NoVA SugarBabies

**SuperJimmy** · 06-26-25 11:53

After all those quality insights, I guess unless I come into a gigantic windfall, I'll have to stick to my current Monger Model. I simply cannot afford to be a sugar daddy.

But I do want some extra, super quality in my program and I am willing to pay for it. At least every now and then, so I will aggressively move forward with the acquisition of quality Black, White and Asians ladies and agencies. That do not require personal info.

Thanks Bob!

Happy Hunting!

SJ.

Originally Posted by BobDingle10 [View Original Post]

For those who don't know, SJ is a review legend on the escort side of things.

Sadly, SuperJimmy, unless you are extending your budget, you may be in the wrong arena. Membership on SA alone is going to cost you about a hundo at minimum.

As for your questions:

1. Only the ones I've really trusted and had long term things with (1 year+) have known my real name.

2. Right about now if you want to pull anything 6 and up, your minimum will be between 3-500. You're not even going to get a quickie for $130 like the LCS or ACS or Indy's you review. Plus you will usually have to cultivate a SB over a few days to a couple of weeks before getting laid. At that price point you can probably negotiate between 2-5 hours of fun time. Depends on your looks, approach, game and wallet.

3. Depends on the arrangement. Some guys give a SB an upfront monthly allowance for a set number of meets. Others do PPM (pay per meet). PPM amounts are as stated above. I have no idea what allowances are running nowadays but figure on 2500-ish for 3-4 meets a month to be the ballpark starting point..

**The Curve** · 06-26-25 08:09

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-1517066b8193

Moved to text offsite. Her ask is 1 k per meet.

**BobDingle10** · 06-25-25 23:58

For those who don't know, SJ is a review legend on the escort side of things.

Sadly, SuperJimmy, unless you are extending your budget, you may be in the wrong arena. Membership on SA alone is going to cost you about a hundo at minimum.

As for your questions:

1. Only the ones I've really trusted and had long term things with (1 year+) have known my real name.

2. Right about now if you want to pull anything 6 and up, your minimum will be between 3-500. You're not even going to get a quickie for $130 like the LCS or ACS or Indy's you review. Plus you will usually have to cultivate a SB over a few days to a couple of weeks before getting laid. At that price point you can probably negotiate between 2-5 hours of fun time. Depends on your looks, approach, game and wallet.

3. Depends on the arrangement. Some guys give a SB an upfront monthly allowance for a set number of meets. Others do PPM (pay per meet). PPM amounts are as stated above. I have no idea what allowances are running nowadays but figure on 2500-ish for 3-4 meets a month to be the ballpark starting point.

4. I don't personally put a limit on this. I see who I like as long as the arrangement is fun and viable and she's willing. Besides, long term arrangements where familiarity and trust is built can yield great benefits (freebies, discounts, extended time and overnights with no upsell, etc.) SB's don't usually ask for monogamy, so add or subtract to your rotation at will according to your budget. A busy month for me is spending somewhere between 6-1000.

There aren't many established norms like on the escort and AMP side. You will have to wade thru flakes and fakes. Most SB's will have an idea of what they are worth and it will vary wildly. Just make sure you a. Never send money up front and b. Negotiate explicit details such as monetary amounts and acts that are permitted or to be performed off site via text / email. Otherwise you'll get your account banned.

Originally Posted by SuperJimmy [View Original Post]

Maryland guy here and I'd love to find someone who I could give $300 per month and visit them at least 4 times per month. That would be only $75 per session! Then I would also see my other connections for some variety and that would be great for me- LOL.

My Sitch:

I'm paying about $130 per 30-minute session but it's only one nutt, (that's all I can do in a couple hours) but it's no strings attached. I also have at least 9 decent spots / people I can visit with 2 of those spots being Houses for lots of variety, bc they bring in 2 new girls each week. Last year I saw at least 25 different people, and 99% were in private spots. In Md.

My questions for your SD Gents?

1: Do the babes normally know your real name??

2: What's the avg you pay for a session, after the girl agrees to your terms?? And are the sessions overnight or at least a couple hours in length. Allowing for more than 1 pop?

3: How much are you paying per month for your SD Monger Model and how many nutts per month??

4: What's the avg you normally spend before you rope another girl into your web. For example, do you spend $1000 on avg, before finding another willing lady??

If you've been at the SD model long enough, you have developed averages for your sessions, monthly outlays and for acquisition of new talent, so please do tell, because I'm seriously interested in the SD model.

You can DM me if you like.

Thanks!!

SJ.

**AdcFellow** · 06-25-25 19:09

Julia.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...jn9nqA1zGo4vyw

A lesbian looking for free meals and cash. Waste of time.

Attractive.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...93Wbm5Q2On6DwW

This one is DTF for 500, but I couldn't get past her face,. Not attractive.

**The Curve** · 06-25-25 11:22

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...7-1d00943346b0

Ivyne's pics are unsurprisingly some twitter / OF "model".

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...2-002d9ea8c827

Isabel looks ukrainian and speaks spanish. Moved to text off site and asked for 600.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...0-5aebb18080a4

Her one and only message to me on seeking was her name and number. We texted a bit and she sent me a ton of pics. Seems to have huge tits for her frame that must be man made but with a relatively small waist. Looked just a little old in the face though. Passed on her at 500.

**SuperJimmy** · 06-25-25 10:05

Maryland guy here and I'd love to find someone who I could give $300 per month and visit them at least 4 times per month. That would be only $75 per session! Then I would also see my other connections for some variety and that would be great for me- LOL.

My Sitch:

I'm paying about $130 per 30-minute session but it's only one nutt, (that's all I can do in a couple hours) but it's no strings attached. I also have at least 9 decent spots / people I can visit with 2 of those spots being Houses for lots of variety, bc they bring in 2 new girls each week. Last year I saw at least 25 different people, and 99% were in private spots. In Md.

My questions for your SD Gents?

1: Do the babes normally know your real name??

2: What's the avg you pay for a session, after the girl agrees to your terms?? And are the sessions overnight or at least a couple hours in length. Allowing for more than 1 pop?

3: How much are you paying per month for your SD Monger Model and how many nutts per month??

4: What's the avg you normally spend before you rope another girl into your web. For example, do you spend $1000 on avg, before finding another willing lady??

If you've been at the SD model long enough, you have developed averages for your sessions, monthly outlays and for acquisition of new talent, so please do tell, because I'm seriously interested in the SD model.

You can DM me if you like.

Thanks!!

SJ.

Originally Posted by SRH59 [View Original Post]

You can try to gauge if a woman is open to an arrangement from any site but still get it wrong. She may be in it just to make a few bucks for dinner. She may be open to bang some guys but not others. If you think there's a chance it could pan out then go for it. But even if it doesn't convert, that's a common outcome. I just move on.

I've had my share of dates with attractive, interesting women that ghosted and I still enjoyed myself. Gave a gift, too. And they all said they wanted to meet again. That's just what someone says to avoid saying the opposite. I forget about the "swing and a miss" at bats. And never burn bridges. But that's because I've also had some that turned into awesome arrangements. It's a luck and numbers game. Always has been. And we all have different batting averages. But for all those strike outs there's still going to be the home runs that blow your mind.

**BuckNaked84** · 06-25-25 09:39

Originally Posted by BuckNaked84 [View Original Post]

Just got back on SA. Was able to upload Selfie, skip any profile pics, and pay for premium.

Sent 5 messages, and here is one:

Online.

1. Hot 26 yo, meet for lunch? Replied with yes, and her number. - She never viewed my profile.

Burner.

1. Ever been an SB? Yes, a while ago, but it was different.

2. How so? Weekly allowance, and we meet twice a month.

3. What was allowance? 300 weekly. Sounds great to me.

4. Rather 1) do M&G and schedule intimate later with no allowance, 2) M&G and if all works, check-in to hotel? Option 2 taken.

5. Meet at Morton's, or hotel bar? Hotel bar.

6. 1 Pm good on xx? Yup.

7. Booked, no response.

8. One attempt at small talk, no response.

Not one question for me, didn't view my profile.

Possibly SA following guys me offline? I blocked her just in case, but date is on the books.

Thoughts?

Nevermind. She started communicating.

**The Curve** · 06-25-25 08:19

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...0-214d44f85ee4

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...1-57a84c18c2f6

The first profile reached out to me. Seemingly dtf, has a profile on fet. The second profile appears to be an alternate, the bedroom pics between the two match up. Different ages, and tones between the two.

If it's not a case of stolen pics and it's actually the same person, what a weird waste of effort.

**BuckNaked84** · 06-24-25 21:33

First offline text, meet tonight.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-629fc2578995

Same as last time. Likely FOS.

**BuckNaked84** · 06-24-25 21:31

Yuna.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...0-47d8f7b036e0

Asked for cash app before meeting.

**BuckNaked84** · 06-24-25 20:59

Just got back on SA. Was able to upload Selfie, skip any profile pics, and pay for premium.

Sent 5 messages, and here is one:

Online.

1. Hot 26 yo, meet for lunch? Replied with yes, and her number. —- She never viewed my profile.

Burner.

1. Ever been an SB? Yes, a while ago, but it was different.

2. How so? Weekly allowance, and we meet twice a month.

3. What was allowance? 300 weekly. Sounds great to me.

4. Rather 1) do M&G and schedule intimate later with no allowance, 2) M&G and if all works, check-in to hotel? Option 2 taken.

5. Meet at Morton's, or hotel bar? Hotel bar.

6. 1 Pm good on xx? Yup.

7. Booked, no response.

8. One attempt at small talk, no response.

Not one question for me, didn't view my profile.

Possibly SA following guys me offline? I blocked her just in case, but date is on the books.

Thoughts?

**BuckNaked84** · 06-24-25 20:39

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

I indicated that I had a "wonderful time with her for many months". But these things have a shelf life.

Neither of us seeing her anymore, but you can DM to "compare notes". Personally don't like public laundry.

**TomFordModel** · 06-24-25 09:14

Originally Posted by Bellissimo [View Original Post]

She is playing the attractive, athletic, educated young white girl card and wants $1000 ppm.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...a-f2663d6bfe29

Those pics are heavily filtered. She sent other pics via text, skinny fat at best. Just another avg girl. She's a 500 girl because she's white.

**TomFordModel** · 06-24-25 03:27

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-3ef028004439

Dtf. Didn't ask for anything. She can take a pounding.

**SRH59** · 06-23-25 21:11

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

I would add that the criticisms of my posts (and my strategy) when I provide honest and reliable feedback is a disincentive to posting. I want this board to be useful, and prefer to read honest and helpful feedback, more than the continuous posts saying "my cock is so big it hurt her" or "if you pay more than $300 you are tool" or my personal (least) favorite comment "all of Seeking is full of scammers and pros. ".

My strategy works for me. There is a lost of waste / fraud on both WYP and Seeking. I spent $500 wading thru the WYP scammers / fakes / pros without any sex. I also spend $150 for credits. But the payoff is that I did find 2 perfect little sugar babies: One 19 and one 21 years old. If you are a real SD, that is a relatively small price to pay to find a good SB. I posted my failures so that others would not have to make the same mistakes. I hope it helps some guys out there.

You can try to gauge if a woman is open to an arrangement from any site but still get it wrong. She may be in it just to make a few bucks for dinner. She may be open to bang some guys but not others. If you think there's a chance it could pan out then go for it. But even if it doesn't convert, that's a common outcome. I just move on.

I've had my share of dates with attractive, interesting women that ghosted and I still enjoyed myself. Gave a gift, too. And they all said they wanted to meet again. That's just what someone says to avoid saying the opposite. I forget about the "swing and a miss" at bats. And never burn bridges. But that's because I've also had some that turned into awesome arrangements. It's a luck and numbers game. Always has been. And we all have different batting averages. But for all those strike outs there's still going to be the home runs that blow your mind.