Philly Sugar

**HenryT458** · 04-04-25 15:34

I have not and will not go through the selfie verification process on Seeking. After a few years on the site I noticed today my photos have been deleted from my profile. Have any of you gents had this happen to your profile? My photos are legit. One public that did not show my face and one private.

**AnomBox** · 04-04-25 02:05

Thank you for the heads up.

Originally Posted by SkapeGoat1 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-3adb932352cc

This one is strange, a time waster and possibly dangerous. Set up a meet last night, spoke to her during the day. Went to the agreed meeting point at a hotel, a guy comes out started asking me a bunch of dumb questions. She then called and said to meet her at the hotel bar. Went inside, the hotel had no bar. Called her, no answer. This all happened around 7:45 pm last night.

Received a text from her this morning at 1:37 am (and a missed call). Saying some crap that she is legit.

At least I saved $400. WTF is wrong with these women?

**ReadyToTumble** · 04-03-25 12:38

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

So I'm DMing with this "lady". My thought is: This is either a scammer fake profile, or a stripper. Anyway, she says she's interested and will text me. I give her my number.

The next day I see a text from an unknown number. "Hey!

I respond, "Thanks for texting Tara".

The unknown number responds. "I'm not Tara".

I respond, " Sorry, who dis?

They give me their profile name on Seeking.

I have no idea who that is.

I ask for a pic to refresh my memory.

It's a dude.

After some questions we both find out Tara gave my number to this dude. She has no intention to move forward with either of us. I guess she thought we'd like to speak with each other.

It's a riot. Clever Girl. LOL. Either a fake or a stripper with a wicked streak. LOL. Believe it or not, this happened to me previously about 6 years ago. The dude and I became friends. Crazy sugar world.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-34fb4906c768

She is a stripper. Hot as fuck.

**HenryT458** · 04-03-25 09:03

So I'm DMing with this "lady". My thought is: This is either a scammer fake profile, or a stripper. Anyway, she says she's interested and will text me. I give her my number.

The next day I see a text from an unknown number. "Hey!

I respond, "Thanks for texting Tara".

The unknown number responds. "I'm not Tara".

I respond, " Sorry, who dis?

They give me their profile name on Seeking.

I have no idea who that is.

I ask for a pic to refresh my memory.

It's a dude.

After some questions we both find out Tara gave my number to this dude. She has no intention to move forward with either of us. I guess she thought we'd like to speak with each other.

It's a riot. Clever Girl. LOL. Either a fake or a stripper with a wicked streak. LOL. Believe it or not, this happened to me previously about 6 years ago. The dude and I became friends. Crazy sugar world.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...b-34fb4906c768

**HenryT458** · 04-02-25 14:18

A busy lady. Can't meet during the day due to her work schedule. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...6-57c135407aca

**ReadyToTumble** · 04-01-25 12:58

Has anyone seen this MILF? I kind of like her look.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...2-f27f6384b993

**WaltoDerri267** · 04-01-25 12:49

Damn that sounds like some shit Haylee would do too LOL hate that shit. But if it happens in Philly I have no qualms about bailing and just hiring another girl to come over. This is also why I request a video chat before meeting to verify she's real (and attractive).

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

Never got that far. When she DM'd on the site with the no public dates I bailed. Usually that means her pics don't match the body or face. Or her menu is not what I'm looking for. The goal for these women is to get you into a hotel room you paid for. So even if you're disappointed with her in some way you'll likely go through with paying her because you're there and already spent money.

**Mythbuster** · 04-01-25 08:36

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

Never got that far. When she DM'd on the site with the no public dates I bailed. Usually that means her pics don't match the body or face. Or her menu is not what I'm looking for. The goal for these women is to get you into a hotel room you paid for. So even if you're disappointed with her in some way you'll likely go through with paying her because you're there and already spent money.

I talked to her too off the site and we never got in to specifics but she seemed to only be available occasionally and always in the popular "pro areas". Some of her pictures also made me think that she was a little heavier than I like! A lot of women shamelessly alter their photos and the one you posted seems very altered.

**HenryT458** · 04-01-25 08:18

Originally Posted by WaltoDerri267 [View Original Post]

How much did she want? I love saving money skipping the dinners and activities LOL.

Never got that far. When she DM'd on the site with the no public dates I bailed. Usually that means her pics don't match the body or face. Or her menu is not what I'm looking for. The goal for these women is to get you into a hotel room you paid for. So even if you're disappointed with her in some way you'll likely go through with paying her because you're there and already spent money.

**WaltoDerri267** · 03-31-25 16:02

Originally Posted by HenryT458 [View Original Post]

This lady doesn't do public dates. Wants to meet at the hotel. That's not how I do business.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...4-d5b3537ada2c

How much did she want? I love saving money skipping the dinners and activities LOL.

**HenryT458** · 03-31-25 09:26

This lady doesn't do public dates. Wants to meet at the hotel. That's not how I do business.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...4-d5b3537ada2c

**Mythbuster** · 03-29-25 19:50

Originally Posted by Joadt [View Original Post]

I'd advise staying away. Goes to text right away, never even asked for my pictures on site. She's also not verified. I texted and put her off to today. She wanted to meet "right away. " Wouldn't talk details. Also, said she was already at the Mall (where we were going to meet). Yeah, right. Sends a picture of a mall parking lot that I found on-line. Then bam, she calls me. So, she is "real" but no idea if that's her in the pics. Never sent a selfie. Heavy Delco accent. My guess is she's high volume and was lining guys up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...7-956cd16270b0

I set up a meet and greet that she missed, I had sensed that she had flake potential so it was about 15 minutes away from home and I didn't wait inside. She does get pushy and switches to wanting to meet right away for the main course instead of a meet and greet. I got calls from multiple phone numbers that tied back to her family and was asked to come to a house close a house owned by her family. Her flakiness and wiliness to be low balled makes me think there is a substance problem. I also never found any of those pictures in her social media though she looks similar with a little more weight in all the pictures that I found.

**HenryT458** · 03-26-25 08:51

Was supposed to have a meet and greet with this lady today. This morning she hits me up with a compensation request for the meet and greet. Nope. When the lady asks for an appearance fee she isn't interested in an arrangement. She's only interested in the appearance fee. Next.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-bf06b094b6f2