Sugarbabies and Arrangements

**PainWint** · 06-05-25 08:42

Originally Posted by TheEndlessEdge [View Original Post]

I'm sure most of us know that GPS has increased heavily over the years, but I encourage those of you who are on seeking to take a look at some of the latest blog posts the site uploaded that have popped up on the main page of the site, as it's a sign as to where we're headed with the current dynamic, as it seems like the women are being guided in a way that enhances a lot of bad habits and is encouraging the rise of the GPS era. The rise of social media has contributed heavily of course, but now it seems like the site itself has decided to triple down on the hard Ls we've been seeing them take these past few years, with the most recent thing being the removal of certain filters in the site's search engine. Not sure if those of you who don't have a current account can see these blog posts, but I'll link them here regardless so active members can see it (I can imagine that a lot of people spend time using their specific searches on the site rather than checking out the home page):

- Why "Too Much Is Exactly the Right Amount" - https://blog.seeking.com/why-too-muc...paign=too-much.

I'll post a quote from the blog post: "Here's the shift: wanting more isn't a dealbreaker. It's a deal filter. Read that again. If someone thinks your standards are "too high," they're telling you everything you need to know. You may want to keep looking. You're not dating to impress everyoneyou're dating to connect with the one who gets it. ".

Looks like we are all observing some days of silence in respect to the death of an era.

Seeking WAS actually a more economical, hassle free and direct path to puss than standard dating. Now with the amount of work that needs to be put in and the insane expectations it is no longer worth it. If you can "date" publicly and have enough game to get girls in the real world that is probably a better option. Time to adapt or go the way of the dinosaurs.

**TheEndlessEdge** · 06-02-25 20:06

I'm sure most of us know that GPS has increased heavily over the years, but I encourage those of you who are on seeking to take a look at some of the latest blog posts the site uploaded that have popped up on the main page of the site, as it's a sign as to where we're headed with the current dynamic, as it seems like the women are being guided in a way that enhances a lot of bad habits and is encouraging the rise of the GPS era. The rise of social media has contributed heavily of course, but now it seems like the site itself has decided to triple down on the hard Ls we've been seeing them take these past few years, with the most recent thing being the removal of certain filters in the site's search engine. Not sure if those of you who don't have a current account can see these blog posts, but I'll link them here regardless so active members can see it (I can imagine that a lot of people spend time using their specific searches on the site rather than checking out the home page):

- Why "Too Much Is Exactly the Right Amount" - https://blog.seeking.com/why-too-muc...paign=too-much.

I'll post a quote from the blog post: "Here's the shift: wanting more isn't a dealbreaker. It's a deal filter. Read that again. If someone thinks your standards are "too high," they're telling you everything you need to know. You may want to keep looking. You're not dating to impress everyone—you're dating to connect with the one who gets it. ".

- Why We Removed Net Worth and Income Fields and Introduced New Changes - https://blog.seeking.com/why-we-remo...ign=reasonswhy.

Regarding the removal of weight: "We replaced the "Body Type" field with "Weight" because body type is inherently subjective and can lead to misunderstandings or unrealistic expectations. Providing a specific measurement like weight allows members to have a clear, factual reference, minimizing ambiguity. Additionally, specifying weight encourages honesty and transparency in profiles, leading to more genuine connections based on true physical attributes rather than subjective interpretations. ".

While I can understand the removal of Net Worth and Income (because in the grand scheme of things, most men on the site are not going to reveal their true source of income or net worth, nor should they for privacy's sake), the body type filter being removed is a straight up bad idea, and bogs down our searches. The encouragement to be even more GPS has been a thing for years, but it seems like they're really wanting to push that further than ever, and it's making average women think they deserve more for being. Average.

It's going to be a rough ride for the average man, especially with things such as Tinder adding height filters for the women to use to filter out men they don't want to see. It seems like most of the power of choice is being handed unnecessarily to the women in this current era, so it's bound to cause a lot of issues.

**SR7D1** · 06-02-25 09:18

Zia.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...f-1a9a991ad26f

Needs more than 1 K per month.

Jordaiyn.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-63ff7208e27a

Scammer, texts all about being in a domestic situation. Says she has no money and nowhere to go.

Teena.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...4-9520be45e2e0

Needs gas money to meet.

Aalyiah.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...8-cd868821ec6f

Expecting $5 K per month. Used to live in FL. Says she stays downtown.

**Kabbakabba** · 05-31-25 16:49

Originally Posted by Cleguy48 [View Original Post]

I set up a lunch meet and greet with Bella from Seeking. We talked about a lot of things but never got to talking arrangements. Probably because I wasn't that into her, however she was very intriguing so I set up another lunch meet and greet. After talking for awhile, I was getting bad vibes. My Spidey sense was triggered, it was obvious that the chemistry just wasn't there. When I told her that she "stormed out" not dramatically that's why it's in quotes. Then my phone blew up with the following text string.

"I don't appreciate having my time wasted. Why would you bring me here if your weren't attracted to me? It's insulting."

"I don't eat at Joe's and my neighbors saw me here with you."

"You wasted my time on two occasions, what would your wife think when I tell her?"

"You like dumb cheap women, you interacted with the wrong breed"

"You're wife will be contacted with screen shots of our conversations and your profile by this time tomorrow"

"You wasted my time twice and insulted me"

"Look for your pictures posted all over Westlake"

"You owe me 2 days allowance"

YIKES! I immediately blocked her account. That's why I don't have a link, but I did have a screen shot of her that's attached.

Be safe if you can,

P.S. The quote "Danger, Will Robinson Danger!" is a Classic line from the 1960s TV series "Lost in Space"

Ouch, Sorry this happened, I've had bad apples. My first SA experience was horrible, got robbed.

**SR7D1** · 05-30-25 19:05

Originally Posted by Cleguy48 [View Original Post]

I set up a lunch meet and greet with Bella from Seeking. We talked about a lot of things but never got to talking arrangements. Probably because I wasn't that into her, however she was very intriguing so I set up another lunch meet and greet. After talking for awhile, I was getting bad vibes. My Spidey sense was triggered, it was obvious that the chemistry just wasn't there. When I told her that she "stormed out" not dramatically that's why it's in quotes. Then my phone blew up with the following text string.

"I don't appreciate having my time wasted. Why would you bring me here if your weren't attracted to me? It's insulting."

"I don't eat at Joe's and my neighbors saw me here with you."

"You wasted my time on two occasions, what would your wife think when I tell her?"

"You like dumb cheap women, you interacted with the wrong breed"

"You're wife will be contacted with screen shots of our conversations and your profile by this time tomorrow"

"You wasted my time twice and insulted me"

"Look for your pictures posted all over Westlake"

"You owe me 2 days allowance"

YIKES! I immediately blocked her account. That's why I don't have a link, but I did have a screen shot of her that's attached.

Be safe if you can,

P.S. The quote "Danger, Will Robinson Danger!" is a Classic line from the 1960s TV series "Lost in Space"

Sorry that happened my friend, her and I were texting as well, her ask was higher than my preference.

**PainWint** · 05-30-25 17:30

Originally Posted by Cleguy48 [View Original Post]

I set up a lunch meet and greet with Bella from Seeking. We talked about a lot of things but never got to talking arrangements. Probably because I wasn't that into her, however she was very intriguing so I set up another lunch meet and greet. After talking for awhile, I was getting bad vibes. My Spidey sense was triggered, it was obvious that the chemistry just wasn't there. When I told her that she "stormed out" not dramatically that's why it's in quotes. Then my phone blew up with the following text string.

"I don't appreciate having my time wasted. Why would you bring me here if your weren't attracted to me? It's insulting."

"I don't eat at Joe's and my neighbors saw me here with you."

"You wasted my time on two occasions, what would your wife think when I tell her?"

"You like dumb cheap women, you interacted with the wrong breed"

"You're wife will be contacted with screen shots of our conversations and your profile by this time tomorrow"

"You wasted my time twice and insulted me"

"Look for your pictures posted all over Westlake"..

The missing link.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-cda9a2adbbff

**Cleguy48** · 05-27-25 20:02

I set up a lunch meet and greet with Bella from Seeking. We talked about a lot of things but never got to talking arrangements. Probably because I wasn't that into her, however she was very intriguing so I set up another lunch meet and greet. After talking for awhile, I was getting bad vibes. My Spidey sense was triggered, it was obvious that the chemistry just wasn't there. When I told her that she "stormed out" not dramatically that's why it's in quotes. Then my phone blew up with the following text string.

"I don't appreciate having my time wasted. Why would you bring me here if your weren't attracted to me? It's insulting."

"I don't eat at Joe's and my neighbors saw me here with you."

"You wasted my time on two occasions, what would your wife think when I tell her?"

"You like dumb cheap women, you interacted with the wrong breed"

"You're wife will be contacted with screen shots of our conversations and your profile by this time tomorrow"

"You wasted my time twice and insulted me"

"Look for your pictures posted all over Westlake"

"You owe me 2 days allowance"

YIKES! I immediately blocked her account. That's why I don't have a link, but I did have a screen shot of her that's attached.

Be safe if you can,

P.S. The quote "Danger, Will Robinson Danger!" is a Classic line from the 1960s TV series "Lost in Space"

**Bernie76** · 05-26-25 11:29

Originally Posted by BestDjInOhio [View Original Post]

Willing to trade numbers if anyone has nunbers to trade

Renee in Akron wants 150 and seems pro.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-e77017e743ed

Star this one's pro. Typical provider rates will do raw for 100 more if that's your thing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-b3f2c7937112

HonestPrincess in portage lakes.

Possibly Scammer. Sets everything up and then tells you she doesn't have gas to get to you unless you want to send me like 20 up front and I can take it off the 200 allowance. Yeah no bye.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-83a56ade78da

Lex ohiobaby westlake really bad comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-a3cdf4490de5

Megan 23 painesville down for alot wants 700 I passed also bad comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-2b27956e32bc

Sugmeg92 in Warren BBFS cip 3.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...c-4c7e1148631e

Liddianna in Barberton. Sex only doesn't drive. You have to pick her up or go to her. Comms are very spotty.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-c3f0ca7df523

Sammie in stow no car. Claims she needs $45 to get it out, yet I contacted her a week later and she still hadn't gotten the $45 that she needed. I suggested her being able to host, but then she said she has no way of getting her daughter to the sitters house. So I'm guessing that this girl is just trying to electronically scam people and has no intentions of meeting up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-4ef43d02a263

Sabrina in Akron.

She does Massage professionally and is looking for clients.

Doesn't want to text about anything and I wasn't wasting my time meeting if we weren't on the same page.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-392d336c9491

Lucy Furr Akron she's cool girl.

Not wanting anything transactional, more traditional.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-8c2c621abbf7

Paige in Warren. She's pro and wanted more than the normal. I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-16cf0d6eec1c

Amber 22 c.

She has a friend too. Comms were going good she's kinky BBFS cip or swallow offered her 2 for each girl the first meet she accepted but then said she gets paid upfront and that's where the dealbreaker is. So we never met. If anyone wants to risk it then let me know how things go.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-af263cc274f7

I tried several times to meet up with Lucy few years ago but she was a complete waste of time. Maybe she is now willing to meet but she wasn't then.

**BestDjInOhio** · 05-25-25 19:41

Originally Posted by TheEndlessEdge [View Original Post]

Lizzybeth - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-2702baa70e00 - She's been around for awhile and is legit. Hops back on the site on and off under different accounts. Cool person. Some pics are older and some might be new. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, CIM
.

She has went downhill. I seen her and various different friends for threesomes. I saw her about a week ago and she has been on some bad drugs, has several big scars up her arm and missing skin on her legs, very very skinny. I passed on her this last time and made up an excuse to let her down. Such a shame she used to be a good girl and somewhat had her stuff together but not so much anymore.

**BestDjInOhio** · 05-25-25 19:25

Originally Posted by TheEndlessEdge [View Original Post]

Lizzybeth - https://members.seeking.com/member/4...5-2702baa70e00 - She's been around for awhile and is legit. Hops back on the site on and off under different accounts. Cool person. Some pics are older and some might be new. BBBJ, DATY, CFS, CIM
.

She has went downhill. I seen her and various different friends for threesomes. I saw her about a week ago and she has been on some bad drugs, has several big scars up her arm and missing skin on her legs, very very skinny. I passed on her this last time and made up an excuse to let her down. Such a shame she used to be a good girl and somewhat had her stuff together but not so much anymore.

**BestDjInOhio** · 05-25-25 19:18

Originally Posted by NeonRt70 [View Original Post]

I had the pleasure of meeting Viola today. Communication was very good and we took it offline pretty quickly. We set a time in the morning to meet. She lives in a safe area in North Canton in an apartment by herself (couple cats). She greeted me outside which made me feel more comfortable. She was also nice enough to walk me around the apartment to put my mind at ease. She is definitely the girl in the profile pics. I think she is very pretty with a nice body. I'm a boob guy and they were perfect!

As soon as we got in her room, she gave me an amazing seductive kiss! Then she took me over to her favorite spot in her room right in front of a mirror. She said she enjoyed this spot because we could both watch her going down on me. That was pretty amazing. After a while I couldn't take it anymore and I had to taste her. She was very responsive and had a very hard orgasm with a little squirt.

Then we went back into some more sensual kissing before I put on the cover and she started to ride me. I have to say she is very good at this and watching her tits bounce kind of made me finish quicker than I wanted! Next time we will try different positions!

Needless to say, I enjoyed myself and will return. She is very down to earth and easy to talk with. I highly recommend her. I just got back on Seeking last week for the first time in years and already found someone to enjoy. Now I can cancel my Seeking!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-238585be31cd

What was the damage to your wallet, BBFS, cip, any other details you can share.

**BestDjInOhio** · 05-25-25 19:12

Willing to trade numbers if anyone has nunbers to trade

Renee in Akron wants 150 and seems pro.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...f-e77017e743ed

Star this one's pro. Typical provider rates will do raw for 100 more if that's your thing.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-b3f2c7937112

HonestPrincess in portage lakes.

Possibly Scammer. Sets everything up and then tells you she doesn't have gas to get to you unless you want to send me like 20 up front and I can take it off the 200 allowance. Yeah no bye.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...5-83a56ade78da

Lex ohiobaby westlake really bad comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...6-a3cdf4490de5

Megan 23 painesville down for alot wants 700 I passed also bad comms.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-2b27956e32bc

Sugmeg92 in Warren BBFS cip 3.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...c-4c7e1148631e

Liddianna in Barberton. Sex only doesn't drive. You have to pick her up or go to her. Comms are very spotty.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-c3f0ca7df523

Sammie in stow no car. Claims she needs $45 to get it out, yet I contacted her a week later and she still hadn't gotten the $45 that she needed. I suggested her being able to host, but then she said she has no way of getting her daughter to the sitters house. So I'm guessing that this girl is just trying to electronically scam people and has no intentions of meeting up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...2-4ef43d02a263

Sabrina in Akron.

She does Massage professionally and is looking for clients.

Doesn't want to text about anything and I wasn't wasting my time meeting if we weren't on the same page.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...2-392d336c9491

Lucy Furr Akron she's cool girl.

Not wanting anything transactional, more traditional.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-8c2c621abbf7

Paige in Warren. She's pro and wanted more than the normal. I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-16cf0d6eec1c

Amber 22 c.

She has a friend too. Comms were going good she's kinky BBFS cip or swallow offered her 2 for each girl the first meet she accepted but then said she gets paid upfront and that's where the dealbreaker is. So we never met. If anyone wants to risk it then let me know how things go.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...9-af263cc274f7

**JonqSnow** · 05-25-25 15:12

Originally Posted by Kabbakabba [View Original Post]

She asks 4 $ and no BBFSCIP. Only CFS.

It was always bbfscip and 3 a few years ago. Maybe she's changed.

**Kabbakabba** · 05-23-25 02:48

Originally Posted by TheEndlessEdge [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-d0d8a4cfc923 - Sasha D is back in the game. Always a good time if you can see her.

She asks 4 $ and no BBFSCIP. Only CFS.

**Kabbakabba** · 05-23-25 00:27

Originally Posted by NeonRt70 [View Original Post]

I had the pleasure of meeting Viola today. Communication was very good and we took it offline pretty quickly. We set a time in the morning to meet. She lives in a safe area in North Canton in an apartment by herself (couple cats). She greeted me outside which made me feel more comfortable. She was also nice enough to walk me around the apartment to put my mind at ease. She is definitely the girl in the profile pics. I think she is very pretty with a nice body. I'm a boob guy and they were perfect!

As soon as we got in her room, she gave me an amazing seductive kiss! Then she took me over to her favorite spot in her room right in front of a mirror. She said she enjoyed this spot because we could both watch her going down on me. That was pretty amazing. After a while I couldn't take it anymore and I had to taste her. She was very responsive and had a very hard orgasm with a little squirt.

Then we went back into some more sensual kissing before I put on the cover and she started to ride me. I have to say she is very good at this and watching her tits bounce kind of made me finish quicker than I wanted! Next time we will try different positions!

Needless to say, I enjoyed myself and will return. She is very down to earth and easy to talk with. I highly recommend her. I just got back on Seeking last week for the first time in years and already found someone to enjoy. Now I can cancel my Seeking!

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...8-238585be31cd

Glad you enjoyed! Happy to hear!

Looks like, She blocked me, can't recall.