Cuddle Comfort

[Rxgolf]

Thinking about booking a session next week while I am in town. Anyone have any intel?

I'm also considering her but her rates are stopping me. 150/ hr but she says she is willing to negotiate. Has anyone got her to reduce her rates. Last thing I want is to look like some cheap ass as the first impression.

[Member #6800]

Thinking about booking a session next week while I am in town. Anyone have any intel?

[SideTalker]

Just wanted to comment that I have seen commenters on this board as well as on reddit that boost cuddlecomfort in a suspicious manner. Their comment history will be almost entirely consisting of cuddlecomfort related posts, almost seems like astroturfing. Not saying that is what's going on here but most other users / redditors have mostly had no luck in getting extras at cc.

I have tried booking a cuddler here in the chicago area with a slightly revealing / promising profile but there was absolutely no hints of extras and it was a waste of money.

[Sphin100]

So I wanted to be clear and shed some light to the members particularly in this Illinois area concerning the cuddlers. The more karmas that they have usually entails that something more is going on, because let's face it men aren't just going because a woman is a good cuddler. The play is that you actually have
to like cuddling. That's the whole catch and that's what gets you in the door. So some major tips are hygiene of course, meaning be very clean showered freshly shaved teeth brushed and flossed. Which I shouldn't have to say this but you will find that a lot of the cuddlers do which entails that they've had issues with men who have poor hygiene. The next thing is this really is a YMMV type of situation so you have to take it as it's just cuddling and allow the woman to get comfortable with you. Once she's comfortable she can start to open up. I personally usually book 2-hour sessions, because it gives more time for the first hour of just getting acquainted laying there talking making her laugh and that sort of thing. Also it gives a chance for you to check boundaries such as where you can and can't touch and also always be respectful. For instance if I touch the butt lightly, I will say is that okay or how does that feel. I always get a positive response, I've never yet once been told no don't do that or had my hand removed or anything like that. Next is just to talk and keep her comfortable. The second hour is where you start to do a little bit more roaming and a little bit more feeling. Let her know that you are comfortable with how she's rubbing you or that you would like her to rub you a certain way. Nine times out of 10 they will accommodate. But this is just where you have the opportunity now to put down your game, now if you have no game well that's something that really can't be taught you either have it or you don't. But think of it like this you have literally gotten to the bed of this particular woman she is laying down with somebody that she doesn't know that she's never met. If she's willing to go to those lengths what links won't she go to. You just have to figure it out. But again it all starts with getting her very comfortable. If you come in the door with sex in your eyes you're usually going to be dead in the water unless she is a sex worker to begin with then she will absolutely lay out her menu. But if she's there to cuddle she will be open to other things as long as you present yourself in a fashion of just letting things happen naturally as opposed to wanting to force something to happen. Trust me when you let natural flow happen it absolutely will. I haven't necessarily been in the Illinois area but I am booking with a few very soon and I will report back. But I have been all over the country and like I said I've hit way more than I've ever missed. But I always go in with the mindset of just having a great cuddle with a nice looking woman and even showing her different cuddle positions that we can try. Women love that because they love to learn and it stays within the parameters of what they believe to be the cuddle session itself. There are some cuddlers who say that lv1 is still platonic because they didn't give up any of their body. I've had some tell me that they thought everybody was giving extra so as soon as you come in the door they pull out condoms. So again if they have more commas that's usually because they're doing more and that's why those men are going there and if you read through the commas the men will throw hints as to what you can look forward to. I hope this helps a good luck. This is getting kind of lengthy but there are a few other things but the main things I believe I hit on just let it flow and go in with the intention of just having a great cuddle and you'll find that you'll get so much more. Also one last thing read her bio closely and look at her pictures closely. Many times what I found is that when they say strictly platonic that's not what they mean. A lot of times they say that because they don't want aggressive men coming in the door just groping on them immediately. They want to do extra but they want it to be done respectfully they want to connect with you so connect with them. Remember these ladies are taking a chance by laying down with men that they don't know. The same thing that escorts and prostitutes would do, the difference being is that now you have time to talk with her and for you all to get to connect.

Tips: $100 is the max I pay for a cuddle session. If a cuddler charges an outrageous amount I might as well get an escort. I will pay an upcharge if it's reasonable. I count on my ability. Not bragging but I'm 19-4. Out of 23 I've had very fun experiences with 19.4 I actually left with blue balls. One of those 4, I felt there's was more so I circled back around for a second session and had full fun.

[Sphin100]

So I wanted to be clear and shed some light to the members particularly in this Illinois area concerning the cuddlers. The more karmas that they have usually entails that something more is going on, because let's face it men aren't just going because a woman is a good cuddler. The play is that you actually have to like cuddling. That's the whole catch and that's what gets you in the door. So some major tips are hygiene of course, meaning be very clean showered freshly shaved teeth brushed and flossed. Which I shouldn't have to say this but you will find that a lot of the cuddlers do which entails that they've had issues with men who have poor hygiene. The next thing is this really is a YMMV type of situation so you have to take it as it's just cuddling and allow the woman to get comfortable with you. Once she's comfortable she can start to open up. I personally usually book 2-hour sessions, because it gives more time for the first hour of just getting acquainted laying there talking making her laugh and that sort of thing. Also it gives a chance for you to check boundaries such as where you can and can't touch and also always be respectful. For instance if I touch the butt lightly, I will say is that okay or how does that feel. I always get a positive response, I've never yet once been told no don't do that or had my hand removed or anything like that. Next is just to talk and keep her comfortable. The second hour is where you start to do a little bit more roaming and a little bit more feeling. Let her know that you are comfortable with how she's rubbing you or that you would like her to rub you a certain way. Nine times out of 10 they will accommodate. But this is just where you have the opportunity now to put down your game, now if you have no game well that's something that really can't be taught you either have it or you don't. But think of it like this you have literally gotten to the bed of this particular woman she is laying down with somebody that she doesn't know that she's never met. If she's willing to go to those lengths what links won't she go to. You just have to figure it out. But again it all starts with getting her very comfortable. If you come in the door with sex in your eyes you're usually going to be dead in the water unless she is a sex worker to begin with then she will absolutely lay out her menu. But if she's there to cuddle she will be open to other things as long as you present yourself in a fashion of just letting things happen naturally as opposed to wanting to force something to happen. Trust me when you let natural flow happen it absolutely will. I haven't necessarily been in the Illinois area but I am booking with a few very soon and I will report back. But I have been all over the country and like I said I've hit way more than I've ever missed. But I always go in with the mindset of just having a great cuddle with a nice looking woman and even showing her different cuddle positions that we can try. Women love that because they love to learn and it stays within the parameters of what they believe to be the cuddle session itself. There are some cuddlers who say that lv1 is still platonic because they didn't give up any of their body. I've had some tell me that they thought everybody was giving extra so as soon as you come in the door they pull out condoms. So again if they have more commas that's usually because they're doing more and that's why those men are going there and if you read through the commas the men will throw hints as to what you can look forward to. I hope this helps a good luck. This is getting kind of lengthy but there are a few other things but the main things I believe I hit on just let it flow and go in with the intention of just having a great cuddle and you'll find that you'll get so much more. Also one last thing read her bio closely and look at her pictures closely. Many times what I found is that when they say strictly platonic that's not what they mean. A lot of times they say that because they don't want aggressive men coming in the door just groping on them immediately. They want to do extra but they want it to be done respectfully they want to connect with you so connect with them. Remember these ladies are taking a chance by laying down with men that they don't know. The same thing that escorts and prostitutes would do, the difference being is that now you have time to talk with her and for you all to get to connect.

[Sphin100]

No it's 100% not a poor man's SA. It's mostly a giant waste of time if you are chasing after P4 P. It's a very small roster of active ladies. Vast majority is 100% legit. Many of those girls take the cuddling thing seriously and are well aware of guys looking for extras and they'll shut you down real fast.

You may find a random HE girl but you'll waste a ton of time and money trying to find it.

It's definitely a YMMV type of situation, and it may be based on location. My experience has been different, definitely not a waste of time. I've had way more successes than failures. Everything from lv1 to lv2 to FS. I've hit more than I've missed by far. Just my experience.

[Pau Ford]

Good advice. I never heard of this site before but it might be exactly what I want.

Is this a low cost option? Never heard of it but will check it out!

No it's 100% not a poor man's SA. It's mostly a giant waste of time if you are chasing after P4 P. It's a very small roster of active ladies. Vast majority is 100% legit. Many of those girls take the cuddling thing seriously and are well aware of guys looking for extras and they'll shut you down real fast.

You may find a random HE girl but you'll waste a ton of time and money trying to find it.

[HermitBoy]

Good advice. I never heard of this site before but it might be exactly what I want.

Is this a low cost option? Never heard of it but will check it out!

[Chicago41]

I've met a few off CC, a mix of active sex workers, girls who would call the police on you if you touched them the wrong way and all points in between. If the ad mentions massage or choice of attire then I usually go for it.

Good advice. I never heard of this site before but it might be exactly what I want.

[Jayp80]

I've had one pursue me after visiting her profile. She even suggested getting a hotel room. But never pulled the trigger. Others just seemed like trolls or bots. Got a very canned response.

I'd be interested in knowing your successes. DM me if you want.

I've met a few off CC, a mix of active sex workers, girls who would call the police on you if you touched them the wrong way and all points in between. If the ad mentions massage or choice of attire then I usually go for it.

[Hardwood1060]

I can't seem to find if we have a thread on Cuddle Comfort. Have we started a thread? I have seem a few of them and I think we should start one. Had anyone else been successful on cuddle comfort.

I've had one pursue me after visiting her profile. She even suggested getting a hotel room. But never pulled the trigger. Others just seemed like trolls or bots. Got a very canned response.

I'd be interested in knowing your successes. DM me if you want.

[Kelvb]

I can't seem to find if we have a thread on Cuddle Comfort. Have we started a thread? I have seem a few of them and I think we should start one. Had anyone else been successful on cuddle comfort.

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