Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**StillNotMe** · 01-31-25 16:53

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

I'm always comfortable with allowance. I tell them that from the beginning. We can negotiate, come to an arrangement that both parties are happy with, and tell her you would like to start seeing her right away! See when she is available to start and make the first date. Whatever agreement you come up with (monthly, bi-weekly) explain to her after you made a date that you will pay at the end of that period. She will quickly say, no she will need money up front with the first visit. At that point just tell her that jobs don't pay like that. They don't pay you before your first couple of weeks and after you are fired you get your last check later. They will almost NEVER take that (except a couple that I have had over the years. Those are stories over beers).

After that they generally are more receptive to the pay-per meet to start. To me, allowance is always the goal. It's great when it works like it's supposed to. You can be spontaneous and she still gets her bills paid. Unfortunately, those have become very few and far between.

**Wielic** · 01-31-25 12:33

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

Tell her you want to pay per meeting until mutual comfort level is achieved. I've done that and the mutual comfort level is never achieved unless they're willing to provide the benefit for two weeks or a month and then get the allowance. That'll never happen.

This is how I handle allowance requests as well. More often than not, the whole thing either fizzles out or the girl ends up liking you enough that she stops asking for visit compensation. Then, all you have to do is worry about where to hide when she gets attached.

**NiceGuysLast66** · 01-31-25 11:26

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

Problem with the "allowance". Is, same reason you get paid on Friday. It gives you incentive to show up Mon-Thurs. It's human nature that, days after getting their "allowance", they'll feel like they're seeing us, "for free", so the motivation is gone and if they do show up, they're bitter and uninspired.

**Bob0324** · 01-30-25 23:39

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

Tell her you want to pay per meeting until mutual comfort level is achieved. I've done that and the mutual comfort level is never achieved unless they're willing to provide the benefit for two weeks or a month and then get the allowance. That'll never happen.

**Lgroc** · 01-30-25 22:04

Originally Posted by Bob0324 [View Original Post]

In my opinion, the allowance thing never works one of the other get screwed and not in a good way. Pay per meet / visit is the only way.

Yeah, I get that. Trying to figure out a number that I would be comfortable with and number of visits and such. Maybe monthly isn't the answer, but biweekly or weekly is almost like pay per visit without as much risk as monthly.

We all know what this is, but at least it won't feel as transactional as it would paying during each meet. I have no issue paying like that for an AMP, escort, or those DI ladies. Just didn't want this to feel the same as those encounters.

I'm probably overthinking it. Appreciate the feedback.

**Bob0324** · 01-30-25 20:53

Originally Posted by Lgroc [View Original Post]

Met a local OF model interested in sugaring. This would be my first time entering into such an arrangement and I was looking to the board to provide any recommendations for setting something like this up.

I'm thinking a monthly allowance with an agreed upon number of visits. Not looking to date her, per se, just interested in the sugar. What has it hasn't worked well for you all. Feel free to pm. Sounds like she has a friend who does it now and a few others who might be interested so I might have babies to share if it all works out.

PMs are good if you prefer. Thanks!

In my opinion, the allowance thing never works one of the other get screwed and not in a good way. Pay per meet / visit is the only way.

**Lgroc** · 01-30-25 20:41

Met a local OF model interested in sugaring. This would be my first time entering into such an arrangement and I was looking to the board to provide any recommendations for setting something like this up.

I'm thinking a monthly allowance with an agreed upon number of visits. Not looking to date her, per se, just interested in the sugar. What has it hasn't worked well for you all. Feel free to pm. Sounds like she has a friend who does it now and a few others who might be interested so I might have babies to share if it all works out.

PMs are good if you prefer. Thanks!

**Wielic** · 01-29-25 17:49

Originally Posted by BloomingBoy [View Original Post]

Gentlemen,

I've been out of the game for a while and just getting back in, so rustiness and horniness made me do it.

She said heat was out, she has been in an accident and can't work, needs help with turning heat back on.

We had a good connection while chatting so I figured she did need help, it's cold outside, blah blah blah.

Anyways, here is the link: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-1b9c7dd9f1da.

Please don't fall for her antics like I did. Happy hunting.

Of the 5 - 6 I have been talking to between Indy, Muncie and Cincinnati; three have asked for money for car repairs, one claimed to not have any money for food, and another can't afford her phone bill. All asked for advances ahead of a first meeting and all are FOS. At this point I just stop responding or block them. At least the UTR pros are honest. So, you aren't alone.

**NiceGuysLast66** · 01-27-25 23:25

Originally Posted by HumpyDumpty [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-28f78f246fc1

Avoid this one. She's is real and that's the only good thing about her. She can host in noblesville. When I met her, she is high and house smelled like 420. I should have left right there but didn't think with my big head. Agreed to spend time for an hour and most. No kissing, gets naked and Gives 10 sec BJ and says she will ride me. Finished me in 10 min first round and says she is getting late to class. Demands for agreed full amount and showing lot of attitude. Also, she doesn't look like pics. Scars on stomach, probably early 30's.

Now going by Katie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-0f666b57486b

**BloomingBoy** · 01-24-25 09:48

Gentlemen,

I've been out of the game for a while and just getting back in, so rustiness and horniness made me do it.

She said heat was out, she has been in an accident and can't work, needs help with turning heat back on.

We had a good connection while chatting so I figured she did need help, it's cold outside, blah blah blah.

Anyways, here is the link: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-1b9c7dd9f1da.

Please don't fall for her antics like I did. Happy hunting.

**RubyRod78** · 01-14-25 19:05

Originally Posted by Hadouken81 [View Original Post]

Not sure if it worked, but attached a pic.

Interesting, the link is working for me now. I don't know on her, sorry sir. The link was showing a profile didn't exist screen yesterday.

**Hadouken81** · 01-13-25 23:46

Originally Posted by RubyRod78 [View Original Post]

Either she blocked me, or I've blocked her because I can't see her. I would assume fake, since I block ones I believe are fake/scams, but might be one of a handful I pissed off enough to block me. If you send me a pic in DMs or post one here it might jog my memory.

Not sure if it worked, but attached a pic.

**RubyRod78** · 01-13-25 15:59

Either she blocked me, or I've blocked her because I can't see her. I would assume fake, since I block ones I believe are fake/scams, but might be one of a handful I pissed off enough to block me. If you send me a pic in DMs or post one here it might jog my memory.

Originally Posted by NiceGuysLast66 [View Original Post]

I tried to contact her with no real success. Until one day she started responding. Seemed really nice, we had a nice chat, made loose plans to meet the following week. And then. Like Keyser Soze. Poof. Gone. No longer responding or even reading my messages. So. Good luck.

**NiceGuysLast66** · 01-13-25 13:31

Originally Posted by Hadouken81 [View Original Post]

Anyone have any experience with this one? Curious if she's legit or fake.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...3-f3f43b0bc547

I tried to contact her with no real success. Until one day she started responding. Seemed really nice, we had a nice chat, made loose plans to meet the following week. And then. Like Keyser Soze. Poof. Gone. No longer responding or even reading my messages. So. Good luck.

**GoForGusto** · 01-13-25 12:20

Originally Posted by RonzIndiana1 [View Original Post]

I signed up for seeking and paid for membership. I am having problems seeing who is in the link posted by you guys. Do you know why this would happen? I don't understand this website. LOL Ron.

I've had this happen before, but it was because I was not signed in to SA first. If you sign in, then click the links here it should bring up profile just fine.