Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**Bob0324** · 02-04-25 08:51

Originally Posted by StillNotMe [View Original Post]

She used to advertise somewhere. I remember because I was trying to talk a buddy out of it because she looked WAY too young to be on there. He said he met her, but she was skinnier than he wanted and he thought she was on something.

She said she never advertised anywhere and has not met anybody in person besides me to date.

**StillNotMe** · 02-04-25 07:36

Originally Posted by SeekingDan [View Original Post]

Man I've been trying to get her attention and message her for like 2 weeks but I can't get a response. That site sucks so much LOL.

She used to advertise somewhere. I remember because I was trying to talk a buddy out of it because she looked WAY too young to be on there. He said he met her, but she was skinnier than he wanted and he thought she was on something.

**NiceGuysLast66** · 02-03-25 23:00

Originally Posted by SeekingDan [View Original Post]

Man I've been trying to get her attention and message her for like 2 weeks but I can't get a response. That site sucks so much LOL.

I still can't get that site to sell me any credits. Gave up trying to contact their support.

**SeekingDan** · 02-03-25 18:33

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

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Man I've been trying to get her attention and message her for like 2 weeks but I can't get a response. That site sucks so much LOL.

**Bob0324** · 02-03-25 16:55

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**Bjcim Seeker** · 02-01-25 18:49

Looking to explore this aspect of the hobby. Is there an app or just use Seeking website? I downloaded Seeking Arrangements app and it took me to a page called "Be Naughty". The other SA apps had slightly different (foreign) spellings. Thanks.

**Bob0324** · 02-01-25 17:35

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Appreciate what you all have shared. For those of you who pay per meet, what are the going rates? Do you let her know what you're comfortable with or do you all her to throw out the first number? I have a range I prefer. However, I didn't want to insult her if it's not what she was thinking and I also don't want to offer a lot more than she would have accepted.

For me and it's typically a chick I met out in public or off of Facebook or Instagram. Typically the first meeting cost a lot. Maybe five to $600 or sometimes it's been more but after that the price dwindles down drastically. I see several chicks repeatedly, but besides the first encounter, they ask for the returning encounters and sometimes offered to do it for a ridiculously cheap.

**Lgroc** · 02-01-25 17:05

Appreciate what you all have shared. For those of you who pay per meet, what are the going rates? Do you let her know what you're comfortable with or do you all her to throw out the first number? I have a range I prefer. However, I didn't want to insult her if it's not what she was thinking and I also don't want to offer a lot more than she would have accepted.

**StillNotMe** · 01-31-25 16:53

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

I'm always comfortable with allowance. I tell them that from the beginning. We can negotiate, come to an arrangement that both parties are happy with, and tell her you would like to start seeing her right away! See when she is available to start and make the first date. Whatever agreement you come up with (monthly, bi-weekly) explain to her after you made a date that you will pay at the end of that period. She will quickly say, no she will need money up front with the first visit. At that point just tell her that jobs don't pay like that. They don't pay you before your first couple of weeks and after you are fired you get your last check later. They will almost NEVER take that (except a couple that I have had over the years. Those are stories over beers).

After that they generally are more receptive to the pay-per meet to start. To me, allowance is always the goal. It's great when it works like it's supposed to. You can be spontaneous and she still gets her bills paid. Unfortunately, those have become very few and far between.

**Wielic** · 01-31-25 12:33

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

Tell her you want to pay per meeting until mutual comfort level is achieved. I've done that and the mutual comfort level is never achieved unless they're willing to provide the benefit for two weeks or a month and then get the allowance. That'll never happen.

This is how I handle allowance requests as well. More often than not, the whole thing either fizzles out or the girl ends up liking you enough that she stops asking for visit compensation. Then, all you have to do is worry about where to hide when she gets attached.

**NiceGuysLast66** · 01-31-25 11:26

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

Problem with the "allowance". Is, same reason you get paid on Friday. It gives you incentive to show up Mon-Thurs. It's human nature that, days after getting their "allowance", they'll feel like they're seeing us, "for free", so the motivation is gone and if they do show up, they're bitter and uninspired.

**Bob0324** · 01-30-25 23:39

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

Tell her you want to pay per meeting until mutual comfort level is achieved. I've done that and the mutual comfort level is never achieved unless they're willing to provide the benefit for two weeks or a month and then get the allowance. That'll never happen.

**Lgroc** · 01-30-25 22:04

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

In my opinion, the allowance thing never works one of the other get screwed and not in a good way. Pay per meet / visit is the only way.

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

**Bob0324** · 01-30-25 20:53

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Met a local OF model interested in sugaring. This would be my first time entering into such an arrangement and I was looking to the board to provide any recommendations for setting something like this up.

I'm thinking a monthly allowance with an agreed upon number of visits. Not looking to date her, per se, just interested in the sugar. What has it hasn't worked well for you all. Feel free to pm. Sounds like she has a friend who does it now and a few others who might be interested so I might have babies to share if it all works out.

PMs are good if you prefer. Thanks!

In my opinion, the allowance thing never works one of the other get screwed and not in a good way. Pay per meet / visit is the only way.

**Lgroc** · 01-30-25 20:41

Met a local OF model interested in sugaring. This would be my first time entering into such an arrangement and I was looking to the board to provide any recommendations for setting something like this up.

I'm thinking a monthly allowance with an agreed upon number of visits. Not looking to date her, per se, just interested in the sugar. What has it hasn't worked well for you all. Feel free to pm. Sounds like she has a friend who does it now and a few others who might be interested so I might have babies to share if it all works out.

PMs are good if you prefer. Thanks!