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  1. #6663
    Quote Originally Posted by GolfGod69  [View Original Post]
    I lost my boner during a session and I'm really depressed about it. The worst part is, it happened with Jane who's one of my favorites.
    Hi, I am an expert at losing erections. I have discovered that I sometimes cannot even tell that I came. But the evidence was there after, of one or two pumps. That's all it takes for your body to release the hormones that both lose your erection and make it harder to have your next orgasm:
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)

    That was the most common cause for me. Girls would notice I came inside them even though I didn't notice. I'd lose erections after a great BBBJ and there would be some cum in her mouth, not even a lot but it was there. You can dfk her if you really want to make sure, but no mistake about it.

    With overstimulation, it's also harder to have and maintain erections. Like when I go on hours long strip club binges, the 5th or 6th girl no longer give me an erection even if she's the hottest girl of all. The only way I can recover from that is having a solid rest of not thinking about women or looking at them. One additional option is you can take some V. It won't solve arousal or psychological issues but it will help with everything else.

    Lastly, this hobby is for your enjoyment. If you are not enjoying it, take a break. Sometimes you've had too much of a thing for a while, it happens with food and other pleasures. Don't even think about women or look at anything for a while and you should recover. Then later you might hunger and thirst, until even scraps would satisfy you. But no! In this hobby, you are the Sultan of a fully stocked harem. You pick the choicest girl available that suits you, at a moment's notice.

    No one questions your decisions or tastes in this hobby. If Jane is still around she'll be ready for you. Maybe you'll even have a raging erection to show her who's boss again. This is not some job you have to show up for on a fixed schedule, you should not dread showing up. So take a vacation and come back to call the shots on your schedule.

  2. #6662
    Quote Originally Posted by GolfGod69  [View Original Post]
    I lost my boner during a session and I'm really depressed about it. The worst part is, it happened with Jane who's one of my favorites. Her and I have great chemistry together so, it was a shock to both of us. She tried her hardest to get it back up but, it was gone. She felt bad and blamed herself and I told her it has to be something on my end because I've always been able to perform with her before. We were also doing BB so there was no loss of circulation. I'm just confused and it makes me want to not engage in this hobby anymore.
    Probably just a mental thing. There are so many factors at play and sometimes thinking about it too much makes it worse. May your future boners be hard and your women satisfied.

  3. #6661
    Quote Originally Posted by GolfGod69  [View Original Post]
    I lost my boner during a session and I'm really depressed about it. The worst part is, it happened with Jane who's one of my favorites. Her and I have great chemistry together so, it was a shock to both of us. She tried her hardest to get it back up but, it was gone. She felt bad and blamed herself and I told her it has to be something on my end because I've always been able to perform with her before. We were also doing BB so there was no loss of circulation. I'm just confused and it makes me want to not engage in this hobby anymore.
    Not knowing your health. Have you trued Bluechew? I find it very useful. Yu can get 6 for 20. And if you don't like them. Cancel.

  4. #6660

    Well boys, it finally happened.

    I lost my boner during a session and I'm really depressed about it. The worst part is, it happened with Jane who's one of my favorites. Her and I have great chemistry together so, it was a shock to both of us. She tried her hardest to get it back up but, it was gone. She felt bad and blamed herself and I told her it has to be something on my end because I've always been able to perform with her before. We were also doing BB so there was no loss of circulation. I'm just confused and it makes me want to not engage in this hobby anymore.

  5. #6659

    Extras

    Quote Originally Posted by Pkmnmewtwo  [View Original Post]
    Wish they tell us ahead of time so we could get the money ready for the other items.
    I assume 200 for bbfscip, 200 for filming, and if Greek is available 100.

    I've been changing it up recently and been seeing fewer providers, but longer appointments or overnights. Lots of the girls are appreciative of the more relaxed time.

  6. #6658

    Tipping

    Hey all,

    How much do you all usually tip? Also, are you tipping upfront or afterwards?

    I've had some success tipping upfront to put a provider in a good mood, but sometimes I wonder if it would have made a difference without it upfront.

  7. #6657
    I've just started unabashedly asking now. I will say extra come inside. Extra video with face? And 8/10 it works with j girls.

    Yes except for dmv girls and happy together who I understand takes a cut. The girls keep it.

    I have read that the most average girl shoots for 75 k over 3 months. Imagine what Etsuko brings in.

    Quote Originally Posted by Pkmnmewtwo  [View Original Post]
    Wish they tell us ahead of time so we could get the money ready for the other items.

  8. #6656

    Saw her today

    Quote Originally Posted by DMVAverageJoe  [View Original Post]
    FYI.

    Looks like Kstar has a new petite doll Evelyn starting today.

    https://kstarnova.com/models/evelyn/
    I took the plunge and saw Evelyn. She's like a cute little doll. She's young and tiny but has some curves and super pale. The booker told me she's new to the biz and straight from Korea and I can believe it. She seems a bit shy and reserved so need to take it slow but once she's warmed up she's a sweetheart and very vocal. For a tiny thing she can take it pretty good but have to start real slow. I will definitely see her again as I think she's the type to get better the more you see her as her comfort level grows.

  9. #6655
    Quote Originally Posted by DMVAverageJoe  [View Original Post]
    Exactly what I heard plus was told recently one of the popular J's (not the most busy one) is making average 2 K daily, you can figure out how many options she did a day!

    Of course, girls are trying to upsell options!
    Wish they tell us ahead of time so we could get the money ready for the other items.

  10. #6654

    Option Upcharges

    Quote Originally Posted by IceCityX1221  [View Original Post]
    My understanding is that the agency doesn't take any of a girls BBFS / Greek / video uncharge. So girls who offer extras usually want you to get them so they keep more money.
    Exactly what I heard plus was told recently one of the popular J's (not the most busy one) is making average 2 K daily, you can figure out how many options she did a day!

    Of course, girls are trying to upsell options!

  11. #6653

    BBFS / video

    Quote Originally Posted by Xonms  [View Original Post]
    Oh is there a charge for BBFS? Did she tell you that?
    My understanding is that the agency doesn't take any of a girls BBFS / Greek / video uncharge. So girls who offer extras usually want you to get them so they keep more money.

  12. #6652

    Jane is good

    Quote Originally Posted by dannyoppa  [View Original Post]
    Has anybody seen either Jane or Evelyn at K-Star? That's my usual go to place but I checked a few pages and haven't seen anything on them? Any recommendations on who I should go with?
    I would recommend Jane. I haven't seen Evelyn yet but Jane is an all round rockstar provider. Once you see her you can definitely tell she's on the young. And she has a very cute pretty face. She aims to please during the session nothing was sub par in performance but the BBBJ into 69 was definitely a highlight, her reactions and technique are top tier in my opinion. Great kisser and active during FS (no dead fish action). I'm probably going to try and see her one more time before she leaves.

  13. #6651
    Of course there is. That's what she looked for.

    Quote Originally Posted by Xonms  [View Original Post]
    Oh is there a charge for BBFS? Did she tell you that?

  14. #6650
    Quote Originally Posted by BritA8655  [View Original Post]
    Mari aka Hitomi / Momo is absolutely pretty and her pics were accurate, and I would rate her 9 out of 10. Tall and slender with a pair of natural Cs. My time was overall good and would recommend her.

    However I got some bummers too. First thing was she tried really hard to convince me to go BBFS which was just not my thing. I politely declined but felt the air became a bit awkward. Additionally, as an one-time guy, I usually change positions 3-4 times to get a better experience, but she seemed not like it and murmured something in Japanese a couple of times. Maybe it's nothing bad, but it kinda turned me off. We had a plenty of time (BTW the session was cut 10-15 minutes short) so I didn't feel cause any troubles for her. YMMV.

    I'll probably repeat as she's a looker you don't see everyday but am debating if I should. How do you guys think about and deal with this situation?
    Oh is there a charge for BBFS? Did she tell you that?

  15. #6649
    Quote Originally Posted by BritA8655  [View Original Post]
    Mari aka Hitomi / Momo is absolutely pretty and her pics were accurate, and I would rate her 9 out of 10. Tall and slender with a pair of natural Cs. My time was overall good and would recommend her.

    However I got some bummers too. First thing was she tried really hard to convince me to go BBFS which was just not my thing. I politely declined but felt the air became a bit awkward. Additionally, as an one-time guy, I usually change positions 3-4 times to get a better experience, but she seemed not like it and murmured something in Japanese a couple of times. Maybe it's nothing bad, but it kinda turned me off. We had a plenty of time (BTW the session was cut 10-15 minutes short) so I didn't feel cause any troubles for her. YMMV.

    I'll probably repeat as she's a looker you don't see everyday but am debating if I should. How do you guys think about and deal with this situation?
    What I'm about to type out is tough love because 1. You're a man, I'm going to give it to you straight and 2. You're a brother of this hobby. Don't accept disrespect and come crawling back for more. There's enough pussy out there to find more. Based on what you wrote, she goes on my avoid list. You have to respect yourself, time and money. Your gut told you, you were turned off. I don't care how good she looks or how good her pussy is. There's enough providers out there to find one that will service you well if not better than her.

    If you keep accepting disrespect, then you'll only get more of it. You will give off that aura. If you go back to her, then I will lose respect for you. If you want to value yourself more, then you should put yourself through hard times, to build character, like a martial arts or fitness. It's through hard times that will define you. "Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good times create weak men, and weak men create hard times".

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