Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**Radarorielly** · 09-11-25 19:23

Originally Posted by Ptime5068 [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen this woman? I've been chatting her up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-a134a65e86bf

Nice lady. Korean I believe. Worth your time.

**Ptime5068** · 09-11-25 14:51

Has anyone seen this woman? I've been chatting her up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-a134a65e86bf

**NiceGuysLast66** · 08-14-25 20:22

She's back again and desperate for money. DO NOT cashapp her a dime!

Originally Posted by NiceGuysLast66 [View Original Post]

Stay away from this one. We chatted occasionally while she was out of the game. So when she came back, I agreed to help her a little and we made some plans. Big shock. Day of. Ghosts, NC / NS and no response since. Gave her a week to come correct. Now I have to trash her business.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-1c31d84a9452

Real name is Shelby. Goes by Sophie / Danielle / Shelby. And if she tries to sell you pics / vids. PM me. I'll give them away.

**GSpotGilligan** · 06-20-25 18:47

Originally Posted by DaveRue [View Original Post]

Invite her to dinner to discuss. Ask her what she needs. Be friendly. Talk about a friends with benefits situation. With an emphasis on friends. Talk about how you can help each other. You can feel less lonely, fell younger, more alive. Talk about how you don't want a traditional relationship, time restraints, emotional scarring etc.

Best of luck.

Dave.

This right here is probably the best approach for that situation. Definitely ease into the conversation of something mutually beneficial over going to dinner and breaking the ice at first. I would somehow get into the topic of asking if she ever though about going down the SB route and see what she says and definitely go from there. Like DaveRue said though, emphasis more on the friend part at the beginning and ease into it as we all know that a lot of times when it comes to even SB, they don't want to be perceived as being escorts, even though we all know the truth. Start small and then just work your way from there in conversation once you get a feel for how she is as a person and whether or not she will go for anything more.

**Bob0324** · 06-20-25 12:25

Originally Posted by BjcimSeeker [View Original Post]

I've never pursued a SB before but a very attractive 20-ish girl in my area had a post on FB about a needing assistance and a job. It looks like she might have a young kid. I messaged her about a "mutually beneficial" arrangement not expecting a reply. A few days went by and she replied "depends what you are looking for ". I didn't want to come across as purely sexual so I mentioned house cleaning too. Any tips on how to proceed and put her mind at ease? Is having her come to my house a bad idea? I live alone. What's the going allowance for something like this? I suggested 2 x per month.

Send her to my house and I'll get it all figured out for you.

**DaveRue** · 06-20-25 11:11

Originally Posted by BjcimSeeker [View Original Post]

I've never pursued a SB before but a very attractive 20-ish girl in my area had a post on FB about a needing assistance and a job. It looks like she might have a young kid. I messaged her about a "mutually beneficial" arrangement not expecting a reply. A few days went by and she replied "depends what you are looking for ". I didn't want to come across as purely sexual so I mentioned house cleaning too. Any tips on how to proceed and put her mind at ease? Is having her come to my house a bad idea? I live alone. What's the going allowance for something like this? I suggested 2 x per month.

Invite her to dinner to discuss. Ask her what she needs. Be friendly. Talk about a friends with benefits situation. With an emphasis on friends. Talk about how you can help each other. You can feel less lonely, fell younger, more alive. Talk about how you don't want a traditional relationship, time restraints, emotional scarring etc.

Best of luck.

Dave.

**Bjcim Seeker** · 06-20-25 10:54

I've never pursued a SB before but a very attractive 20-ish girl in my area had a post on FB about a needing assistance and a job. It looks like she might have a young kid. I messaged her about a "mutually beneficial" arrangement not expecting a reply. A few days went by and she replied "depends what you are looking for ". I didn't want to come across as purely sexual so I mentioned house cleaning too. Any tips on how to proceed and put her mind at ease? Is having her come to my house a bad idea? I live alone. What's the going allowance for something like this? I suggested 2 x per month.

**SugarLifeNow** · 06-15-25 23:34

New SLN Girl, Ann 19.

https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Ann_love19/

Submissive baby, rough and raw, bring a friend.

**RubGuy80** · 06-12-25 13:36

Here's the correct link: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...3-5a01769a2df1

Originally Posted by RubGuy80 [View Original Post]

I've seen this one at the gym. Big fake Asian tits and fit body, but no butt. But I know for sure she's real and enjoys the finer things (Fine dining, LV, etc). Used to see her on WYP but she got scooped up for a while. She's back in the game: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...-5a01769a2df1. Interested to know if anyone's taken the plunge.

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**RubGuy80** · 06-12-25 11:39

I've seen this one at the gym. Big fake Asian tits and fit body, but no butt. But I know for sure she's real and enjoys the finer things (Fine dining, LV, etc). Used to see her on WYP but she got scooped up for a while. She's back in the game: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...-5a01769a2df1. Interested to know if anyone's taken the plunge.

**RubGuy80** · 06-12-25 11:34

A better view of this SB https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-696d68b63790 can be found here: https://www.sexkuulutused.eu/naised/aljonababe/.

**RubGuy80** · 06-12-25 11:31

Can you PM who your barber is?

Originally Posted by Midnightpass [View Original Post]

There is something very satisfying about recruiting a non-SB over to the dark side. After my Colombian cleaning lady visited a few times, I stopped her at the door, pulled out a hundred, and asked to see her tits. She was taken aback a bit, but took the hundred, lifted her bra and shirt, and said "No touch. " They were spectacular naturals. I pulled out another hundred, said "Touch?" and she took the cash. They were delicious and she moaned. She came back later, we took a shower, and had more fun for more cash. Unfortunately when she got a boyfriend, she dropped me as a client for cleaning and cocking. I don't think she could deal with the sex-for-money aspect.

I tried almost the same thing with a waitress at a local bar. She got pissed, demanded money for no service, told the bar owner, he took her side and banned me. This shit can blow up in your face.

I told my sexy barber that my regular SB had gotten married and that the job paid $300.00 per session. After speaking with her girlfriend, she told me to add another $200.00 and we may have a deal. I countered at another $100.00, but before we did business, we had a few drink dates, with a nice French kiss at the end of the last one. I think she wants a regular relationship, not an SB. I'm not sure which I prefer yet, but I do like pay per meeting.

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**XxxMail77** · 06-06-25 13:28

Originally Posted by Fitzyj76 [View Original Post]

On a side note in one of the responses the term ppm is used, I assume this means pay per meet (ing)? If it's something else, I'd like to know.

Thanks Again!

Fitzy.

You are correct PPM = Pay Per Meet. With a sugar situation you can PPM or do monthly / weekly allowance. Depends on the woman and what you both feel comfortable with etc.

**Midnightpass** · 06-06-25 09:00

Originally Posted by Fitzyj76 [View Original Post]

This was the feedback I was hoping to get! Thanks to all of the messages here as well as the pm's.

Some of you seemed a bit miffed at me thinking that breaking the ice with "ask if she has a seeking account" I am fairly certain that she does not a sb (anything's possible) and if she's not it would likely be taken in very poor taste. We met through work, we don't work together nor will we likely cross paths again at work (anything's possible). The thought process of sb was considered because I know what she does for a living and she doesn't make a great deal of money and I know she's a single mom. We are going on a date because I asked her on a date, she's hot and I couldn't help myself.

I've decided to just be straight up and break the ice with the fact that I'm married. If I get a glass of "x" in the face, I'll live. If she stay's, I'm golden! If things go well I will just "help her out" and we don't have to label that anything.

Although I don't agree with some of the comments / suggestions I do appreciate the feedback! This is not something I have done before and I wanted to see the situation from other angles. It's far more complicated that a 1 hour transaction with DI.

On a side note in one of the responses the term ppm is used, I assume this means pay per meet (ing)? If it's something else, I'd like to know.

Thanks Again!

Fitzy.

There is something very satisfying about recruiting a non-SB over to the dark side. After my Colombian cleaning lady visited a few times, I stopped her at the door, pulled out a hundred, and asked to see her tits. She was taken aback a bit, but took the hundred, lifted her bra and shirt, and said "No touch. " They were spectacular naturals. I pulled out another hundred, said "Touch?" and she took the cash. They were delicious and she moaned. She came back later, we took a shower, and had more fun for more cash. Unfortunately when she got a boyfriend, she dropped me as a client for cleaning and cocking. I don't think she could deal with the sex-for-money aspect.

I tried almost the same thing with a waitress at a local bar. She got pissed, demanded money for no service, told the bar owner, he took her side and banned me. This shit can blow up in your face.

I told my sexy barber that my regular SB had gotten married and that the job paid $300.00 per session. After speaking with her girlfriend, she told me to add another $200.00 and we may have a deal. I countered at another $100.00, but before we did business, we had a few drink dates, with a nice French kiss at the end of the last one. I think she wants a regular relationship, not an SB. I'm not sure which I prefer yet, but I do like pay per meeting.

**Fitzyj76** · 06-05-25 23:47

This was the feedback I was hoping to get! Thanks to all of the messages here as well as the pm's.

Some of you seemed a bit miffed at me thinking that breaking the ice with "ask if she has a seeking account" I am fairly certain that she does not a sb (anything's possible) and if she's not it would likely be taken in very poor taste. We met through work, we don't work together nor will we likely cross paths again at work (anything's possible). The thought process of sb was considered because I know what she does for a living and she doesn't make a great deal of money and I know she's a single mom. We are going on a date because I asked her on a date, she's hot and I couldn't help myself.

I've decided to just be straight up and break the ice with the fact that I'm married. If I get a glass of "x" in the face, I'll live. If she stay's, I'm golden! If things go well I will just "help her out" and we don't have to label that anything.

Although I don't agree with some of the comments / suggestions I do appreciate the feedback! This is not something I have done before and I wanted to see the situation from other angles. It's far more complicated that a 1 hour transaction with DI.

On a side note in one of the responses the term ppm is used, I assume this means pay per meet (ing)? If it's something else, I'd like to know.

Thanks Again!

Fitzy.