Seeking Arrangement (SA)

[NashJS89]

Seems like very sound advice Pirate, great report!

Thanks for the info and tips! Sounds like I also need to check out that Sugar daddies site.

On Seeking they talk about making your profile pop. Does this really matter?

[Delta456]

Anyone have experience with MariaNee?

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...b29fce3ae6372b

I met her once and had an amazing time but she's pretty flakey. Anyone have better luck?

[BoSox50]

I have met quite a few of them through seeking. Some single moms and a few girls in their 20's. I have had a good experience with seeking so far.

A few tips based on my experience with seeking.

After you get a membership, try to reach out to as many girls as you can and get their phone number or some other means to communicate outside of the app. Then you can get rid of the membership after a month or two and you would have enough contacts to sort through.

Look for when the profile was created and when was the last time she logged in. I usually avoid too recent profiles.

Always ask to meet for coffee or drinks first, the legit ones will not usually ask money to meet for an intro date. If the girl is asking money for intro date, I usually skip those.

Once you meet for coffee or drinks you can discuss other details in person. I don't usually discuss it over text.

Seems like very sound advice Pirate, great report!

[PirateSkul]

Apologize in advance if this is the wrong forum to ask. I'm considering exploring SA. My only experience is with agencies / massage parlors. Do why'all feel Seeking is worth the time and effort put in? Seems like success rate is low and there are a lot of scams out there. My work keeps me pretty busy so don't have a lot of time to invest but it seems like bargains can be found. Thanks.

I have met quite a few of them through seeking. Some single moms and a few girls in their 20's. I have had a good experience with seeking so far.

A few tips based on my experience with seeking.

After you get a membership, try to reach out to as many girls as you can and get their phone number or some other means to communicate outside of the app. Then you can get rid of the membership after a month or two and you would have enough contacts to sort through.

Look for when the profile was created and when was the last time she logged in. I usually avoid too recent profiles.

Always ask to meet for coffee or drinks first, the legit ones will not usually ask money to meet for an intro date. If the girl is asking money for intro date, I usually skip those.

Once you meet for coffee or drinks you can discuss other details in person. I don't usually discuss it over text.

[Berol Loz]

Apologize in advance if this is the wrong forum to ask. I'm considering exploring SA. My only experience is with agencies / massage parlors. Do why'all feel Seeking is worth the time and effort put in? Seems like success rate is low and there are a lot of scams out there. My work keeps me pretty busy so don't have a lot of time to invest but it seems like bargains can be found. Thanks.

Well basically the two main things to remember are: 1: don't send girls money unless you've actually met them IRL. Most of the scams are pretty low-tech, you talk, you agree to meet, they have some kind of emergency and just need a few bucks for gas / travel / something (and then you never hear from them again) and 2: it's a numbers game, you'll send a dozen messages and get maybe 2-3 responses that turn into something. For this reason I usually look for things in their profile like:

1. full body shots. Funny angles, filters, all close-ups. They're hiding something.

2. do they have a proper profile, and have they been on recently? Some girls pop on for a few days, get scared off by the pervs and are gone.

3. have something on your profile too that makes you look like a normal guy looking to help out a regular girl with her bills, etc.

4. Don't use hooker language unless they do. Also most girls can't host, and probably won't do car-calls. You might have to spring for a hotel if you don't want to take them to your place. I'd want to meet someone first before deciding to bring them over.

When you do score, it definitely can pay off. Typically I see girls for a few hours, give them around 3-500, which works out much better than escorts on a pre-hour basis. BBFS is also pretty common.

These are girls from around the Nashville area on SugarDaddyMeet (a site similar site to Seeking), I quoted things from their profile that make it sound like they're serious about meeting. Same thing will apply to Seeking, I use both, but use SDM more these days.

Couldemn, 22.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...71829185&nsp=1

"looking for an open minded individual to help me out with some if my living expenses. ".

Lilmeggie, 24, La Vergne (Nashville).

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...69773834&nsp=1

"I am willing to meet. Not looking to have my time wasted. Very upfront and outspoken. ".

Jay, 27.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73272382&nsp=1

"Single mom of 2. (PPM) , discreet, weekly allowance, longterm, mutualky beneficial" (this one is good, might be more of an UTR girl).

[NashJS89]

Apologize in advance if this is the wrong forum to ask. I'm considering exploring SA. My only experience is with agencies / massage parlors. Do why'all feel Seeking is worth the time and effort put in? Seems like success rate is low and there are a lot of scams out there. My work keeps me pretty busy so don't have a lot of time to invest but it seems like bargains can be found. Thanks.

[LovesMuffins]

Man, what is with the red hair craze? Latinas dying their hair red is like Superman wearing kryptonite around his neck. Give me that natural brown or black hair anyday!

Good news, got a response back, she's not comfortable yet about hosting, but down to meet for $300 for a few hours. Didn't ask about BBFS, but most girls don't take much convincing. Single moms usually are pretty easy. I mean they are moms LOL.

[CoolCaffeine]

Short but sweet, Made plans to meet and booked the hotel. Then the car don't work. . . Then waiting on Anna to pick her up and drop her off. . . Then waiting on Grandma to get gas money because Anna needs gas in her car. . Waiting on the next task in the process but it looks like I wasted the money on a room that I won't use. Sigh it happens. I know this isn't as cool as the twins but it was frustrating.

[BradTN]

Good news, got a response back, she's not comfortable yet about hosting, but down to meet for $300 for a few hours. Didn't ask about BBFS, but most girls don't take much convincing. Single moms usually are pretty easy. I mean they are moms LOL.

What happened with this?

[Berol Loz]

Does anyone know anything about her? I usually have good luck with single moms, and this one seems to be looking for weekly meet-ups. Was on the site today.

Jay, 27, Nashville.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73272382&nsp=1

"Single mom of 2 just trying to provide the life my kids deserve. (PPM) , discreet, weekly allowance, longterm, mutualky beneficial".

Good news, got a response back, she's not comfortable yet about hosting, but down to meet for $300 for a few hours. Didn't ask about BBFS, but most girls don't take much convincing. Single moms usually are pretty easy. I mean they are moms LOL.

[Doomy14]

I see they have been active again on SA lately. Who are they trying to scam now?

These two are serious bad news. They never scammed me, but I did waste two hours waiting for one of them to show up. Then she had a 'car accident' on the way and was at hospital and needed cash. Guys should f with these two as much as possible. They are twins and I have their socials.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-81bf6383e68b

[SCFunGuy]

I see they have been active again on SA lately. Who are they trying to scam now?

[FlacoBill]

Met up with this one. Nice, just way bigger than pictures depicts. Won't repeat.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...b-c90cc5da3415

Yes. Bigger than expected and too many things not allowed.

[Berol Loz]

Does anyone know anything about her? I usually have good luck with single moms, and this one seems to be looking for weekly meet-ups. Was on the site today.

Jay, 27, Nashville.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...73272382&nsp=1

"Single mom of 2 just trying to provide the life my kids deserve. (PPM) , discreet, weekly allowance, longterm, mutualky beneficial".

[Berol Loz]

In big cities like LA, NY, and Miami the girls respond to my first message with their PPM $ amount. I've always been reluctant to discuss PPM on the site, but it seems to be wide open now. The other change is many woman will shoot the first message or favorite you first. That used to put me on scam alert, but no more.

Agree about the scam alert unless they are local.

On SDM, talking money has never been an issue. I get quite a few asking if I'm good with PPM, asking how much I usually give girls, or even just giving me their opening offer in the first response.

Seeking I think they were kind of ok with the girls brining up money, they just flagged the guys. I see a few girls' ads on Seeking with "P P Mer" or their IG account, but I'd still be careful as a guy. Or are you finding they don't seem to bother you as much? Maybe you've just been lucky? .