NoVA SugarBabies

**The Curve** · 06-13-25 11:03

Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]

I've been having fun with a 21-year old, college SB in a neighboring state - a road baby. She has absolutely the worst OPSEC of anyone I've met on Seeking. She's fully discoverable with very little effort. She's also one of these chicks with a super self-engrandizing Tik-Tok and Instagram presence and absolutely thinks and knows she's hot, at least for her local market. She's not on Seeking all the time, but she did reference a rotation including me and 2 others. According to her Facebook profile, she also has a new boyfriend since March. I fucked her a week ago when passing through her town. So, she's fucking men for $ presumably behind her boyfriend's back. Should I care?

For context, I'm an old fuck, married 40 years with a 17-year dead bedroom, but I didn't start stepping out on my wife until 4 years ago after realizing my wife and I would never fuck again.

I guess I'm having trouble rationalizing why anyone so young would be fucking old, crusty men behind her boyfriend's back rather than abandoning the SB lifestyle and giving the relationship with her boyfriend a chance to develop. Maybe she's good at compartmentalization and I should take her lead. I'm doing my best to play the game, rather than have the game play me. . . .

I'm inclined to continue fucking this SB. . . . but she seems so "off. "

Any thoughts?

Is the problem that she is super casual about security in this, or that you might catch feelings for her?

**The Curve** · 06-13-25 11:01

Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]

After scrolling through her TikTok it becomes apparent very quickly that she's an insufferable ****. I'd much rather put my foot up her ass than my cock.

Hard pass.

Wedding in Paris, honeymoon in Italy, divorced in Bali.

High status.

**Member #7024** · 06-13-25 08:31

Just wanted to see if we have any MD. Doctors in this group.

Please PM me. Thanks.

**Member #7024** · 06-13-25 08:30

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-bec1b58d9cf6

https://www.tiktok.com/@nia.gibbs?_t...9YiXov6r4&_r=1

Anyone hit this?

I talked to get. A bit of a GPS attitude. Good luck.

**Member #7024** · 06-13-25 08:25

Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]

I've been having fun with a 21-year old, college SB in a neighboring state - a road baby. She has absolutely the worst OPSEC of anyone I've met on Seeking. She's fully discoverable with very little effort. She's also one of these chicks with a super self-engrandizing Tik-Tok and Instagram presence and absolutely thinks and knows she's hot, at least for her local market. She's not on Seeking all the time, but she did reference a rotation including me and 2 others. According to her Facebook profile, she also has a new boyfriend since March. I fucked her a week ago when passing through her town. So, she's fucking men for $ presumably behind her boyfriend's back. Should I care?

For context, I'm an old fuck, married 40 years with a 17-year dead bedroom, but I didn't start stepping out on my wife until 4 years ago after realizing my wife and I would never fuck again.

I guess I'm having trouble rationalizing why anyone so young would be fucking old, crusty men behind her boyfriend's back rather than abandoning the SB lifestyle and giving the relationship with her boyfriend a chance to develop. Maybe she's good at compartmentalization and I should take her lead. I'm doing my best to play the game, rather than have the game play me. . . .

I'm inclined to continue fucking this SB. . . . but she seems so "off. "

Any thoughts?

Some do it for the trill.

**CuriousVaMan** · 06-13-25 01:16

I've been having fun with a 21-year old, college SB in a neighboring state - a road baby. She has absolutely the worst OPSEC of anyone I've met on Seeking. She's fully discoverable with very little effort. She's also one of these chicks with a super self-engrandizing Tik-Tok and Instagram presence and absolutely thinks and knows she's hot, at least for her local market. She's not on Seeking all the time, but she did reference a rotation including me and 2 others. According to her Facebook profile, she also has a new boyfriend since March. I fucked her a week ago when passing through her town. So, she's fucking men for $ presumably behind her boyfriend's back. Should I care?

For context, I'm an old fuck, married 40 years with a 17-year dead bedroom, but I didn't start stepping out on my wife until 4 years ago after realizing my wife and I would never fuck again.

I guess I'm having trouble rationalizing why anyone so young would be fucking old, crusty men behind her boyfriend's back rather than abandoning the SB lifestyle and giving the relationship with her boyfriend a chance to develop. Maybe she's good at compartmentalization and I should take her lead. I'm doing my best to play the game, rather than have the game play me. . . .

I'm inclined to continue fucking this SB. . . . but she seems so "off. "

Any thoughts?

**Dimples572** · 06-13-25 00:44

Originally Posted by TomFordModel [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-bec1b58d9cf6

https://www.tiktok.com/@nia.gibbs?_t...9YiXov6r4&_r=1

Anyone hit this?

After scrolling through her TikTok it becomes apparent very quickly that she's an insufferable ****. I'd much rather put my foot up her ass than my cock.

Hard pass.

**TomFordModel** · 06-12-25 17:00

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-bec1b58d9cf6

https://www.tiktok.com/@nia.gibbs?_t...9YiXov6r4&_r=1

Anyone hit this?

**TomFordModel** · 06-10-25 12:09

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-571fe322ff47

Wants 800. Offered lower but she's set on 8.

If avg girls are getting this I don't even know what to say.

**TheYoungMonger** · 06-10-25 11:28

Originally Posted by AdcFellow [View Original Post]

I thought Seeking was bad,. But then I tried WYP. It can be a big cash vacuum. You pay for a number of "credits", e. G. , 500 credits for $150. You then have to pay credits according to how much your "date" offer is when it is accepted. For example, if you offer $200 for a first date, and they accept, then you have to pay something like 30 credits (not sure of the exact conversion). 30 credits is $10. The $10/30 credits provides you with simply an "opportunity to chat" with a potential date. It is not a guarantee they will actually chat, or go on a date, let alone any intimacy. My experience is that a majority of women will "accept" your date, I. E. , you burn your credits, and then they ghost you before you exchange 0-2 messages. To save others from wasting their time and money, these are the ones that ghosted me. Of course, YMMV.

Cece.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...XPa3aJVWNXKjk6

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Cassy.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...9oBeQ5Z8XaowWM

Ghosted after 1 message.

Destiny.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...POByB0eXDWnjbg

Ghosted after setting up a date.

Nina.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...Qj2RNAkBzevjlr

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Kitty.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...PdYxD5Z2xR16zv

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Cecilia.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...MqZ7kJKeNjk81P

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Tae.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...MqZ7kJKeNjk81P

Ghosted after setting up a date.

Hannah.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...pEye90GjyENdXv

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Alice.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...oWoqx041YvKOqB

Ghosted after 2 messages.

Gigi.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...pamlb0GjyENdXv

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Muahhna.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...rjyEDJjZvO92xL

Ghosted after 5 messages.

Chloey.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...xV9Y2JvMpL9rdB

Ghosted after setting up a date.

I have met 3 people for a "platonic" dates for the agreed price, but each wanted to just keep seeing each other platonically.

Try to get your credits back for some of those. I haven't had a WYP account in years, but there used to be an option that you can have your credits restored for unlocking a conversation if you hadn't exchanged contact info yet. I don't know if that has changed since I left the website, though.

But I have to agree, overall, the pay structure they employ is horrible.

**AdcFellow** · 06-09-25 20:23

I thought Seeking was bad,. But then I tried WYP. It can be a big cash vacuum. You pay for a number of "credits", e. G. , 500 credits for $150. You then have to pay credits according to how much your "date" offer is when it is accepted. For example, if you offer $200 for a first date, and they accept, then you have to pay something like 30 credits (not sure of the exact conversion). 30 credits is $10. The $10/30 credits provides you with simply an "opportunity to chat" with a potential date. It is not a guarantee they will actually chat, or go on a date, let alone any intimacy. My experience is that a majority of women will "accept" your date, I. E. , you burn your credits, and then they ghost you before you exchange 0-2 messages. To save others from wasting their time and money, these are the ones that ghosted me. Of course, YMMV.

Cece.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...XPa3aJVWNXKjk6

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Cassy.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...9oBeQ5Z8XaowWM

Ghosted after 1 message.

Destiny.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...POByB0eXDWnjbg

Ghosted after setting up a date.

Nina.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...Qj2RNAkBzevjlr

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Kitty.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...PdYxD5Z2xR16zv

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Cecilia.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...MqZ7kJKeNjk81P

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Tae.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...MqZ7kJKeNjk81P

Ghosted after setting up a date.

Hannah.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...pEye90GjyENdXv

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Alice.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...oWoqx041YvKOqB

Ghosted after 2 messages.

Gigi.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...pamlb0GjyENdXv

Ghosted after 0 messages.

Muahhna.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...rjyEDJjZvO92xL

Ghosted after 5 messages.

Chloey.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...xV9Y2JvMpL9rdB

Ghosted after setting up a date.

I have met 3 people for a "platonic" dates for the agreed price, but each wanted to just keep seeing each other platonically.

**AdcFellow** · 06-09-25 19:49

Originally Posted by EumYang [View Original Post]

Uh oh. I had a pre-paid VanillaGift card, and it worked for me a month ago on Seeking. After I bought it, I had to wait 30 minutes or so before using it.

Having said all that, not sure I will continue paying for premium. I haven't had much luck finding anyone, ugh.

I just used this weekend a Vanilla eGift card, and it worked. I had issues with the physical gift cards in the past.

**EumYang** · 06-08-25 21:40

Originally Posted by Bugs2455 [View Original Post]

Are all prepaid cards now not working for good? What other alternatives are there other than google play gift cards?

Uh oh. I had a pre-paid VanillaGift card, and it worked for me a month ago on Seeking. After I bought it, I had to wait 30 minutes or so before using it.

Having said all that, not sure I will continue paying for premium. I haven't had much luck finding anyone, ugh.

**PRMan12** · 06-07-25 11:07

Anyone met this one yet: https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-f00e7b3fad65.

Like the look, prolly older than what it says??

Hmu!

**TomFordModel** · 06-06-25 23:48

Originally Posted by WorkYard [View Original Post]

I met Kira few months ago, she claims she is half french / half vietname. We had coffee and hit it off. If I recall I met her on a Monday and she was around the 5-600 range and we were to meet on Saturday. Prior to meeting she started asking for money for 'nails" and "hair" etc. I told her that I will do that once an arrangement had commenced. After that I never heard from her.

She looks chunky as fuck. She's a 300 girl. I'll respond and offer whatever accordingly. Don't want to meet her.