NoVA SugarBabies

**RegularJoe1985** · 07-08-25 20:51

Originally Posted by Joshtoo [View Original Post]

On seeking, what payment methods work now? Blackhawk doesn't seem to work.

What error are you getting when you use Blackhawk cards? Any luck contacting seeking support or card issuer?

Not knowing too much about the payment processing industry, it's hard to explain why most cards are not working.

Is 'valid only in USA' one of the reasons or the only reason?

Irrespective, at some point Seeking has to realize that they are losing opportunity to increase revenue by not being able to process these cards.

Hopefully they can come up with some alternatives. Their website does state:

"We understand that some of our customers prefer payments by mail either because they desire discretion or aren't comfortable using a personal credit card online, however, there are still other options available:

Prepaid Visa or Mastercard: These function like gift cards and can be purchased at most major retailers with cash or credit cards.

Google Play payments via our Android app: We have an Android app that allows you to pay via Google Play. Additionally, there are usually Google Play gift cards available in most grocery stores that you can load your account with. ".

**ShortMan22** · 07-08-25 15:06

Originally Posted by Arty33 [View Original Post]

Hmm. Mystery solved, that's where she disappeared after I've met her a few time late last year and early this year. LOL. She gave me an excuse and disappeared, from text, and from site. I figured she either found a BF or a new SD, she never got back to me, but we were going really great and she was having great time in bed and otherwise, so no reason for her to quit other than she wanted to try something else, just like we all do. LOL. Anyhow, agree very sweet girl, and no demands. Too bad, they don't last.

She now commands 800 per meet. That's nor going to happen.

**PRMan12** · 07-08-25 12:18

She is real, hot and pricey!! Too much for me.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...f-3b6c5ca48997

**Bellissimo** · 07-06-25 09:48

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-952711152abb

Anyone hit this recently. Wondering if she improved or still mechanical.

Not recently, but your description matches my experience a couple years ago. Very mechanical and lots of arbitrary rules. She may do it, but doesn't enjoy it. I honestly can't remember what the allowance was.

**TomFordModel** · 07-05-25 12:14

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...3-952711152abb

Anyone hit this recently. Wondering if she improved or still mechanical.

**TomFordModel** · 07-05-25 10:15

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...4-292d1af21a47

Visiting NYC. Had this for literally just drinks.

Don't understand the dc GPS for these beyond mediocre land beasts.

**FarFarAway** · 07-05-25 02:11

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

And many times my lower offer works better in person for various reasons. Yes, I've had my share of m&g's that didn't lead to FC, mostly b / c girl didn't look like pics or was heavier, but also b / c couldn't negotiate an agreeable ppm. Waste of about 1 hour and $40 in drinks, so no biggie. You do you though!

I am primarily looking for true amateurs on seeking who are up for ongoing arrangements. My bowl buddies are the same. We find deferring the allowance talk as long as possible works best. I refuse to negotiate $ by text; if she wants to do that, she's an escort and I am not interested anyway. Most people get really brave behind a keyboard, and they are harder to negotiate with. In person it is another matter. Human nature is to want to be liked and to cooperate, that comes into play when you are face-to-face. No one wants to be rejected to their face, so their ask will be less (typically).

**TomFordModel** · 07-04-25 21:43

Originally Posted by Joshtoo [View Original Post]

Wants $900 to meet. Asks a lot of compromising questions on the site. Will likely get banned soon. Didn't meet. YMMV.

Desire.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-4b3aa1a61def

LOL. She isn't worth 300. Whale.

**PRMan12** · 07-04-25 19:44

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

It all depends on context. I M&G a petite, slender, smart latina. She was very new to sugaring and just had no clue. Nervous as a cat too. So when I asked the?, she did say 800 was what she was hoping for. I could tell that I wasn't going to be able to go right to FC w / her, though, because she was so nervous. We parted on good terms, I texted w / her some, and we met for coffee another time. Nice detailed convos about a lot of sexual matters, but she would still not sit in my car for 'discreet' discussion of the arrangement. I wrote her off. But she continued to text. We had a phone call and I finally covered allowance. I told her my limits and the reason for them (SO), and offered her 450 for the first meet (to be sure she was happy w / all aspects), and 350 for meets after that. She agreed and she had her first 'arrangement' experience w / me. She was pretty good, not strong on kissing, but overall both had a good time.

She texted me after, somewhat to my surprise, because she wasn't into the kissing I figured she just saw me as an old guy. She denied that and said she just wasn't that skilled. And she wanted to meet again. However, she wanted 400. Because the sex was just OK, and it went against the 'deal' I offered her, I didn't see it as worth it and didn't reply.

Maybe someone else can get her lower or maybe someone is good with the ask. I had plan b lined up, so once it was time and I felt we weren't coming to terms; just wished her luck and saw she was taking the bus home, LOL.

**PRMan12** · 07-04-25 19:39

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

It all depends on context. I M&G a petite, slender, smart latina. She was very new to sugaring and just had no clue. Nervous as a cat too. So when I asked the?, she did say 800 was what she was hoping for. I could tell that I wasn't going to be able to go right to FC w / her, though, because she was so nervous. We parted on good terms, I texted w / her some, and we met for coffee another time. Nice detailed convos about a lot of sexual matters, but she would still not sit in my car for 'discreet' discussion of the arrangement. I wrote her off. But she continued to text. We had a phone call and I finally covered allowance. I told her my limits and the reason for them (SO), and offered her 450 for the first meet (to be sure she was happy w / all aspects), and 350 for meets after that. She agreed and she had her first 'arrangement' experience w / me. She was pretty good, not strong on kissing, but overall both had a good time.

She texted me after, somewhat to my surprise, because she wasn't into the kissing I figured she just saw me as an old guy. She denied that and said she just wasn't that skilled. And she wanted to meet again. However, she wanted 400. Because the sex was just OK, and it went against the 'deal' I offered her, I didn't see it as worth it and didn't reply.

At dimples hmu for some next level tips on the game. No one approach works the best for all and for each girl. Need to keep adapting and be nimble. That's why this board is so good, you get to no only learn in advance about some, but you also get to learn new approaches, lines, game for others!

**PRMan12** · 07-04-25 11:44

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

And many times my lower offer works better in person for various reasons. Yes, I've had my share of m&g's that didn't lead to FC, mostly b / c girl didn't look like pics or was heavier, but also b / c couldn't negotiate an agreeable ppm. Waste of about 1 hour and $40 in drinks, so no biggie. You do you though!

And that range depends on when I can see the girl.

**PRMan12** · 07-04-25 11:41

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

It baffles my mind those of you that don't discuss the specific details first before you agree to meet. Who has that kind of time to waste?

And many times my lower offer works better in person for various reasons. Yes, I've had my share of m&g's that didn't lead to FC, mostly b / c girl didn't look like pics or was heavier, but also b / c couldn't negotiate an agreeable ppm. Waste of about 1 hour and $40 in drinks, so no biggie. You do you though!

**Joshtoo** · 07-04-25 07:56

Wants $900 to meet. Asks a lot of compromising questions on the site. Will likely get banned soon. Didn't meet. YMMV.

Desire.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-4b3aa1a61def

**FarFarAway** · 07-04-25 07:54

Originally Posted by PRMan12 [View Original Post]

Had a m&g. Good looking chick; kind of a bore, but looks like pics. Wants 800, I almost LOL'd in her face; but for those of you that want to, she is real and easy to set up a date!

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...a-980562e8de50

It all depends on context. I M&G a petite, slender, smart latina. She was very new to sugaring and just had no clue. Nervous as a cat too. So when I asked the?, she did say 800 was what she was hoping for. I could tell that I wasn't going to be able to go right to FC w / her, though, because she was so nervous. We parted on good terms, I texted w / her some, and we met for coffee another time. Nice detailed convos about a lot of sexual matters, but she would still not sit in my car for 'discreet' discussion of the arrangement. I wrote her off. But she continued to text. We had a phone call and I finally covered allowance. I told her my limits and the reason for them (SO), and offered her 450 for the first meet (to be sure she was happy w / all aspects), and 350 for meets after that. She agreed and she had her first 'arrangement' experience w / me. She was pretty good, not strong on kissing, but overall both had a good time.

She texted me after, somewhat to my surprise, because she wasn't into the kissing I figured she just saw me as an old guy. She denied that and said she just wasn't that skilled. And she wanted to meet again. However, she wanted 400. Because the sex was just OK, and it went against the 'deal' I offered her, I didn't see it as worth it and didn't reply.

**Joshtoo** · 07-04-25 07:47

Long chats about meeting, but ghosts on actually meeting.

There are multiple reports from another city here for same profile and behavior. Different profile name, but same profile link.

DMA.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-3b8113bff21d