"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Peter Johnson** · 02-22-25 14:17

Originally Posted by Ternarius [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-7f4f7c26e74c

OK a friend of mine got played. He thought he was being cautious 'cause it was a little too easy to set up but he figured she might be semi-pro. She came to the room, maybe a little nervous and high. Asked is he had cash. Yep. But he didn't offer it. After chatting, she went out to get a phone charger. He thought she might not come back but she did. More chatting, mostly about SA scammers etc. Things seemed good when she went to freshen up and asked for cash. His guard was down at that point. She asked him to freshen up and 5 seconds after he was in the bathroom, he heard the door close. She was gone. There might have been a friend outside with the car running, ready to roll. In hindsight he would have asked her to undress before any cash changed hands, but that does seem rude. Lesson learned and could have been worse.

I am helping a SB with some ppm funds, not paying an escort, so I never give them the funds up front. If they are super nervous about it, maybe I'll give them half, but I've only had to do that a couple of times. I sort of understand that, because you don't want the girl wondering the entire time if she will get the ppm, but it's also unromantic to do it that way. But thanks for letting us know about this one and will block right now.

**AdmirerSecret** · 02-22-25 00:51

She has a kid, she can host but ppm is $900 and so many guys are giving her $900.

I am damn sure she is lying. But really! Guys are paying that much for ppm? Who are they.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...72212771&nsp=1

**Ternarius** · 02-21-25 17:02

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-7f4f7c26e74c

OK a friend of mine got played. He thought he was being cautious 'cause it was a little too easy to set up but he figured she might be semi-pro. She came to the room, maybe a little nervous and high. Asked is he had cash. Yep. But he didn't offer it. After chatting, she went out to get a phone charger. He thought she might not come back but she did. More chatting, mostly about SA scammers etc. Things seemed good when she went to freshen up and asked for cash. His guard was down at that point. She asked him to freshen up and 5 seconds after he was in the bathroom, he heard the door close. She was gone. There might have been a friend outside with the car running, ready to roll. In hindsight he would have asked her to undress before any cash changed hands, but that does seem rude. Lesson learned and could have been worse.

**LouisHernandez** · 02-21-25 13:13

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

I could not agree more with your assessment. I was happily raped by a pastor's daughter in college. Taught me a thing or three.

There's an old Twilight Zone where the guy could read everyone's thoughts. And it was the cute girl next door conservative looking girl who had the wildest thoughts.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-20-25 14:10

Originally Posted by CrazyRocket [View Original Post]

As a long time SDM free lurker, past SA subscriber, I have come to seek opinions of experienced members.

How much do you trust that selfie verification mark?

I usually search around 20-25 range but the devil nudged me and I looked around 30-40 last night. Found an old college friend to my surprise because she is married happily, at least seemingly.

I also used to want to bend her over and make her say ah back in the day. Seeing that profile rekindled some, let's say, desires.

This chick is super introverted, coming from a conservative family so I'm thinking there is no way that would be actually her but to entertain my curiosity, I will attempt to get a prepaid visa to start an SDM subscription in the coming days to discover the truth. Her SDM profile is green every time I check it.

The problem is. I tied the knot as well and my wife knows her. The college friend could reach out to my wife easily if things go bad. Not sure if it is worth the risk. My only leverage would be that she is also married and she knows I know. That's about it.

It sounds risky to f*ck her, but I would just try to get some hot naked pics to prove she is for real. You could even send her pics of someone else to get hers or even send her some Amazon gift cards for some hot photos and videos. It would be worth it to me, based on what you said about your past, with her.

**FreudFro** · 02-19-25 22:55

Originally Posted by Airmantroy [View Original Post]

Some of the freakiest girls I have dated or screwed were the quiet, unassuming, introverted, conservative family type. To the point that I was concerned I couldn't keep up LOL.

I could not agree more with your assessment. I was happily raped by a pastor's daughter in college. Taught me a thing or three.

**Airmantroy** · 02-19-25 21:30

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

I'm of the mindset of "Never shit where you eat. ".

Unless she's really hot and a beast in bed.

Some of the freakiest girls I have dated or screwed were the quiet, unassuming, introverted, conservative family type. To the point that I was concerned I couldn't keep up LOL.

**FreudFro** · 02-19-25 19:05

Originally Posted by CrazyRocket [View Original Post]

As a long time SDM free lurker, past SA subscriber, I have come to seek opinions of experienced members.

How much do you trust that selfie verification mark?

I usually search around 20-25 range but the devil nudged me and I looked around 30-40 last night. Found an old college friend to my surprise because she is married happily, at least seemingly.

I also used to want to bend her over and make her say ah back in the day. Seeing that profile rekindled some, let's say, desires.

This chick is super introverted, coming from a conservative family so I'm thinking there is no way that would be actually her but to entertain my curiosity, I will attempt to get a prepaid visa to start an SDM subscription in the coming days to discover the truth. Her SDM profile is green every time I check it.

The problem is. I tied the knot as well and my wife knows her. The college friend could reach out to my wife easily if things go bad. Not sure if it is worth the risk. My only leverage would be that she is also married and she knows I know. That's about it.

I'm of the mindset of "Never shit where you eat. ".

Unless she's really hot and a beast in bed.

**CrazyRocket** · 02-19-25 16:54

As a long time SDM free lurker, past SA subscriber, I have come to seek opinions of experienced members.

How much do you trust that selfie verification mark?

I usually search around 20-25 range but the devil nudged me and I looked around 30-40 last night. Found an old college friend to my surprise because she is married happily, at least seemingly.

I also used to want to bend her over and make her say ah back in the day. Seeing that profile rekindled some, let's say, desires.

This chick is super introverted, coming from a conservative family so I'm thinking there is no way that would be actually her but to entertain my curiosity, I will attempt to get a prepaid visa to start an SDM subscription in the coming days to discover the truth. Her SDM profile is green every time I check it.

The problem is. I tied the knot as well and my wife knows her. The college friend could reach out to my wife easily if things go bad. Not sure if it is worth the risk. My only leverage would be that she is also married and she knows I know. That's about it.

**Peter Pan** · 02-17-25 20:47

Originally Posted by FreudFro [View Original Post]

Oh, I agree, that could also explain it. I am certainly not niave enough to believe it outright. However, to me, there were a couple of red flags with the profile. First, it was a few months old and was logged into about the same amount of time from when it was created. So basically, it was created and then not logged into. Mostly inactive.

The next were the pictures, which included a lot of her friends. I know a lot of girls have pics with friends, but this seemed over-the-top to me. Also, none of the friends' faces were blurred. Again, not a guarantee.

Finally, when I said I contacted her I didn't tell her I knew of her. I just contacted her outside of SA. I didn't want her to know my profile there.

There are girls who post with their friends pics in there. Especially 18-24 range, some are not as discreet when posting pics. But now we are curious.

Do you have any of those pics? Because sometimes her friends are on seeking too.

**Peter Johnson** · 02-17-25 14:59

Originally Posted by RunTheRabbit [View Original Post]

Thought I would refresh a thread on prepaid visas or other ways to pay for subscriptions. Seems pathward doesn't work now that giftcardmall is a part of giftcarddotcom? Anyone successfully signing up recently with prepaid cards?

There is prepaid VISA card you can buy at Kroger that works. I think you load it with $20 to $500, and then you register name and address.

If you have crypto, you can also buy a VISA digital prepaid card on Bitrefill.com and then you just have to register a name. But it worked on Seeking recently and can just make up the address.

So both of those have worked in the last few days.

**Modukolo123** · 02-17-25 08:05

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

I guess I'll have to toftt on this one and report back.

What was the experience. I am talking to her and everything seems ok for now.

**Modukolo123** · 02-17-25 08:03

Originally Posted by LoriTruck [View Original Post]

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...isExtendUser=0

Chatting with this one as well. She has a female friend that can tag along. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

So did you get to meet this one and what was your experience?

**AdmirerSecret** · 02-16-25 22:11

It sounds like you had a bad experience. Here's a clearer and more neutral way to express your concerns:

"I met a girl who goes by the name Prettynpinkk (Hailee) at her place. She appeared slim and attractive but turned out to be a scammer. She invited me to her house at 185 Bivins Road, Villa Rica, took my money, and went out to get some water and then suddenly, a man claiming to be her boyfriend showed up. He started yelling, saying it was his house, and demanded that I leave.

It seems like they are running a scam together in Villa Rica. I got caught up in it today—has anyone else experienced something similar?

+14044225XXX.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=72873632

**FreudFro** · 02-15-25 12:07

Originally Posted by BunnerySgt [View Original Post]

It was her and you caught her period. I've seen chicks using their real names and pictures with their friends on there plenty of times and usually they were just green because they truly are not pros at selling it.

Only she will ever know the truth.