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[Hobby Exec]

Which do you prefer?

My brother, who is also a monger, feels that he would rather do an outcall in his apartment than going to a girl's incall or picking her up somewhere for carplay. The problem is that most of the girls he sees live or are set up on the other side of town. One girl he sees he'll hit her up and she'll agree to go see him. He'll have to drive across town to go pick her up then drive all the way back to his place. She said she'll only stay about 10 or 15 minutes or so just long enough for him to fuck her. Then he said she usually lays there like a dead fish but it's a cheap nut to him. After, he has to drive her back home then turn around and go back home himself. He said he'd rather do an outcall to his place because he can control how long they stay. If he picks them up then they can't go home until he's ready to take them home. I personally prefer either carplay or an incall to their place. That way I'm only driving to them once. Once to go to them or pick them up. Maybe we have to drive down the street to find a spot or I stay there at their incall location. Then when we're done I go home. But my brother tends to link up with girls who don't have transportation, so he usually is the one doing all the driving. I just wouldn't be driving all the way across town 4 times. My personal preference is always incall. I go to you, we handle business and then I leave. My brother feels it's safer at his place and he dictates how much time he gets.

What's your personal preference, incall, outcall or carplay? And why?

Carplay. NO! I'm too old and to tall for that. Plus, I consider it way too many risks out in the open, in a parked (or moving car) with unknown ladies. Particularly those in suspect areas. I will say that I did have 1 very memorable date in a SUV rental with a smoking hot highly reviewed ATL provider back around 2008. She was a provider whom I've visited several times in ATL, Greenville, Columbia and other cities where she was a travel companion during my work-related trips. LATE One night after we left an Hobby Night Mixers in Atlanta, we were headed back to her apartment when she got super frisky. She was already felling good from the drinks at the mixer when she reached across the console and grabbed my crotch. After she unzipped my pants and released the Beast, I had no other choice but to pull over into a Publix parking. The stores were closed and the lot was basically empty. We were less than 10 minutes away from her apartment but got our nightcap started in that Publix parking lot.

Other than that, I don't do car dates, not since high school. And that was a LOOONGGG time ago.

Outcalls. I'm not single and don't want to take that risk locally in Columbia. I may (and have on occasion) made arrangements with REVIEWED or recommended providers while on business travel. I've also done a handful of outcalls when I temporary relocation accommodations. Most cases were when I either was not familiar with the city or if I did not have a rental to go to the provider.

I will NEVER do an outcall in my own home, even if I were single. Way, way, way too many risks with this IMO. On one occasion at one of the high-end hotels I was staying at on the Strip in Vega, I made a wrong call with 2 - hotties to come to my room. It was the deal of a lifetime in Vegas. The 2-girl visit was me banging the brains out of one of the girls while she munched on the other girl. But the other girl never did her part with me. When they left, so did my cell phone which I had to call and terminate service as soon as I discovered it was missing. After that, no more outcalls with unknowns.

Incalls. PREFERRED. If I don't like the location, I can choose not to go or I can choose not to stay once I see the environment. Most importantly, I don't knowingly go to incalls where there's multiple occupants. I make that known during the confirmation call with providers so they know this in advance and are not surprised when I show up.

I understand some guys like the idea of being in control of the time (outcall), but I don't like the risk of random providers knowing my home or work address. Just my $0. 01.

[FreakyBoy]

Which do you prefer?

My brother, who is also a monger, feels that he would rather do an outcall in his apartment than going to a girl's incall or picking her up somewhere for carplay. The problem is that most of the girls he sees live or are set up on the other side of town. One girl he sees he'll hit her up and she'll agree to go see him. He'll have to drive across town to go pick her up then drive all the way back to his place. She said she'll only stay about 10 or 15 minutes or so just long enough for him to fuck her. Then he said she usually lays there like a dead fish but it's a cheap nut to him. After, he has to drive her back home then turn around and go back home himself. He said he'd rather do an outcall to his place because he can control how long they stay. If he picks them up then they can't go home until he's ready to take them home. I personally prefer either carplay or an incall to their place. That way I'm only driving to them once. Once to go to them or pick them up. Maybe we have to drive down the street to find a spot or I stay there at their incall location. Then when we're done I go home. But my brother tends to link up with girls who don't have transportation, so he usually is the one doing all the driving. I just wouldn't be driving all the way across town 4 times. My personal preference is always incall. I go to you, we handle business and then I leave. My brother feels it's safer at his place and he dictates how much time he gets.

What's your personal preference, incall, outcall or carplay? And why?

Incall for me unless I'm traveling and staying in a hotel in which case outcall might be an option.

But I would NEVER invite a working girl to my home even if I didn't have crap there that I cared about.

These chicks keep bad company so once she knows where you live then all hell could get started. Whether it's stealing your stuff, waiting for you to come home to jack you, or who knows what. But it's just too much of a risk.

I remember when I was younger I would take the long and confusing way home just to keep a one-night stand from knowing where I lived. And those were just with regular chicks, but with these girls no way are they going to my house.

[FourthTwin]

Which do you prefer?

My brother, who is also a monger, feels that he would rather do an outcall in his apartment than going to a girl's incall or picking her up somewhere for carplay. The problem is that most of the girls he sees live or are set up on the other side of town. One girl he sees he'll hit her up and she'll agree to go see him. He'll have to drive across town to go pick her up then drive all the way back to his place. She said she'll only stay about 10 or 15 minutes or so just long enough for him to fuck her. Then he said she usually lays there like a dead fish but it's a cheap nut to him. After, he has to drive her back home then turn around and go back home himself. He said he'd rather do an outcall to his place because he can control how long they stay. If he picks them up then they can't go home until he's ready to take them home. I personally prefer either carplay or an incall to their place. That way I'm only driving to them once. Once to go to them or pick them up. Maybe we have to drive down the street to find a spot or I stay there at their incall location. Then when we're done I go home. But my brother tends to link up with girls who don't have transportation, so he usually is the one doing all the driving. I just wouldn't be driving all the way across town 4 times. My personal preference is always incall. I go to you, we handle business and then I leave. My brother feels it's safer at his place and he dictates how much time he gets.

What's your personal preference, incall, outcall or carplay? And why?

[Bouinage]

I've never done one but who has ever paid a girl for an overnight visit? How much did you pay and how many times did you have sex? My brother told me a story the other day where a girl he's been dealing with for a few years who lives in Gastonia, we're in Charlotte, hit him up saying for $100 she'd come spend the night with him. He hesitated going to get her because she said she needed to be back in Gastonia early the next morning. He goes to pick her up thinking it was going to be an all night fuck-fest. The money he gave her she wanted to stop and get some drugs, which she did. Then when they got back to Charlotte, his place, she spent a while just sitting on his bed prepping the drugs then taking them. After that he said that she jumped in the shower for like 30 minutes then finally came back out then sat again on his bed playing some game on her phone. He said they eventually did have sex once then she started asking about the bus schedule and where she could catch the bus. He said that he heard her talking to someone on the phone saying she was on her way. He told her the stop stop was right at the beginning of his apartment complex and shortly after that she got up, got dressed and left. I told him sounds like she only needed a ride to Charlotte and just played him thinking it was going to be an all night thing. He just knew he was going to fuck her several times before he took her back to Gastonia the next morning.

Again, have any of you ever paid a girl for an all nighter? How much did you pay? Was it work it and how many times did you have sex? My brother is a sucker when it comes to sex and escorts. He's 55 years old and acts like an 18 year old kid who finally got his first piece of pussy.

Sounds like he got a qv / half for 100 plus some gas and his time. Not a bad deal. I have had ladies spend the night. It was at a hotel though, quit bringing ladies to my place decades ago. Similar circumstances she needed a place to stay. Paid standard fee and we did it a few times plus I ordered dinner, and Uber to and from hotel. Over all not a great thing to do here imo.

[FourthTwin]

I've never done one but who has ever paid a girl for an overnight visit? How much did you pay and how many times did you have sex? My brother told me a story the other day where a girl he's been dealing with for a few years who lives in Gastonia, we're in Charlotte, hit him up saying for $100 she'd come spend the night with him. He hesitated going to get her because she said she needed to be back in Gastonia early the next morning. He goes to pick her up thinking it was going to be an all night fuck-fest. The money he gave her she wanted to stop and get some drugs, which she did. Then when they got back to Charlotte, his place, she spent a while just sitting on his bed prepping the drugs then taking them. After that he said that she jumped in the shower for like 30 minutes then finally came back out then sat again on his bed playing some game on her phone. He said they eventually did have sex once then she started asking about the bus schedule and where she could catch the bus. He said that he heard her talking to someone on the phone saying she was on her way. He told her the stop stop was right at the beginning of his apartment complex and shortly after that she got up, got dressed and left. I told him sounds like she only needed a ride to Charlotte and just played him thinking it was going to be an all night thing. He just knew he was going to fuck her several times before he took her back to Gastonia the next morning.

Again, have any of you ever paid a girl for an all nighter? How much did you pay? Was it work it and how many times did you have sex? My brother is a sucker when it comes to sex and escorts. He's 55 years old and acts like an 18 year old kid who finally got his first piece of pussy.

[NC Transplant]

STROKE? She isn't that old but she has lived a hard life.

Hey fellas. At one time or another we have all seen Nicky. https://ondate.com/female-escorts/418006/nicky.

I reached out to her today hoping to see her and she told me she had a stroke. She's out of the game for awhile. She needs food if any of you want to send her something.

[ChessGod]

Hey fellas. At one time or another we have all seen Nicky. https://ondate.com/female-escorts/418006/nicky.

I reached out to her today hoping to see her and she told me she had a stroke. She's out of the game for awhile. She needs food if any of you want to send her something.

[LD281]

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SLS groups that you might find helpful. Go here to search:

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[LD281]

Check out fet life if you haven't yet, they usually post events there.

https://www.swinglifestyle.com/groups/index.cfm

[AcltE0092]

I know there's a few lifestyle clubs in the area. I used to be active in the lifestyle with a vanilla dating ex. I've got a SB now that is interested in going with me. Anyone know how to get in touch with the villas in concord? This might be a long shot. Trying to avoid the time consuming process of getting back active on the swingers sites / forums.

Check out fet life if you haven't yet, they usually post events there.

[ConCityKing]

I know there's a few lifestyle clubs in the area. I used to be active in the lifestyle with a vanilla dating ex. I've got a SB now that is interested in going with me. Anyone know how to get in touch with the villas in concord? This might be a long shot. Trying to avoid the time consuming process of getting back active on the swingers sites / forums.

[NC Transplant]

I wonder if a 65 why / o guy could get lucky?

I think of it as more of an attitude with them- women on the hunt DTF. 45 to 65 yrs But then 36 yr old hitting on guys in their 20's are cougars too.

[Member #6777]

Seniors and contributors DM me.

[LuccaMac]

I am curious to what age you are calling a cougar? 50's? 60's?

I think of it as more of an attitude with them- women on the hunt DTF. 45 to 65 yrs But then 36 yr old hitting on guys in their 20's are cougars too.

[NC Transplant]

I am curious to what age you are calling a cougar? 50's? 60's?

Two places to report:

Young bucks should check out: Caddy Shack in Fort Mill Lake Wylie. The place is full of cougars and older MILFs that are on the hunt for younger guys. There were many hots mommas walking around. I could not believe how direct these chicks are.

And for the rest of us: Bradshaws in Ballantyne. This place is a known hook up bar.

Save some money and try your luck with the free pu $$why.

You are welcome.

LM.