?(Post July)

Or is it simply just RNG?

**LikesGirls** · 09-08-25 14:02

Originally Posted by SmallAsianCock [View Original Post]

Any info will be appreciated. She goes by Sady. The previous post mentions Sady as well but the link provided is dead.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...7-e69cc2daa06f

500 ppm, non-negotiable.